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Thread: More young men are becoming NEETs than women(article)

post 1705597301 08-28-2024, 10:51 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
My explanation doesn't defy math. Imagine you get 100's of incoming likes from 7's, 8's, and 9's. Even though the 7's meet your attractiveness threshold, you'll filter them out for the most part.

I've written long posts about this problem. Women match 1-2 levels above them on dating apps for this reason. Many are matching above their own league.
7s 8s and 9s ARE the top guys.

Vast majority of incels are 5s and below.

With womens inflated standards, the supply of these 5s and below far outweights demand. It just doesnt work.

Then you tell all these incels they're awkward when awkward good looking men dont have an issue and most of those incels arent even awkward. they're just 5 and below.
post 1705597851 08-28-2024, 11:19 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
This does happen though. If you meet the attractiveness threshold, you will get some matches and dates, even if you aren't in the top 30%. You know this because of your experience with height frauding.

Also, what you said doesn't even hold. Do a thought experiment and ask yourself what you would do on tinder if you suddenly you received 200+ matches from women in the 5+ range, with 40% 5s, 30% 6s, 20% 7s, 10% 8+. How would you filter? Not in terms of your ratings, but in terms of who you would prioritize.
post 1705597981 08-28-2024, 11:27 PM
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Originally Posted By Muzzjxpress⏩
So where do I go to stop being an Incel?
Home Depot
When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.
post 1705601351 08-29-2024, 04:13 AM
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Originally Posted By Rebel012⏩
This does happen though. If you meet the attractiveness threshold, you will get some matches and dates, even if you aren't in the top 30%. You know this because of your experience with height frauding.

Also, what you said doesn't even hold. Do a thought experiment and ask yourself what you would do on tinder if you suddenly you received 200+ matches from women in the 5+ range, with 40% 5s, 30% 6s, 20% 7s, 10% 8+. How would you filter? Not in terms of your ratings, but in terms of who you would prioritize.
My height fraud wasn't the reason I got matches. It simply prevented auto rejection. I got matches cause it seems like I'm rich at initial glance. Even then, vast majority of matches were post wall women in their 30s, unattractive and ghosted before even meeting one time.

In terms of how I would filter, I would find women im attracted to which can easily be 5s and up and then pick based on the profile details. I wouldn't blindly pick the top 10% of women on looks alone like women do.
post 1705601781 08-29-2024, 04:34 AM
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
Home Depot
This is one of those rare moments where you actually posted something that made me chuckle......... I gots to salute...
Everything I post is satire.
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post 1705602491 08-29-2024, 05:01 AM
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Originally Posted By Muzzjxpress⏩
My pictures aren't the problem. My problem is that I'm Indian and 5'10
Lmao that's probably the drumbest thing I've ever read.

People usually swipe based on the pics they see. No one had time to read whatever passive aggressive text you posted.

It's no surprise you got fired from your last job.
post 1705603081 08-29-2024, 05:24 AM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I'm confident that looks are not the blocker for the vast majority of incels. Sure a 1% Chad can get away with having terrible social skills, but that's a rare exception.
This is another thing I’ve talked about before.

Autistic chads are nigh on non-existent. But if autistic chads were a thing, again, it would reveal how social awkwardness plays a bigger role than most people think.

It’s something of an attribution error. All of Chad’s success gets attributed to his looks, but people forget he almost always has average or better social skills.
post 1705603181 08-29-2024, 05:28 AM
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honestly I think misc is gonna be laggards on this

BBMG will only get support in maybe 2-3 years when general normie consensus has already agreed with him
The youngest miscers are late millennials, most are gen x or older. its no surprise misc is boomer mentality
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post 1705603311 08-29-2024, 05:33 AM
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post 1705603491 08-29-2024, 05:37 AM
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Originally Posted By aherpderp⏩
honestly I think misc is gonna be laggards on this

BBMG will only get support in maybe 2-3 years when general normie consensus has already agreed with him
The youngest miscers are late millennials, most are gen x or older. its no surprise misc is boomer mentality
He’ll get support when/if the situation gets so extreme that it actually aligns with his extremist outlook.

