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post 1452319623 07-11-2016, 11:50 PM
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Girl I was dating goes off on me because I wanted to abstain

Sup gangsters. So I've been talking to this girl who i've known for a while and we started talking out of no where. Shes only a year older than me and we were vibin pretty good. After 2 weeks of talking we hang out. She invites me over and tells me to bring a movie. Before I left she said she was on her period so I was like "perfect I cant be tempted now" purposely didnt take a condom just incase. I get over to her apartment and we start talking for hours. Very deep conversations about life. I tell her I've had bad relationships in the passed so I told her to tell me everything about herself up front. No hiding anything. She straight up tells me shes been cheated on in almost every relationship and shes super insecure. Also told me she use to be a sloot but she wants to change. Which is good and bad in a way. I can appreciate some honesty so I decided to keep talking to her just to see if it continues going well. Anyways the movie I brought didnt work I guess it was a blue ray cd and her dvd thing wasnt playing it so she said lets go lay on my bed.

Go and lay on the bed and she started touching me ... I was like "arent you on your period" she was like nah I just said that incase I wasnt feeling you. So I go to the bathroom on purpose just to try to shake off my boner , I come back out and shes laying like this exact position on her bed minus the clothes


Than I say I cant do this I dont even have a condom and shes on birth control. Like a weak spirited ******* I gave in and smashed . Kiss her good bye and left

fast forward 3 weeks she asks me for a relationship. Im liking her by the point because were still getting along and she hasnt really annoyed me once. On thursday Im at work and she posts on my ******** wall "You're not single" and she sent me a relationship request. I accept not thinking much about it and she says post it on yours too so I do. So now by the point everyone is congratulating me and what not. Still in the back of my head my guard is up.

She invited me over Saturday to hang out with her all day. But this time I said im not gonna allow myself to be alone with her so I took her out for dinner. After dinner I was trying to stall for more time so I took her to the movies. She was like no none of these movies are good lets go back home. Hella pressuring me to go back home. Every place I tried to take her she wasnt in the mood for. So we get back and I turn on the TV. I was trying to give her the whole christian talk but she kept talking non stop. On the couch out of no where she goes "babe touch me" again I fail here and I just couldnt say no . Touched her it turned into sex and I failed once again. While we were in bed she said she wanted me to take a picture of us to keep when im away at work .... hella weird .... and remember shes super insecure so if I said no it would turn into a huge argument about how im not into her or cheating . So I snap some pics and shes so happy so I was like cool at least shes in a good mood now and knows im not some player kind of guy . Half way through sex she laughs and goes I feel like the Jesus tattoo on your chest is laughing at us. Immediately pushed her off and gave her the talk.

She broke down crying when I told her lets stay celibate and see where it goes. Told me Im not into her because both times we smashed I couldnt finish. I told her I just cant fully enjoy it because I know im sinning. And after an hour of this talk she finally understood and agreed we would try it. While we're laying in bed she grabs my phone and starts looking through my pics I grab my phone back and tell her im not comfortable with her seeing some of my bad pics and she freaks out again. So she asks me to stay the night and I say sure but my family calls me and tells me to come home. My mom knew I was seeing her and she knew after 2 am I probably was up to no good. So I tell her I had to go and once my mom met her she wouldnt be so cautious about all this. She kisses me and tells me to text her when I make it home. 5 minutes after I leave she texts me "Babe dont be mad but I had to delete my ******** too much drama going around" I immediately knew it was something else so I told my friend to look her up and he found her profile.

Today in the morning she just goes off on me " You're so ugly, you have the tiniest dink ive ever seen , I faked every orgasm and couldnt stand being around you. You're so ugly and your acne is terrible ... also your body hair is gross. Sex with you was terrible ... and I know the other night you took dink pills (just because I had a boner almost the entire day) . Your still living at home... I feel like im talking to a little kid . I also know that car isnt yours (Camaro) because the first time you came in a different car. You're a fake bible thumper so annoying pretend like you love God." Literally throwing as many insults as me as possible even after I explained to her I still want to see her and be with her. Eventually she just says stop texting me psycho. Just wanted to share the story. Thoughts and opinions welcome. Heres the pics we took so she could "remember me"




pic of her



Cliffs: OP talks to girl for a month, OP caves in and smashes
Girl asks OP to make it official
Op makes it official
OP takes her out Saturday night and smashes again but has celibacy talk
Girl Agrees
Deletes OP as soon as he leaves and insults OP in every way possible
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post 1452319723 07-11-2016, 11:51 PM
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is this your dissertation?

no one is fukking reading all that
post 1452319803 07-11-2016, 11:53 PM
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Originally Posted By Kellonnn
is this your dissertation?

no one is fukking reading all that
cliffing it hold up
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post 1452319883 07-11-2016, 11:54 PM
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Originally Posted By Kellonnn
is this your dissertation?

no one is fukking reading all that
lol repped
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post 1452319943 07-11-2016, 11:54 PM
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post 1452319993 07-11-2016, 11:55 PM
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You are one strange kunt
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post 1452320003 07-11-2016, 11:55 PM
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skimmed it . You have a lot to learn *******. Jesus has cucked you into being like 7 years behind in sexual/relationship experience.

