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Originally Posted By trancecel⏩
Scared to ask... but care to clarify?I guess that's another requirement to the list...must not be too kinky. Not into scat, knife play, cheese graters, concrete enemas,mexican sugar dancing, etc...
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
yes, but the difficult question is to what degree. and then you wouldn't know what is influenced nor how muchYes I think so much of human behavior can be understood from an animal or evolutionary perspective.
It’s just vanity to think we humans are far removed from that. If you look under the surface it’s the same animal drives. Sex, procreation, survival etc.
It’s just vanity to think we humans are far removed from that. If you look under the surface it’s the same animal drives. Sex, procreation, survival etc.
and i do know there is evidence for epigenetic changes; i believe both culturally and physically.
this gives rise to the idea of changes and why we change. where dna transcription is changed by the environment
for instance, white skin is believed to have developed because of vitamin d deficiency so white skin developed to be more sensitive to sun in colder climates (less sun)
ive also seen the same said where diets weren't getting enough vitamin d and the body developed the white skin to absorb more vitamin d as well
so: environmental change ----> dna transcription change ----> end product
same thing with neuroplasticity showing malleable change. this also the same reason why people can be convinced by stuff like blm and why they're racist.
so if my thoughts can be influenced in 3 months how much does "evolutionary" "biology" influence me?
edit: and i know a vague number can be thrown out, im asking very specifically
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Originally Posted By trancecel⏩
That is a low bar, man. LolI guess that's another requirement to the list...must not be too kinky. Not into scat, knife play, cheese graters, concrete enemas, mexican sugar dancing, etc...
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Originally Posted By trancecel⏩
...... of course it is. Lmao
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07-12-2020, 04:46 PM
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Originally Posted By propreffered7⏩
But the way your brain responded was an evolved thing too lol...we evolved the neuroplasticity to deal with different situations...it's all molecular physics under the hood in the end bro. Everything we are and ever will be...yes, but the difficult question is to what degree. and then you wouldn't know what is influenced nor how much
and i do know there is evidence for epigenetic changes; i believe both culturally and physically.
this gives rise to the idea of changes and why we change. where dna transcription is changed by the environment
for instance, white skin is believed to have developed because of vitamin d deficiency so white skin developed to be more sensitive to sun in colder climates (less sun)
ive also seen the same said where diets weren't getting enough vitamin d and the body developed the white skin to absorb more vitamin d as well
so: environmental change ----> dna transcription change ----> end product
same thing with neuroplasticity showing malleable change. this also the same reason why people can be convinced by stuff like blm and why they're racist.
so if my thoughts can be influenced in 3 months how much does "evolutionary" "biology" influence me?
edit: and i know a vague number can be thrown out, im asking very specifically
and i do know there is evidence for epigenetic changes; i believe both culturally and physically.
this gives rise to the idea of changes and why we change. where dna transcription is changed by the environment
for instance, white skin is believed to have developed because of vitamin d deficiency so white skin developed to be more sensitive to sun in colder climates (less sun)
ive also seen the same said where diets weren't getting enough vitamin d and the body developed the white skin to absorb more vitamin d as well
so: environmental change ----> dna transcription change ----> end product
same thing with neuroplasticity showing malleable change. this also the same reason why people can be convinced by stuff like blm and why they're racist.
so if my thoughts can be influenced in 3 months how much does "evolutionary" "biology" influence me?
edit: and i know a vague number can be thrown out, im asking very specifically
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Originally Posted By trancecel⏩
nah... you're definitely lost on thatBut the way your brain responded was an evolved thing too lol...it's all molecular physics under the hood in the end bro. Everything we are and ever will be...
