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06-23-2021, 11:41 AM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
Word.He should 100% care, as clearly his GF is a sloot. Id dump her on the spot. What im saying is that what OP does or doesnt should be irrelevant to him. Even if OP didnt respond, it shouldnt matter to the sloot's BF.
Im merely arguing with Luc1fer because he said that OP shouldnt text back because itd be a disrespect to the current BF. I disagree with that reasoning thats all.
Im merely arguing with Luc1fer because he said that OP shouldnt text back because itd be a disrespect to the current BF. I disagree with that reasoning thats all.
However, im mixed on the idea. Married, if she is coming after me that's a no thanks geoff. If it's non married, ok maybe im a little more receptive but im a firm believer in karma and would still most likely avoid.
If it's an ex i had a pretty serious relationship and it's just some dude she's dated a month or two....even less "worry" about karma but still would kinda call her out on it and it would also make me wonder why.
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06-23-2021, 11:45 AM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Marriage is 100% wrong, i agree. Kids are involved, laws are involved, money is involved, religion is involved, etc. But BF and GF relationship? Man thats fair game.By engaging with a woman in a relationship or marriage youare complicit.
Let me go a little further to see if your principle holds:
- If the guy is your brother, is it wrong to text back?
- If a married women wants to have sex with you, and you know she's married, is it wrong to do it?
- If No, what if you know the guy?
- If No, what if the guy is your brother?
Trying to figure out where you draw the line.
Let me go a little further to see if your principle holds:
- If the guy is your brother, is it wrong to text back?
- If a married women wants to have sex with you, and you know she's married, is it wrong to do it?
- If No, what if you know the guy?
- If No, what if the guy is your brother?
Trying to figure out where you draw the line.
-If the guy is your brother, its 100% wrong to text back because you are supposed to have loyaly towards your brother, as im assuming you love him and his needs and feelings are important to you. You do have a commitment with your brother, you dont have it with an stranger.
-Yes its wrong to do it
-Its wrong to do it
-Its wrong to do it
I draw the line at expecting the rest of the world to be on board with a commitment that your GF and you have. Thats it. If you go in life expecting strangers to put your needs before their needs, its going to turn badly for you IMO.
If a girl in a relationship texts me, and i like the girl, how am i being disrespectful to the dude? What if im in love too? What if i just want to fuk her? Why are my needs not important yet a stranger's needs are? After all the girl isnt owned by anyone and she's free to go and talk and fuk whoever she wants.
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06-23-2021, 11:46 AM
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Originally Posted By DevilMayRage⏩
Definitely looks like a girl who thinks she is 1.5 to 2 points hotter than she ismeh/10
Inb4 typical misc “that’s a 3 out of 10”
06-23-2021, 11:47 AM
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Originally Posted By meanstringbean⏩
Im sure shed say shes a 9 if you asked her lol. Ive seen plenty of delusional girls online thinking they are all gemsDefinitely looks like a girl who thinks she is 1.5 to 2 points hotter than she is
Inb4 typical misc “that’s a 3 out of 10”
Inb4 typical misc “that’s a 3 out of 10”
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Originally Posted By meanstringbean⏩
3/10 misc standards.Definitely looks like a girl who thinks she is 1.5 to 2 points hotter than she is
Inb4 typical misc “that’s a 3 out of 10”
Inb4 typical misc “that’s a 3 out of 10”
6/10 IRL.
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Respond, I found someone better. I am much happier without you in my life. Please do not contact me again.
If she tries another response, block her.
North Carolina is pretty nice this time of year.
If she tries another response, block her.
North Carolina is pretty nice this time of year.
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Originally Posted By Merovingian11⏩
Strong post contradiction.Respond, I found someone better. I am much happier without you in my life. Please do not contact me again.
If she tries another response, block her.
North Carolina is pretty nice this time of year.
If she tries another response, block her.
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06-23-2021, 11:51 AM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Lol at comparing texting back with actually having sex with her or even going on a date and trying to make things physicalBy engaging with a woman in a relationship or marriage youare complicit.
Let me go a little further to see if your principle holds:
- If the guy is your best friend, is it wrong to text back?
- If a married women wants to have sex with you, and you know she's married, is it wrong to do it?
- If No, what if you know the guy?
- If No, what if the guy is your brother?
Trying to figure out where you draw the line.
Let me go a little further to see if your principle holds:
- If the guy is your best friend, is it wrong to text back?
- If a married women wants to have sex with you, and you know she's married, is it wrong to do it?
- If No, what if you know the guy?
- If No, what if the guy is your brother?
Trying to figure out where you draw the line.
