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post 1568245271 12-09-2018, 09:01 PM
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Originally Posted By Fuqdatass⏩
I hope you’re trolling as you’re on nutbar level 10 otherwise

Wish I was this guys friend so I could tell him to never interact with you again
Whatever, he put up this act like he wanted something serious. I fell for it. I mean he said he did, he said my condition didn't matter to him. I just happened to end up liking him a ton.
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post 1568245631 12-09-2018, 09:05 PM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
It's a bit trickier to get divorced well annulment is not too difficult but still in a way a hassle. But otherwise he can just pack a bag, and drive to a different state.

Both? Bullchit one person wanted to I'm sure. Stop deluding yourself by saying it doesn't excite you too see the love of your life, declare in absolutely that he'd tied to you for life (yes, I know divorce rate is high).

Don't get me wrong I'm not a lovey dovey chick but if I'm going to settle down, it's for keeps.
I am settled down for keeps. I'm glad to hear that you are more sure of the circumstances of my relationship than either of the people who are actually in it and have actually discussed the situation are though.

I'm still lolling that you literally just told me to dump my partner of 14 years just in case he dumps me next week.
Originally Posted By jay283⏩
Whatevs I'm the offspring of 6 month dating premarriage. Lasted 24 years. He saw her one day and knew he'd marry her. So just speaking from what I saw growing up. They loved each other even after the 24 years.
Do you believe their love was based solely on a piece of paper?
post 1568246161 12-09-2018, 09:16 PM
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Originally Posted By cookiefiend⏩
I am settled down for keeps. I'm glad to hear that you are more sure of the circumstances of my relationship than either of the people who are actually in it and have actually discussed the situation are though.

I'm still lolling that you literally just told me to dump my partner of 14 years just in case he dumps me next week.


Do you believe their love was based solely on a piece of paper?
I said give him an ultimatum if he is absolutely against the ideas then it indirectly says something.

No their love wasn't but they wanted each other to know and he wanted to make sure other guys knew she was taken. They were head over heels for the first 16 years, kissing etc. He always whip up stuff she likes or try new dishes to please her and take her out to romantic dinners off and on. He actually wrote her a love letter, which I found many years later.
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post 1568247461 12-09-2018, 09:33 PM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
I said give him an ultimatum if he is absolutely against the ideas then it indirectly says something.

No their love wasn't but they wanted each other to know and he wanted to make sure other guys knew she was taken. They were head over heels for the first 16 years, kissing etc. He always whip up stuff she likes or try new dishes to please her and take her out to romantic dinners off and on. He actually wrote her a love letter, which I found many years later.
Except neither of us are absolutely against the idea. But neither do either of us give a **** so why would I make an ultimatum?

Sounds like a nice relationship though. I know the feeling. You should try it sometime.
post 1568248021 12-09-2018, 09:40 PM
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Originally Posted By cookiefiend⏩
Your said it yourself, bad experiences. When I want to go through that I'll do what you do. Think I'd rather be happy and have a solid family though.

How is he wasting my time? I can't think of a better way for me to be spending my time at all. Am I wasting his time?

And yes it's OK to not be married and have kids. I'm not religious. If you are then you may think differently, which is fine for your life, but I'd suggest you also do some things that the church may frown upon.
Are you the mistress?
post 1568248151 12-09-2018, 09:42 PM
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Originally Posted By AkumaRed⏩
Are you the mistress?
What in the ****
post 1568248511 12-09-2018, 09:49 PM
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why is marriage such a required thing to make a relationship whole in our society? they don't want your love, they just want that ring and the attention of a wedding. they can care less about you and your feelings.
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post 1568249651 12-09-2018, 10:09 PM
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Originally Posted By cookiefiend⏩
What in the ****
Well, simple question really. No reason to get offended. Does he have a wife, or had a wife at one point?
post 1568249891 12-09-2018, 10:12 PM
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I'm confused, is cookie the mistress or OP?
post 1568250001 12-09-2018, 10:14 PM
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I don't understand the hate towards op. She's not intentionally trying to infect the guy. Gotta be realistic with yourself OP, he's not coming back. Best to cut your losses and stop trying to contact him. No more creeping. I hope it all works out for you
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post 1568250341 12-09-2018, 10:18 PM
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Originally Posted By bretmarathon⏩
I'm confused, is cookie the mistress or OP?
Cookie says she has a boyfriend of 14 years, and a few kids but for some reason neither wants to marry, and shes fine with it. My guess its that the reason for this its because the guy is already married.
post 1568250391 12-09-2018, 10:19 PM
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Originally Posted By AkumaRed⏩
Well, simple question really. No reason to get offended. Does he have a wife, or had a wife at one point?
I'm not offended its just been pretty well covered before you even asked. No I'm not a mistress and never have been. We live together and have kids, we just never bothered getting a piece of paper.
post 1568250851 12-09-2018, 10:29 PM
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Originally Posted By AkumaRed⏩
Cookie says she has a boyfriend of 14 years, and a few kids but for some reason neither wants to marry, and shes fine with it. My guess its that the reason for this its because the guy is already married.
What does that have to do with the OP?

