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Teen who was relentlessly bullied kills herself in front of her family
Teen who was relentlessly bullied kills herself in front of her family
12-01-2016, 04:30 PM
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http://www.cnn.com/2016/12/01/health...rnd/index.html
Story highlights
She reported the harassment to police before she died
Police are now investigating suspects behind the bullying
Vela killed herself this week, putting a gun to her chest while her family begged her not to. She was 18 years old -- and she had been relentlessly bullied.
sad story misc. a reminder to NEVER allow anyone else to determine your self worth or happiness. NO ONE ELSE has a right to do that.
Story highlights
She reported the harassment to police before she died
Police are now investigating suspects behind the bullying
Vela killed herself this week, putting a gun to her chest while her family begged her not to. She was 18 years old -- and she had been relentlessly bullied.
sad story misc. a reminder to NEVER allow anyone else to determine your self worth or happiness. NO ONE ELSE has a right to do that.
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12-01-2016, 04:34 PM
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what bothers me is the first few lines of the article
"Brandy Vela's bedroom is covered in Post-it notes. "You will always own a piece of my heart," says one. "You will never be forgotten," says another."
where the **** were these people when she was alive???
"Brandy Vela's bedroom is covered in Post-it notes. "You will always own a piece of my heart," says one. "You will never be forgotten," says another."
where the **** were these people when she was alive???
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12-01-2016, 04:35 PM
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Originally Posted By AcetylCoA⏩
pretty fukin hard to do, unless you're a monkhttp://www.cnn.com/2016/12/01/health...rnd/index.html
Story highlights
She reported the harassment to police before she died
Police are now investigating suspects behind the bullying
Vela killed herself this week, putting a gun to her chest while her family begged her not to. She was 18 years old -- and she had been relentlessly bullied.
sad story misc. a reminder to NEVER allow anyone else to determine your self worth or happiness. NO ONE ELSE has a right to do that.
Story highlights
She reported the harassment to police before she died
Police are now investigating suspects behind the bullying
Vela killed herself this week, putting a gun to her chest while her family begged her not to. She was 18 years old -- and she had been relentlessly bullied.
sad story misc. a reminder to NEVER allow anyone else to determine your self worth or happiness. NO ONE ELSE has a right to do that.
12-01-2016, 04:36 PM
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12-01-2016, 04:36 PM
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12-01-2016, 04:37 PM
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Originally Posted By Beauuu⏩
bro im confused as chit at this. idk whether monks have amazing self control or they just destroy themselves so they dont want anything. the former is much harderpretty fukin hard to do, unless you're a monk
verbal abuse is weird. tough to say anything specifically did it, but undoubtedly if you stuck someone in a room with relentless lambasting there would be a breaking point
12-01-2016, 04:37 PM
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12-01-2016, 04:39 PM
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SMH that she'd rather off herself than just lose weight.
12-01-2016, 04:40 PM
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12-01-2016, 04:41 PM
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Fukk all bullies. With that said though, where were all these people that are now crying now that she's dead. They're just as bad, if not worse than the bullies themselves.
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12-01-2016, 04:43 PM
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Originally Posted By sv722⏩
I mean there is only so much they could do when they dont know the source of the bullying. It was reported to the school and the police (who said they couldnt help), what were a bunch of other teenagers supposed to do about it?Fukk all bullies. With that said though, where were all these people that are now crying now that she's dead. They're just as bad, if not worse than the bullies themselves.
12-01-2016, 04:43 PM
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12-01-2016, 04:44 PM
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Originally Posted By Didlid⏩
I was wondering about this and Ive come to the conclusion he might not be saying that to her, but rather saying it sarcastically to the people who did this to her. either way, i think he's just numb from the pain and is trying so hard not to let the emotions crush him, that he's resorted to now showing any. he's probably repressing how he feels.Lol @ how stubborn that brother is jesus. No wonder she done that when he brother says things like "Hope you're happy"
12-01-2016, 04:45 PM
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Raising a 12 year old girl brahs.
I swear to you, raising females is the worst thing in the world, the hardest.
Good god man, the chit they say to each other, little girls, its incredible.
They make little clicks, they talk bad about each other, manipulate each other.
Unbeliveable how women can be.
