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post 10000213820 06-14-2026, 12:28 PM
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u maybe missed it but @notbadnotbrad went on another alcohol and drug binge yesterday

he probably feels like absolute shit now this thread will surely not help with that but it needs to be said

THE FACTS

u have shit party loser friends who only do alcohol and drugs i don't care how much money they make

u have no hobbies outside partying

u do body weight squats and workout with 0 intensity never pushing urself which is awful for ur physical and mental health

u said u want to find a wife in 2027 well what kind of woman wants a guy doing drugs every weekend ? not a quality woman i can tell u that

u got really deep at ur lake house and reflected a lot about ur life u were sad u wasted 100k on alcohol drugs and cheap women since u moved to the city

u are approaching 40 son u better get ur act together being single alone like me in 15 years i can tell u DO NOT have what it takes mentally to survive that srs

i'm telling u now as an outsider looking in on what ur sharing in ur life

u can achieve everything u want in life but accept u are too low inhib and lack discipline u need to drop the "i just need to learn moderation..." trope

brad if i see u post on the misc in 2030 still living this lifestyle i'm driving north and dragging u into rehab 100% srs

@donny2yucky @kimm4 @majortendonitis @drewdarden sort this man out with ur best advice while he's still young and has time to correct
I put effort in all my threads srs

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post 10000213824 06-14-2026, 12:29 PM
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Come be miserable with the rest of us.

No social life for you.
“The stories and information posted here are artistic works of fiction and falsehood. Only a fool would take anything posted here as fact.“

PS: Don't eat poop, just don't let the idea of it stop you from living life to its fullest.
post 10000213829 06-14-2026, 12:31 PM
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet
Come be miserable with the rest of us.

No social life for you.
don't listen to this brad this is exactly the type of thinking u need to avoid

not saying ironmanlet is a loser but people in ur life 100% want u to stay a party boy the problem is they are much younger than u look at people ur own age and see what they are doing i bet it's marriage and family this could be u too but u need to drop ur current friend circle srs
I put effort in all my threads srs

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post 10000213835 06-14-2026, 12:34 PM
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Originally Posted By LAHipster1
don't listen to this brad this is exactly the type of thinking u need to avoid

not saying ironmanlet is a loser but people in ur life 100% want u to stay a party boy the problem is they are much younger than u look at people ur own age and see what they are doing i bet it's marriage and family this could be u too but u need to drop ur current friend circle srs
I def don’t “party” and I def don’t advocate it as a lifestyle lol.

that was my attempt at humor.

I agree with you. People should not chase quick and easy dopamine. It becomes a tragic cycle very quickly.
“The stories and information posted here are artistic works of fiction and falsehood. Only a fool would take anything posted here as fact.“

PS: Don't eat poop, just don't let the idea of it stop you from living life to its fullest.
post 10000213839 06-14-2026, 12:37 PM
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This has been going on a decade

Raisin please
post 10000213840 06-14-2026, 12:37 PM
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nothing wrong with drinking in moderation IMO. but no liquor and no drugs. stick with light beer only and limit to 1 beer every half hour max.
post 10000213842 06-14-2026, 12:40 PM
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I wouldn’t say I’m approaching 40 I’m still 4 years away
post 10000213849 06-14-2026, 12:44 PM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad
I wouldn’t say I’m approaching 40 I’m still 4 years away
this could be u in 4 years

I put effort in all my threads srs

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post 10000213852 06-14-2026, 12:47 PM
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Where’s my intervention and hypothetical 7/10 brunette wife?
"One day I won't be able to lift any more. Not I won't want to lift. I mean physically unable. That day could be decades from now or it could be tomorrow. All I know is that's the day I'll wish I could lift more than ever. The day I'd give anything for one more workout, one more set, or one more cardio session. So go hard and enjoy every workout, every set, every rep. Because one day you will wake up and you will never get it back."
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post 10000213856 06-14-2026, 12:52 PM
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Originally Posted By LAHipster1
u maybe missed it but @notbadnotbrad went on another alcohol and drug binge yesterday

he probably feels like absolute shit now this thread will surely not help with that but it needs to be said

THE FACTS

u have shit party loser friends who only do alcohol and drugs i don't care how much money they make

u have no hobbies outside partying

u do body weight squats and workout with 0 intensity never pushing urself which is awful for ur physical and mental health

u said u want to find a wife in 2027 well what kind of woman wants a guy doing drugs every weekend ? not a quality woman i can tell u that

u got really deep at ur lake house and reflected a lot about ur life u were sad u wasted 100k on alcohol drugs and cheap women since u moved to the city

u are approaching 40 son u better get ur act together being single alone like me in 15 years i can tell u DO NOT have what it takes mentally to survive that srs

i'm telling u now as an outsider looking in on what ur sharing in ur life

u can achieve everything u want in life but accept u are too low inhib and lack discipline u need to drop the "i just need to learn moderation..." trope

brad if i see u post on the misc in 2030 still living this lifestyle i'm driving north and dragging u into rehab 100% srs