ive gotten into this argument with you many times. your beliefs lead you to your demise
as ive said before many times. look up neuroplasticity
07-12-2020, 04:49 PM
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I know about neuroplasticity. We evolved that. And your entire neural development was triggered by specific chemicals being secreted in particular concentrations while you were in the womb. I mean, rewind far enough and your entire life could be reduced to a compressed set of instructions and genetic switches being turned on and off along with a particular sequence of stimuli...that's literally it...we're machines...biological machines, and it all began with 1 cell, which was in another organism which was once a cell and so on and so forth until you get back to billions of years ago to just inanimate materials spontaneously assembling a certain way because the environment favored it energetically...the very essence of life itself is just built into the universe, and it was just the conditions happened to be so that it proceeded as it did here on earth and here we are. It is at times sad and depressing and at times truly miraculous.nah... you're definitely lost on that
ive gotten into this argument with you many times. your beliefs lead you to your demise
as ive said before many times. look up neuroplasticity
ive gotten into this argument with you many times. your beliefs lead you to your demise
as ive said before many times. look up neuroplasticity
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Originally Posted By Eggiesinabasket⏩
Oddly me for the most part. Also 6'2 225lbs.I want someone....I guess similar to myself:
-Family orientated
-Hardworking/motivated
-Relatively fit/active (after dating someone 6'1 225lbs...its reaaaaally nice having someone that big hold you)
-Enjoys outdoors (fishing, biking, hikes, throwing a football around or kicking a soccer ball around)
-Up for doing different activities or new things (openness)
-Not clingy...has their own stuff going on too
-Intelligent
-Flexibility
-Affectionate--I love kisses, cuddles and hugs
-Sense of humor. When I make jokes about amputated children, you better laugh. Or when we take the piss out of each other
-Be open sexually and have a moderate sex drive
-believes in teamwork and team effort even in a relationship
-Above all else, be a relatively good person with a generally positive attitude. Cant be with someone angry and negative all the time
Don't know if that's possible. This would be my unicorn in a perfect world.
-Family orientated
-Hardworking/motivated
-Relatively fit/active (after dating someone 6'1 225lbs...its reaaaaally nice having someone that big hold you)
-Enjoys outdoors (fishing, biking, hikes, throwing a football around or kicking a soccer ball around)
-Up for doing different activities or new things (openness)
-Not clingy...has their own stuff going on too
-Intelligent
-Flexibility
-Affectionate--I love kisses, cuddles and hugs
-Sense of humor. When I make jokes about amputated children, you better laugh. Or when we take the piss out of each other
-Be open sexually and have a moderate sex drive
-believes in teamwork and team effort even in a relationship
-Above all else, be a relatively good person with a generally positive attitude. Cant be with someone angry and negative all the time
Don't know if that's possible. This would be my unicorn in a perfect world.
I don't even know who you are or if you're actually a female, but if you are, and if you want 3+ kids then I'll marry you. If not then I'll go back to finding a needle in a haystack.
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Originally Posted By VisionaryLarry⏩
Let this work out so I can consider myself a match makerOddly me for the most part. Also 6'2 225lbs.
I don't even know who you are or if you're actually a female, but if you are, and if you want 3+ kids then I'll marry you. If not then I'll go back to finding a needle in a haystack.
I don't even know who you are or if you're actually a female, but if you are, and if you want 3+ kids then I'll marry you. If not then I'll go back to finding a needle in a haystack.
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Originally Posted By trancecel⏩
i mean.. i think we agree in a way, but to my point with silence.. you can't quantify much of what you're saying. to what degree is changeable and unchangeable? in other words, even if the possibility of change were constricted to the construction of the brain, you can't specifically point to or quantify how much change is possible. so.. why even talk about it?I know about neuroplasticity. We evolved that. And your entire neural development was triggered by specific chemicals being secreted in particular concentrations while you were in the womb. I mean, rewind far enough and your entire life could be reduced to a compressed set of instructions and genetic switches being turned on and off along with a particular sequence of stimuli...that's literally it...we're machines...biological machines, and it all began with 1 cell, which was in another organism which was once a cell and so on and so forth until you get back to billions of years ago to just inanimate materials spontaneously assembling a certain way because the environment favored it energetically...the very essence of life itself is just built into the universe, and it was just the conditions happened to be so that it proceeded as it did here on earth and here we are. It is at times sad and depressing and at times truly miraculous.
part of this as well is that i already know what you believe. in the end, if you don't think you can change, you wont. it's a pretty self-defeating and self-fulfilling prophecy. just read this. it's not real scientific but i believe pretty much every word. btw, this is not some special thing to me, just something i looked up right now
Many of us learned in high school biology class that genetic traits are passed down to us from our parents. We were taught that we have brown, blue, or green eyes because a parent did, we’re thin or fat because a parent was, and so on. Recent research expands this idea in a way that would have seemed inconceivable a few decades ago. We know the traits we pass down to our children can not only change based on our life experience. But we also know we can continue to alter our children’s pattern of genetic activity after they’re born. This area of genetics research is called epigenetics. It’s the study of alterations in gene function caused by changes in gene expression rather than in the genetic code.