LOL @ accepting her relationship request
LOL @ feeling guilty for ****ing a broad right in the pussy like the good lord intended
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post 1452320173 07-11-2016, 11:57 PM
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Originally Posted By Adnim
Skimmed the story, sounds absolutely haram
I just need to go live in a cave man I always cave in
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post 1452320263 07-11-2016, 11:58 PM
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pick one or the other brah wtf you already smashed why are you gonna abstain now. makes no sense. atleast you posted pics
post 1452320323 07-11-2016, 11:59 PM
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Yet you wanted to smash an escort?
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post 1452320333 07-11-2016, 11:59 PM
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Fuking run the other way bro. She's insane
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Be careful of this path you're going down brother.

If the spirit is convicting you of this sin then you better listen to what he says and do what is right in the sight of God.

So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh.For the flesh desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the flesh. They are in conflict with each other, so that you are not to do whatever you want.But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law.The acts of the flesh are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery;idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factionsand envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God.But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit.Let us not become conceited, provoking and envying each other. - Galatians 5:16-26
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Wait, you smashed? I thought you were on dat dere praise Jesus, no sex till marriage bby, type of stuff
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Today in the morning she just goes off on me " You're so ugly, you have the tiniest dink ive ever seen , I faked every orgasm and couldnt stand being around you. You're so ugly and your acne is terrible ... also your body hair is gross. Sex with you was terrible ... and I know the other night you took dink pills (just because I had a boner almost the entire day) . Your still living at home... I feel like im talking to a little kid . I also know that car isnt yours (Camaro) because the first time you came in a different car. You're a fake bible thumper so annoying pretend like you love God." Literally throwing as many insults as me as possible even after I explained to her I still want to see her and be with her. Eventually she just says stop texting me psycho. Just wanted to share the story. Thoughts and opinions welcome. Heres the pics we took so she could "remember me"
she fuking ethered you bro

lmao, but you can easily curse her bro. literally every girl you mess around with ends up with her life in shambles after she crosses you. you have dat dere holy spirit on your side boyo
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Originally Posted By Perfectbrah213
Be careful of this path you're going down brother.

If the spirit is convicting you of this sin then you better listen to what he says and do what is right in the sight of God.

So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh.For the flesh desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the flesh. They are in conflict with each other, so that you are not to do whatever you want.But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law.The acts of the flesh are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery;idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factionsand envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God.But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit.Let us not become conceited, provoking and envying each other. - Galatians 5:16-26
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most miscers can't get a text back and this dude is literally fighting with his heart and soul to keep pussy off him and cant.
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Very interesting story before I go to bed lol

Do you really feel like your sinning when you had sex with her? You gotta do what you feel is right. Dont let anyone force you into something you dont feel comfortable with.
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Read it all.
She's crazy.
Lol that you caved twice though.

Props to you for sticking up for what you believe in, and bold posting it on the misc of all places cuz they're gonna tear you apart. You do you man!
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Didn't read any of that tsunami of text ****. How many pics you gonna take of a random slut my man? an entire photo album for you and the kids to see in the future? just slay and kick her the **** out. She looks like some girl I smashed 2 weeks ago except with brown eyes and smaller boobs


edit: read the last part and she went in and you lmfao brutal!!! thats what you get for catching feelings and not kicking them out... you dummy
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lolled at the part where she calls you a psycho

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Originally Posted By jackedup13
pick one or the other brah wtf you already smashed why are you gonna abstain now. makes no sense. atleast you posted pics
Bro its so hard ... that was 1.5 years of celibacy .... Im telling you the entire time we were out for lunch I was trying to contain the boner ... she kept accusing me of taking dink pills .... first time though was a straight trap .... no matter how well prepared I was ... everything was set perfectly for smashing
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Love the story, love the details, love the pics. great thread 10/10. Repping inc
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Originally Posted By Slats7
Yet you wanted to smash an escort?
Fighting a flesh is the biggest battle bro ... im telling you. Its better for me just to not go out lol
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Originally Posted By TheFaithfull
Fuking run the other way bro. She's insane
I know dude.... shes beyond insecure .... it will destroy any of her relationships.
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