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Thread: Crush who turned me down years ago is now interested in me. Wat do?

post 1467347811 10-20-2016, 06:21 AM
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Inb4... FML misc. She turned me down again.

Keep walking away, my friend. Just keep walking away. Any hurt you felt from her turning you down before has been rectified. Keep it that way.
post 1467347891 10-20-2016, 06:22 AM
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fuk her, jizz on her face. Post pictures of her jizz face on misc for reps
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post 1467347941 10-20-2016, 06:23 AM
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If she can't handle you when you are skinny then she doesn't deserve you when you are buff.
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post 1467347991 10-20-2016, 06:24 AM
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
Anyone else had this happen to them? A girl who was uninterested in you before started becoming interested in you after you got a bit more muscular or mature?
Sort of. There was a girl I was into who turned down my advances, but I ran into her again a year later and I ended up smashing. That said, I was already 30, so it's not like I looked any different. I suppose I was just more confident and aggressive the second time around.

As for your situation, if you genuinely think you have a shot, no reason not to hit it.
Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
Well she flirted with me at first, then I asked her out and she said, "haha no thank you."Then went and told everyone I was a creep. So it was quite rude. She phuck ed up my confidence a lot breh.
Wtf. I missed this part. Did she really tell people that you're a creep? Then no, don't bother with her.

As for thinking her flirtations were a big deal, a lot of young, inexperienced guys make that mistake. Flirting doesn't mean much, and inexperienced guys tend to to make things seem like a bigger deal than they really are (OMG, she smiled and touched my arm!). I made similar mistakes when I was much younger.
post 1467348111 10-20-2016, 06:26 AM
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Originally Posted By RichPianoOil⏩
You're a bitch if you go back to her she is disgusting and vile i wouldn't ever want to even sit next to her on a bus

i need a real food shake **** this ****
The red is right and fortunately OP seems to agree. Misc needs to understand that pulling tail should be on your terms with no need to ever be with someone that you do not respect.

Your dignity and standards are things that you should never compromise.
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post 1467349291 10-20-2016, 06:43 AM
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I don't believe in second chances so, she was too good for you then and now she is still too good for you.
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post 1467349721 10-20-2016, 06:47 AM
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Originally Posted By joshewwah⏩
https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/...f_with_you_in/


cliffs:

-Don't even bother with women who wait at the finish line of your journey to success
-Most girls, like this one will only want you went you are at your peak/successful, when you are down, depressed and poor they don't want anything associated with you
-Only a proper partner will stick with you all the way through ups and downs, not just during the ups

just disregard and move on
I knew this was true intuitively, but seeing this happen just so plainly just blew my mind.
Originally Posted By badlasagna⏩
sounds like this chick has complete control over your feelings and thoughts. she rejects you and you live a life of regret. she starts to talk to you and your life is flipped upside down and you don't know which way is up.

get a spine. :P
Bruh, you have no idea what she did to my confidence. I didn't ask a girl out or flirt with another girl a year after she turned me down the way she did. I was too paranoid of that happening again.
Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
Jesus do all of you get this butthurt over rejections?

3 years ago so I'm going to assume HS.
She was a kid. OP was a skinny *******.

OP she wasn't attracted to you before. You've worked hard to become more attractive. You probably carry yourself different with more confident body language than before. All these things make you more attractive.

You idiots I can see the thread now. I ran into a fat girl from HS that had a crush on me who's now hot! I asked her out and she said you had your chance in HS buddy. What a bish Misc!
Funny thing, my sister was fat but she recently decided to get into shape and she's now 130 lbs. Now, the guys who completely ignored her in the past are trying to ask her out and chit. She turns all of them down.

No, if I turned someone down before, I wouldn't change my mind just because they got hot. It's lacking integrity.
Originally Posted By Wisop⏩
It's understandable to not want to have sex with her with bad feelings if there are moral implications, instead take her on a nice date and get to know her on a deeper level. If she trusts you enough to be led then take a drive out to the country, stop at a layby somewhere and stand outside to watch the stars together. Say you've got got to fetch something quick, get in the drivers seat and drive away.
Lol, if I did that then she would die of hypothermia.
Originally Posted By GreenWave1⏩
Okay, it's time to pull up.