I assume the OP's dude has moved on and she tried messaging him from a fake account?
post 1568250931 12-09-2018, 10:31 PM
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Originally Posted By bretmarathon⏩
What does that have to do with the OP?

I assume the OP's dude has moved on and she tried messaging him from a fake account?
Has nothing to do with it at all, op just started trying to offer me unsolicited advice on my relationship in a thread about her nonexistent relationship.
post 1568251341 12-09-2018, 10:38 PM
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You only want him now because you can't have him. Just lmao.

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post 1568251571 12-09-2018, 10:42 PM
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Originally Posted By cookiefiend⏩
Has nothing to do with it at all, op just started trying to offer me unsolicited advice on my relationship in a thread about her nonexistent relationship.
sigh.......lmao
post 1568258281 12-10-2018, 02:20 AM
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Originally Posted By cookiefiend⏩
Except neither of us are absolutely against the idea. But neither do either of us give a **** so why would I make an ultimatum?

Sounds like a nice relationship though. I know the feeling. You should try it sometime.
Well the guy I'm quasi dating right now wants me to spend Christmas with him and meet his mom etc. And he talks about a future with me and him often. Good enough for ya?

But anyway I'm too messed up to continue so have to cut strings.
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post 1568302571 12-10-2018, 02:43 PM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
Well the guy I'm quasi dating right now wants me to spend Christmas with him and meet his mom etc. And he talks about a future with me and him often. Good enough for ya?

But anyway I'm too messed up to continue so have to cut strings.
Well ****, if you'd mentioned that in the first place I definitely would've taken your terrible advice.
post 1568358611 12-11-2018, 08:58 AM
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He ghosted again. Apparently, acting not like a slit makes him lose interest. So I guess he does that with all women, explains why he's always going out with chicks, partying and still single.

Feels bad. I dunno maybe if I gave it up quicker He might have stuck around for a while. Maybe. I mean I made him wait a month and a half.
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post 1568359261 12-11-2018, 09:07 AM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
He ghosted again. Apparently, acting not like a slit makes him lose interest. So I guess he does that with all women, explains why he's always going out with chicks, partying and still single.

Feels bad. I dunno maybe if I gave it up quicker He might have stuck around for a while. Maybe. I mean I made him wait a month and a half.
He's Chad. You are just another hole.

Chad = male equivalent of sloot

Chad gonna Chad
post 1568360021 12-11-2018, 09:16 AM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
He ghosted again. Apparently, acting not like a slit makes him lose interest. So I guess he does that with all women, explains why he's always going out with chicks, partying and still single.

Feels bad. I dunno maybe if I gave it up quicker He might have stuck around for a while. Maybe. I mean I made him wait a month and a half.
Lmao I was like lmao. Even prime Alba or H Berry can't get me to stay once I find out they got the herp a derp
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post 1568360881 12-11-2018, 09:27 AM
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
He's Chad. You are just another hole.

Chad = male equivalent of sloot

Chad gonna Chad
...I think I'm going rap him. In a nice way.
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post 1568361231 12-11-2018, 09:30 AM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
He ghosted again. Apparently, acting not like a slit makes him lose interest. So I guess he does that with all women, explains why he's always going out with chicks, partying and still single.

Feels bad. I dunno maybe if I gave it up quicker He might have stuck around for a while. Maybe. I mean I made him wait a month and a half.
You are observing him banging women and moving on. He would have done the same to you.
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
It's a bit trickier to get divorced well annulment is not too difficult but still in a way a hassle. But otherwise he can just pack a bag, and drive to a different state.
I'm not anti-marriage, but your assumption that making it a legal hassle to escape you is the only way to know this person won't "drive to a different state" speaks volumes about your mental state when it comes to relationships and what would be driving people away in the first place. No disrespect, but women who think like this are terrifying and toxic.

More than that, I got some bad news, which is that married people can and do pack a bag and drive away, too, even after all the "exciting declarations". A wedding is a show, and it's a lovely one, but it doesn't actually make anything work that wasn't going to work. There are a number of reasons for going another route, the main one of which being that both people have their financial lives in order and don't want to risk rolling the dice on the vagaries of family court if things go wrong.
Nah, fukk that. I’m not doing that.
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I'm totally embarrassed to admit this, but I have followed this whole damn thread. It's even worse because I dont know what OP looks like.

Dear OP,

Please send me at least one half naked picture of yourself. I promise not to share.

Love,

Strange man on the internet
post 1568404891 12-11-2018, 05:34 PM
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Originally Posted By FLman333⏩
I'm totally embarrassed to admit this, but I have followed this whole damn thread. It's even worse because I dont know what OP looks like.

Dear OP,

Please send me at least one half naked picture of yourself. I promise not to share.

Love,

Strange man on the internet
Lol xoxo. Can't do that.
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
...I think I'm going rap him. In a nice way.
Wut
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Y'all realize this is a man right?
I'm back, bitches!
post 1568519461 12-13-2018, 12:01 AM
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I've decided to let him go. At least he's happy, don't think he would have been happy with me.
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
I've decided to let him go. At least he's happy, don't think he would have been happy with me.
Thanks for reminding me to neg you on RC.

Quit bumping this chit.
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