Lol cheeky. Reps off recharge

[QUOTE=YIAMSOMEBODY post_id=1586786281]I know you want to be right here, but you're not.....at all.

See, the problem is you're failing to listen to what I'm saying regarding the no expectations sh**.[i]And no one strung her along. I was acting like I wanted to be her boyfriend and then taking it back, dangling it in front of her.....she caught feelings too early. That's not my fault. When I stopped talking to her the first time, again, it was over the text sh**. I wasn't mean about it, I simply let it go. She apologized, we talked and that was that.....[/i][b]You're gonna have to clarify this because unless you mistyped it sounds exactly like you strung her along. As far as failing to listen, just lol. You are failing to comprehend what I'm saying. You can say there were no expectations as much as you want, clearly this was not the case for her. Or do you live in a vacuum where only your opinions and actions matter?[/b]

I know it's hard for you to believe, I don't care, but she didn't act like that. It was civil. Wasn't that crazy sh**, it was some adult type conversation and a simple misunderstanding. But if you want me to take the hit on that one, just so you can say I was at fault here in some way, fine......I'll take the hit.[b]Dude you said yourself that she flipped on you and you went NC once, then started talking to her again after she came back and apologized. don't claim in one post she was going nuts, then state here that it "wasn't that crazy sh**". either she flipped for no reason over the TX thing with you not being able to take a weekend away on short notice, or it was an adult type conversation. can't be both[/b]

So, if WE BOTH, in the beginning, talk about what the other person is looking for, and we BOTH say that we're not looking to get married/relationship, we're just looking to meet someone and converse, I'm still at fault when we both went into this on some humbug sh**? How does that work? And I never said that these things are for platonic relationships, I simply said to those who are asking me why I didn't fukc her that you don't have to specifically get on them JUST FOR SEX. And if you read correctly, I said that I have been active on it, but at the time we met, we were both just looking to talk. If I can find those pictures, I'll upload them.[b]OKay so if they aren't for platonic relationships, and they're also for meeting people, then what kind of relationship are you planning to engender through these apps, if not romantic? You looking for a pen pal? someone to validate you over text and very occasionally in person? Like I said, your'e well within your rights to be searching for more than sex, as well as to hold off with sex. Regardless, DID you guys actually say and agree you weren't looking for any sort of relationship and just wanted to be platonic friends from the beginning? if not, you're PARTLY at fault for leaving her feeling like she was strung along, which leads to craziness in most women. IDC what you intended, because ultimately there's another human in the mix and if you aren't a sociopath you will be considerate of their feelings too. not that complicated, it's called empathy[/b][/QUOTE]See bold/italicized above

[QUOTE=YIAMSOMEBODY post_id=1586787481]Of course you can be dating multiple people at the same time, but I wasn't....and wasn't looking for that. The "we" is she and I....we discussed that. Just, talking....

You're wrong on the last part. This was intended to show our brothers that some women will go through the ringer for no reason at all other than they're miserable and have unresolved issues that were there before you.


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So all her issues were there before me, like I said.....we meet and she likes me beyond what we discussed, the time she ASSUMES we'll be able to hang out on last minute's notice, I can't do it.....and I get this? And this is my fault when it's honestly seen at the last minute?

Gotcha...[/QUOTE]again, show me where I said that this was all your fault. I'll wait, and I'll die waiting because every message I've said states you're PARTLY at fault. it takes two to tango dude. Yes she had issues before you. Yes she was wrong to assume you could drop everything and leave on a moments notice. Yes she was wrong to flip about it. Yes she was wrong to reach out to your ex-wife after snooping. However, you are also PARTLY at fault because as far as I can tell based off the information provided, all you discussed with her was the definition of dating, not that you guys both agreed not to enter that realm, then you strung her along and gave her way too many opportunities to redeem herself giving her hope for a relationship you already knew you didn't want to be a part of. Platonic or otherwise. You clearly did not make it clear enough to her that you simply wanted to be friends and nothing more .

in on 7nd page.

