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post 1698378613 02-26-2024, 11:44 AM
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Originally Posted By Lexira
Be glad you are not livin eastern countries where it is the norm to live for life with your parents. Even if you were CEO 100K/day, you would still be living with them. And if you dare to move out? people will spit on your face for "abandoning" them
perhaps the goal of some people has always been to destroy strong family units. parents are "supposed" to be pushing the kids out by 18 so they can go slave for noseberg and be "independent"/easily manipulated.

back in the 50s/60s my mom grew up in a big farm house with about 15-20 family members living there...grandparents, uncles/aunts/cousins, etc. although not wealthy, they all talk fondly about life on that farm growing up.
post 1698378653 02-26-2024, 11:44 AM
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Originally Posted By 6gorillion
keep coping, obese security guard larping as a police officer lmao for the past 20 years LMFAO
Imagine being from ****lia, and trying to insult other people.
post 1698378703 02-26-2024, 11:46 AM
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Originally Posted By truesteez
Why would you abandon the only people who truly love you? They gave you life.

For what so you can incur debt and bring home random sloots?
Moving out equals abandoning your parents???
post 1698378743 02-26-2024, 11:47 AM
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Originally Posted By JoeDelts
In highschool I worked at a grocery store with a Greek guy in his 30's who was totally open about never wanting to leave home. Saw him like 20 years later at the same store doing the same job and he looked like he hadn't aged a day. Dat stress free life.
Yeah...... Sounds awesome.......
post 1698378753 02-26-2024, 11:47 AM
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Originally Posted By Dave22reborn
Moving out equals abandoning your parents???
This lol

My parents live in the same city 5 min drive away in fact I'm on the way over rn for a visit since I'm off work today
post 1698378873 02-26-2024, 11:50 AM
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Originally Posted By Dave22reborn
Imagine being from ****lia, and trying to insult other people.
LOLOLOL. ****lia, good one. Imagine living in a slum that you bought in the 1980s in the boonies in one of those most dog chit states while larping as a cop for 20 years BAHAHAHAHA.
post 1698379373 02-26-2024, 12:04 PM
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Originally Posted By Kormo
Sad use of time tbh
Should I be jerking off for men on camera like you? Maybe I should follow up that with a bit of being so lazy that even my kidneys are giving up.
When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.
post 1698379553 02-26-2024, 12:09 PM
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824
Should I be jerking off for men on camera like you? Maybe I should follow up that with a bit of being so lazy that even my kidneys are giving up.
You envy my confidence. Wish you could do what I do

But you stay behind your computer screen and say mean things when you'd not do it to someone on the street in person. (you seem to understand there are consequences to actions)

You are by definition a coward.

Keep it up. I'll get you banned again in the near future, loser
post 1698379823 02-26-2024, 12:15 PM
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Originally Posted By Dave22reborn
Yeah...... Sounds awesome.......
I kind of suspected he was gay and living at home with his parents was cover for never having a gf and not getting married. Not saying that's always the case.
post 1698379953 02-26-2024, 12:17 PM
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Originally Posted By bertishere
I have friends that are almost 40 years old still living with their parents. They had multiple chances in the past 10 years to buy property but "wanted to wait for a better deal" and now it's way too expensive. They have not developed when it comes to social norms, dating, etc. They are very much stuck in their ways and don't want to experiment with ANYTHING outside of their comfort zone. They are also virgins (although claim otherwise but it's unlikely as they get no female attention due to their extremely introverted lifestyle). Our circle of friends has tried to get them to move out but they don't want to "waste money" on rent and can't afford homes. I countered that it's not wasting money, it's learning how to live on your own (living, cleaning, cooking, doing chores, laundry, etc) and adapting to society as your parents aren't going to be around much longer... they all got stacks sitting in the bank too so moving out wouldn't be a problem financially. They're just stuck in this loop and fear the outside world too much.
Yeah that's an interesting point. The problem is the only way they will attract a woman at that age is to be a homeowner. Surely they are getting close right?

The housing increases and interest rates over the last 4 years have been brutal. It's understandable they are behind, but like I said it's better to wait it out just a bit longer and try to get a house.
post 1698381373 02-26-2024, 12:52 PM
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Originally Posted By 6gorillion
LOLOLOL. ****lia, good one. Imagine living in a slum that you bought in the 1980s in the boonies in one of those most dog chit states while larping as a cop for 20 years BAHAHAHAHA.
Bruh, you're third world trash, and you're probably inbred. ****lia 66.

Get those teeth fixed yet?
post 1698381493 02-26-2024, 12:56 PM
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Originally Posted By Kormo
You envy my confidence. Wish you could do what I do

But you stay behind your computer screen and say mean things when you'd not do it to someone on the street in person. (you seem to understand there are consequences to actions)

You are by definition a coward.

