Online dating sucks for women too

11-13-2017, 06:22 AM

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11-13-2017, 06:22 AM

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Originally Posted By notpy⏩

Are there any flattering pics of op?

She had that pr video where she pops off the bench with some sexy fng abs.

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11-13-2017, 06:48 AM

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Originally Posted By svtballa⏩

Just approach more and be confident. I work at a bar part time and you wouldn't believe what dome deep eye contact and a simple "hi. Whats your name?" Does to woman, Makes the most beautiful and seemingly confident women puddy in your hands. Try it out

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11-13-2017, 06:51 AM

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Originally Posted By notpy⏩

Are there any flattering pics of op?

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11-13-2017, 07:03 AM

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Originally Posted By Fang2⏩

Op is a woman.

Works both ways.

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11-13-2017, 07:10 AM

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I have had a lot of success with online dating. Yes, girls have flaked on me but I've met upwards of 50 girls over the few years I used the apps. Some of these became lasting friends, flings, FWBs, etc. I have a gf now that I met on Bumble and have never been happier in a relationship in my life. She's not some loser who can't get a date. She's 27, makes well over 100k, is very attractive, smart, and kind. I've gone on dates with surgeons, executives, business owners. Online dating is modern dating--its just a bigger pool of people to choose from than you'll run into at the office, gym, or bar. There are obviously weirdos but there are also women who are smart, emotionally stable, and attractive.

I really think the people saying 'online dating is for losers' are coping for the fact that they haven't had success with it or haven't tried it. People have a tendency to overvalue themselves in the dating pool and online dating forces you to accept the fact that a lot of people aren't interested in you. This hurts some people's feelings but the truth is you'll be better suited to find someone and value them once you have a better understanding of your realistic options.

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11-13-2017, 07:11 AM

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What about the people who are ALWAYS on the dating apps? I've legit seen women on there for 6 months and even the photos remain the same (bots?). Are they either picky AF or are they banging a new guy twice a week?

As for non-hookup material I don't think they exist on online dating. There's a school / job section on Tinder and almost everyone seems to be uneducated / no real job to speak of. Maybe the quality is better in downtown New York...

11-13-2017, 07:13 AM

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Originally Posted By DoYouEvenNEM⏩

What about the people who are ALWAYS on the dating apps? I've legit seen women on there for 6 months and even the photos remain the same (bots?). Are they either picky AF or are they banging a new guy twice a week?

As for non-hookup material I don't think they exist on online dating. There's a school / job section on Tinder and almost everyone seems to be uneducated / no real job to speak of. Maybe the quality is better in downtown New York...

Probably either picky or not actively using it. Plus the sites don't always hide/take down your profile when you ask them to.

I know two girls who deleted their profile have them not actually get taken down but moved down the list.

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11-13-2017, 07:40 AM

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11-13-2017, 07:45 AM

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In on 9 page thread over a woman getting ghosted 3 times. Put that chit into triple digits and you can feel like a man.

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11-13-2017, 07:51 AM

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not to be an age-ist, but for a female at 47 and still online dating...ur not gonna get the highest quality candidates...unless you have money and can be a sugar mama or want to date divorced dudes with 2 kids.

11-13-2017, 07:59 AM

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Originally Posted By menseks⏩

not to be an age-ist, but for a female at 47 and still online dating...ur not gonna get the highest quality candidates...unless you have money and can be a sugar mama or want to date divorced dudes with 2 kids.

Hey azzhole there's nothing wrong with divorced guys with 2 kids.

Stop phuckin blocking me.

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11-13-2017, 08:40 AM

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you need to use a paid online dating site, that way you know the ppl are a little more serious

11-13-2017, 08:43 AM

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Originally Posted By otakutrevan⏩

You actually got 3 people to message you back and set up a date

Now image no one ever responds back to you, and only wildabeasts view your profile.

THAT is what being an average man is like online.

