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post 1561157601 09-13-2018, 02:41 AM
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And, it may be easier for Chads to have sex and date, but that doesn't necessarily mean they get relationships easier or are able to stay in one easier. In fact that part is often harder for them because everyone wants a quick hookup with them, and or trying to steal him from his current gf. The flip side of their looks is that it's exponentially harder for them to be monogamous or have a serious connection.
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Originally Posted By freediverdude⏩
And, it may be easier for Chads to have sex and date, but that doesn't necessarily mean they get relationships easier or are able to stay in one easier. In fact that part is often harder for them because everyone wants a quick hookup with them, and or trying to steal him from his current gf. The flip side of their looks is that it's exponentially harder for them to be monogamous or have a serious connection.
This is cope though. They can get in relationships whenever they want, with whoever they want. Yeah its harder for them to STAY in relationships, but its not because girls break up with them (which is also cope), its because they have so much pussy available at all times they either break up with the gf or just let it die out.

My other model chad friend (latino, so i guess he's a carlos) cant date a girl for more than a month without breaking up with her because he doesnt want to cheat and wont be able to help himself. Words from his mouth. Ive seen in person the way sloots throw themselves at him, and he's absolutely right.

Dont fool yourself, most girls are desperate to tie down a chad and get him to commit. They just cant. Just like its tough to tie down a hot girl who rich playboys will fly across the world for no reason on a wednesday.
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post 1561158171 09-13-2018, 03:23 AM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I never knew any guy like that IRL. Sounds like life on super easy mode. Better than being a really good looking woman for sure.

People like that live reality through a completely different lense. It would probably blow their mind how difficult most guys have it to try get even one attractive woman.
There's nothing better than being a really good looking woman, tbh. The highest tier guys have life on cheat code mode, but the entire world is a red carpet for a smoking hot chick. Plus guys are usualy the ones with money so girls are the ones getting spoiled with actual material things. Chads just get to slay at will for the most part.

But to your point, yeah my friend has no clue why people have trouble talking to girls. He literally says whatever and it doesnt matter. He actually does have game, but its mostly from being so incredibly confident from his 99% success rate.
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post 1561158661 09-13-2018, 03:46 AM
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Lol op is spot on, I've got a couple legit chad mates
Literally have a big skull and square jaw, and not much else, very average bodies
One has 8s and 9s doing stalkerish type chit to be in the same bar as he works
post 1561165231 09-13-2018, 07:00 AM
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Originally Posted By BostonRockets⏩
That's cope dude. He wouldn't even have to cold approach because girls would initiate.



Girls don't just check out guys like that they will try to talk whether it's cold approach or they are a waitress, cashier or in his class.

I mean no sh!t if he keeps his dick in his pants he's not getting pussy but realistically he wouldn't have to try very hard at all and wouldn't have to have much balls to do sh!t either. Girls will throw themselves at him, the signals would be so obvious.
The guy in this pic is overkill though, that's like a super Chad. It would be a red carpet event just going to pick up groceries looking like that. You're completely correct though, many people think girls are shy but if you are really appealing to them they will do nearly anything to get your attention.
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post 1561166091 09-13-2018, 07:16 AM
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Originally Posted By Cinderblock⏩
My input as a black guy.

You're black which means when you approach chicks you'll receive a more polarizing response, in other words, you're getting strong yes, or a strong no from chicks. Your amount of yes or no's will be based off what you look like in comparison to what the media deems is an attractive black male.

My point is, chicks base their attraction off what is marketed to them by the media. Your friend doesn't have any super powers.
idk if im projecting or wat but i legit feel like i get more attention from white girls when i go out with my jamal bros than with my kevin bros. make of that what you will.
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post 1561169541 09-13-2018, 08:10 AM
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You’re aiming out of your league op. Shoot for 3/10 and you’ll do better. 2/10 and you’ll slay. Such is life for an uglycell.
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post 1561172101 09-13-2018, 08:51 AM
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Originally Posted By propreffered7⏩
What am i coping about?

Tbh i think youre coping for thinking i am coping. Lol

No doubt hed have it easy, but i think youre exaggerating how easy. Especially with girls within his league

But, again, idc.. Guy is good looking. C'est la vie
You're coping thinking he wouldn't have it easy just because he's quiet. Girls will be hitting on him and flirting and acting all bubbly. He wouldn't even have to do sh!t.
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post 1561172881 09-13-2018, 09:02 AM
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This thread is just about feeding insecurities.

