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Texting is easy because you can't always communicate on the phone so it's an alternative. I know you can take hours to get back or something with someone but you're not THAT busy.
This woman could still text me. Just she lost interest or distracted or both
This woman could still text me. Just she lost interest or distracted or both
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03-21-2018, 08:16 PM
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
Yes exactly. Texting is so easy and convenient. Making phone calls, not so much.Texting is easy because you can't always communicate on the phone so it's an alternative. I know you can take hours to get back or something with someone but you're not THAT busy.
This woman could still text me. Just she lost interest or distracted or both
This woman could still text me. Just she lost interest or distracted or both
That really stinks Sword.
The one good thing though, is at least you found out sooner than later that it wasn't going to work out. While you got somewhat invested, you weren't in that deep yet. I honestly would not want to date anyone with a career that time consuming. Put some thought into what works and doesn't work for you regarding your future SO's career. That way you can weed out ones that won't be compatible with what you are looking for in a relationship before becoming invested.~ In a world where you can be anything, be kind ~
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
i mean lookswise they can stand out but personality wise i will only start to like some better than other after i get to know them a little bit. Im in my late twenties and its been getting easier to get dates with hotter girls but most of them are unimpressive in terms of personality.Wow, really? One just doesn't ever stand out to you? Well, no, you can't tell for sure from first impressions, but I'd bet there's more good ones out there than you think.
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
yeh she def got dicked down by a guy packing a howitzer in the schlong department and prolly decided to move on to greener pastures. Happens, take it on the chin and move on champ.Texting is easy because you can't always communicate on the phone so it's an alternative. I know you can take hours to get back or something with someone but you're not THAT busy.
This woman could still text me. Just she lost interest or distracted or both
This woman could still text me. Just she lost interest or distracted or both
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Originally Posted By bigcahunaburger⏩
lol I'm pretty well endowed.yeh she def got dicked down by a guy packing a howitzer in the schlong department and prolly decided to move on to greener pastures. Happens, take it on the chin and move on champ.
You can dick some of these girls down and they will STILL lose interest or get tugged emotionally/distracted by someone/something else.
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03-21-2018, 09:08 PM
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
But but Misc says...lol I'm pretty well endowed.
You can dick some of these girls down and they will STILL lose interest or get tugged emotionally/distracted by someone/something else.
You can dick some of these girls down and they will STILL lose interest or get tugged emotionally/distracted by someone/something else.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I had an ex that I got pregnant. We ****ed 3-4 times a day during the honeymoon phase. Crazy sexual experiences with her. Some of the best. She hit me up years later mentioning them.But but Misc says...
Soon as her ex fiancee came in the picture she slowed down and disconnected. Eventually broke up with me and married the dude after a year of us dating. Now a single mom lol.
BTW her ex husband is some short fat bald Italian dude in his 40s. She's 28 now.
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03-21-2018, 10:08 PM
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
lol ded.I had an ex that I got pregnant. We ****ed 3-4 times a day during the honeymoon phase. Crazy sexual experiences with her. Some of the best. She hit me up years later mentioning them.
Soon as her ex fiancee came in the picture she slowed down and disconnected. Eventually broke up with me and married the dude after a year of us dating. Now a single mom lol.
BTW her ex husband is some short fat bald Italian dude in his 40s.She's 28 now.
Soon as her ex fiancee came in the picture she slowed down and disconnected. Eventually broke up with me and married the dude after a year of us dating. Now a single mom lol.
BTW her ex husband is some short fat bald Italian dude in his 40s.She's 28 now.
Pretty much confirms age/sloot misc theory. She's a run down single mom at 28 after many dicks in her possy and ass.
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Originally Posted By Burgerbuger⏩
She contacted me 5 years later after our breakup too. This was around late 2016. Got some nudes out of it too lmao.lol ded.
Pretty much confirms age/sloot misc theory. She's a run down single mom at 28 after many dicks in her possy and ass.
Pretty much confirms age/sloot misc theory. She's a run down single mom at 28 after many dicks in her possy and ass.
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
Wait you have a kid?!?! This is new to me!I had an ex that I got pregnant. We ****ed 3-4 times a day during the honeymoon phase. Crazy sexual experiences with her. Some of the best. She hit me up years later mentioning them.
Soon as her ex fiancee came in the picture she slowed down and disconnected. Eventually broke up with me and married the dude after a year of us dating. Now a single mom lol.
