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GF went out drinking with friends for bday... NC since 6 last night. Is my tour over?
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Originally Posted By DBoss11⏩
This ^Trust your gut in these situations, always.
If something seems wrong, especially 180 degree flips in behavior, something probably is wrong
If something seems wrong, especially 180 degree flips in behavior, something probably is wrong
Originally Posted By Zackad⏩
So much this ^this. "ughhh lol" and "hungover haha" when your responses were neutral at best, and pissed off at worst. People use laughter for 3 things: show humor in something, cover up embarassment, or to even further piss off people who are already mad at them.
if her next text isn't some form of apologizing for her going missing for 15 hours, she's got sum bad newz for ya
if her next text isn't some form of apologizing for her going missing for 15 hours, she's got sum bad newz for ya
Originally Posted By Jestbrah⏩
350% this ^I don't like her response, way too non chalant, she is putting the ball in your court so she can be defensive and make you feel bad
doesn't even appologize when its quite obvious you were worried, and just acts like its normal
doesn't even appologize when its quite obvious you were worried, and just acts like its normal
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07-15-2016, 12:50 PM
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You gotta make a bigger deal out of this than it is imo.
Give sloots an inch and they take a mile. Gotta let her know where that line is early. Just go the "you were worried" route, with a hint of bich you should keep in touch more in that situation. Worried route will put her less on the defensive.
or just go to North Carolina. Can't go wrong with nc.
Give sloots an inch and they take a mile. Gotta let her know where that line is early. Just go the "you were worried" route, with a hint of bich you should keep in touch more in that situation. Worried route will put her less on the defensive.
or just go to North Carolina. Can't go wrong with nc.
07-15-2016, 12:51 PM
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Originally Posted By iifymbro⏩
one of two things hereThis ^
So much this ^
350% this ^
So much this ^
350% this ^
1. she either doesn't give two chits about you
2. you aren't as far in your relationship as you think you are and she think its ok to act this way
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HOW is OP not NC already. This is the most cut and dry case of North Carolina i've ever seen. You shouldn't of responded to her goodmorning. Stop now, you are literally cucking yourself, she doesn't respect you at all. If you at least respect yourself you might find yourself banging her friends later, if you got in good with them. (if you didn't make that a point early next time).
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Originally Posted By LinuxJon⏩
cringe. time to sack up budSent random text at 6:30 about hitting hot status with my chipotle reward card
Sent "having fun babe?" At 8:30
Sent "surprised no drunk texts yet" at 11 (because I always get drunk texts from her normally)
Texted her "hey, just want to make sure you got home safely" at 8:30 this morning.
Nada. And we probably send a couple hundred texts per day normally.
Sent "having fun babe?" At 8:30
Sent "surprised no drunk texts yet" at 11 (because I always get drunk texts from her normally)
Texted her "hey, just want to make sure you got home safely" at 8:30 this morning.
Nada. And we probably send a couple hundred texts per day normally.
07-15-2016, 12:55 PM
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we need updates OP
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Originally Posted By LinuxJon⏩
She BEEN getting smashed by someone else bruh. Who are you trying to fool.We have plans. This was only female friends from work (her actual bday isn't until this weekend). We also live70 miles apartand I have work today. Can't drive out there every time she wants to bar hop.
07-15-2016, 12:59 PM
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The government took her, your theories are too strong, and you are too vocal
Recant all your statements and delete your misc account
edit: Strong responses from her, tie her up and fuark her till her pussy breaks. Then dump
Tfw no gf is a great feel sometimes, never dealing with this drama is nice, I know that sunk anxious feeling that happens when you think your gf is up to something and it's horrible
Recant all your statements and delete your misc account
edit: Strong responses from her, tie her up and fuark her till her pussy breaks. Then dump
Tfw no gf is a great feel sometimes, never dealing with this drama is nice, I know that sunk anxious feeling that happens when you think your gf is up to something and it's horrible
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Well, she's pissed I'm upset. And says she only got 5 hours sleep and is too tired for this. Which means she got home at ~6am
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like op's gf would say
who's next
who's next
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Originally Posted By LinuxJon⏩
Typical sloot reaction. She makes the mistake and deftly flips blame around on you.Well, she's pissed I'm upset. And says she only got 5 hours sleep and is too tired for this. Which means she got home at ~6am
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Originally Posted By LinuxJon⏩
Pics of textWell, she's pissed I'm upset. And says she only got 5 hours sleep and is too tired for this. Which means she got home at ~6am
Also, would neg your (soon to be ex I hope) GF irl

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Originally Posted By LinuxJon⏩
Well, she's pissed I'm upset. And says she only got 5 hours sleep and is too tired for this. Which means she got home at ~6am

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Originally Posted By LinuxJon⏩
Legit sorry to hear brah. When I was younger and a beta I had an Ex that pulled this all the time. She'd go AWOL around 12AM-1AM and I didn't get a text until the next day, most of the times after 11AM. Always tried to turn it around on me.Well, she's pissed I'm upset. And says she only got 5 hours sleep and is too tired for this. Which means she got home at ~6am
It's a chitty feeling. The fact that shes pissed off that you showed concern for her is enough to go NC and end it. Trust me, this does not get better. It does not seem like she cares or respects you. Ditch her.