OP this is the perfect time to send her this and post screenshots of replies ITT:

"Some friends and I were having a conversation today about sexual chemistry between two people. I honestly couldn't focus on the convo because I had you on my mind. I just had this big grin on my face. I thought about how we click....when you touch me, kiss me....when I do the same to you. I love it. I want to try something if you're game. I want you to fukc my face. Straddle me and just grind on it. I wanna suck your pussy juice and get it all over my face. I'm not gonna touch you, I just wanna use all tongue and let you get as nasty as you want. Then, let me turn you over in doggy and suck your pussy from the back.....slowly. Nibble the clit, let you put a finger in there and feed it to me. Then, after I've eaten my fill, whatever happens next, does. I don't even care about the sex, I just need to taste you."

just hit her with this op

"What you're feeling right now, I feel the same way. You're scared....scared I'm going to hurt you, take your heart and run off. You're distant because you think that what you're feeling you shouldn't, so you're short with me, don't answer my calls, my text.....I get it. You're nervous because what you're feeling you haven't felt in a long a time, so the unknown is keeping you on idle. If I wanted to hurt you, I wouldn't be trying so hard. If I wanted to run away with your heart, your feelings....don't you think it'd be foolish of me to invest all time in you, just to fukc it up? Be distant, but let that be with everyone else. Give me your heart, your time....I deserve it. I'm here, for you....us. I'm not asking for your hand in marriage, but I do ask that you be open with me. A little more than you have been. I'm taking things slow because you deserve it. There's no pressure here because I don't want anything from you....just you. Perfect, let's reschedule"

That's great and all but where are the pics?

Good night OP I think she is going to come for you in your sleep and you will wake up to the feeling of cold steel sliding through your flesh.

Read absolutely nothing ITT but there were red flags before you even began OP


Stop thinkin with ur dink, start thinkin with yer mind. Boyo.

it;s an entertaining read tbh . Op went from Jesus to Tim

Since moving to Austin, the past 2+ years I was on dating apps. Met a lot of women with something... off. Hid their intentions, went from hot to cold, cussed me out LMAO. My girlfriend now I met in real life. She actually approached me! She is a total sweetheart and very emotionally secure in who she is as a person. She hardly uses social media too lol.

**** online dating srs. Good way to get STDs, deal with unnecessary bull**** you do NOT need in your life, and meet psychos.

Happy for you boyo


Online dating is mostly dogchit but I know a couple good stories where it has worked out very well for them

A few women made me jaded for a while and burned me. I sometimes think to myself why did I deserve that BS. Ghosting and just general verbal abuse which I did not deserve. You don't see it with these women until you start hanging around them more and more.

But yea I was at dinner w/ her for a friend's birthday and my girlfriend mentioned she signed up for match.com when she got here and a month later she met me. She said she's glad she doesn't have to do dating apps lol.

Negged. You're not fukking special m8, everyone on the board gets flamed for making threads about sloots and not posting pics.

I didn't read your whole fooking life story in the OP which you also failed to post cliffs for ut from the comments ITT it seems like you acted like a retard and brought out the crazy in some chick.


Wondering if you'll neg back out of petty anger despite the fact you deserve your negs for not following the most common unspoken rule on the board.

rejecting women always makes them obsessed. it can be put to good use if desired.

seems to me like you're not ready to date yet and that the divorce is fukking with your mind.

it's a good thing you didn't splakk this nutty hoe; she seems like the type to fake birth control and then do handstands all night after you leave

That was a disturbing visual, thanks.

It's not that serious pussy. Calm down. You negged me, big whoop. Ask anyone here who has negged me if I've returned the favor.

Fukc the "rules"....I'm not posting pics of her. Let it go bitch....I'll take the negs.

YIAMSOMEBODY are you the type of person who wants to be friends with a woman before dating them? I'm asking because I doubt I would ever just be "talking" to a girl for six months without anything romantic. I feel like you're still processing the divorce just like Ratfish said.

AHAHAHAHHAHAHA, This is the man who's gospel we followed???? AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Had a legit wtf moment when I realized I was half way through reading that garbage nonsense.