BTW her ex husband is some short fat bald Italian dude in his 40s. She's 28 now.
Soon as her ex fiancee came in the picture she slowed down and disconnected. Eventually broke up with me and married the dude after a year of us dating. Now a single mom lol.
BTW her ex husband is some short fat bald Italian dude in his 40s. She's 28 now.
03-21-2018, 10:25 PM
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
No she had an abortion...Wait you have a kid?!?! This is new to me!
But I did get her pregnant. I was so scared.
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03-21-2018, 10:38 PM
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Originally Posted By sanblz33⏩
Yeah it's pretty fun sometimes lol.The misc never fails to entertain
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
maybe that fat italian dude was actually ron jeremy in disguise and he dicked her deep. Man i dunno some things dont have to make sense. I have a theory that every woman has a "Jimmy". Jimmy is your high school drop out type that has no future prospects to do anything meaningful. He is also not an adonis, but for some reason he has some women that he has been involved since early on smitten and she will do insanely stupid things for him. Kind of like the pimp dude in Casino if youve seen it. I think the moral of the story here is be more like Jimmy.Yeah it's pretty fun sometimes lol.
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03-22-2018, 04:46 AM
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You know I had a thought last night as soon as I finished typing my last post but was heading to bed. I wonder if she saw you were on Bumble and that's what made her go NC? You were already on there making more dates before she was even settled back in from her vacation. I'd say next time figure out what's going on and put closure to it before going on the dating site you met someone. You didn't like seeing her on there, think of how she might have felt if she saw you on there while she was just getting back from vacation and not knowing anything was wrong.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Nope. She physically withdrew WAY before I was considering other dates.You know I had a thought last night as soon as I finished typing my last post but was heading to bed. I wonder if she saw you were on Bumble and that's what made her go NC? You were already on there making more dates before she was even settled back in from her vacation. I'd say next time figure out what's going on and put closure to it before going on the dating site you met someone. You didn't like seeing her on there, think of how she might have felt if she saw you on there while she was just getting back from vacation and not knowing anything was wrong.
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Originally Posted By SwimLiftRunGrl⏩
It's not about a need though....it should be something you want. You should desire to speak to your GF/BF and see how they're doing etc. To regularly go several days without contact seems like a distant relationship to me.haha.. maybe both of us are weird. We are both introverts and shy people. He has a daughter and have lots of things going on. I work a lot too. He doesn't like to talk much unless he needs to and I am okay with that. We don't constantly need attention plus there were other stuff going on with his life.
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Originally Posted By Tuga88⏩
But that is your opinion. What works for us in terms of texting might not work for other people. We don't like to talk on the phone either. I can text (not phone) everyday if that is what the guy wants. I am flexible in terms of what kind of communication is needed as long as we agree to it.It's not about a need though....it should be something you want. You should desire to speak to your GF/BF and see how they're doing etc. To regularly go several days without contact seems like a distant relationship to me.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
As said before, that is your opinion. Everyone is different. Some people need more assurance and attention than others.Yeah I guess everyone is different but I would not be ok with that for a serious exclusive relationship. I would expect to talk daily and see each other as much as possible. That would be too much distance for me in a serious relationship.
Regularly going several days without contact would work fine in a casual dating or fwb type relationship though. I think it's typical in that situation because they are meeting other people too.
Regularly going several days without contact would work fine in a casual dating or fwb type relationship though. I think it's typical in that situation because they are meeting other people too.
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Originally Posted By Tuga88⏩
AgreedIt's not about a need though....it should be something you want. You should desire to speak to your GF/BF and see how they're doing etc. To regularly go several days without contact seems like a distant relationship to me.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Let’s be realistic here. I know you and the rest of the female posters have very good intentions here but most likely she has emotionally checked out after she got what she really wanted in the first place and put the OP on the bench. The OP is kinda doing the same thing also so I’m surprised at how sensitive he is.You know I had a thought last night as soon as I finished typing my last post but was heading to bed. I wonder if she saw you were on Bumble and that's what made her go NC? You were already on there making more dates before she was even settled back in from her vacation. I'd say next time figure out what's going on and put closure to it before going on the dating site you met someone. You didn't like seeing her on there, think of how she might have felt if she saw you on there while she was just getting back from vacation and not knowing anything was wrong.