This could all seem a bit disheartening to those of us dealing with anxiety, depression, anger issues, or other mental health concerns. If we’re depressed because of our parents’ experiences or how they treated us when we were babies, what hope is there for us? But if we couple epigenetics with research into cognitive behavioral therapy and neuroplasticity (the brain’s ability to form new neurons and glial cells and forge new connections), we have reason to be hopeful.
In 2010, scientists at the University of Copenhagen fed male rats a diet high in fat and then watched as their offspring gained more weight than the babies of rats fed a regular diet. If traditional theories about genetics had been true, the diet of a rat’s parent shouldn’t have affected the weight of their offspring. The old thinking about genetics—that either you’re born with a gene that predisposes you to obesity or you’re not, and nothing you do in your life changes what gene you pass onto your children—is, according to studies like the Copenhagen one, incorrect.
To discover how gene alteration in rats occurs, scientists studied their sperm. “The genes in sperm cells are regulated by swarms of molecules, so-called epigenetic factors. These molecules can respond to environmental influences by silencing some genes and activating others as needed” (Zimmer, 2015). The research suggests the male rats were handing down epigenetic factors to their offspring.
A 2011 study at the University of Wisconsin showed that “when parents are under emotional, financial, or other forms of stress, it can alter their children’s patterns of genetic activity at least through adolescence and perhaps longer. And since some of the altered genes shape brain development, the effects of parental stress might permanently wire themselves into children’s brains” (Begley, 2011).
It was an earlier 2004 study that showed us how parents can alter a baby’s genes by their behavior toward them. Another rat study, this time at McGill University, revealed that when a mother rat licks and grooms her offspring, “it activates a gene that makes a receptor for stress hormones in the baby rats’ brains, which causes more receptors to be produced, which causes fewer stress hormones.” Thus, the offspring are more “well-adjusted, curious, and mellow” as adults (Begley, 2011).
So, the question becomes: If our parent’ lives before we’re born and their treatment of us when we’re children can have a huge effect on our mental and physical health as adults, what can we do about it if we, as adults, are suffering the consequences? Whether we’re dealing with childhood trauma, anxiety, or another mental health issue, believing so much of our personality is baked-in can be, well, depressing.
Learning more about epigenetics and neuroplasticity gives us a reason to strive to be healthier and happier people.
This brings us to another fascinating area of research: neuroplasticity and cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT). According to a study published in Translational Psychiatry in 2016, “patients with anxiety disorders exhibit excessive neural reactivity in the amygdala” and there is “compelling evidence that CBT for a common anxiety disorder simultaneously changes the physical structure and neurofunctional response of the amygdala” (Månsson, 2016).
This is good news for those of us who just got discouraged reading about epigenetics. CBT is the most widely used evidence-based psychological treatment. It focuses on patterns in cognition, coping strategies, and emotional regulation. CBT subjects learn extensively about the relationship between thoughts, feelings, and behavior, and they practice identifying maladaptive thoughts such as catastrophizing—jumping to worst-case scenarios.
In CBT, one learns to separate faulty thoughts and beliefs from one’s emotional responses and, consequently, one’s unhealthy behaviors. For example, when the thought “everything will turn out horribly” leads to the feeling “I might as well give up now,” you are likely to give up and thus prove to yourself that you were right all along. After weeks or months of successful CBT treatment, a person should learn to recognize when they catastrophize and change the thought from “everything will turn out horribly” to “I can’t predict the future; things may work out and surprise me,” changing the emotional response and thus the behavior.
Learning more about epigenetics and neuroplasticity gives us a reason to strive to be healthier and happier people. One, because they tell us that we can break negative thought patterns that keep us trapped in unhealthy behaviors. And two, because our actions impact our children—both before we decide to have them and after we bring them into the world.
If you struggle with negative thoughts and related behaviors, contact a therapist.
This could all seem a bit disheartening to those of us dealing with anxiety, depression, anger issues, or other mental health concerns. If we’re depressed because of our parents’ experiences or how they treated us when we were babies, what hope is there for us? But if we couple epigenetics with research into cognitive behavioral therapy and neuroplasticity (the brain’s ability to form new neurons and glial cells and forge new connections), we have reason to be hopeful.
