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08-19-2024, 11:29 PM
#181
lol at the suggested threads
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08-19-2024, 11:34 PM
#182
Originally Posted By SpeakethTruth⏩
So if your wife settled for you and she’s not attracted to you and she really wanted Chad that is fine?
People are talking about having realistic expectations. Sure men would like a HBB10 model but most have the sense to bat within their league. That's not settling, it's going for someone who brings similar value to the table. A 5/10 sloot going for 10/10 Chads for relationships is deluded because she doesn't understand that being pumped and dumped by a man doesn't mean you're on their level for a relationship because to point out the obvious, even Chad will take an easy lay even if the smashee is eww.
08-19-2024, 11:36 PM
#183
Originally Posted By propreffered7⏩
No I don’t think so. Some women are genuinely attracted to their husband. But it’s a very small minority.
i think everybody settles truthfully
that's the reality. the women trying not to confront that are the ones coping
idc if you're a 10/10.. there's another 10/10 with light blue eyes instead. it never ends
that's the reality. the women trying not to confront that are the ones coping
idc if you're a 10/10.. there's another 10/10 with light blue eyes instead. it never ends
08-19-2024, 11:38 PM
#184
Originally Posted By propreffered7⏩
Yep I keep saying this. NOBODY tells us that age matters. Not men not women not the media not anyone ever.
cause their whole m.o. is coddled to
most men are striving for their approval and shapeshifting themselves no matter the cost
and maybe one guy reminds them… but then they just go and seek the comfort of some of their other options. they stay in la la land… until they can't
most men are striving for their approval and shapeshifting themselves no matter the cost
and maybe one guy reminds them… but then they just go and seek the comfort of some of their other options. they stay in la la land… until they can't
I had NEVER heard that age matters until I was already in my forties and misc told me. I literally had no idea because I had never heard of it.
08-19-2024, 11:40 PM
#185
Originally Posted By Treme⏩
We should pair up some of the misc eligible bachelors like JohnVee and BigBallsMcGee with some of these lonely reddit sloots (srs)
Misc and the women of the subreddit together alone?
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08-19-2024, 11:40 PM
#186
Originally Posted By singlemom69⏩
Already posted pics and got banned.
Send pics to the
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M
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08-19-2024, 11:42 PM
#187
There will always be somebody younger than you as you age and therefore more likely to be prettier. Youth is God's Photoshop
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08-19-2024, 11:44 PM
#188
Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
Well attraction is subjective. Some of the Chads that are 10/10 to me are prob average looking to misc. Mac Jones maybe as example.
well hopefully when people get older they also become more wise and mature. I will admit when I was younger and in my early to mid 20s I just wanted a smoking hot woman above all else. Once I got a couple of those I saw how vapid and **** they were, and they weren't good companions. I hit a point where I valued character above looks, so if I wind up with a 5/10 who keeps great company with me, I won't feel like I'm "settling" or missing out on anything.
nobody here understands why you're the age you are and still having this high school girl hang-up on looks above all else. then again you are the woman who has said you would rather share a good looking guy than have a serious monogamous relationship with an average looking guy. I'm not really sure what else I should expect from you…
nobody here understands why you're the age you are and still having this high school girl hang-up on looks above all else. then again you are the woman who has said you would rather share a good looking guy than have a serious monogamous relationship with an average looking guy. I'm not really sure what else I should expect from you…
The distinction is not objective looks rating but attraction. If you are attracted to an objective 5/10 then that is not settling. Settling is marrying someone you’re not attracted to.
08-19-2024, 11:44 PM
#189
Originally Posted By AvDontCare⏩
I only make 5* threads (srs). As an added bonus, this thread took Silence speaks from 1.3k reps to red. lmao
Good thread going on here
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08-19-2024, 11:48 PM
#190
Originally Posted By tendies⏩
Nah it was actually this thread that tipped me over.
I only make 5* threads (srs). As an added bonus, this thread took Silence speaks from 1.3k reps to red. lmao
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08-20-2024, 12:19 AM
#191
Originally Posted By Silence2⏩
It's about being realistic. It's one thing being more attracted to a Chad than a Brad. We all expect that. But it's deluded to think you're on the same level as a Chad for LTRs when objectively you're a 5/10 on a good day.
So if your wife settled for you and she’s not attracted to you and she really wanted Chad that is fine?
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08-20-2024, 12:54 AM
#192
I don’t think misc understands what settling means.
Settling doesn’t mean marrying a 6/10 instead of a 10/10.
It means marrying someone you are NOT ATTRACTED TO.
Settling doesn’t mean marrying a 6/10 instead of a 10/10.
It means marrying someone you are NOT ATTRACTED TO.
08-20-2024, 12:57 AM
#193
Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Of course women know age matters for having children.
You have to be completely fukking retarded not to recognize the biological clock and understand attraction triggers. Adult women do not get a free pass, they aren't children.
