Side tangent butwhat does Islam say about divorce after cheating?Like are you allowed to file for divorce if your spouse is cheating?

Was wondering about this recently and discussed it with my friend who is strict Catholic. I’m from a Catholic/Christian background but don’t practice.

Was just wondering what modern religion says about that nowadays and talked about that with my friend. Because I think under strict old fashioned religious rules you’re not allowed to file for divorce in any circumstances. So then even if your spouse is cheating or is beating you etc you’re supposed to stay but that doesn’t seem right.

What's with being bipolar and being bisexual

It's in our blood. Degeneracy is a problem of the mind.

I mean, I don't really know what y'all expected from me. Lol.
I've never been shy about my mental health.

I'm not trying to rag on you srs cuz I've had some pretty bad depression/anxiety times myself

Do you think you're using your mental health as an excuse? Like "oh i cant be in a commited relationship since I'm mentally ill"

Sounds like kind of a cop out to me srs. Aren't the kids yours?

I'm not trying to rag on you srs cuz I've had some pretty bad depression/anxiety times myself

Do you think you're using your mental health as an excuse? Like "oh i cant be in a commited relationship since I'm mentally ill"

Sounds like kind of a cop out to me srs. Aren't the kids yours?

Oh no.
It was meant as a joke, but honestly, what would I say in this situation?
Everyone already made up their minds and, honestly, it's not like I really care what people think about me on a forum. Because just as I can't change their minds, they can't really change mine.

I could say I'm not a bad parent until the cows come home but will it change anything?

I believe you're a good parent, just thinking that when the kids find out (they probably will) it's gonna be a massive blow

I've gone through a lot of medication changes, but finally found one that suits me.
When we brought up the idea of bringing in the third party, we sat on the idea for about a month to make sure I wasn't manic.

We've always been "polyamorous" in a way that we would flirt, but we never went past that.
And I wasn't worried about him cheating like SilenceSpeaks says. She was the one who suggested that and I even said that I don't believe he was cheating and even if he was, oh well. He's not traveling for work anymore, so we are 100% transparent in our wants.

The girlfriend is mostly for me. He hasn't spoken to any of the girls and I have the final say on who I want to bring in. Even if it doesn't go anywhere, it's been a fun ride. I actually really enjoy some of the girls I've talked to and we are meeting up with one this weekend.

I know it's super weird. I totally get that. Like I said, I've always flirted, but we finally sat down and decided we are in a good enough spot to pull the trigger. I'm healthy mentally (even discussed this with my therapist) and our relationship together is in an amazing spot. I am super into him and extremely happy with where we are and finally have a sex drive back. For a while with my meds I had no libido and things weren't doing well between us, which was 100% my fault.

There's a lot to answer here but that's the most of it.
Like I said, I totally know it's weird. I just thought I would make a thread laughing at the fact that I'm totally getting what y'all go through in the dating world with trying to keep up conversation.

I believe you're a good parent, just thinking that when the kids find out (they probably will) it's gonna be a massive blow

Your hubby sounds beta AF and I can guarantee you'd give him sht if he ever did try to find another girl for himself and he knows it thus he doesn't even try and let's you go to town.

Because the concept of "marriage" stands for being committed to each other, physically, emotionally, sexually etc. The entire idea of marriage is to be a partner to ONE person.

If you can't do so, then you should dissolve your marriage and just be with that person in the open relationship you described. This eliminates the confusion of what marriage means - traditionally. Where it becomes detrimental for your kids is that the definition of marriage would mean something else to them than traditionally defined. In their future relationships, if they're not committed, it will lead to heartache and pain when the other party expects monogamy.

It's best to let the kids understand that poly-amorous relationship is NOT a marriage. Because those two are not complementary.



I guess we agree then.

JFL at thinking ANY kid growing up in this day and age is going to grasp the concept of a normal, healthy marriage. Have you looked out the window lately?

it's hard but still possible...

Just curious OPie... Do you enjoy sex with your husband or is it not fulfilling?

Not sure why everyone is questioning your parenting. Also, none of the women you bring in will be into your husband, but it doesn't matter as long as they are into you. You are the bridge that makes it a fun thing for all parties involved.

LMAO at that self righteous religious nut in here derailing the thread.

LMAO at that self righteous religious nut in here derailing the thread. Dudes username is BrosefMengele, as in a nod to Josef Mengele who was known as The Angel Of Death in his role as a physician and SS Officer for the Nazis. Clearly a well balanced individual.

Back to the topic. OP hit the girls with these bangers.

Spoiler!

Spoiler!

Yeah in the end of the world (the field), the harvest will begin. All the good plants will be gathered into the barn, and all the weeds will be thrown into the fiery furnace.

Pepper your angus.

Back to the topic. OP hit the girls with these bangers.

Spoiler!