Sadly this is the truth, ask me how I know lmao

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11-13-2017, 08:44 AM

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Online dating apps are cesspools of incels, desperate people or even worse people on the rebound trying to fukc everything decent just to forget their recent break-up.

You deserve more than that : Put your social life back on track and put yourself out there, lot of quality men to be met outside, you just need to trigger your meeting.

11-13-2017, 09:32 AM

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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩

Hey azzhole there's nothing wrong with divorced guys with 2 kids.

Stop phuckin blocking me.

u msg me one more time and i'm gonna complain to grindr

11-13-2017, 09:53 AM

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What a bunch of idiots OP. Would put you in camel clutch.

11-13-2017, 10:58 AM

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Originally Posted By JPF82⏩

Just comes down to fact.

How many exactly do you know who are single, and using online dating? Come on.....whats that view from your high horse like?

-Just because you were treated badly on dating sites doesn't mean they are all bad
-Just because you know SOME people who have had bad experiences doesn't mean you should spit their vitriol

I have met/found:
-Found a 2 year relationship online
-A flat earther crazy as fook bish (made a thread about it)
-Poly girls wanting a man to satisfy their dink needs
-29 year old with 7 kids, a dead father of 5 of the kids, and ex husband who beat her father of the other 2 kids

There are some wicked people out there.....really truly wicked......but isnt that what life is about?

-Find new people for friends, weed out the bad, weed out the untrustwortly
-Find a new job, work it, see if its a good fit, if not find antoher
-Find a relationship, figure each other out, see if its a good fit

Whats so different from filling out app's online for a job than being on a dating site? You're there to see if you can find a diamond in the rough.

Why are you assuming the reason I think online dating is a joke is because I've been treated badly? You have no idea what I look like or who I am as a person. I met approx 30 guys from online dating in a short span of time. I think my total time spent online may be 3-4 months total, broken up over about a year because I'd take breaks. Guess how many of those 30 didn't ask to see me again? 2.

As for the amount of people I know that have had no luck finding relationships online, I don't have time to figure out a hard number for you, but it's a lot of people. I have no reason to lie or exaggerate. If people want to online date have at it, just understand and accept the pitfalls.

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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩

See this is where you're messing up. Just because you see someone in a bar doesn't mean they are a bar rat.

I will go to bars and clubs to meet women or to take the girl I'm with dancing. I don't drink.
That doesn't stop me from going out.

I know it doesn't always mean they're a bar rat but I'm not going to go do something I have no interest in doing (hanging out in bars a lot) in hopes of trying to find that 1 particular guy who isn't one. I do go out occasionally so if I happen to meet someone I'm attracted to I may give my number but I don't go there looking to meet anyone. I just want to get my groove on and go home alone. Def not looking to leave with a random.

Originally Posted By DatFeelGuy⏩

I have had a lot of success with online dating. Yes, girls have flaked on me but I've met upwards of 50 girls over the few years I used the apps. Some of these became lasting friends, flings, FWBs, etc. I have a gf now that I met on Bumble and have never been happier in a relationship in my life. She's not some loser who can't get a date. She's 27, makes well over 100k, is very attractive, smart, and kind. I've gone on dates with surgeons, executives, business owners. Online dating is modern dating--its just a bigger pool of people to choose from than you'll run into at the office, gym, or bar. There are obviously weirdos but there are also women who are smart, emotionally stable, and attractive.

I really think the people saying 'online dating is for losers' are coping for the fact that they haven't had success with it or haven't tried it. People have a tendency to overvalue themselves in the dating pool and online dating forces you to accept the fact that a lot of people aren't interested in you. This hurts some people's feelings but the truth is you'll be better suited to find someone and value them once you have a better understanding of your realistic options.

I'm not one of those who said its for losers. I've used online dating. If that is what I thought I'd have to call myself a loser. Lol

Originally Posted By machina1⏩

you need to use a paid online dating site, that way you know the ppl are a little more serious

I have friends who have used Match and it's mostly the same people that are also on the free sites like OKC and POF.