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12-11-2018, 04:55 AM
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Originally Posted By MarkyMark127⏩
Met with her, and after 3 and a half years wants to break up.
Said I was her first love, she'll always love me and it might be the biggest mistake/regret in her life. Gave me the full workaround where this isn't easy and wants to see other people and she's been angry the last year.
Really down and upset, but I straight up told her you're never going to find someone as good as me.
Going back tomorrow to pick up my **** from the house.
This is tough boyos.
Said I was her first love, she'll always love me and it might be the biggest mistake/regret in her life. Gave me the full workaround where this isn't easy and wants to see other people and she's been angry the last year.
Really down and upset, but I straight up told her you're never going to find someone as good as me.
Going back tomorrow to pick up my **** from the house.
This is tough boyos.
Originally Posted By MarkyMark127⏩
Like totally straight up, yo.asked straight up. she said no
12-11-2018, 05:17 AM
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Originally Posted By MarkyMark127⏩
lol repped. Subtle and well delivered.No been with 20 before me
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12-11-2018, 05:52 AM
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Originally Posted By ChrisMisc⏩
longest relationship time wise?Bruh i've literally had LOADS of hot gf's and loads of breakups.
One thing I learned. There is no point being too upset about it, we always end up with some other hot girl anyway.
One thing I learned. There is no point being too upset about it, we always end up with some other hot girl anyway.
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A good wank is all you need. Get her out of your system.
12-11-2018, 06:25 AM
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Originally Posted By umop3pisdn⏩
you do it to heal. once all feelings are gone, if she ever does hit you up - you can reply to fu*k only. not to try and get her back, and not to be friendsNC is infinite, there is no end
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12-11-2018, 06:44 AM
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i've been through similar **** more then a couple of times. I dated a girl for around 3 years as well and the same situation happened to me. There have also been plenty other girls that have done me in real bad... I never listened to the misc but I learned the hard way. Don't react poorly, don't react at all. Just NC, and move on with your life. You'll end up a happier and more fulfilled person. It's getting close to Christmas, maybe spend some more time with your family and close friends. Good Luck OP
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12-11-2018, 09:54 AM
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Originally Posted By The1337King⏩
Thanks bro. Really good advicei've been through similar **** more then a couple of times. I dated a girl for around 3 years as well and the same situation happened to me. There have also been plenty other girls that have done me in real bad... I never listened to the misc but I learned the hard way. Don't react poorly, don't react at all. Just NC, and move on with your life. You'll end up a happier and more fulfilled person. It's getting close to Christmas, maybe spend some more time with your family and close friends. Good Luck OP
12-11-2018, 10:02 AM
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Damn there is some good advice here on this thread. Didnt see that coming..
There are multiple paths to go when this happens. Most young guys I know drink and do drugs and think going out and trying to na chicks will make it better. It doesn't. You will be bitter. You be mad. Use it....better yourself by sports or gym or work...whatever. dont let someone else decisions ruin you. It sounds dumb, but its very easy to do.
There are multiple paths to go when this happens. Most young guys I know drink and do drugs and think going out and trying to na chicks will make it better. It doesn't. You will be bitter. You be mad. Use it....better yourself by sports or gym or work...whatever. dont let someone else decisions ruin you. It sounds dumb, but its very easy to do.
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Listen to the advice in this thread OP.
I went through something similar years back. Was with someone for about 3 years, she broke it off, and I was the stupid guy that tried to get her back and make it work. Dumbest thing I could've done, and ended up being a huge waste of time. Walk away, never get in contact with her again. 100% serious. Even if she text at 1am in the morning for a fuk.
The thing is, is she's probably been done with your relationship for awhile, she clocked out mentally. She was probably waiting till she had a solid opportunity, and then jump. The only reason why she told you that your paths could cross later down the road was strictly a back up plan.
It's going to be tough, but you just have to push your way threw it, block her on everything. Concentrate on yourself. Get out there and smash a few bitches. Before you know it, she'll be a distant memory.
I went through something similar years back. Was with someone for about 3 years, she broke it off, and I was the stupid guy that tried to get her back and make it work. Dumbest thing I could've done, and ended up being a huge waste of time. Walk away, never get in contact with her again. 100% serious. Even if she text at 1am in the morning for a fuk.
The thing is, is she's probably been done with your relationship for awhile, she clocked out mentally. She was probably waiting till she had a solid opportunity, and then jump. The only reason why she told you that your paths could cross later down the road was strictly a back up plan.
It's going to be tough, but you just have to push your way threw it, block her on everything. Concentrate on yourself. Get out there and smash a few bitches. Before you know it, she'll be a distant memory.
We made it brahs.
12-11-2018, 08:52 PM
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UPDATE:
Went over to get my stuff, she packed it all and put it in bags for me, never went upstairs. But we sat and spoke and she was crying her eyes out saying this isn't for forever, if its meant to be its meant to be, and said she's losing her best friend, and was smelling me and ****. Kept saying how much she loves me and hopes im not angry at her and she'll always be there for me.
Really sad night but now its NC city.