Especially nowadays with social media, she shows me snapchats of her friends, imagine a 12 year old saying things like choke me baby, or lewd sexual innunedos showing on their social media. Just unbeliveable.
My question is, where was the family, I dont want to judge, but where were they?
I swear to you, raising females is the worst thing in the world, the hardest.
Good god man, the chit they say to each other, little girls, its incredible.
They make little clicks, they talk bad about each other, manipulate each other.
Unbeliveable how women can be.
Especially nowadays with social media, she shows me snapchats of her friends, imagine a 12 year old saying things like choke me baby, or lewd sexual innunedos showing on their social media. Just unbeliveable.
My question is, where was the family, I dont want to judge, but where were they?
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12-01-2016, 04:45 PM
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12-01-2016, 04:46 PM
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Only the strong survive, if she kills herself because of some petty bullying i cant imagine what she would of been like when she grew up
I was bullied from grade 4 to grade 12, due to that i had no friends, fat as fuk (almost 300), literally played video games 15hrs a day because too scared to go outside or to school most days, had sever anxiety, socially awkward as fuk, but you know what i pushed through their bs and knew i was the better person.
Now look at me, tall, aesthetic, decent physique, confident and charasmatic, have a good amount of close friends, and is quite lucky with the females.
It did take me all of college to attain those attributes but i finally made it.
I was bullied from grade 4 to grade 12, due to that i had no friends, fat as fuk (almost 300), literally played video games 15hrs a day because too scared to go outside or to school most days, had sever anxiety, socially awkward as fuk, but you know what i pushed through their bs and knew i was the better person.
Now look at me, tall, aesthetic, decent physique, confident and charasmatic, have a good amount of close friends, and is quite lucky with the females.
It did take me all of college to attain those attributes but i finally made it.
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12-01-2016, 04:48 PM
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Originally Posted By NotBigEnough206⏩
I have always said this, it's not men that keep women down it's other women. Women are so fkin mean to each other it's unreal, none of them talk honest to each other it's all behind each others backs. My gran has told me many stories, she was a slamming blonde babe basically and the amount of petty hate and jealousy she has gotten from wifes and women over the year is insane.Raising a 12 year old girl brahs.
I swear to you, raising females is the worst thing in the world, the hardest.
Good god man, the chit they say to each other, little girls, its incredible.
They make little clicks, they talk bad about each other, manipulate each other.
Unbeliveable how women can be.
Especially nowadays with social media, she shows me snapchats of her friends, imagine a 12 year old saying things like choke me baby, or lewd sexual innunedos showing on their social media. Just unbeliveable.
My question is, where was the family, I dont want to judge, but where were they?
I swear to you, raising females is the worst thing in the world, the hardest.
Good god man, the chit they say to each other, little girls, its incredible.
They make little clicks, they talk bad about each other, manipulate each other.
Unbeliveable how women can be.
Especially nowadays with social media, she shows me snapchats of her friends, imagine a 12 year old saying things like choke me baby, or lewd sexual innunedos showing on their social media. Just unbeliveable.
My question is, where was the family, I dont want to judge, but where were they?
12-01-2016, 04:50 PM
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Originally Posted By Courwes⏩
"In the End, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends" - Martin Luther King Jr.I mean there is only so much they could do when they dont know the source of the bullying. It was reported to the school and the police (who said they couldnt help), what were a bunch of other teenagers supposed to do about it?
I got bullied pretty bad and i almost topped myself, i just didn't have the guts to go through with it. "Friends" stood by while i got picked on. It made me realise that most people are kunts who only care about themselves.
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12-01-2016, 04:50 PM
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Originally Posted By Beauuu⏩
Then im a mothafukin monkpretty fukin hard to do, unless you're a monk
12-01-2016, 04:51 PM
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Originally Posted By Codo⏩
its a world full of people trying to one up youDoes anyone else resent suicides?
It's Like, how f*cking dare you take the exit door. None of us are enjoying this sh*t.
