I don't think anyone is taking him seriously except jaded Misc FA virgins, so we're okay there.

I'm so glad I didn't get knocked up by a 25 year old who brags about his bitches and hoes on an internet forum.I am a female, why would I be mad that you for banging A&F bitches and hoes, other than feeling bad for the 40 year old mother of your child?

You are asking about my skillz with women? Do you mean with women like the ones from high school with whom I met at the tea parlor? Women don't spend money on me because I'm a woman, lol.

This guy is hilarious. US Ranger always attracts such colorful posters.

Thanks for the feedback, bro. After the book came out and blew up, people started offering me money to talk with them 1 on 1 for advice. That was in spring of 2014. My "life coaching" business was born and I've never looked back. I coach celebrities, executives, normal people... you name it. I really enjoy it. Currently am planning a follow up book for later this year.Thanks brother. Yeah, I'm more or less describing the insane realization that you just met someone you love. No idea how to articulate this in any more clear terms than that."Still Breathin' The Wisdom & Teachings of a Perfectly Flawed Man"
https://www.amazon.com/Still-Breathi...brenden+dilley

Well, that's actually way different than most people her age.
have fun while it lasts.

I read all 26 Pages of this, This is really what I have to look forward to entering the dating world again? Ugh..

Back ground on me a little bit if you don't mind Ranger?

Just got out of a 15 year marriage. Was gonna stay single for a long time to just deal with it. You know go out with friends on the weekend. One weekend this girl was chasing me hard, Felt nice after 15 years. Plus she was a 8/10 She just got out of a 13 year marriage as well. (Will never do that again) We were in a relationship for 4 months and she broke it off cause she was still not over her ex.

Anyways Fast forward to today.

Been single for 2 months. Been trying Bumble, Tinder, Match (hard to do anything on match Cause my ex wife and her friends are all over my stuff on there.) OKcupid, Eharmony (trash) POF (trash) Anyways, All the dating apps.

I've met and talked to quite a few girls. And I've seen nothing but the same. Flake, Flake, Ghost, Ghost, Ghost. For no reason at all.

When I first got married i started my own company, And worked all throughout my 20's 7 days a week 18 hours a day. Now today I have 30 employees so I'm pretty set Career wise. Workout 6 days a week, Gaining confidence slowly, hard to maintain that when I keep getting ghosted and flaked on.

In 2002 **** was never like this. I never got once flaked on or ghosted or anything. This flaking and ghosting stuff is completely foreign to me and frustrating as hell.

Glad to see after all those crappy dates though that you are finally having some success, Makes me feel like there is some hope lol.

Yes, it's normalized now and the younger generation perceive it as morally OK to just flake/ghost. Social media means women are just constantly hit up by thirsty WKs (aka men). What age are the women you're targeting?

About 25-37 I'm finding I'm getting most dates or talking to the most women in the 30-34 Range though.

Damn, it's worse than I thought. I've never been flaked on, but I have had some of that ghosting on the apps - although truthfully I have probably not responded to some women on the apps too.

The flaking doesn't bother me as much. I get it people got stuff going on or something comes up. But the ghosting after great dates very similiar to what happened ranger making out for like 30 mins. Text me like 20 mins after saying how much fun it was and can't wait to see me again. Than outta nowhere silence lol. Drives me nuts.

Flaking is the most disrespectful imo - setting up a date and then ignoring it or canceling last second. I believe this is what US Ranger has experienced.

Back from banned camp I see. Hope you moved on from that chirtty woman.

Well, you're already knee deep in the bull****. My only advice to you (since it seems you have a solid head on your shoulders) would be to delete all that online dating crap except for maybe one of them and keep to the old fashioned way.

It is now socially acceptable to ghost/flake on people. Even some of the kids I used to coach at the local high school (they're all in their 20's now) flake/ghost people all the time. They're like "yeah, didn't bother showing up to the date..." and stuff like that. It's completely normal now. It's so normal that even the people closer to our age are doing it. This is especially true for people (especially women) online. They're getting all their attention rush and then they can just turn it off like the young kids do.

2002 was a different era bud. I didn't even have a cell phone back then. If I wanted to meet someone, I had to call their house. Maybe, MAYBE, they had a phone with a separate line in their room. It wasn't until 2005 or so when the whole cell phone thing started becoming super normal. Even then, coverage sucked and people didn't have it glued to their face.

I've met good women online but most of them are a complete joke and just ghost whenever it's convenient. I wouldn't put much stock into finding a diamond. You might get lucky but you're going to most likely burn out before then.

Also, what the hell happened with your marriage? Do you have kids? Do you know how to be single? Details motherfcker. Lol.