Keep it up. I'll get you banned again in the near future, loser
Tough talk for someone who is literally retarded and has eaten themselves into dialysis 3 times a week. As if you'd do anything but shyt yourself and cry for mommy to come take care of her 38 year old balding manlet fatso loser if a son.

You're 38 years old and have amounted to nothing but a burden on society and on your poor mother. Your father went out for cigarettes long ago, and I can't blame him. You are literally what this thread is about.

I may be banned, but I have a life outside of this forum. You don't.
When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.
post 1698381533 02-26-2024, 12:58 PM
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824
Tough talk for someone who is literally retarded and has eaten themselves into dialysis 3 times a week.

You're 38 years old and have amounted to night but a burden on society and on your poor mother. Your father went out for cigarettes long ago, and I can't blame him.
damn, if hell exist, you're going to it. Not saying it does tho so maybe you're safe?
post 1698381633 02-26-2024, 01:00 PM
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Originally Posted By Dave22reborn
Bruh, you're third world trash, and you're probably inbred. ****lia 66.

Get those teeth fixed yet?
Coming up on ONE HUNDRED THOUSAND POSTS. LMAO!!! does anyone have this loser beat for most posts and larping? Let me guess you're waiting in your patrol car right now huh? LMAO.
post 1698381873 02-26-2024, 01:04 PM
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824
I may be banned, but I have a life outside of this forum. You don't.
Good, goodbye in advanced then
post 1698382023 02-26-2024, 01:07 PM
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Originally Posted By Kormo
damn, if hell exist, you're going to it. Not saying it does tho so maybe you're safe?
Did I say anything that's not true?

If there is a hell you'll be right next to me, but your mother won't be there to take care of you. So we'll see how that ends up.
When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.
post 1698382063 02-26-2024, 01:08 PM
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824
Did I say anything that's not true?

If there is a hell you'll be right next to me, but your mother won't be there to take care of you. So we'll see how that ends up.
No no no, I'm non materialistic much like Jesus himself. I'm going to heaven while you rot in hell.
post 1698382263 02-26-2024, 01:13 PM
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Originally Posted By Kormo
No no no, I'm non materialistic much like Jesus himself. I'm going to heaven while you rot in hell.
Yeap. I remember the part of the bible where jesus was jerking off for other men, I also remember the part where he ate until his body started to shut down and recorded it for reason. The part that's most vivid in my mind is how Mary had to take care of him well into middle age.

You may be the second coming now that I think about it.


I also noticed you didn't answer my question. What have I said that's not true?
When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.
post 1698382293 02-26-2024, 01:14 PM
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824
Yeap. I remember the part of the bible where jesus was jerking off for other men, I also remember the part where he ate until his body started to shut down and recorded it for reason. The part that's most vivid in my mind is how Mary had to take care of him well into middle age.

You may be the second coming now that I think about it.


I also noticed you didn't answer my question. What have I said that's not true?
Feel bad for you man. Eternal torment is in your future. Feels
post 1698382713 02-26-2024, 01:22 PM
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Originally Posted By Kormo
Feel bad for you man. Eternal torment is in your future. Feels
Have I said anything that is not true? Since you won't answer, I'll take that as a no.

Let's perform a small experiment. Go you your mother right now and ask her if you turned out to be the man she had hoped you would become. I wonder what her answer will be.
When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.
post 1698382843 02-26-2024, 01:26 PM
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824
Have I said anything that is not true? Since you won't answer, I'll take that as a no.

Let's perform a small experiment. Go you your mother right now and ask her if you turned out to be the man she had hoped you would become. I wonder what her answer will be.
What is my mothers maiden name?
post 1698383103 02-26-2024, 01:33 PM
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Originally Posted By Kormo
What is my mothers maiden name?
What does that have to do with anything?
When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.
post 1698383163 02-26-2024, 01:36 PM
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824
What does that have to do with anything?
What you're are doing is extrapolating your own personal maturnal experience onto this conversation

You are equating your own personal experiences and expecting the other person to have experienced the same thing

We are not the same people. Your mother =/= my mother


That is why I asked you for my mothers maiden name. To test you

You failed the test
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Originally Posted By Kormo
What you're are doing is extrapolating your own personal maturnal experience onto this conversation

You are equating your own personal experiences and expecting the other person to have experienced the same thing

We are not the same people. Your mother =/= my mother


That is why I asked you for my mothers maiden name. To test you

You failed the test
Yeah, no. I am not the one who lives with my mother at 38 years old. You sure are right about my mother not being the same as your mother. Your mother is a saint. My mother would have smothered you long ago.
When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.
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Originally Posted By 2020Wellness
Thread title should say past 20.
You joined in 2007 and your username is 2020 Wellness??? Referring to what, COVID???
5'10
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Originally Posted By Adam16121
Probably for the very wealthy. Everyone has their circumstances.