If OP was sexting dink pictures you may have a ground to stand on but this little emotional drama bs that women play with their exes? Nah, replying isn’t disrespectful at all
06-23-2021, 11:58 AM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
I'm playing devil's advocate a bit here for sure. I agree that there's a grayscale of "wrongness" in reality. But it still isn't a morally agnostic action.If a girl in a relationship texts me, and i like the girl, how am i being disrespectful to the dude? What if im in love too? What if i just want to fuk her? Why are my needs not important yet a stranger's needs are? After all the girl isnt owned by anyone and she's free to go and talk and fuk whoever she wants.
You're drawing the line on marriage vs. relationship. It's still an arbitrary line, but I understand your main thought process and position I think.
I'm not saying your needs aren't important, but I'm not sure I'd classify the desire to fuk a woman as a "need". It's more of a desire.
"After all the girl isnt owned by anyone and she's free to go and talk and fuk whoever she wants." -- isn't this logic the same in marriage, or is the girl "owned" then?
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Originally Posted By umadbroski⏩
Accurate. Seems like a definitive low 6 out of 10. Believe in decimal places so 6 - 6.4 range (hard to be sure with face mostly blocked). Type of rating where at a bar or a party if it’s easy enough most guys won’t say no to hooking up with, but won’t do anything else unless she has a strong personality/values/etc (clearly based on history does not)3/10 misc standards.
6/10 IRL.
has pancakes tho.
6/10 IRL.
has pancakes tho.
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06-23-2021, 12:01 PM
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Originally Posted By meanstringbean⏩
lol at not appreciating the nuance. I'm sure you can at least start to imagine a fuzzy gray area between "texting back" and "dink pictures".Lol at comparing texting back with actually having sex with her or even going on a date and trying to make things physical
If OP was sexting dink pictures you may have a ground to stand on but this little emotional drama bs that women play with their exes? Nah, replying isn’t disrespectful at all
If OP was sexting dink pictures you may have a ground to stand on but this little emotional drama bs that women play with their exes? Nah, replying isn’t disrespectful at all
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Originally Posted By meanstringbean⏩
Cannot be real tea....Lol at comparing texting back with actually having sex with her or even going on a date and trying to make things physical
If OP was sexting dink pictures you may have a ground to stand on but this little emotional drama bs that women play with their exes? Nah, replying isn’t disrespectful at all
If OP was sexting dink pictures you may have a ground to stand on but this little emotional drama bs that women play with their exes? Nah, replying isn’t disrespectful at all
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Thats where we differ a bit. I think neither the dude nor me have a right to the girl, she on the other hand has 100% of the right to choose whoever she messes around with, and therefore she should face the consequences of her own actions, whoever she decides to "experience" her freedoom with is just another person "experiencing" his own freedom.I'm playing devil's advocate a bit here for sure. I agree that there's a grayscale of "wrongness" in reality. But it still isn't a morally agnostic action.
You're drawing the line on marriage vs. relationship. It's still an arbitrary line, but I understand your main thought process and position I think.
I'm not saying your needs aren't important, but I'm not sure I'd classify the desire to fuk a woman as a "need". It's more of a desire. If a random guy is in a relationship with a girl, I'd actually say he has more rights to that than me.
"After all the girl isnt owned by anyone and she's free to go and talk and fuk whoever she wants." -- isn't this logic the same in marriage, or is the girl "owned" then?
You're drawing the line on marriage vs. relationship. It's still an arbitrary line, but I understand your main thought process and position I think.
I'm not saying your needs aren't important, but I'm not sure I'd classify the desire to fuk a woman as a "need". It's more of a desire. If a random guy is in a relationship with a girl, I'd actually say he has more rights to that than me.
"After all the girl isnt owned by anyone and she's free to go and talk and fuk whoever she wants." -- isn't this logic the same in marriage, or is the girl "owned" then?
I wouldnt say the woman or the man are "owned" during a marriage, as if they were objects, but they at least have a much higher and sacred form of commitment, and the consequences of violating it are much higher too. To discuss the morality of messing around with a married whore is something im not willing to do right now lol, but lets just say yeah in short i think thats morally incorrect, as opposed to just messing around with a sloot that is playing her current boyfriend.
Im not a hypocrite tho, so if an hypothetical girlfriend cheated on me with a random dude,i wouldnt even care about the dude. I dont expect random people to respect a commitment that not even the person thats part of the commitment does (the sloot).
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
it's only disrespectful if he responds to engage her and try to make something of it.There's another reason for not messaging back that nobody is talking about. It disrespects her boyfriend.
Even if you don't know the guy, it's still the wrong thing to do.
She is obviously disrespecting him, but you don't have to participate by responding.