We don’t so much disagree with BBMG about the general trend of things and men having a tougher time of it in the dating game, we take issue with how he presents everything as worse (read: extreme) than it actually is.

Seriously, if you read enough of his posts you’ll start to notice that his extremist outlook is pervasive. Monitor his language and you’ll notice how often he says stuff like “ALL women”, “EVERY woman”, “they ONLY want” etc.

In short, the dude is an extremist nut, and I suspect mildly autistic.
post 1705604171 08-29-2024, 06:03 AM
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah⏩
He’ll get support when/if the situation gets so extreme that it actually aligns with his extremist outlook.

We don’t so much disagree with BBMG about the general trend of things and men having a tougher time of it in the dating game, we take issue with how he presents everything as worse (read: extreme) than it actually is.

Seriously, if you read enough of his posts you’ll start to notice that his extremist outlook is pervasive. Monitor his language and you’ll notice how often he says stuff like “ALL women”, “EVERY woman”, “they ONLY want” etc.

In short, the dude is an extremist nut, and I suspect mildly autistic.
About half of young men are outright incels or having serious difficulty dating.

There is nothing extreme about this. We have evidence to suggest its accurate
post 1705604821 08-29-2024, 06:23 AM
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah⏩
This is another thing I’ve talked about before.

Autistic chads are nigh on non-existent. But if autistic chads were a thing, again, it would reveal how social awkwardness plays a bigger role than most people think.

It’s something of an attribution error. All of Chad’s success gets attributed to his looks, but people forget he almost always has average or better social skills.
But OTOH, it's way easier to be confident and sociable when girls mire and people inherently want to talk to you

Fuk, why did I post in one of these threads?
post 1705604951 08-29-2024, 06:28 AM
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Originally Posted By aherpderp⏩
honestly I think misc is gonna be laggards on this

BBMG will only get support in maybe 2-3 years when general normie consensus has already agreed with him
The youngest miscers are late millennials, most are gen x or older. its no surprise misc is boomer mentality
Misc boomers dont even fully disagree, they just dont believe its gotten as bad as it is.
post 1705605331 08-29-2024, 06:39 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
About half of young men are outright incels or having serious difficulty dating.

There is nothing extreme about this. We have evidence to suggest its accurate
50%?

Of course you can prove this?
post 1705606131 08-29-2024, 07:02 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
In terms of how I would filter, I would find women im attracted to which can easily be 5s and up and then pick based on the profile details.
Rates himself bottom tier and tries to match with 5s and up.

I wonder why the success rate is low.
post 1705606241 08-29-2024, 07:07 AM
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Originally Posted By Dave22reborn⏩
50%?

Of course you can prove this?
hes full of chit and we know it
post 1705612341 08-29-2024, 09:42 AM
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Originally Posted By Muzzjxpress⏩
63% of young men are single

30% of 18-29 year olds are virgins

40% havent had sex in the past year

When you combine the virgins with the dudes who only banged one drunk fat chick from the bar, half of young men have trouble dating
Im 6’2 and women are calling me short.

Srs.


Women be like where are all the 6’4 young chads with money to settle with?
post 1705612531 08-29-2024, 09:47 AM
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Originally Posted By miscbro333⏩
Rates himself bottom tier and tries to match with 5s and up.

I wonder why the success rate is low.
This was hypothetical what I WOULD do IF I was in demand with many options. Read the context retard
post 1705612631 08-29-2024, 09:48 AM
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Originally Posted By Dave22reborn⏩
50%?

Of course you can prove this?
if 30ish percent havent had sex in a year, it makes sense that at least another 20% is still struggling although maybe got laid once or twice.
post 1705613261 08-29-2024, 10:01 AM
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Jeez this thread is sad.