Personal insight: I live in my parent’s home with my wife and kids. We own another property that we are renting out. My parents are old and my sister is disabled. They asked us to live with them. We help them out. We have good incomes, and the house has enough bathrooms that none need to be shared (and some are rarely used since they are double digit in number), to address points made earlier.

It’s not always easy but it’s one way of going about life.
I can completely relate to this.

My family home is a very spacious, in a top 5 town in my country and worth a few million. I happily live with my parents and my wife. We also own rental property which me and my wife could happily live in but we choose to stay at home. Similarly, my parents are getting old and starting to put more trust and responsibility in mine and my wifes hands as they look to settle into retirement. I just don't see a need to move out at this point (I am 29). We have a strong family unit, we have dinner together at least 2x a week but otherwise we can choose when and when not to see each other. I'll usually have a coffee with my parents since I WFH and chat chit but otherwise I might go 2 days without seeing them.

the argument is all relative, everyone has different life experiences. If I didn't have the above luxury then maybe I would have grown up with the idea to move out ASAP. Instead my father has raised me as his natural heir and with the expectation I look after both my parents into their old age. I could never put them in a home or leave them to live alone.

People in this thread really don't understand perspective. I can completely understand why people move out and have no issues with it yet these same people are quick to fire insults or make assumptions about those living at home. It doesn't really make sense.
I appreciate well thought out subtle trolling.
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Originally Posted By iTunesBrah
I can completely relate to this.

My family home is a very spacious, in a top 5 town in my country and worth a few million. I happily live with my parents and my wife. We also own rental property which me and my wife could happily live in but we choose to stay at home. Similarly, my parents are getting old and starting to put more trust and responsibility in mine and my wifes hands as they look to settle into retirement. I just don't see a need to move out at this point (I am 29). We have a strong family unit, we have dinner together at least 2x a week but otherwise we can choose when and when not to see each other. I'll usually have a coffee with my parents since I WFH and chat chit but otherwise I might go 2 days without seeing them.

the argument is all relative, everyone has different life experiences. If I didn't have the above luxury then maybe I would have grown up with the idea to move out ASAP. Instead my father has raised me as his natural heir and with the expectation I look after both my parents into their old age. I could never put them in a home or leave them to live alone.

People in this thread really don't understand perspective. I can completely understand why people move out and have no issues with it yet these same people are quick to fire insults or make assumptions about those living at home. It doesn't really make sense.
Go count how many posts are similar to yours versus the about of posts that are just underachievers doing the bare minimum. There is your post and one more, vs like 30 posts from underachievers making excuses.
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Originally Posted By thursdayParty1
Yeah if they moved out they would've lived in the exact same life in a studio apartment alone

I know some successful people that still live at home, and 50yo bums that still have roommates in a 2-bedroom

Depends more on the person than their living circumstances. You can stay in your comfort zone despite moving out, it doesn't mean anything
If you move out but end up building no investments, have a chit disgusting body, on a trash diet (never cook your own meals), pay for cleaners etc. Then what exactly did you learn?
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Originally Posted By 6gorillion
Coming up on ONE HUNDRED THOUSAND POSTS. LMAO!!! does anyone have this loser beat for most posts and larping? Let me guess you're waiting in your patrol car right now huh? LMAO.
Okay? Doesn't change the fact that you're third world trash, and probably fled some third world ****hole to come here.
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Originally Posted By iTunesBrah
I can completely relate to this.

My family home is a very spacious, in a top 5 town in my country and worth a few million. I happily live with my parents and my wife. We also own rental property which me and my wife could happily live in but we choose to stay at home. Similarly, my parents are getting old and starting to put more trust and responsibility in mine and my wifes hands as they look to settle into retirement. I just don't see a need to move out at this point (I am 29). We have a strong family unit, we have dinner together at least 2x a week but otherwise we can choose when and when not to see each other. I'll usually have a coffee with my parents since I WFH and chat chit but otherwise I might go 2 days without seeing them.

the argument is all relative, everyone has different life experiences. If I didn't have the above luxury then maybe I would have grown up with the idea to move out ASAP. Instead my father has raised me as his natural heir and with the expectation I look after both my parents into their old age. I could never put them in a home or leave them to live alone.

People in this thread really don't understand perspective. I can completely understand why people move out and have no issues with it yet these same people are quick to fire insults or make assumptions about those living at home. It doesn't really make sense.
So you pretty much don't "want" to leave the nest and grow up.....
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