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You best just 360 outta this one friend...srs as srs can be
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Originally Posted By LinuxJon⏩
Sent random text at 6:30 about hitting hot status with my chipotle reward card
Sent "having fun babe?" At 8:30
Sent "surprised no drunk texts yet" at 11 (because I always get drunk texts from her normally)
Texted her "hey, just want to make sure you got home safely" at 8:30 this morning.
Nada. And we probably send a couple hundred texts per day normally.
Sent "having fun babe?" At 8:30
Sent "surprised no drunk texts yet" at 11 (because I always get drunk texts from her normally)
Texted her "hey, just want to make sure you got home safely" at 8:30 this morning.
Nada. And we probably send a couple hundred texts per day normally.
Originally Posted By LinuxJon⏩
Gonna be 100% straight with you and not troll cuz I think you're srs about this thread and you're a decent miscer.Agreed. Will update if/when I have answers.
Honestly, not everything has to do with gaming the chick. Early on sure. Once it's a serious relationship, if you're still adjusting the level of interest you show based on how you think she'll react, it's the wrong chick.
Honestly, not everything has to do with gaming the chick. Early on sure. Once it's a serious relationship, if you're still adjusting the level of interest you show based on how you think she'll react, it's the wrong chick.
I agree that the dynamic changes once you're into a relationship to some extent. Before the relationship I've found it's obviously more optimal to have a higher ratio of BK to WK attitude. Maybe 85% BK to 15% WK. Once you get into the relationship it shifts a little bit to maybe like 25% WK at the most.
But I'm digressing from my point. Even in a relationship, you're going to kill it if you're texting her 100s of times every day. She'll forgive more behavior like this cuz you're commited already, but it's not going to add any value to your situation or help you in any way.
Essentially, you're just telling her subconscious that you're constantly available and have nothing more important to do with your life than punch your fingers on your phone all day. Familiarity breeds contempt, which kills attraction.
I'm not saying that this is what caused her to not text you and her to be all pissy with you now (even tho you're totally justified to be mad), but I guarantee it's a contributing factor. If she was really into you, she would have found time to message you during the night out. This is very obvious to everyone, I think.
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Originally Posted By JUGGERNAUT1333⏩
repped for truthLegit sorry to hear brah. When I was younger and a beta I had an Ex that pulled this all the time. She'd go AWOL around 12AM-1AM and I didn't get a text until the next day, most of the times after 11AM. Always tried to turn it around on me.
It's a chitty feeling. The fact that shes pissed off that you showed concern for her is enough to go NC and end it. Trust me, this does not get better. It does not seem like she cares or respects you. Ditch her.
It's a chitty feeling. The fact that shes pissed off that you showed concern for her is enough to go NC and end it. Trust me, this does not get better. It does not seem like she cares or respects you. Ditch her.
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Originally Posted By LinuxJon⏩
Honestly, although there's some sketch chit you've said about the situation already in this thread, this part's the most damning of it all. Every single time I encounter a chick lying she'll always go on the offensive and get up in your face and get mad at you. She wants you to back off before the conversation turns to things that'd involve her having to make up chit to cover her tracks etc.Well, she's pissed I'm upset. And says she only got 5 hours sleep and is too tired for this. Which means she got home at ~6am
It might not be the case but if she had nothing to cover up, even if she was hungover her priority would be resolving the situation.
Of course, that's just my read on this, but I've been in this situation before with my most recent ex, her responses were almost identical to the ones your girl sent you - turned out she was sleeping around.
