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post 1630168553 01-31-2021, 06:54 AM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
My intuition tells me I have virtually nothing in common with this girl
whotf has anything in common with a girl. thats irrelevant. do you like purses and reality tv?
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post 1630168633 01-31-2021, 06:56 AM
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Looks 18 , nothing good cold possibly come out of this except a bad lay
post 1630169003 01-31-2021, 07:07 AM
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you have no game or confidence OP and it is apparent in your posts about yourself and the trials and tribulations you have when you match with a new girl. you need to be provocative. separate yourself from others. nobody cares about your body, all girls want to do is have a good time and make a memory and they want to feel something. you are the man and you're supposed to lead. offer an idea and if they don't like it then move onto the next one, and stop being so outcome dependent on things because all it takes is one to say yes and have a good night.

but for the love of god fix your attitude. you sound like a complete bitch every time plans with a girl fall through. find some more interesting hobbies or some shiit man.
post 1630170213 01-31-2021, 07:42 AM
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have you tried farmersonly?
post 1630170983 01-31-2021, 08:04 AM
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Originally Posted By cazzo1⏩
Lol 100% flakes on you. These girls are a dime a dozen
Looks like I was right.

These girls are a dime a dozen OP

Im the app master OP. I have been on apps since 2013 and have banged probably 200+ off them at this point.

I can sniff this stuff out.

Anytime a girl wants your snap, lol just end it. Nothing will happen.

Get her number like a man and close within 48 hours.
post 1630171483 01-31-2021, 08:18 AM
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All these failures with other women is the universe’s way of telling you to get back with Ruby Haro. It soulmatening!
post 1630171813 01-31-2021, 08:26 AM
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Well...you cant pull older sloots, you can't pull younger sloots...have you thought about dudes?

Could really play up the rough cop angle for some bussy.

Also, you might want to remove any references you have to being a LEO in your profile. Thats an instant way to make that pusci go dry.
post 1630172683 01-31-2021, 08:44 AM
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Damn.

Like others have said, try meeting girls in an environment that kind of selects for certain personality types/interests/etc. Someone mentioned going to bars that have local metal bands, for example. Seems like a good place to meet girls, plus it's something you can do on your own. Do you have friends who can introduce to a wider social circle? That's also helpful, especially if it allows repeated exposure to girls in a low pressure environment. You need to find a way to meet girls in situations that you are comfortable with and that allow you to be yourself. Take them on dates to thingsyouare interested in. Go to a screening of classic horror movies, invite them over to watch, take them out on your bike, chit man. Do something that allows you to be comfortable.

Also, you mentioned you'd been speaking to her for a couple days. That's way too long. As others have said in your threads, you have to strike while the iron is hot. So you have to get their number ASAP, text or call with them and set up a date in like 2 or 3 days.
post 1630173423 01-31-2021, 08:58 AM
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lol hate to see it OP but dude every dude has been in this situation at least you didn't actually meet. Its a win situation srs.
post 1630173623 01-31-2021, 09:01 AM
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post 1630184573 01-31-2021, 11:42 AM
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Originally Posted By LordBroly⏩
Damn.

Like others have said, try meeting girls in an environment that kind of selects for certain personality types/interests/etc. Someone mentioned going to bars that have local metal bands, for example. Seems like a good place to meet girls, plus it's something you can do on your own. Do you have friends who can introduce to a wider social circle? That's also helpful, especially if it allows repeated exposure to girls in a low pressure environment. You need to find a way to meet girls in situations that you are comfortable with and that allow you to be yourself. Take them on dates to thingsyouare interested in. Go to a screening of classic horror movies, invite them over to watch, take them out on your bike, chit man. Do something that allows you to be comfortable.