Up to ~ age 21 it's somewhat excusable for women if they've been fed feminist ideology their entire life (and also assuming average IQ to not think outside the box). But by age 25, women have zero excuses, it's 100% on them to stop coping and rationalizing and make better decisions so they don't end up like the woman in the OP.
Up to ~ age 21 it's somewhat excusable for women if they've been fed feminist ideology their entire life (and also assuming average IQ to not think outside the box). But by age 25, women have zero excuses, it's 100% on them to stop coping and rationalizing and make better decisions so they don't end up like the woman in the OP.
But women don’t know that age matters for attraction/dating/marriage. Women are oblivious to that because nobody ever tells us.
Kinda like how men are oblivious that height matters.
08-20-2024, 07:10 AM
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08-20-2024, 07:21 AM
#195
Originally Posted By Silence2⏩
K but there are different kinds of attraction, and you are hung up on looks alone
I don’t think misc understands what settling means.
Settling doesn’t mean marrying a 6/10 instead of a 10/10.
It means marrying someone you are NOT ATTRACTED TO.
Settling doesn’t mean marrying a 6/10 instead of a 10/10.
It means marrying someone you are NOT ATTRACTED TO.
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08-20-2024, 08:19 AM
#196
Originally Posted By Silence2⏩
I find that hard to believe, since from the dawn of time the story of a man trading in his old woman for a younger woman has been extremely common, if not expected. Women not realizing that is as weird as a man not realizing that money is important, or looks.
Of course women know age matters for having children.
But women don’t know that age matters for attraction/dating/marriage. Women are oblivious to that because nobody ever tells us.
Kinda like how men are oblivious that height matters.
But women don’t know that age matters for attraction/dating/marriage. Women are oblivious to that because nobody ever tells us.
Kinda like how men are oblivious that height matters.
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08-20-2024, 09:22 AM
#197
Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
Yup, you have to be truly retarded or willfully oblivious not to recognize obvious facts of human nature.
I find that hard to believe, since from the dawn of time the story of a man trading in his old woman for a younger woman has been extremely common, if not expected. Women not realizing that is as weird as a man not realizing that money is important, or looks.
I think most of these women are just intentionally ignorant. They just prefer not to think about it. Facing reality is tough when you can get those nice feeling reinforcements from media and friends.
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08-20-2024, 09:33 AM
#198
Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
No homo?
yeah and send them to Cutter_Underleaf too she's dying to know what your vulva looks like ded srs.
08-20-2024, 09:35 AM
#199
Originally Posted By Silence2⏩
You make it seem like there's a gun to their head telling them to marry some slob they are not attracted to.
I don’t think misc understands what settling means.
Settling doesn’t mean marrying a 6/10 instead of a 10/10.
It means marrying someone you are NOT ATTRACTED TO.
Settling doesn’t mean marrying a 6/10 instead of a 10/10.
It means marrying someone you are NOT ATTRACTED TO.
It's pretty malevolent to marry someone you are not attracted to, in fact you would be hard pressed to find a clearer example of outright using someone.
But besides that, I've had 4 women in my life wildly attracted to me, asking to come over just to suck me off and buying me expensive ****, only to say "I'm not attracted to you anymore" after dating ~8 months where I become too familiar/predictable.
Attraction is not forever and it's an extremely infantile perspective to expect that and base your relationship on it. The whole point of relationships for the past 5,000 years is ultimately to raise children and a thus a family. Sex is cool, but WTF are you doing with your life (and family) if that is still a focus?
This is why birth control was a mistake, it turned sex into just another recreational activity instead of it's biological purpose.
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08-20-2024, 09:36 AM
#200
Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
I am dead srs we are completely oblivious.
I find that hard to believe, since from the dawn of time the story of a man trading in his old woman for a younger woman has been extremely common, if not expected. Women not realizing that is as weird as a man not realizing that money is important, or looks.
Last time I dated I was early twenties. When I started dating again in my early forties I assumed it would be exactly the same and that I would easily find a new relationship. Not for one second did I ever think my age had any relevance at all. Nor did any of the women around me. Nor does the media tell us. Women literally DO NOT KNOW.
I only found out because misc told me it’s because I’m old. Otherwise I would still be clueless srs
08-20-2024, 09:39 AM
#201
Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Women are completely oblivious to it dead srs
Yup, you have to be truly retarded or willfully oblivious not to recognize obvious facts of human nature.
I think most of these women are just intentionally ignorant. They just prefer not to think about it. Facing reality is tough when you can get those nice feeling reinforcements from media and friends.
I think most of these women are just intentionally ignorant. They just prefer not to think about it. Facing reality is tough when you can get those nice feeling reinforcements from media and friends.
08-20-2024, 09:47 AM
#202
Originally Posted By Silence2⏩
That makes zero sense. Even if you remove male preference, the biological clock is obviously real. Obviously women know there's a clock that's fast approaching at 35. And it's game over at 40. Every woman knows this.