In 2010, scientists at the University of Copenhagen fed male rats a diet high in fat and then watched as their offspring gained more weight than the babies of rats fed a regular diet. If traditional theories about genetics had been true, the diet of a rat’s parent shouldn’t have affected the weight of their offspring. The old thinking about genetics—that either you’re born with a gene that predisposes you to obesity or you’re not, and nothing you do in your life changes what gene you pass onto your children—is, according to studies like the Copenhagen one, incorrect.
To discover how gene alteration in rats occurs, scientists studied their sperm. “The genes in sperm cells are regulated by swarms of molecules, so-called epigenetic factors. These molecules can respond to environmental influences by silencing some genes and activating others as needed” (Zimmer, 2015). The research suggests the male rats were handing down epigenetic factors to their offspring.
A 2011 study at the University of Wisconsin showed that “when parents are under emotional, financial, or other forms of stress, it can alter their children’s patterns of genetic activity at least through adolescence and perhaps longer. And since some of the altered genes shape brain development, the effects of parental stress might permanently wire themselves into children’s brains” (Begley, 2011).
It was an earlier 2004 study that showed us how parents can alter a baby’s genes by their behavior toward them. Another rat study, this time at McGill University, revealed that when a mother rat licks and grooms her offspring, “it activates a gene that makes a receptor for stress hormones in the baby rats’ brains, which causes more receptors to be produced, which causes fewer stress hormones.” Thus, the offspring are more “well-adjusted, curious, and mellow” as adults (Begley, 2011).
So, the question becomes: If our parent’ lives before we’re born and their treatment of us when we’re children can have a huge effect on our mental and physical health as adults, what can we do about it if we, as adults, are suffering the consequences? Whether we’re dealing with childhood trauma, anxiety, or another mental health issue, believing so much of our personality is baked-in can be, well, depressing.
Learning more about epigenetics and neuroplasticity gives us a reason to strive to be healthier and happier people.
This brings us to another fascinating area of research: neuroplasticity and cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT). According to a study published in Translational Psychiatry in 2016, “patients with anxiety disorders exhibit excessive neural reactivity in the amygdala” and there is “compelling evidence that CBT for a common anxiety disorder simultaneously changes the physical structure and neurofunctional response of the amygdala” (Månsson, 2016).
This is good news for those of us who just got discouraged reading about epigenetics. CBT is the most widely used evidence-based psychological treatment. It focuses on patterns in cognition, coping strategies, and emotional regulation. CBT subjects learn extensively about the relationship between thoughts, feelings, and behavior, and they practice identifying maladaptive thoughts such as catastrophizing—jumping to worst-case scenarios.
In CBT, one learns to separate faulty thoughts and beliefs from one’s emotional responses and, consequently, one’s unhealthy behaviors. For example, when the thought “everything will turn out horribly” leads to the feeling “I might as well give up now,” you are likely to give up and thus prove to yourself that you were right all along. After weeks or months of successful CBT treatment, a person should learn to recognize when they catastrophize and change the thought from “everything will turn out horribly” to “I can’t predict the future; things may work out and surprise me,” changing the emotional response and thus the behavior.
Learning more about epigenetics and neuroplasticity gives us a reason to strive to be healthier and happier people. One, because they tell us that we can break negative thought patterns that keep us trapped in unhealthy behaviors. And two, because our actions impact our children—both before we decide to have them and after we bring them into the world.
If you struggle with negative thoughts and related behaviors, contact a therapist.
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Originally Posted By VisionaryLarry⏩
Feel like thats an horoscope lmao. 99% of men would think of their "crush" writing that and theyd be like "yeah thats totally me jesuschrist, im exactly that", except for the 6'1" part of course.Oddly me for the most part. Also 6'2 225lbs.
I don't even know who you are or if you're actually a female, but if you are, and if you want 3+ kids then I'll marry you. If not then I'll go back to finding a needle in a haystack.
I don't even know who you are or if you're actually a female, but if you are, and if you want 3+ kids then I'll marry you. If not then I'll go back to finding a needle in a haystack.
I mean... sense of humor! Intelligent! Wants to try new things! Be a good person! lol.
"The flowers bloom, then wither... The stars shine and one day become extinct. This earth, the sun, the galaxies and even the big universe, someday will be destroyed. Compared with that, the human life is only a blink, just a little time. In that short time - people are born, laugh, cry, fight, are injured, feel joy, sadness, hate someone, love someone. All in just a moment. And then, are embraced by the eternal sleep called death."