Also, you mentioned you'd been speaking to her for a couple days. That's way too long. As others have said in your threads, you have to strike while the iron is hot. So you have to get their number ASAP, text or call with them and set up a date in like 2 or 3 days.
The very first day she had given me her number I tried to set up plans that same night
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post 1630185263 01-31-2021, 11:50 AM
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post 1630194063 01-31-2021, 02:02 PM
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Originally Posted By xvicknumber7x⏩
you have no game or confidence OP and it is apparent in your posts about yourself and the trials and tribulations you have when you match with a new girl. you need to be provocative. separate yourself from others. nobody cares about your body, all girls want to do is have a good time and make a memory and they want to feel something. you are the man and you're supposed to lead. offer an idea and if they don't like it then move onto the next one, and stop being so outcome dependent on things because all it takes is one to say yes and have a good night.

but for the love of god fix your attitude. you sound like a complete bitch every time plans with a girl fall through. find some more interesting hobbies or some shiit man.
Guitar and bodybuilding aren’t interesting hobbies?
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post 1630194333 01-31-2021, 02:05 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
The very first day she had given me her number I tried to set up plans that same night
Wouldve waited a day personally.

If you need an app tips let me know srs
post 1630195333 01-31-2021, 02:18 PM
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Originally Posted By cazzo1⏩
Wouldve waited a day personally.

If you need an app tips let me know srs
The thing is nobody truly has answers here it’s all anecdotal. There’s no true way to know if you’ll have success with women. They are ever changing like the direction of wind.

Some of you say try to meet ASAP, some of you say give it a day or two.

I am truly confident in who I am as a person, and I fully put that on display to anyone that I meet.

As far as “game” I even detest having to touch on the subject. I shouldn’t need to display some behavior that is unlike my genuine self to court a woman. Game is pointless and a fruitless endeavor to me.

I’m not trying to get married, I’m not trying to have kids, hell I’m not even looking for an easy lay/ONS. I just seek companionship.

But I am introverted and very much enjoy my solitude. So there’s a weird duality that I find within myself battling
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post 1630196903 01-31-2021, 02:41 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
The thing is nobody truly has answers here it’s all anecdotal. There’s no true way to know if you’ll have success with women. They are ever changing like the direction of wind.

Some of you say try to meet ASAP, some of you say give it a day or two.

I am truly confident in who I am as a person, and I fully put that on display to anyone that I meet.

As far as “game” I even detest having to touch on the subject. I shouldn’t need to display some behavior that is unlike my genuine self to court a woman. Game is pointless and a fruitless endeavor to me.

I’m not trying to get married, I’m not trying to have kids, hell I’m not even looking for an easy lay/ONS. I just seek companionship.

But I am introverted and very much enjoy my solitude. So there’s a weird duality that I find within myself battling
The only way to date one gal is to date 3

You should have way more matches

Your profile must be trash srs
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post 1630197033 01-31-2021, 02:43 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
The thing is nobody truly has answers here it’s all anecdotal. There’s no true way to know if you’ll have success with women. They are ever changing like the direction of wind.

Some of you say try to meet ASAP, some of you say give it a day or two.

I am truly confident in who I am as a person, and I fully put that on display to anyone that I meet.

As far as “game” I even detest having to touch on the subject. I shouldn’t need to display some behavior that is unlike my genuine self to court a woman. Game is pointless and a fruitless endeavor to me.

I’m not trying to get married, I’m not trying to have kids, hell I’m not even looking for an easy lay/ONS. I just seek companionship.

But I am introverted and very much enjoy my solitude. So there’s a weird duality that I find within myself battling
Women LOVE game being spit at them. No. Matter. What.

I've been married to the same women for 22 years, we have 2 kids. Ive seen her from throwin up blind drunk, to next to her as she delivered our children...and everything in between. And I still spit game to her like we're 19/20 YO and I'm trying to phuck her all night long.

The minute you stop trying to be romantic/spit game...she gonna look for the dude that will. Believe dat.
post 1630204083 01-31-2021, 04:10 PM
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Originally Posted By KingOmar9⏩
Women LOVE game being spit at them. No. Matter. What.