Even if you don't know the guy, it's still the wrong thing to do.
She is obviously disrespecting him, but you don't have to participate by responding.
If he responded with something to shut her down, that's not disrespectful.
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Originally Posted By meanstringbean⏩
Don't forget that attention for women is like getting sexors.Lol at comparing texting back with actually having sex with her or even going on a date and trying to make things physical
If OP was sexting dink pictures you may have a ground to stand on but this little emotional drama bs that women play with their exes? Nah, replying isn’t disrespectful at all
If OP was sexting dink pictures you may have a ground to stand on but this little emotional drama bs that women play with their exes? Nah, replying isn’t disrespectful at all
Them getting attention is 100% cheating especially if it's from an ex.
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Typical alcoholic white sloot. I still get my phone blown up on random weekdays at midnight from my BPD ex. She is engaged to be married this year. I just LMAO when i see her engagement pics on fakebook
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Originally Posted By Jms89⏩
Time to aware fiancé.Typical alcoholic white sloot. I still get my phone blown up on random weekdays at midnight from my BPD ex. She is engaged to be married this year. I just LMAO when i see her engagement pics on fakebook
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Originally Posted By JStrez⏩
You did good, NC is the way to goI've received these kinds of texts a million times. The best response is no response. No joke, no quip, no nothing. She assumes you're still thinking about her, and by not even acknowledging her presence, she'll realize that you legit do not care anymore and have forgotten about her, and that will eat away at her for a long time.
I had one of these texts like 5 years ago, and legit it spiraled into her sending me like million messages. Started off with the hey this reminds me of you, to her then getting increasingly angry I haven't responded, to her calling me a piece of chit, to saying I never even had a chance with her anyway, to then her apologizing, to then her asking my friend if I had a new number, to then asking my family if I was alright, to then her apologizing for everything and realizing the entire problem all along was her and not me, and that she'll never forget me and leave me alone now, and wishes me the best.
The misc taught me a few key rules in life, and no contact means no contact.
I had one of these texts like 5 years ago, and legit it spiraled into her sending me like million messages. Started off with the hey this reminds me of you, to her then getting increasingly angry I haven't responded, to her calling me a piece of chit, to saying I never even had a chance with her anyway, to then her apologizing, to then her asking my friend if I had a new number, to then asking my family if I was alright, to then her apologizing for everything and realizing the entire problem all along was her and not me, and that she'll never forget me and leave me alone now, and wishes me the best.
The misc taught me a few key rules in life, and no contact means no contact.
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
b!tch what the fuk do you know about women? Nothing, that's what GTFOThis is why girls with a lot of priors are a bad idea.
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
Ye, we do disagree there. I think it's morally bad to mess around with a girl in a relationship.I wouldnt say the woman or the man are "owned" during a marriage, as if they were objects, but they at least have a much higher and sacred form of commitment, and the consequences of violating it are much higher too. To discuss the morality of messing around with a married whore is something im not willing to do right now lol, but lets just say yeah in short i think thats morally incorrect, as opposed to justmessing around with a sloot that is playing her current boyfriend.
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Originally Posted By TheBrentmeister⏩
Missed this one. That second text, hoo boy. She's trying to rationalize her drunk sloot brain through her hangover. Frames you as "Mad" for not being her lapdog. The condescension there is hilarious. The fake apology trying to save face, that is in no way even remotely sincere. That chick comes across like a narcissistic kvnt based on that second text. Dodged a bullet, OP.Update and pic




Did this sloot cheat on you or something? Why would you "be mad"?
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Originally Posted By Zackad⏩
True.it's only disrespectful if he responds to engage her and try to make something of it.
If he responded with something to shut her down, that's not disrespectful.
If he responded with something to shut her down, that's not disrespectful.
Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
Ye, we do disagree there. I think it's morally wrong to mess around with a girl in a relationship.I wouldnt say the woman or the man are "owned" during a marriage, as if they were objects, but they at least have a much higher and sacred form of commitment, and the consequences of violating it are much higher too. To discuss the morality of messing around with a married whore is something im not willing to do right now lol, but lets just say yeah in short i think thats morally incorrect, as opposed to justmessing around with a sloot that is playing her current boyfriend.
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Bish's ego got rekt by the NC. Dangerous amounts of copium emanating from that 2nd text. Next time she gets drunk get ready for another round.
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Originally Posted By twovalvekid⏩
What, a nice final fuk you sternly rebuking her for her bullchit? Then if she persists shut her off completely and take a flight to NC.Strong post contradiction.
I'm not one to actively seek revenge but giving an awful person a small taste of their own medicine sometimes is just what the doctor ordered.
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