A person like that should not have such a powerful effect on your world view and emotional health. You are better than that.
She shouldn't have, but I was naive, and she was the first girl to ever flirt with me. I had no idea why she would flirt with me and then proceed to reject me in the worst possible way, and also make everyone think I'm a creep. And I did nothing wrong, I just asked her out on a date.
Originally Posted By thc
I don't believe in second chances so, she was too good for you then and now she is still too good for you.
Bullchit, I'm too good for her now.
post 1467349901 10-20-2016, 06:49 AM
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I'm gnna refresh the page again, since the pics aren't showing OP
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post 1467349961 10-20-2016, 06:49 AM
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post 1467349981 10-20-2016, 06:49 AM
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Originally Posted By EatnCleans⏩
I'm gnna refresh the page again, since the pics aren't showing OP
Second page, rep me later.
post 1467350601 10-20-2016, 06:56 AM
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now is the time to NC


edit: pics have now been viewed. now is the time to smash and dash.
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post 1467350861 10-20-2016, 06:59 AM
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
Second page, rep me later.
Apologies, I usually verify no pics before I proceed to talk chit


I wouldn't even bother smashing/dashing. She doesn't deserve that dink bro.
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post 1467350881 10-20-2016, 06:59 AM
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would definitely pump and dump her in this case.
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post 1467351231 10-20-2016, 07:02 AM
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Tell her

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post 1467353181 10-20-2016, 07:19 AM
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
Second page, rep me later.
You do understand that attraction is not a choice. That it's an instinct. You can't choose to be attracted to somebody. So you and your sister are holding people responsible for things outside their control.

The number one blanket advice given to men and women who's spouse has stopped having sex with them is hit the gym, lose fat and gain muscle. This is a fact.

Yes the way she handled your rejection( are you positive she called you a creep or was that hearsay?) If it was HS it's understandable that she may regret it. There's plenty of things I may have said or done 30 yrs ago that I regret today.

You should've never been that bothered by a single rejection never.


Look you do whatever you need just giving you a sane alternative perspective.
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post 1467353631 10-20-2016, 07:23 AM
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met a girl at work i was crushing on, we had a little fling but she decided to stay with her bf

i was pretty rustled, but this was like 4 years ago, bf made her move to a different city because of me (lol)

so this year, she breaks up with him, and suddenly remembers about me and starts e mailing me asking to meet up

so she comes to my city, i fukk her, get her out of my apartment the next morning and go NC

few months later was my birthday and this bish shows up at my place in the middle of the night unannounced with a cake, sushi and champagne

i was pretty pissed because i dont like surprises like that but i fukked her again and made her leave in the morning

she hasnt talked to me since, hahaha
post 1467358541 10-20-2016, 07:58 AM
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Had that happen. Rejected her. Felt better than smashing would've (srs)
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post 1467360101 10-20-2016, 08:10 AM
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Dude bang her and drop her like a hot potato
post 1467360951 10-20-2016, 08:15 AM
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no need to stoop so low to her level and fuk with her

you have won already since she came onto you now

if you do smash then that will give her the validation she wants
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post 1467361741 10-20-2016, 08:20 AM
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she's ****ing with you.
She's raising up her hand and when you go for that high-five you'll hit nothing but air.

Boy if you felt dumb last time you hit on her just wait til the second round.
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post 1467364841 10-20-2016, 08:40 AM
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I did this once to a girl I really liked then a year later she comes back to me and stupid me I fell for it. I was happy up until she dropped me like a bad habit and I was crushed. She did to me what she has been doing to others. I had to give myself closure since she just stopped talking to me one day and never came back. She was talking to another dude at the end of our relationship. Stupid kunt. Don't do it boyo.
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inb4 OP pursues and she rejects him AGAIN

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post 1467365941 10-20-2016, 08:47 AM
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Originally Posted By HaydeeDjinn⏩
she's ****ing with you.
She's raising up her hand and when you go for that high-five you'll hit nothing but air.

Boy if you felt dumb last time you hit on her just wait til the second round.
There's literally no way for me to hit on her. I didn't give her my phone number and I deleted hers. The only way would be for her to add me on fb.

Either way I don't trust her. She flirted with me as she had a boyfriend, and she apparently did this to a lot of guys from what I heard from a friend that I told this to last year. I'm over her completely, I just want her out of my life.
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Originally Posted By Sanguivorant⏩
Well she flirted with me at first, then I asked her out and she said, "haha no thank you." Then went and told everyone I was a creep. So it was quite rude. She phuck ed up my confidence a lot breh.
Yeah this is an obvious one. Do not give her even the satisfaction of the D. She isn't worth anything.
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Originally Posted By Thekittenking⏩
Yeah this is an obvious one. Do not give her even the satisfaction of the D. She isn't worth anything.
The more important question now is how do I forget what she did? I still get way too anxious to ask girls out and I'm suspicious of girls flirting with me still. I definitely let a few opportunities go because of the fear of being called a creep and turned down.
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Remind yourself of the anger and hatred you felt when she rejected and laughed at you and use those aggressive feelings to increase your power so that you can never be hurt again.


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go for a zero effort lay, then go NC either way brah, pretty obvious i feel like
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have some respect man
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Have had this in the workplace, going from fat to muscular. It's not worth it trust me. You will be used an abused because it's assumed that your confidence and self esteem are low. Just open yourself to new opportunities if you know what I mean - don't let yourself get played mate.
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