I've been married to the same women for 22 years, we have 2 kids. Ive seen her from throwin up blind drunk, to next to her as she delivered our children...and everything in between. And I still spit game to her like we're 19/20 YO and I'm trying to phuck her all night long.

The minute you stop trying to be romantic/spit game...she gonna look for the dude that will. Believe dat.
mirin. srs.
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Gotta wonder how many cocks she's licked with that tongue.
It was all just satire. Sorry if I offended anyone with my trolling and sickening posts. Peace and love to everyone.
post 1630205513 01-31-2021, 04:26 PM
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Do you just want to bang or do you want to date?

You seem like you're in dating mode but using apps that are purely for ****ing degenerate whores. You talk to them like you're going on a first date.

If it isn't your style to be the dominant one and just say come to my place tonight basically showing her all you want to do is get your dick wet, then you're going to have happen what is happening to you.

It's completely fine to want to date and find a decent chick vs. just looking for a hookup. Don't try to do or be someone your not. If you're looking to date, get off dating apps. Start living life. You may have to wait another year because of this covid bullchit, but don't force chit with whores.
post 1630205943 01-31-2021, 04:31 PM
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OP, I'm going to be honest with you, I don't know if it is said already (probably is): but online dating is not your thing, you will never succeed on those apps because you just want to be you. That's not enough on these apps unfortunately. You NEED to spit fire like KingOmar says ; it shows confidence, playfulness AND FUN.

Do know that it is all relative: the better you look, the more autistic you can be. You know where you rank. Take care
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
Cause I have nothing in common with them, and my natural self is quite literally the anti-thesis to what’s popular these days.

I’m a quiet metal head that likes horror movies and really appreciates deep conversation. Most sloots are into raves and trashy rap music and stupid stuff that I have no interest in
That's the beauty of it. You don't have to have ANYTHING in common with them. It's all about the vibe you give off and how comfortable you are in your own skin. You have to be in a genuinely good mood and ready to brush off any girl who isn't feeling your vibe. You should NEVER think you are not a prize. Go into the room KNOWING that any girl who wants what you have is going to sample the nectar of the fukking Gods bro.

Deep down you think you're not worthy, and that's bullchit. It's just bullchit your brain tells you to protect your ego and keep you in line. You have to learn to tell if to stfu. Start by fukking drinking and figuring out what you're really like once the inhibition lowers.

As for where to go? Fukking anywhere with these things:

1. Booze

2. Chit you like

3. Women


When you're at a place you like, you let loose and have fun. When you drink, you get out of your own head. Stop thinking of women as these complicated, mystic beings. They're simple fukking creatures that just want you to take the lead and show them a good time. Do it. Make a fukking plan this weekend I'm dead srs. This online chit is FUKKING WITH YOUR MIND.
I'm back, bitches!
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In Op's case, he accepts defeat.
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Originally Posted By KingOmar9⏩
Women LOVE game being spit at them. No. Matter. What.

I've been married to the same women for 22 years, we have 2 kids. Ive seen her from throwin up blind drunk, to next to her as she delivered our children...and everything in between. And I still spit game to her like we're 19/20 YO and I'm trying to phuck her all night long.

The minute you stop trying to be romantic/spit game...she gonna look for the dude that will. Believe dat.
Correct. The game never ends just evolves. If you use more understated and less overt game then the key is to find a woman that receives it well
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Stop thinking you’re this diamond in the rough OP. You are what your record says you are. Stop being a beta ******* and fix yourself
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
Guitar and bodybuilding aren’t interesting hobbies?
They are but have you ever tried to make them work for you? How many of these chicks have you ever played something on the guitar for?
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Originally Posted By WoofieNugget⏩
Sounds like you need to look at older women who are in a different stage of life.
Strong unaware lol
Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
The thing is nobody truly has answers here it’s all anecdotal. There’s no true way to know if you’ll have success with women. They are ever changing like the direction of wind
The direction that wind blows is actually fairly consistent
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