Look, not all chicks are sloots.if you know a lot of chicks that way, your social group sucks. Go to church or something. Not a guarantee, but it's a better chance at finding a decent woman.

If all you're after is pootter, then be prepared to find some superficial, ungrounded chick whose a bot, programmed by teenaged romance novels and desperate to please their new found father figure.

Quit caring about slutty women being slutty.
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post 1561173671 09-13-2018, 09:12 AM
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I have a very good looking friend and yes, it's just crazy how much attention and approaches he gets from girls. I noticed as a kid that my dad would get very nice treatment from women and he would just say whatever and they would act interested or entertained. Not a reason to throw in the towel though, everything is out there for a taking.
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Originally Posted By jackflag⏩
There's nothing better than being a really good looking woman, tbh. The highest tier guys have life on cheat code mode, but the entire world is a red carpet for a smoking hot chick. Plus guys are usualy the ones with money so girls are the ones getting spoiled with actual material things. Chads just get to slay at will for the most part.

But to your point, yeah my friend has no clue why people have trouble talking to girls. He literally says whatever and it doesnt matter. He actually does have game, but its mostly from being so incredibly confident from his 99% success rate.
Uber attractive people has life on easy mode. In school they get by, work they get by, and dating is easy. My good looking female cousins always has guys chasing them and the funny thing is that most of them still lives at home working mediocre jobs. The dating advice they gave me was "just go up and talk to him, it's easy!" (Eye roll)
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post 1561175991 09-13-2018, 09:41 AM
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Not gonna read 9 pages. Was the pic of the Chad posted?
post 1561176811 09-13-2018, 09:51 AM
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Originally Posted By BostonRockets⏩
You're coping thinking he wouldn't have it easy just because he's quiet. Girls will be hitting on him and flirting and acting all bubbly. He wouldn't even have to do sh!t.
Im not even lying. Back when i was in college, i worked at a grocery store and looking back i must have been the best looking thing there because i got hit on all the time

Either that or they knew i was an athlete (baseball) but every chick hit on me. Its also when i started working out more regularly. I was a virgin at the time. Junior year in high school i had shed weight and wasnt sure how women viewed me. I had many girls hit on me then but i wasnt sure what to do. I was way more focused on 2 girls at the time, that i didnt care. I fuked it up with both because i was inexperienced. Looking back i wish i DID capitalize on those opportunities

So i knew this bish had a bf, we were in the back working together. And for some reason she said something like "i wanna feel you arms" but it was way more sexual than that. I gave two chits. Didnt do anything about it.

Nowadays, i prob would. I have a much more "make things happen" at every level approach.

Idk about you but ive NEVER seen a hot girl approach a guy. Maybe mediocre women. The only hot bish i ever remember "approaching" was a girl who was acting like she was looking for hw help and grabbed my essay and used it to start asking questions back in college. And that was me. I also did nothing about it. At the restaurant i worked at previously i had a bish suck my finger and i did nothing about it

So, like i said before, its not like sloots hop on di*ks. At best the way they hit on guys is very indirect and its still up to the guy to do something. Which is why i said, it takes a "can do" approach.

I would bet my left nut there are genuinely quiet chads that dont capitalize on the opportunities
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Originally Posted By BostonRockets⏩
That's cope dude. He wouldn't even have to cold approach because girls would initiate.



Girls don't just check out guys like that they will try to talk whether it's cold approach or they are a waitress, cashier or in his class.

I mean no sh!t if he keeps his dick in his pants he's not getting pussy but realistically he wouldn't have to try very hard at all and wouldn't have to have much balls to do sh!t either. Girls will throw themselves at him, the signals would be so obvious.
Damn I can't even imagine how many girls he could smash. Life's unfair brah
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Originally Posted By goingcia⏩
A chad is successful with women. Moon lands on man.

A close brah I grew up with is a certified chad and I got to see all sorts of social situations with him and sloots, and brah, just an absolute lol at the level the TRUE chads operate on. Comparing your success with sloots is like that jason blaha guy using an Arnold poster to critique his own physique.