@donny2yucky @kimm4 @majortendonitis @drewdarden sort this man out with ur best advice while he's still young and has time to correct
Pretty much agree. He seems like a good dude, just a bit lost on the way. Try to challenge yourself outside of the arena of boozing and benders. Friends build eachother up, not break each other down. If my homie was like "bro I knocked out, I dont feel it tonight", I would say "all good, you want to watch it at your place?" or "Word! Ill catch you around, hmu if you change your mind".
post 10000213857 06-14-2026, 12:52 PM
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1
Where’s my intervention and hypothetical 7/10 brunette wife?
if what other users are posting about u and ur past stories is true u have some issues of ur own to resolve

nobody is perfect all we can do is try to be better and sometimes that is hearing what u need to do from a bunch of strangers srs
I put effort in all my threads srs

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post 10000213865 06-14-2026, 12:56 PM
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No bag, Not brad

Tl;dr but he should consider sobering up
post 10000213871 06-14-2026, 12:59 PM
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But at what cost, brad?
post 10000213937 06-14-2026, 01:35 PM
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Originally Posted By LAHipster1
this could be u in 4 years


Why would he be wearing a hat when he paid for a world class hairline
See Shakebrah's sig
post 10000213948 06-14-2026, 01:40 PM
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Originally Posted By LAHipster1
this could be u in 4 years


Wife and kid isn't the pinnacle of success....fkn lmao.
See monster0ultra's sig
post 10000213951 06-14-2026, 01:43 PM
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Originally Posted By LAHipster1
this could be u in 4 years


Mirin but I feel like the kid doesn’t look like either of us LOL
post 10000213961 06-14-2026, 01:51 PM
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Originally Posted By LAHipster1
this could be u in 4 years


You should make the baby black
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post 10000213969 06-14-2026, 01:55 PM
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Originally Posted By LAHipster1
don't listen to this brad this is exactly the type of thinking u need to avoid

ironmanlet is a loser but people in ur life 100% want u to stay a party boy the problem is they are much younger than u look at people ur own age and see what they are doing i bet it's marriage and family this could be u too but u need to drop ur current friend circle srs
Fixed
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post 10000213980 06-14-2026, 02:02 PM
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Originally Posted By Lefticle
Fixed
I put effort in all my threads srs

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post 10000213984 06-14-2026, 02:04 PM
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Who tf are you to be calling people out?
post 10000213985 06-14-2026, 02:04 PM
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op needs to stay in his lane
post 10000213995 06-14-2026, 02:12 PM
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post 10000213998 06-14-2026, 02:12 PM
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Originally Posted By DrewDarden

this is why i misc

edit watched it all i did not know u had a history with brad

fair enough drew u chose not to give him any advice i think u are being too nice tbh one can clearly see that brad feels like shit 80% of the time and then he is high as a kite 20% of the time which can't be ideal life for anyone tbh especially not someone looking for a wife next year
I put effort in all my threads srs

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post 10000214001 06-14-2026, 02:14 PM
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Originally Posted By DrewDarden

I am 12 and what is this
post 10000214003 06-14-2026, 02:15 PM
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the problem with Brad is that he hangs out with idiots who do drugs.

Brad is easily influenced and he quickly succumbs to peer pressure. he texts his buddies, they all go out, they start doing degenerate chit like pepsi, and they pressure him to join along.

his inability to say "no" or practice moderation leads to blackouts, regret, and feeling depressed/anxious for several days after.
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Out of all people this porn brain rot incel is telling someone to get his life together
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post 10000214008 06-14-2026, 02:19 PM
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Originally Posted By Donny2Yucky
the problem with Brad is that he hangs out with idiots who do drugs.

Brad is easily influenced and he quickly succumbs to peer pressure. he texts his buddies, they all go out, they start doing degenerate chit like pepsi, and they pressure him to join along.

his inability to say "no" or practice moderation leads to blackouts, regret, and feeling depressed/anxious for several days after.
So you’re right

And here is my dilemma

I am a people pleaser but I don’t want to be a loser with no friends

But all my friends just go out

So what’s the alternative … sitting alone at home
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad
So you’re right

And here is my dilemma

I am a people pleaser but I don’t want to be a loser with no friends

But all my friends just go out

So what’s the alternative … sitting alone at home
excess in moderation. set boundaries, guidelines, and guardrails. it doesn't have to be all or nothing.
post 10000214011 06-14-2026, 02:20 PM
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Originally Posted By Donny2Yucky
the problem with Brad is that he hangs out with idiots who do drugs.

Brad is easily influenced and he quickly succumbs to peer pressure. he texts his buddies, they all go out, they start doing degenerate chit like pepsi, and they pressure him to join along.

his inability to say "no" or practice moderation leads to blackouts, regret, and feeling depressed/anxious for several days after.
donny with the facts as usual

top miscer srs

it's tough but he has to hear it

@notbadnotbrad donny has lived ur life watch out so u don't become his old self srs

Originally Posted By p7nk
Out of all people this porn brain rot incel is telling someone to get his life together
grow up srs

i also said he should not end up like me so
I put effort in all my threads srs

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post 10000214012 06-14-2026, 02:21 PM
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Originally Posted By LAHipster1
@notbadnotbrad donny has lived ur life watch out so u don't become him srs

Lmao did you just insult Donny
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