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post 1473268791 11-30-2016, 08:16 PM
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well at least his name isnt Tyrone
post 1473269381 11-30-2016, 08:20 PM
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2016 and people still ask if such disrespectful behavior is okay. If you were dating and serious this is a no go and even she would know. It seems like you are fwb's and keep it at that. Just lol at her best friend and her for 2 weeks, in fact I bet they have smashed before and she wouldn't even count it as her cheating as he is balls deep. Gl cuck
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post 1473269451 11-30-2016, 08:21 PM
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post 1473270221 11-30-2016, 08:28 PM
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did anyone stop to think maybe her best friend isn't ian??
post 1473270571 11-30-2016, 08:30 PM
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post 1473270971 11-30-2016, 08:34 PM
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Originally Posted By Benchbra
I've been talking to this girl for a little over a month and she just told me shes planning a trip with her best friend which is a guy.
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post 1473271091 11-30-2016, 08:35 PM
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Reminds me of a joke:

Guy hires a PI and tells him, "I think my wife is cheating, but I have my doubts. It's hard to be sure."

PI goes on a stakeout and reports that he "took photos of wife and another man going to a hotel, embracing, and then closing the blinds"

Guy says, "See! I told you there's no way to be sure!"
post 1473271261 11-30-2016, 08:36 PM
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how soon is this trip?
post 1473271391 11-30-2016, 08:37 PM
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Originally Posted By WHChampion
how soon is this trip?
Pretty sure it's in a few months.
post 1473271541 11-30-2016, 08:39 PM
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post 1473271851 11-30-2016, 08:41 PM
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post 1473271981 11-30-2016, 08:42 PM
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Originally Posted By Benchbra
Thanks for the advice man. Time to look for someone new.
I had a girlfriend like this once and I couldn't stand it.

I don't think she was cheating but why would she subject me to worry? I wouldn't do things like go on a trip or to the movies with a girl, so why should she with a guy?

It's a serious lack of respect.
If you want to ask me a question:

Ask: TheAdlerian

http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=150655983&p=1000366043#post1000366043

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post 1473272271 11-30-2016, 08:45 PM
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I can say with 350% accuracy...this will not end well
post 1473273171 11-30-2016, 08:52 PM
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Brah, go NC and delete her number. Sounds like you two aren't on the same page. You'll save yourself a lot of future headaches.
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post 1473273291 11-30-2016, 08:53 PM
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post 1473273571 11-30-2016, 08:55 PM
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Whatever happened to just talking to women and sort things out?

Ask her about Ian, if he's straight there's a 203894% change he's trying to smash. If they've never smashed before and he's her best friend from college then there's a 0% chance they're going to smash.
Of course, there's the chance she'd lie to you about never smashing so you don't worry and Ian attacks dat ass violently.

Both ways, you'll find out sooner or later. Is she worth you potentially getting hurt? Is she a genuine chick you see a future with?

If you wanna keep smashing then keep smashing, who cares about Ian putting his dink in your bish, she's not your property. But if you're serious then talk to her without sounding like a confrontational *******, you barely know the chick.
post 1473273651 11-30-2016, 08:56 PM
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OP I gotchoo brother,

heres' the game plan:


Dial her number on your phone
When answers, reach down and grip your balls at 25% strength
add 5% grip strength for every second you're on the line

As fast as you can, say "I'm not cool with it, I thought this was something it's not, we can still bang if you want but I'm going to look for someone else"

Then hang up, don't worry about what she has to say, she's just going to say some bullsh*t that SHOULD be true but isn't like: "You should trust me" or somethign like that.
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post 1473273771 11-30-2016, 08:58 PM
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Originally Posted By Flognutz
One of the reasons me and my ex of a year broke up.

She wanted to travel for a week with her best friend who is a guy, they have travelled to other countries before and her previous boyfriend let her. She said I don't trust her.

I said you don't do that in a relationship, it's disrespectful.

Imagine if the roles were reversed and you left her at home and went on a trip with another girl, fukin lol you would be single so quick OP

Get rid of her OP
Actually not true. Depends on the character of the person. Went on a week-long trip with a female friend just her and I at the same time that I was exclusive with gf for several months. Female friend and I had planned the trip out long time before dating gf so we didn't want to cancel our plans. We partied every night, got wasted, slept in the same bed even at times - I never made a single move on her, or tried to fcuk around. Came back, resumed things with gf.

Bottom line - depends on if you trust this bich. If you don't and she is still insisting on going on the trip, then dump her, you're just going to feel worse by allowing it to happen
post 1473274431 11-30-2016, 09:02 PM
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Originally Posted By Benchbra
Pretty sure it's in a few months.
Mardi Gras is in a few months... OP, Ian and all of Bourbon street are gonna see your girl's teddies.


But anyways, congrats to Ian for getting out of the friend zone. We're all gonna make it brahs
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post 1473275021 11-30-2016, 09:07 PM
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Relegate her to fuk buddy and smash others while she's away. When she comes back and is done with Ian and all the other randoms she meets tag teaming her you'll be too busy slaying other sloots to care.

In the meantime treat her like the cum dumpster she is
post 1473275431 11-30-2016, 09:09 PM
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress


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post 1473305571 12-01-2016, 04:39 AM
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I just went on a vacation as 'just friends' had known her for years and never smashed. Literally fuked non stop for a week because that is what you do on vacation - I don't think either of us had the intention when we made the plans.

Ian is only going to fuk your bitch, your girl may not know it...Ian might not know it... but it's going to happen. She shouldn't be putting you in this spot anyway. Don't break up with immediately though because that will guarantee a f fest for her. Just stay the course and break up after she returns.
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post 1473305601 12-01-2016, 04:40 AM
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Cool story OP hahah

Will read again hahah

You're cool hahah


































































Real talk: You're not dating this chick, get the fuk out of here.
post 1473305841 12-01-2016, 04:45 AM
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You caught feelings for a fukbuddy.

She got multiple fukbuddies and would rather travel with Ian than with you.

How does that make you feel?
post 1473306131 12-01-2016, 04:50 AM
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Do you have feels for her?

Yes - talk to her about it

No - continue to have the sexors and no care

Really not that complicated
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress
fukking lmao, how did everyone miss this. repped
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post 1473306461 12-01-2016, 04:57 AM
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She doesn't see the same relationship as you do bruh, you are more likely a fuk buddy
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post 1473339311 12-01-2016, 10:43 AM
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Don't listen to these other *******s. This is what you're gonna do OP:

-You're gonna not bring it up again
-She's gonna go on the trip
-During the trip/when she gets back you start to distance yourself. The sending 20 texts a day turns into 5 texts a day
-This will subconsciously make her more attracted to you
-You keep piping her out while starting to talk to other girls
-Find one you really like, cut off contact with the old bish and break her heart

Game over, you win. Nothing makes girls dryer then a insecure beta
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lmfao if you think they won't be smashing on the beach
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