This brah got away with chit NOBODY else I know could get away with: seen him openly brake up with a sloot but suggest they keep smashing (he is pretty dumb so the way he said it wasn't really 'soft' either (she agreed)), would borrow a car from a sloot he barely knew and disappeared for days and then would still smash and borrow it again, cold approach sloots and have them pay for his chit (100% srs). He pushed it like crazy and even did it just to see if it would work, loling about it.

Real certified chads live in a different world. He doesn't need to lift, read, be smart or interesting or a decent human being toward sloots (not all but a LOT). As much of a decent success as I had with sloots, I never even tried to compete with him in any way and I wasn't even mad. It's like being buddies with Lebron and walking through the street courts.
Lol yup experienced similar things with my chad friends...they could literally say and do anything and girls will still do anything for them..

I know some people tend to be jelly but i was actually happy for my friends. Maybe in next life it will be our turn for chad status until then we have to work hard for our average poon. Such is life lul
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Originally Posted By Weezy32⏩
Lol yup experienced similar things with my chad friends...they could literally say and do anything and girls will still do anything for them..

I know some people tend to be jelly but i was actually happy for my friends. Maybe in next life it will be our turn for chad status until then we have to work hard for our average poon. Such is life lul
My take on it:

You have to act like you want them
Which takes confidence
People who know what they want are confident

Your neckbeard or lets just unsuccessful guy has low self esteem and makes up whatever reason why hes not good enough, fails to communicate and causes confusion for the girl who interprets your haphazard attempt as disinterest - or "he just doesnt like me that much"

All you have to do is see what you want
Get it
Tell them - i mean being incognito is great but still have marks of desire in there. Otherwise she will be confused

You DONT be clingy though.

I think chad prob looks good so maybe, more inherently believes he deserves it, and thus has confidence

Which is really whats going on. Now, looks do play a part so im not denying that. Ive just seen some ugly dudes pull women and its all about their energy. Most girls wont turn down a fuk if you make them feel good. And its more like "i desire you in x way that makes me do x" than it is placating their wishes. Cause thats what sex is all about

My 2 cents
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My biggest issue with these 9 page chad obsession threads is a lot of you guys act like this is exclusive to good looking males.

Reality is that its true for either of the two genders. If you're good looking people want to tap that. You think any of you wow-cels aren't shaking in your dx-racers at the thought of stacy giving you a chance? just lol
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goes both ways bubs, you're not gonna be hitting on a girl who is a 4/10 exuding insecurity that is so palpable you can see it blocking her face.
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Originally Posted By propreffered7⏩
My take on it:

You have to act like you want them
Which takes confidence
People who know what they want are confident

Your neckbeard or lets just unsuccessful guy has low self esteem and makes up whatever reason why hes not good enough, fails to communicate and causes confusion for the girl who interprets your haphazard attempt as disinterest - or "he just doesnt like me that much"

All you have to do is see what you want
Get it
Tell them - i mean being incognito is great but still have marks of desire in there. Otherwise she will be confused

You DONT be clingy though.

I think chad prob looks good so maybe, more inherently believes he deserves it, and thus has confidence

Which is really whats going on. Now, looks do play a part so im not denying that. Ive just seen some ugly dudes pull women and its all about their energy. Most girls wont turn down a fuk if you make them feel good. And its more like "i desire you in x way that makes me do x" than it is placating their wishes. Cause thats what sex is all about

My 2 cents
Lol ugly dood acting like he wants the girl in a strong way gets called a creep and or possibly gets a restraining order on him.

Good looking guy doing the same thing gets it in few hours later....


In my experience the average looking guys that date good looking girls have actually spent some time with the girl and got to know her before actually starting to date. That has been my experience...i have dated some really good looking girls and had interest from good looking girls even though i am average cell but ALL of those girls came from hs/college class or work where those girls were not necessarily interested in me at first but got interested in me after they got to know me and they found out that i was fun outgoing and friendly...fun to be around had high energy...also had great social status as i usually make friends easy.

Compare that to my chad friends in college and they could literally get a girl they never spoke to before to join us for lunch..they could literally say anything and get a girls number.

Also another thing i noticed is that my chad friends would get texts from girls ...good morning texts and how is your day going texts even nudes...me id get replies but very rarely would a girl initiate texting with me...ie they would not send me good morning texts but would reply to my good morning text.
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