I’m facing a somewhat similar dilemma with the woman I’m dating but instead of ghosting I decided to take action and request to be platonic friends (explained that it will not work) and seek closure immediately. I did this because her initial excuse after I brought up the breadcrumbing & communication gaps was ‘bad timing’ which is really female code for I’m dating other people as well. She also became emotionally detached as well so I just decided to cut my losses short since the relationship roles and expectations were clearly defined at the beginning and I always kept an open & transparent line of communication and was expecting the same in return. I was very open in stating that I was not seeing other people and very transparent in expecting the same as well. My dilemma is that she is very adamant about not seeking closure and breaking things off (her excuse was that she will be less busy after Thursday night), twice. This was on Tuesday & she said that she would let me know that night when she was available to discuss things. I have not heard from her yet and I am 100% sure I won’t ever hear from her.
I’m not judgmental about women dating multiple people but I’m not going to stick around for that because the concept is not for me. I’m also very confident in my own internal assessment of what intangible resources I bring to the table & can accurately gauge what women are really looking for (indirectly and directly) so I am very confident in taking the loss and seeking closure when warranted or if I really have nothing to bring or compliment.
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Originally Posted By SwimLiftRunGrl⏩
Girl I'm seeing is like this. We don't call and text maybe couple times a day. Says shes in love but we barely communicate; I don't feel the same.But that is your opinion. What works for us in terms of texting might not work for other people. We don't like to talk on the phone either. I can text (not phone) everyday if that is what the guy wants. I am flexible in terms of what kind of communication is needed as long as we agree to it.
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Originally Posted By sanblz33⏩
so...what benefit has this done for you? Seems like she's trying to play back and bench you. Looks like a power play.Let’s be realistic here. I know you and the rest of the female posters have very good intentions here but most likely she has emotionally checked out after she got what she really wanted in the first place and put the OP on the bench. The OP is kinda doing the same thing also so I’m surprised at how sensitive he is.
I’m facing a somewhat similar dilemma with the woman I’m dating but instead of ghosting I decided to take action and request to be platonic friends (explained that it will not work) and seek closure immediately. I did this because her initial excuse after I brought up the breadcrumbing & communication gaps was ‘bad timing’ which is really female code for I’m dating other people as well. She also became emotionally detached as well so I just decided to cut my losses short since the relationship roles and expectations were clearly defined at the beginning and I always kept an open & transparent line of communication and was expecting the same in return. I was very open in stating that I was not seeing other people and very transparent in expecting the same as well. My dilemma is that she is very adamant about not seeking closure and breaking things off (her excuse was that she will be less busy after Thursday night), twice. This was on Tuesday & she said that she would let me know that night when she was available to discuss things. I have not heard from her yet and I am 100% sure I won’t ever hear from her.
I’m not judgmental about women dating multiple people but I’m not going to stick around for that because the concept is not for me. I’m also very confident in my own internal assessment of what intangible resources I bring to the table & can accurately gauge what women are really looking for (indirectly and directly) so I am very confident in taking the loss and seeking closure when warranted or if I really have nothing to bring or compliment.
I’m facing a somewhat similar dilemma with the woman I’m dating but instead of ghosting I decided to take action and request to be platonic friends (explained that it will not work) and seek closure immediately. I did this because her initial excuse after I brought up the breadcrumbing & communication gaps was ‘bad timing’ which is really female code for I’m dating other people as well. She also became emotionally detached as well so I just decided to cut my losses short since the relationship roles and expectations were clearly defined at the beginning and I always kept an open & transparent line of communication and was expecting the same in return. I was very open in stating that I was not seeing other people and very transparent in expecting the same as well. My dilemma is that she is very adamant about not seeking closure and breaking things off (her excuse was that she will be less busy after Thursday night), twice. This was on Tuesday & she said that she would let me know that night when she was available to discuss things. I have not heard from her yet and I am 100% sure I won’t ever hear from her.
I’m not judgmental about women dating multiple people but I’m not going to stick around for that because the concept is not for me. I’m also very confident in my own internal assessment of what intangible resources I bring to the table & can accurately gauge what women are really looking for (indirectly and directly) so I am very confident in taking the loss and seeking closure when warranted or if I really have nothing to bring or compliment.