Went over to get my stuff, she packed it all and put it in bags for me, never went upstairs. But we sat and spoke and she was crying her eyes out saying this isn't for forever, if its meant to be its meant to be, and said she's losing her best friend, and was smelling me and ****. Kept saying how much she loves me and hopes im not angry at her and she'll always be there for me.
Really sad night but now its NC city.
12-11-2018, 08:59 PM
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Originally Posted By MarkyMark127⏩
Lol, I swear those are like the same lines my ex used on the way out. Probably 90% of our exes to be honest, assuming it wasn't a "violent" break up.UPDATE:
Went over to get my stuff, she packed it all and put it in bags for me, never went upstairs. But we sat and spoke and she was crying her eyes out saying this isn't for forever, if its meant to be its meant to be, and said she's losing her best friend, and was smelling me and ****. Kept saying how much she loves me and hopes im not angry at her and she'll always be there for me.
Really sad night but now its NC city.
Went over to get my stuff, she packed it all and put it in bags for me, never went upstairs. But we sat and spoke and she was crying her eyes out saying this isn't for forever, if its meant to be its meant to be, and said she's losing her best friend, and was smelling me and ****. Kept saying how much she loves me and hopes im not angry at her and she'll always be there for me.
Really sad night but now its NC city.
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12-11-2018, 09:15 PM
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Originally Posted By MarkyMark127⏩
this sound similiar to my break up. We broke up twice. I broke up with her first; got back together, and like 6 months later, she broke up with me pretty much using similiar lines.UPDATE:
Went over to get my stuff, she packed it all and put it in bags for me, never went upstairs. But we sat and spoke and she was crying her eyes out saying this isn't for forever, if its meant to be its meant to be, and said she's losing her best friend, and was smelling me and ****. Kept saying how much she loves me and hopes im not angry at her and she'll always be there for me.
Really sad night but now its NC city.
Went over to get my stuff, she packed it all and put it in bags for me, never went upstairs. But we sat and spoke and she was crying her eyes out saying this isn't for forever, if its meant to be its meant to be, and said she's losing her best friend, and was smelling me and ****. Kept saying how much she loves me and hopes im not angry at her and she'll always be there for me.
Really sad night but now its NC city.
deep down, we both know all that means is if we can't find anyone better, we can always fall back on each other. Like another miscer has said, that phrase is an "insurance policy".
heartbreak fukin sucks, but personally, for me, best way to get over a breakup, is to get into another relationship with a new, cute, awesome girl. Keep your head up high champ, time heals all. I promise.
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Originally Posted By iHateDeadlifts⏩
Thanks brotha I appreciate it!this sound similiar to my break up. We broke up twice. I broke up with her first; got back together, and like 6 months later, she broke up with me pretty much using similiar lines.
deep down, we both know all that means is if we can't find anyone better, we can always fall back on each other. Like another miscer has said, that phrase is an "insurance policy".
heartbreak fukin sucks, but personally, for me, best way to get over a breakup, is to get into another relationship with a new, cute, awesome girl. Keep your head up high champ, time heals all. I promise.
deep down, we both know all that means is if we can't find anyone better, we can always fall back on each other. Like another miscer has said, that phrase is an "insurance policy".
heartbreak fukin sucks, but personally, for me, best way to get over a breakup, is to get into another relationship with a new, cute, awesome girl. Keep your head up high champ, time heals all. I promise.
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Originally Posted By wickedman⏩
really??Lol, I swear those are like the same lines my ex used on the way out. Probably 90% of our exes to be honest, assuming it wasn't a "violent" break up.
Thanks man
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Originally Posted By MarkyMark127⏩
NeggedUPDATE:
Went over to get my stuff, she packed it all and put it in bags for me, never went upstairs.But we sat and spokeand she was crying her eyes out saying this isn't for forever, if its meant to be its meant to be, and said she's losing her best friend, and was smelling me and ****. Kept saying how much she loves me and hopes im not angry at her and she'll always be there for me.
Really sad night but now its NC city.
Went over to get my stuff, she packed it all and put it in bags for me, never went upstairs.But we sat and spokeand she was crying her eyes out saying this isn't for forever, if its meant to be its meant to be, and said she's losing her best friend, and was smelling me and ****. Kept saying how much she loves me and hopes im not angry at her and she'll always be there for me.
Really sad night but now its NC city.
12-11-2018, 10:33 PM
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Originally Posted By MarkyMark127⏩
already broke rule #1UPDATE:
Went over to get my stuff, she packed it all and put it in bags for me, never went upstairs. But we sat and spoke and she was crying her eyes out saying this isn't for forever, if its meant to be its meant to be, and said she's losing her best friend, and was smelling me and ****. Kept saying how much she loves me and hopes im not angry at her and she'll always be there for me.
Really sad night but now its NC city.
Went over to get my stuff, she packed it all and put it in bags for me, never went upstairs. But we sat and spoke and she was crying her eyes out saying this isn't for forever, if its meant to be its meant to be, and said she's losing her best friend, and was smelling me and ****. Kept saying how much she loves me and hopes im not angry at her and she'll always be there for me.
Really sad night but now its NC city.