It's Like, how f*cking dare you take the exit door. None of us are enjoying this sh*t.
and the other half trying to convince you you're guilty of trying to survive
as long as you know people are just trying to weasel their way through chit i think life's awesome
fukin remarkable its even a thing
if you think about a speck of dust floating along in the universe that just HAPPENS to have the ability to harvest life (as we know it). the amount of chit that had to come together to make that happen is amazing. hell, we haven't found another planet in the universe that contains intelligent life
12-01-2016, 04:52 PM
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Originally Posted By PotatoLane⏩
bruh if she's killing herself pretty good bet she didn't have a support system.Somewhere there's a child dying of cancer that just wishes to be healthy and this girl goes and kills herself because some girls called her fat on social media.
It's sad, yea, but there were numerous routes she could have taken if it was THAT bad. Plus at 18 wasn't she at the brink of graduating and probably never seeing those girls again?
It's sad, yea, but there were numerous routes she could have taken if it was THAT bad. Plus at 18 wasn't she at the brink of graduating and probably never seeing those girls again?
just wagering that her home life was pretty tumultuous.
definitely more going on than fat shaming on social media
12-01-2016, 04:53 PM
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I was bullied as I child...not fun
12-01-2016, 04:55 PM
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Originally Posted By Comboking⏩
you're so strong and braveOnly the strong survive, if she kills herself because of some petty bullying i cant imagine what she would of been like when she grew up
I was bullied from grade 4 to grade 12, due to that i had no friends, fat as fuk (almost 300), literally played video games 15hrs a day because too scared to go outside or to school most days, had sever anxiety, socially awkward as fuk, but you know what i pushed through their bs and knew i was the better person.
Now look at me, tall, aesthetic, decent physique, confident and charasmatic, have a good amount of close friends, and is quite lucky with the females.
It did take me all of college to attain those attributes but i finally made it.
I was bullied from grade 4 to grade 12, due to that i had no friends, fat as fuk (almost 300), literally played video games 15hrs a day because too scared to go outside or to school most days, had sever anxiety, socially awkward as fuk, but you know what i pushed through their bs and knew i was the better person.
Now look at me, tall, aesthetic, decent physique, confident and charasmatic, have a good amount of close friends, and is quite lucky with the females.
It did take me all of college to attain those attributes but i finally made it.
12-01-2016, 04:56 PM
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Originally Posted By PotatoLane⏩
if girls had to put up with the same chit guys do suicide rates would be off the charts srsmeanwhile on misc
"Being a man sucks women have such easy lives and are all happy they're the gate keepers of nature and control us, should I be a twink?"
"Being a man sucks women have such easy lives and are all happy they're the gate keepers of nature and control us, should I be a twink?"
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Makes me sad as fuk to hear about this sort of stuff
No doubt the parents of the bullies are proponents of the hands-off style of parenting and think their kids can do no harm. Parents of bullies should be locked up as punishment
No doubt the parents of the bullies are proponents of the hands-off style of parenting and think their kids can do no harm. Parents of bullies should be locked up as punishment
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12-01-2016, 04:57 PM
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Originally Posted By PotatoLane⏩
I'm guessing she had some sort of, probably undiagnosed, mental illness. Someone who was totally healthy upstairs probably wouldn't have offed themselves like this. It's a shame so many forms of mental illness are still so misunderstood and under recognized.It's sad, yea, but there were numerous routes she could have taken if it was THAT bad. Plus at 18 wasn't she at the brink of graduating and probably never seeing those girls again?
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12-01-2016, 04:59 PM
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Unfor bullying is just a part of nature and it will never end, nothing will ever change the fact we are mere animals who get a dopamine rush off dominating others/ showing who the alpha is, this chit is ingrained in our DNA and it is never going away. We can do our best to reduce it through social engineering at a young age to all kids but those primal urges will never ever leave.
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I understand mental illness and depression are extremely serious things, but assuming pity is a finite feeling, I really do not have much for these people. Yes getting bullied, even physically assaulted is a horrible thing that no one should have to go through. But compared to actual horrendous experiences in life: starvation, serious physical abuse and violence, terminal illnesses, lifelong disabilities, losses of spouses or kids, etc. Ending your life over bullying and subjecting your loved ones to years of hell and sorrow really is unforgivable imo
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12-01-2016, 05:04 PM
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Originally Posted By Beauuu⏩
actually really easy to do unless you're a bitch, (which you are)pretty fukin hard to do, unless you're a monk
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