Also I firmly believe she isn't into hookups, but I think she likes the idea of finding love, and get off on the rush and thrill of new emotions. It's easy for them to get that thrill and move on. It's not exactly the same but yes similar.
Originally Posted By JitnikoVi⏩
I don't need a woman blowing smoke up my ass all the time but I like feedback. I could deal with that type of relationship you're in.Girl I'm seeing is like this. We don't call and text maybe couple times a day. Says shes in love but we barely communicate; I don't feel the same.
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Originally Posted By Tuga88⏩
I know the female posters have good intentions in this thread but I have a lot of female friends in my age group and older that respect me a lot to keep me around and have an open discussion about things like this but unfortunately this is the truth. I had to do damage control for one of my friends regarding this topic twice and she is at least 10 years older than me.It's not about a need though....it should be something you want. You should desire to speak to your GF/BF and see how they're doing etc. To regularly go several days without contact seems like a distant relationship to me.
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
That’s the difference between you and I. I’m not playing games. I’m telling her that I want to get out and stated my reasons why and she doesn’t want to seek closure and wants to date around while trying to keep me on standby. I’m not expecting to hear from her!so...what benefit has this done for you? Seems like she's trying to play back and bench you. Looks like a power play.
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Originally Posted By sanblz33⏩
I do like that.That’s the difference between you and I. I’m not playing games. I’m telling her that I want to get out and stayed my reasons why and she doesn’t want to seek closure and wants to date around while trying to keep me on standby. I’m not expecting to hear from her!
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Originally Posted By sanblz33⏩
Oh I absolutely agree with what you've done with her. I think closure is important. It's something I like having versus just being ghosted. I'm not crazy and I'm not going to freak out on someone who says they're just not ready for a relationship. I will thank them for being honest and wish them well. I think you handled it perfectly. More people should have clear boundaries and not be afraid to stand by them. Sure would make dating easier on both parties!Let’s be realistic here. I know you and the rest of the female posters have very good intentions here but most likely she has emotionally checked out after she got what she really wanted in the first place and put the OP on the bench. The OP is kinda doing the same thing also so I’m surprised at how sensitive he is.
I’m facing a somewhat similar dilemma with the woman I’m dating but instead of ghosting I decided to take action and request to be platonic friends (explained that it will not work) and seek closure immediately. I did this because her initial excuse after I brought up the breadcrumbing & communication gaps was ‘bad timing’ which is really female code for I’m dating other people as well. She also became emotionally detached as well so I just decided to cut my losses short since the relationship roles and expectations were clearly defined at the beginning and I always kept an open & transparent line of communication and was expecting the same in return. I was very open in stating that I was not seeing other people and very transparent in expecting the same as well. My dilemma is that she is very adamant about not seeking closure and breaking things off (her excuse was that she will be less busy after Thursday night), twice. This was on Tuesday & she said that she would let me know that night when she was available to discuss things. I have not heard from her yet and I am 100% sure I won’t ever hear from her.
I’m not judgmental about women dating multiple people but I’m not going to stick around for that because the concept is not for me. I’m also very confident in my own internal assessment of what intangible resources I bring to the table & can accurately gauge what women are really looking for (indirectly and directly) so I am very confident in taking the loss and seeking closure when warranted or if I really have nothing to bring or compliment.
I’m facing a somewhat similar dilemma with the woman I’m dating but instead of ghosting I decided to take action and request to be platonic friends (explained that it will not work) and seek closure immediately. I did this because her initial excuse after I brought up the breadcrumbing & communication gaps was ‘bad timing’ which is really female code for I’m dating other people as well. She also became emotionally detached as well so I just decided to cut my losses short since the relationship roles and expectations were clearly defined at the beginning and I always kept an open & transparent line of communication and was expecting the same in return. I was very open in stating that I was not seeing other people and very transparent in expecting the same as well. My dilemma is that she is very adamant about not seeking closure and breaking things off (her excuse was that she will be less busy after Thursday night), twice. This was on Tuesday & she said that she would let me know that night when she was available to discuss things. I have not heard from her yet and I am 100% sure I won’t ever hear from her.
I’m not judgmental about women dating multiple people but I’m not going to stick around for that because the concept is not for me. I’m also very confident in my own internal assessment of what intangible resources I bring to the table & can accurately gauge what women are really looking for (indirectly and directly) so I am very confident in taking the loss and seeking closure when warranted or if I really have nothing to bring or compliment.
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