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
well, it was 2 years, she went to Europe for 4 months and banged a dude, and I was crushed (and whipped) got my **** together, but she came back and threw that pussy at me while I was drunk. Dated for another 10 months but I was a new man and not taking her ****. Split and didn't look back.So did it work out?
Grew a lot from that. Realized my value, and the importance of surrounding yourself with genuine good people and all of a sudden she wasnt my world and she didn't like thay, ha.
Banged her best friend a few weeks later.
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Originally Posted By MarkyMark127⏩
Same **** here man, same ****ing story lol. They just want you not think of them as a bad person...shes doing you a favor. You dont want ot grow old with someone like that.really??
Thanks man
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My 2nd long term relationship wasnt like that though, she was genuine, just different stages in life (she was 4 years older).
My 3rd long term....well its been 10 years and 3 children. Shes a keeper, shes the one.
After the first i thought id never find anyone to love like that again. 2nd one proved me wrong. But, when that was running its course I knew id be ok and just to focus on bettering myself and having as much fun/experiences as possible.
The 3rd, my wife, came along when I was having the time of my life just enjoying every new experience, not even looking for a girl/relationship.
Go out and live, it'll just happen.
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Originally Posted By MarkyMark127⏩
Now, were you one of those miscers who goes into threads withMet with her, and after 3 and a half years wants to break up.
Said I was her first love, she'll always love me and it might be the biggest mistake/regret in her life. Gave me the full workaround where this isn't easy and wants to see other people and she's been angry the last year.
Really down and upset, but I straight up told her you're never going to find someone as good as me.
Going back tomorrow to pick up my **** from the house.
This is tough boyos.
Said I was her first love, she'll always love me and it might be the biggest mistake/regret in her life. Gave me the full workaround where this isn't easy and wants to see other people and she's been angry the last year.
Really down and upset, but I straight up told her you're never going to find someone as good as me.
Going back tomorrow to pick up my **** from the house.
This is tough boyos.
"Lol you just need to find the right one. I've been with my girl for X years."
They are all the same.
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Originally Posted By Stonedge⏩
Still hanging on to the fantasy?My 3rd long term....well its been 10 years and 3 children. Shes a keeper, shes the one.
10 years, yeah. You're still not safe, unless she's very ugly or something.
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Originally Posted By umop3pisdn⏩
This is extreme but has a good message behind it
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Yeah, its bullchit, but its her life bro, she wants to do her own thing and be happy. Like you said, she's been unhappy/mad for the past year.
No person (man or woman) should feel obligated to stay with someone if they have other plans or if they are stressed out about the relationship. You are basically settling for less for what you deserve or want.
Breakups suck, they are the worst. Just move on...
You have to go no contact, i know you wont though because its hard. You want her back and you are trying everything you can but be strong brother.
No person (man or woman) should feel obligated to stay with someone if they have other plans or if they are stressed out about the relationship. You are basically settling for less for what you deserve or want.
Breakups suck, they are the worst. Just move on...
You have to go no contact, i know you wont though because its hard. You want her back and you are trying everything you can but be strong brother.
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Originally Posted By MarkyMark127⏩
Everything she said was to make herself feel better, not you. Srs.UPDATE:
Went over to get my stuff, she packed it all and put it in bags for me, never went upstairs. But we sat and spoke and she was crying her eyes out saying this isn't for forever, if its meant to be its meant to be, and said she's losing her best friend, and was smelling me and ****. Kept saying how much she loves me and hopes im not angry at her and she'll always be there for me.
Really sad night but now its NC city.
Went over to get my stuff, she packed it all and put it in bags for me, never went upstairs. But we sat and spoke and she was crying her eyes out saying this isn't for forever, if its meant to be its meant to be, and said she's losing her best friend, and was smelling me and ****. Kept saying how much she loves me and hopes im not angry at her and she'll always be there for me.
Really sad night but now its NC city.
Stick to your guns and go NC. Best choice you can make.
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Originally Posted By SmackPissSonBoy⏩
thisThat is the most feminine thing you could possibly say. I cringe in ass. WTF, why would you say that gay chit? YOu need to be in the sand pit with me standing over pissing on you while you do push ups until you're dead. Did your mom tell you to say that chit? I smack you in your mouth boy
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Even if a girl says/acts like she "loves" you unconditionally... there certainly are conditions. Let that sink in.
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use the pain to grow, make yourself better (for the sake of yourself)
with discipline and effort, you'll be in a better place in a matter of months, while she's set on a course for an apartment full of cats, endless discussions with other single women asking "where did it go wrong", and a "live, laugh, love" picture on at least one wall
with discipline and effort, you'll be in a better place in a matter of months, while she's set on a course for an apartment full of cats, endless discussions with other single women asking "where did it go wrong", and a "live, laugh, love" picture on at least one wall
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Originally Posted By DesiredUser****⏩
You cannot love someone else "unconditionally" unless they are blood. Facts..Even if a girl says/acts like she "loves" you unconditionally... there certainly are conditions. Let that sink in.
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Originally Posted By rdwire88⏩
Unless a blood oath is involved.You cannot love someone else "unconditionally" unless they are blood. Facts..
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