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Lol at someone thinking they can tell me I'd have to stay with a cheater just because we have kids. F that shizz. I ain't no cuckette. I completely believe in marriage vows, but there are definitely good reasons for divorce. Drug/alcohol/gambling addictions, abuse and cheating. I would never say someone should stay in a marriage in any of those situations.Well I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately.
I think it also includes addictions (srs ones with no intent of quitting). As to infidelity idk. I always thought that was immediate grounds for ending it. But I’ve learned that plenty of people work though it or just accept it. For the sake of kids mostly. Maybe that is pretty reasonable.
As to my own marriage I kind of regret filing for divorce. Even though I had very good reasons. If I had to do that over again I think I would just stay separated but not legally divorce. Although that brings a financial risk. And also seems inappropriate to move on and date someone else while still being technically married. So idk.
I think it also includes addictions (srs ones with no intent of quitting). As to infidelity idk. I always thought that was immediate grounds for ending it. But I’ve learned that plenty of people work though it or just accept it. For the sake of kids mostly. Maybe that is pretty reasonable.
As to my own marriage I kind of regret filing for divorce. Even though I had very good reasons. If I had to do that over again I think I would just stay separated but not legally divorce. Although that brings a financial risk. And also seems inappropriate to move on and date someone else while still being technically married. So idk.
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Nope lol
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lol this is where showers are the best.
That or a well-placed towel.
That or a well-placed towel.
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Has never stopped me, just put towel down
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Das it! I think we're all in the older range. Maybe it's just the young guys that are a bunch of wimps when it comes to periods. lmaoNope.
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I don't, but only because it hurts way too bad. I assumed that was the norm.
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Hmmmmm....... that's strange. Do you have endometriosis or something? My cramps felt like I was getting stabbed, but orgasms are supposedly good for helping with cramps.I do to an extent.
When I'm on my period and try to have sex it legit feels like getting stabbed. I actually started crying one time.
When I'm on my period and try to have sex it legit feels like getting stabbed. I actually started crying one time.
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Well I'd say it can be messy, but not gross.Yes gross!!
Not that I haven’t done it but I GREATLY prefer not to.
Not that I haven’t done it but I GREATLY prefer not to.
Originally Posted By VisionaryLarry⏩
You two can only get married if I'm invited to the wedding!Oddly me for the most part. Also 6'2 225lbs.
I don't even know who you are or if you're actually a female, but if you are, and if you want 3+ kids then I'll marry you. If not then I'll go back to finding a needle in a haystack.
I don't even know who you are or if you're actually a female, but if you are, and if you want 3+ kids then I'll marry you. If not then I'll go back to finding a needle in a haystack.
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Must like cheese. Forgot that part. VERY important.
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Sup bb.Username ZyraThornrise on the misc is my only requirement
Looking to be my second husbando?
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
I know I was pretty much joking. But I am at a similar point as you. Recently turned 29, want to settle down now. Have kids. But I don't want to just settle with anybody as you said.Feel like thats an horoscope lmao. 99% of men would think of their "crush" writing that and theyd be like "yeah thats totally me jesuschrist, im exactly that", except for the 6'1" part of course.
I mean... sense of humor! Intelligent! Wants to try new things! Be a good person! lol.
I mean... sense of humor! Intelligent! Wants to try new things! Be a good person! lol.
It's just tough out there. I see tons of physically attractive women and as soon as they talk with me and get to know them, it's just rough pickings. I try not to be judgmental, but a traditional valued woman with self respect and a good personality is rare. It's like they're spread out throughout the country in dark crevices.
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Originally Posted By propreffered7⏩
I fully believe I can change. But I can only change in constrained, predetermined ways. Our universe is effectively deterministic at large scales. At quantum scales, it is indeterministic, but we do not control the randomness. Anyway, this isn't about me. I was more pointing out the incredible nature of life itself and how it comes from the laws of physics built into our universe. I believe all human behaviors are large scale manifestations of things that can in principle be scientifically explained. Always. Because we think with brains, and brains are physical objects.i mean.. i think we agree in a way, but to my point with silence.. you can't quantify much of what you're saying. to what degree is changeable and unchangeable? in other words, even if the possibility of change were constricted to the construction of the brain, you can't specifically point to or quantify how much change is possible. so.. why even talk about it?