Women are completely oblivious to it dead srs
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08-20-2024, 09:58 AM
#203
Originally Posted By Silence2⏩
I really wouldn't know. She is a female tradie so maybe she is looking to lez a bit
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08-20-2024, 10:09 AM
#204
Originally Posted By orangetide⏩
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You make it seem like there's a gun to their head telling them to marry some slob they are not attracted to.
It's pretty malevolent to marry someone you are not attracted to, in fact you would be hard pressed to find a clearer example of outright using someone.
But besides that, I've had 4 women in my life wildly attracted to me, asking to come over just to suck me off and buying me expensive ****, only to say "I'm not attracted to you anymore" after dating ~8 months where I become too familiar/predictable.
Attraction is not forever and it's an extremely infantile perspective to expect that and base your relationship on it. The whole point of relationships for the past 5,000 years is ultimately to raise children and a thus a family. Sex is cool, but WTF are you doing with your life (and family) if that is still a focus?
This is why birth control was a mistake, it turned sex into just another recreational activity instead of it's biological purpose.
It's pretty malevolent to marry someone you are not attracted to, in fact you would be hard pressed to find a clearer example of outright using someone.
But besides that, I've had 4 women in my life wildly attracted to me, asking to come over just to suck me off and buying me expensive ****, only to say "I'm not attracted to you anymore" after dating ~8 months where I become too familiar/predictable.
Attraction is not forever and it's an extremely infantile perspective to expect that and base your relationship on it. The whole point of relationships for the past 5,000 years is ultimately to raise children and a thus a family. Sex is cool, but WTF are you doing with your life (and family) if that is still a focus?
This is why birth control was a mistake, it turned sex into just another recreational activity instead of it's biological purpose.
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08-20-2024, 10:11 AM
#205
Originally Posted By Silence2⏩
It means compromising your standards when you realize you cant get what you want.
I don’t think misc understands what settling means.
Settling doesn’t mean marrying a 6/10 instead of a 10/10.
It means marrying someone you are NOT ATTRACTED TO.
Settling doesn’t mean marrying a 6/10 instead of a 10/10.
It means marrying someone you are NOT ATTRACTED TO.
Women are so rarely attracted to men as it is, its basically hand in hand that if she's lowering her standards at all, its to someone she isnt really attracted to.
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08-20-2024, 10:32 AM
#206
Originally Posted By tendies⏩
didn't realize fukking was such a life goal for some people. Just buy him some presents, pay his rent, and you'll have more dicks than you know what to do with. How is this a difficulty? Fukking, for women, is laughably easy at any age.
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskLosAngel...er_married_no/
the whole thread is pretty lulzy.
OP is 38, completed "X-ray school" and is planning to move to LA to snag a Chad. "I've been reading/studying dating apps, podcasts, relationship books" yeah, this will help. lmao
this one was particularly br00tal:
Looked at her profile to see pics of supposed pretty HBB and she only had posts on r/AskWomenOver30, r/pornstars and r/HPV… LMAOOOOO
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the whole thread is pretty lulzy.
OP is 38, completed "X-ray school" and is planning to move to LA to snag a Chad. "I've been reading/studying dating apps, podcasts, relationship books" yeah, this will help. lmao
this one was particularly br00tal:
Looked at her profile to see pics of supposed pretty HBB and she only had posts on r/AskWomenOver30, r/pornstars and r/HPV… LMAOOOOO
cliffs:
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The tag "brootal" doesn't fit. It makes op sound like a hopeless pussy,
08-20-2024, 11:03 AM
#207
It's culture. Western culture, and the idea of "family" has been destroyed by media. Pair that with the impact of the feminist movement, and you have a society with high divorce, low marriage, and low birth rates.
08-20-2024, 11:05 AM
#208
Originally Posted By ToPHeR35⏩
family is antithetical to fukkin. just sayin. You have to pick one because you can't have both and have a healthy environment for brats.
It's culture. Western culture, and the idea of "family" has been destroyed by media. Pair that with the impact of the feminist movement, and you have a society with high divorce, low marriage, and low birth rates.
08-20-2024, 11:33 AM
#209
Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Nah you can still get pg with fertility drugs in your 40’s. I know plenty of women who had healthy kids in their 40’s. Game over is really not until 50 and even then you still have options with donor eggs or if you froze your eggs.
That makes zero sense. Even if you remove male preference, the biological clock is obviously real. Obviously women know there's a clock that's fast approaching at 35. And it's game over at 40. Every woman knows this.
Anyway the biological clock for pg is different from dating/marriage. Women know ofc that after menopause they are too old to conceive.
BUT they are clueless that their age has any relevancy for attraction/dating/marriage dead srs
08-20-2024, 11:34 AM
#210
Lol, an X-ray tech in Hermosa Beach, she's gonna need a dozen roommates.
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