Men get self esteem from doing a day's work, period.

It is in our DNA, to deny this is just setting yourself up to be miserable.

Stop coping and go work.
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Originally Posted By Muzzjxpress⏩
bump
When I saw "15 homeless" in this thread, it made me think of you and BBMG.

https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...21&pagenumber=
post 1705613441 08-29-2024, 10:04 AM
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Originally Posted By Clockbro⏩
Jeez this thread is sad.

Men get self esteem from doing a day's work, period.

It is in our DNA, to deny this is just setting yourself up to be miserable.

Stop coping and go work.
no we dont. We get self esteem getting laid and providing for our families.

Otherwise why work? For what? be societies bish while you get nothing in return?
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Otherwise why work? For what? be societies bish while you get nothing in return?
Lol I'm a single guy. I work.

I love my job.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
50% of young men are struggling in the dating world. '

We know that any given year aroud 25-30% dont even get laid once. Its not hard to estimate an additional 25% minimum might get laid once or something but in general are struggling. You also cant count hookers.

50% is accurate
Young men are struggling because they aren't trying. They aren't out socializing. Their hobbies are gaming and hanging around non social settings while watching porn. They don't have social circles where they can be introduced to other women. That is the very big difference between incels and guys who have a gf/wife.


Any ugly and below average man can get laid. It won't be easy, but it's very doable. I see ugly and below average men with a decent looking wife in public every single day.
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Originally Posted By Muzzjxpress⏩
Do you think either me or BBMG give a fuk?
You give licks to Muzzlrpress' butthole...so maybe.
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Originally Posted By Basedbaby⏩
The thing these fukcers don’t understand is even if you’re not a full blown incel all young men still suffer from it. You have to date down at least 2-3 points down to get a woman to take you serious
LOL,

A VAST majority of couples are looks and status matched. Go outside. Go to the grocery store, zoo, museum, movie theater, or baseball game. Literally everywhere you go you will see couples matched on the same level. There are some outliers, but that individual very likely has a trait to attract that person out of their zone.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Women judge men more harshly than men judge men. Women rate 80% of men as below average.

Even if YOU look at a guy and think above average that doesnt mean thats how women will view him
Women are also retarded and don't know what they want in life.

And if you ask me, most women aren't good looking themselves. 40% are considered obese. You have to go to a major city like Miami Beach to find all attractive women.
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
LOL,

A VAST majority of couples are looks and status matched. Go outside. Go to the grocery store, zoo, museum, movie theater, or baseball game. Literally everywhere you go you will see couples matched on the same level. There are some outliers, but that individual very likely has a trait to attract that person out of their zone.
Yes ..couples that are in legit serious longer term relationships

dude ooking for a low effort bang on a late Wednesday night may have to drop his standards a couple points
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Originally Posted By Basedbaby⏩
Even I’m intelligent enough to know that your “personality” comes from your life experiences people that are ugly get treated like **** most people who get treated like **** are never gonna have good personalities or social skills. Look at your local arrest reports 99% of criminals are ugly as sin they been made hard and antisocial from a life of being treated like ****.
I'm ugly and never got treated like chit. You are just spewing a random rhetoric with no variable weight.
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Originally Posted By aherpderp⏩
honestly I think misc is gonna be laggards on this

BBMG will only get support in maybe 2-3 years when general normie consensus has already agreed with him
The youngest miscers are late millennials, most are gen x or older. its no surprise misc is boomer mentality
LOL everywhere I go I see gen z dudes with women girlfriends. And that makes sense because Gen Z starts about 2000, which means they're in their early 20s.
Originally Posted By Muzzjxpress⏩
You're comparing boomers and Gen X'ers and people in their 30s to Gen Z'ers

I'm 23. I never see average or below average dude my age with a woman
Nope, I see it all the time man. No matter where I go. You're an incel because you don't go out. You don't socialize. You have no real hobbies. You play videogames, watch porn, and hang out in other anti social areas.
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