Someone send wanna bang? to all matches and see what happens.

banned again tinder is worse more feminazi then bumble now i swear what a joke also tinder is only fat and ugly chicks now ****s dead

some fat ugly bitch I was messing with

hahaha

^not when they see you as something to carve up!


Thanks spade

Why not go directly to her place?

More fun going out and I haven’t been in slayer mode for quite some time. I’m a party animal before anything else

Gotta love the girls who ghost you for five months and decide to talk to you again.

Do you guys think it's worthless trying to meet a girl if they won't talk?

I've been calling more and even the ones that didn't answer (which is most) seems more receptive (shows you have balls) and one that did answer magically had her schedule open up after talking on the phone for a few minutes. I'll admit I have more phone anxiety than I do than pre-date anxiety but the hardest part is calling, not talking on the phone (weird i know) . I suck at texting because there's no tone and I can't be funny like I am on the phone or in person so I'm glad I finally got the balls to start doing it.

Meanwhile this one chick insisted on texting me and wouldn't agree to talk on the phone, shocker she flaked the day before

Was an interesting night. Got wasted at the bar, went to hers to drink wine. Netflix and chill, rick and morty is alright, rick pretty cool...half watched the first three episodes but I’m kinda wasted and everything looks like an an anti immigrant insinuation.

Borderline choked her out a few times, told her to squeeze when she had enough, but she never did, once she went limp. She appreciated the fact I took the pillow from the floor and put it for her to rest on, meanwhile roughing her up hardstyle, mixing it up. Bones for like an hour hardcore and took her to her room. Went again for like 5 mins and gave up, she had work in the morning. She wanted me to stay but I’d lost my phone.

Left to the corner store to call a cab, they say it’ll be an hour, which means they ain’t coming. I start walking, short sleeve short, khakis, and derby shoes, in the wrong direction. Make it like a mile before flagging down a cab, $35 later I’m back at the bar. Spend 10 mins with security getting my phone, walk back a mile to my hotel.

We decided on a date this weekend, but probably see her again before that.

got her snapchat and doesn't recognize me after sending her a snap, i'm gone.

yeah nah

next! hahaha

I don't know how you do it man. But tons of respect. I haven't been doing good lately at club/bar game at all. Tinder was going fine until some kunts reported me 2 days ago. Account under review since.

Anyone know how long it usually takes to realize that deez sloots are just super stuck up?

these days my success rate is super slim though. I do match some pretty decent looking girls every blue moon. But exactly these kinds of girls I fail to build rapport with for some reason ...
I actually tried a while ago. Only seems to work in places where you are considered chad/exotic. I tried in Manila and Hanoi (but VN girls are a bit of a gamble) and had quite a few positive replies. In Germany that kinda **** just earns you reports and a ban

Tinder is junk Brah. Pretty sure they have made is junk on purpose... just a massive time sink.

The trick to cold approaching is acting like you’ve known them for years

Almost doubled my matches in just one day using passport in an average US city compared to two weeks of swiping in my own town.. American girls also seem to put more effort in their profiles and actually talk back/even initiate conversation.

Tbh don't even want to swipe in my own location anymore lol..

@ AP nice story bro, happy for you.

That "both" response I used to play it safe in case she was chit testing, and still gave her an out in case we didn't hit it off which pierced her sloot defenses.

@brb its over. Was on a downward spiral for years. Not blaming tinder since things started going downhill prior to my first tinder smash, but having multiple side chicks definitely didn't help the situation.

Funny too how now that I have full clearance I deleted all dating apps. Thought this 20yo college bumble girl I smashed a couple weeks ago would be down to see me on the reg, but she ghosted. She has roomates and is 1.5hrs away on the train so guess my dik ain't that good for a repeat.

Zero phucks given.

Just got hit up by this bootylicious brazilian that flaked on me a couple months back. Set our first date then she "got called into work" couple hours before we were suppose to meet. She was all apologetic and said she'll "make it up" then bounced to Miami and I didn't hear from her till last night she hits me up out of the blue with "hey how are you?" on WhatsApp.

So thats the only lead I have atm. Went 2 weeks nopron/nofap but after the 20yo went back to my old habits. Still working on that since if I kick that habit I'll have no choice but to cold approach if I want sexual stimulation.