part of this as well is that i already know what you believe. in the end, if you don't think you can change, you wont. it's a pretty self-defeating and self-fulfilling prophecy. just read this. it's not real scientific but i believe pretty much every word. btw, this is not some special thing to me, just something i looked up right now
part of this as well is that i already know what you believe. in the end, if you don't think you can change, you wont. it's a pretty self-defeating and self-fulfilling prophecy. just read this. it's not real scientific but i believe pretty much every word. btw, this is not some special thing to me, just something i looked up right now
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Originally Posted By VisionaryLarry⏩
I know I was pretty much joking. But I am at a similar point as you. Recently turned 29, want to settle down now. Have kids. But I don't want to just settle with anybody as you said.
It's just tough out there. I see tons of physically attractive women and as soon as they talk with me and get to know them, it's just rough pickings. I try not to be judgmental, but a traditional valued woman with self respect and a good personality is rare. It's like they're spread out throughout the country in dark crevices.
It's just tough out there. I see tons of physically attractive women and as soon as they talk with me and get to know them, it's just rough pickings. I try not to be judgmental, but a traditional valued woman with self respect and a good personality is rare. It's like they're spread out throughout the country in dark crevices.

"The flowers bloom, then wither... The stars shine and one day become extinct. This earth, the sun, the galaxies and even the big universe, someday will be destroyed. Compared with that, the human life is only a blink, just a little time. In that short time - people are born, laugh, cry, fight, are injured, feel joy, sadness, hate someone, love someone. All in just a moment. And then, are embraced by the eternal sleep called death."
07-12-2020, 05:10 PM
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not a feminist, and not an abrasive bitch. sweet, feminine attitude. this is the most important to me.
conservative values. homos are groce, trannies don't even make sense. carefree crap, no thanks.
low body count. preferably a virgin, but i'm not so i don't care too much.
simple girl. some sloots try to work their man to death to maintain a lifestyle they can show off to their family and friends.
glow in her face. don't care if she's fat but obesity scares me. need that pretty glow tho. one of the few things that can help you survive a soul-crushing job.
sloots want to be dominated, but they don't want to be reminded that they feel this need. you have to let them larp as feminists to a certain extent. even the conservative, traditional ones.
and most have this psycho side to them. once in awhile they throw tantrums and you just have to take it.
conservative values. homos are groce, trannies don't even make sense. carefree crap, no thanks.
low body count. preferably a virgin, but i'm not so i don't care too much.
simple girl. some sloots try to work their man to death to maintain a lifestyle they can show off to their family and friends.
glow in her face. don't care if she's fat but obesity scares me. need that pretty glow tho. one of the few things that can help you survive a soul-crushing job.
Originally Posted By 2RDEYE⏩
never say this out loud again. srs. yeah most dudes think like this deep down, but you can't say it explicitly.aside from the obvious like not being a feminist bitch and she must know she's inferior to me because she's female and must behave like she's inferior to me and be satisfied with knowing that
sloots want to be dominated, but they don't want to be reminded that they feel this need. you have to let them larp as feminists to a certain extent. even the conservative, traditional ones.
and most have this psycho side to them. once in awhile they throw tantrums and you just have to take it.
07-12-2020, 05:12 PM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
Yeah that was one basic list if there ever was one.Feel like thats an horoscope lmao. 99% of men would think of their "crush" writing that and theyd be like "yeah thats totally me jesuschrist, im exactly that", except for the 6'1" part of course.
I mean... sense of humor! Intelligent! Wants to try new things! Be a good person! lol.
I mean... sense of humor! Intelligent! Wants to try new things! Be a good person! lol.
07-12-2020, 05:17 PM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩


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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
You are a sick, perverted little man!.... i like that!You think that's bad, look up "mung".


Gender Identity: Miscer pronouns: ****/****got
Traitors gonna trait
Currently playing: Dynasty Warriors 8: Xtreme Legends
07-12-2020, 05:39 PM
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Originally Posted By ZyraThornrise⏩
You don’t know how bad I wanna jizz on your inner thigh. I mean gurl yous a dime.Sup bb.
Looking to be my second husbando?
Looking to be my second husbando?
07-12-2020, 05:41 PM
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Must like to lift, just know how to cook decently healthy meals. That’s all I need
315*2 bench press
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