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All that said though, regardless, if you trust your girl and she goes out, don't send her a whole bunch of texts while she's out at a bar. If she's at work or w/e it's different because she's probably bored as chit and wants you to keep her entertained. If she's getting drunk then trying to reply is a chore and repeated texts asking her where she's at are just gonna come off as clingy and make her want to back off. TooAnabolic is right. It isn't about gaming her so much as it is about not making her feel like you're gonna freak out if she doesn't respond for an hour or whatever.
It's kinda a double edged sword, IMO you really just have to find someone you can trust enough //not// to even have those thoughts/worries cross your mind in the first place. If those thoughts are crossing your mind, chances are either A) It's because they're correct, or B) Those thoughts are gonna get you to act clingy and mess things up, or.. more often than not a bit of both.
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Anyway hope it all works out OP, you seem like a cool guy, but I'd definitely be v wary at the least.
PS as a bit of a final note, I agree with what someone said about trusting your gut. I've literally NEVER had my gut be wrong in these kinds of situations. If your gut is telling you something is up, it is. We subconsciously pick up a ton of cues from people about what's going on beneath the surface and while we might not have the whole picture we can know "something's up" pretty easily, hence those gut feelings we get.
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when I go nc on my gf for a night with the boys, I apologize profusely (does not happen often) because I understand that's a dick move, she knows it to. Typical woman bs
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shouldn't have responded all day and seen what she said
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Originally Posted By TooAnabolic⏩
Good post mang, repped.Gonna be 100% straight with you and not troll cuz I think you're srs about this thread and you're a decent miscer.
I agree that the dynamic changes once you're into a relationship to some extent. Before the relationship I've found it's obviously more optimal to have a higher ratio of BK to WK attitude. Maybe 85% BK to 15% WK. Once you get into the relationship it shifts a little bit to maybe like 25% WK at the most.
But I'm digressing from my point. Even in a relationship, you're going to kill it if you're texting her 100s of times every day. She'll forgive more behavior like this cuz you're commited already, but it's not going to add any value to your situation or help you in any way.
Essentially, you're just telling her subconscious that you're constantly available and have nothing more important to do with your life than punch your fingers on your phone all day. Familiarity breeds contempt, which kills attraction.
I'm not saying that this is what caused her to not text you and her to be all pissy with you now (even tho you're totally justified to be mad), but I guarantee it's a contributing factor. If she was really into you, she would have found time to message you during the night out. This is very obvious to everyone, I think.
I agree that the dynamic changes once you're into a relationship to some extent. Before the relationship I've found it's obviously more optimal to have a higher ratio of BK to WK attitude. Maybe 85% BK to 15% WK. Once you get into the relationship it shifts a little bit to maybe like 25% WK at the most.
But I'm digressing from my point. Even in a relationship, you're going to kill it if you're texting her 100s of times every day. She'll forgive more behavior like this cuz you're commited already, but it's not going to add any value to your situation or help you in any way.
Essentially, you're just telling her subconscious that you're constantly available and have nothing more important to do with your life than punch your fingers on your phone all day. Familiarity breeds contempt, which kills attraction.
I'm not saying that this is what caused her to not text you and her to be all pissy with you now (even tho you're totally justified to be mad), but I guarantee it's a contributing factor. If she was really into you, she would have found time to message you during the night out. This is very obvious to everyone, I think.
Hopefully OP will make the right choice now and go NC.
OP keep us updated on the typical sloot banter once she realizes you've stopped responding. Those are always gold.
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Originally Posted By StinkholePatrol⏩
Am pretty much set on NC unless she starts texting something that makes me believe she actually understands what's wrong with the scenario.Good post mang, repped.
Hopefully OP will make the right choice now and go NC.
OP keep us updated on the typical sloot banter once she realizes you've stopped responding. Those are always gold.
Hopefully OP will make the right choice now and go NC.
OP keep us updated on the typical sloot banter once she realizes you've stopped responding. Those are always gold.
This is part of why I normally don't date girls 6+ years younger than me...
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Originally Posted By LinuxJon⏩
Na brah she was home at 2am. I just didnt finish with her until 6Well, she's pissed I'm upset. And says she only got 5 hours sleep and is too tired for this. Which means she got home at ~6am
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Originally Posted By LinuxJon⏩
lmfaoWell, she's pissed I'm upset. And says she only got 5 hours sleep and is too tired for this. Which means she got home at ~6am
PLEASEEEEEEEEE fukking tell me u have at LEAST one testicle and ended it
For fuks sake don't be that big of a cuck and stay with her
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