In the meantime, no dating apps/tinder sloots has bought me critical time to focus on improving myself financially so I can set myself up with a potential wife #2 that isn't peasant status. Overcoming the baggage objection is easier when your watch is worth more than the girls annual salary.

which location would that be if you don't mind me asking? Amsterdam?I'm curious spade. How much salary would be considered high middleclass or financially attractive enough for most **normal** sloots where you come from? Maybe not just spade but any other murrican bruvs up to answer that question? I could look up statistics obviously but I am also curious on how y'alls personal/subjective opinion on the matter looks like

Make the next one an open marriage, it still might not be 'until death do you part', but it can potentially last longer, and if it doesn't at least you can have a heap of guilt free fun during it on the side with no lies.It helps overcoming the 'but you're married' objection I'm all to familiar with too.

Funny note, I can actually very easily afford to go out and buy a rolex or whatever, but instead I wear a replica rolex submariner (the best replica on the market). I don't give a damn about watches and for 1/20th the price of the real thing it serves the exact same purpose with women.

It's impossible to call out in photos (I actually had a rolex dealer on Instagram indicate that it's real after showing her a close up photo of it), and you'd have to be a watch expert and I'd have to let you touch it or inspect it under a magnifying glass to call it out in real life.

Probably not a good idea to do unless your lifestyle/job etc. actually backs up owning a 'luxury' watch because it will be too obvious, but if you have the means anyway saving yourself $8k and getting a replica instead is an option if all you want it for is to get gold diggers to open their legs.

so are we all in agreeance that Tinder is trash at this point? In an earlier post in this thread I showed the type of matches I get but it all just seems like a waste. I signed up for gold for a month just because i had the extra money and even the matches they reveal to me are jokes after the initial week.

it just all seems like a validation boost for these chicks as you all have mentioned. that something i really want to be a part of especially since i actually do better in real life anyway.

Upper middle class is like $250K+/year in my book. But if your expenses are more than your income, you aren't financially stable regardless of how much money you make. Whereas a guy that makes $75K/year and lives way below his means can afford to take average sloots on weekend trips to Miami, if thats what shes after.Im not much of a watch addict either. Was just saying it metaphorically. I dont intentionally flash money/lifestyle for pussy. What I meant was my financial obligations to my kids/their momma is going to be an obstacle for a wife #2, since my future wife #2 will (most likely) want assurances that I will be able to provide (or at least contribute 50%) for us and our future children to live...and depending on what kind of lifestyle she wants to live as a "married" woman, how much money I have left after child support/alimony will be a driving factor of my marketability to girls of various social classes/income levels.

As an example using simple fictitious numbers: If I make $100K but 60% goes to my 3 kids and their momma, than I'll only have $40K for wife #2 and kid #4 and #5. For some women that make $30K as a receptionist, that's fine for them. They can go on an annual family cruise to the Caribbean, lease a Honda Accord, not live in the ghetto, etc...But to a woman that makes $75K, drives an Acura, has been to Europe multiple times in her life, etc...a guy that makes $40K might not fit into her plan of owning a summer lake cottage upstate to spend the summers with their kids. But a guy that makes $200K and gives his other family 60%, is then left with $80K for him, her, their 2 kids and the summer cottage.

Not saying there aren't amazing women in different classes, or some woman that make $100K wont settle down with a guy that makes $40K...just the pool of potential wives gets bigger the more money you have because women typically are going to want to marry guys that will help sustain or improve their current lifestyle.

Ran a boost. Got 7 matches. Is this the new normal?

Loneliness srs

I know this topic has been covered extensively but what pics are you guys using, what angle, and in what environment?

I have a selfie in the car looking away as a main pic, festival entrance, on a boat, and at a festival the last pic. Not that bad looking I guess.. get a few matches here and there. Got 6 boost matches earlier, but I feel like I should get more. I smashed an 8 and an 8.5 off tinder so nbd but it's getting worse. Anyone want to rate? Plus my instagram is sick af..

Holy lord ... I just started as a junior consultant this year and I earn €55k *before* tax and thats already above average for an entry level job in Germany. Lets see in a few years boyos

I'd say this is the absolute lowest rung of 'upper middle class' at least in cities like NYC, SF and Sydney nowadays. At $250k a year you'll still feel quite average/poor after tax and have to live a very middle class life if you want any left over. $1m a year is probably where you get a bit more freedom, but that is very difficult to achieve.Why leave pussy on the table, especially when you're an older guy wanting girls in the 18-23yo range (if that's what you're after). Although it really isn't a requirement in NYC if you're shooting for girls in the 7 range I suppose, they are very straight forward there. Maybe even the odd 8. For 9+'s it felt necessary there though.