hahaha this, reason why i ask is i have a friend named raphael who is flip mode

My son is half Korean. I'm not worried about him at all. He easily makes friends, and he will do fine with girls when he is ready. He is happy. And I'll do everything in my power to guide him away from thinking destructively, the way you do.

My male friends who are Asian (there's many Asians in Fort Lee/Palisades Park NJ) date around a lot. Some are legit slayers. The Asian women I know usually have a preference for bilingual Asian men, and men who are educated/accomplished. They also tend to be very conservative. So that crap about unemployed white guys getting with them just by being white-doesn't happen often.

I don't know what your experiences with women have been like, but dating/marrying outside of your race is easy to do if you're a minority. If the vast majority of the people that you meet/interact with are of a different race, it obviously affects your options.

You need to relax. If you can't get a date, then be a man and own your failure. Don't attribute it to your race, that's weak AF. I was often the only non-white kid in my class, and still managed to date around easily throughout college and afterward.

From my own experience, Asians and Sikhs (who are technically Asians as well) - in general - have been the best people I've encountered in life. Always remarkable interactions. My own folks (Italians) on the other hand, erm, not so ****ing much.