UPDATE:

-Big test today
-Did well, hit up the restaurant where 21 year old slid her number to me
-She was there as our waitress
-Half the class was there, giving me mad props because she's really attractive
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-Hung out at her place for awhile after

***Some things I notice about myself. I automatically slide into the boyfriend role even if I don't want to. I really dislike that and I wish I didn't do it but it seems the natural way for me. For instance, waitress girl needs help putting stuff together at her new place. She asks if I can do it. Without even thinking about it, I say yes. Of course I'm going to help her put together cabinets, shelves, move something heavy, etc. It's guy stuff, it's easy. I always do this **** and I don't know why. I should somehow make the connection that it's not a boyfriend/girlfriend deal and that there needs to be more boundaries but I don't know how to be an *******.

How do you guys do it? Just say "Handle it yourself" and bounce. I don't get it. If a woman you're not technically dating and don't want to date needs help moving a dresser, do you just tell her to fck off? Lol.




-19 year old calls me last night right when I'm going to bed to get a solid 7 hours of sleep for my test
-She unloads on me for 30 minutes straight, tells me she can't do it anymore (do what anymore?)
-Tells me she's stressed out about school
-Tells me she has no time for me
-Tells me I'm not a priority
-I tell her I agree with all of it, school comes first, etc and don't worry about seeing me soon if she's stressed, we can meet up another time
-Even after all this, she tells me that her time could be better spent doing other things rather than seeing me
-I tell her that's quite an insult but I'm not going to take it personally and that I'm going to bed because I have a big test (this is a good job on my part because I'd normally tell a chick to fck off and I'm done with her at this point)
-Right before hanging up, she says "We should just be friends instead"
-I say "ok, goodnight"
-That's that

-She just calls me now after I get home and is crying on the phone saying she's sorry and that I deserve better
-She wants to see me but she's afraid she ruined everything
-She's scared I don't want her anymore, etc

What in the fck.....

Anyway, told her I'll just talk to her tomorrow, she's super sad, crying, etc

No idea what I'm going to do with this one. I think she finally realizes that taking a dump on me right before my test and going hot/cold 4 times now is loser level status. She understands it, not sure if I should give it another chance and see her or not. My thought is that I will see her and I'm going to tell her straight up that I'm not talking about anything relating to being exclusive, not talking about the future, not talking about anything other than surface level stuff and then I can disregard when we're not banging because I'm not going to put up with that crap. Not going to lie, definitely want to bang again.

What a weird day.

An emotional, dramatic 19 year old, it's kinda funny how obvious her bait tactic was.

No offense Ranger but shes fawkin 19...what do you expect?

Just keep pumping...

oh and as far as NOT doing bf like things for a chick...just say sorry! I really gotta go, got friends waiting on me. boom!

if THEY want it to be just banging thats all they're entitled to... I help people for a living and volunteer doing similar things...I'm jaded as phuck though in the women category..they wanna be all indepdent and bla bla bla phuck em...they can fend for themselves..lol

Just a weird, weird thing to do to people. Doesn't make sense to me but whatever. Guess I'll have to get used to it.

In regards of what happened to my marriage. There was so much stuff. I'll just put a few cliff notes for it.

- Married at 22 She was 20
- Complete Opposites
- Nothing in common
- She was so insecure that there would be periods of 8 to 9 months were I never saw another person except for her I worked from home starting my company.
- If I did leave the house to see friends or head to the bar, She wouldn't speak to me for a week or longer.

I could go on and on lol. Anyway final straw for me was i went out with a few friends. Checking in every hour or so got home at 4am and she had filed a missing person and the police were there. I was done after that. Lived outta a hotel for a few months, Rented a corporate Apt. And Just last month was finally able to get my house back.

Yes, We have 2 kids. A 14 year old Son and a 6 Year old daughter.

Honestly, I have no idea how to be single. It's been so long. But whatever, I'll learn very quickly. I've gone on a lot of dates and talked to a lot of people in these last 2 months. I guess the good thing about the dating apps and talking to all these people and such it's giving me some experience. So I can learn what to say and what not to say etc. etc.

It's all a learning experience. Just the ghosting though, Not quite sure I'll ever understand it.

Wow, the 19 year old guys and girls play the same retarded games.

But think about it, she's barely out of high school so her feelings will be all over the place.

She probably thinks the she will be your girlfriend and doesn't know how to be a girlfriend to someone 16 years older than she is, so her brain is panicking by the minute. That's almost twice her age.

19 year old guys don't think that way about older women because they see it as just sex, but 19 year old girls most likely think that you will be in a relationship soon.

Just because it's easy and/or guy stuff doesn't mean you have to do it. Honestly if a chick is asking for favors this early on I see it as a chit test anyway, she barely knows you and surely has other people that can help. You don't have to be an a-hole about it, just say you've got plans that day or are swamped with school/work etc. There's a time/place for being the nice guy and it's not when you barely know a chick and have no intentions of dating her.

As for the 19 year old you should have seen this coming. The majority are bound to be hot/cold emotional wrecks with no idea what they want out of a man.

This, FU3L is great to give us rational feedback when we think that 19 year olds are better partners because they are less jaded than those our age.

They are less jaded and appear to be "more fun" and excited about life, but then they will break it off out of nowhere, and want to get back together the next day.

Typical high school behavior.

As for the 21 year old, now you are doing her favors for sex. Pretty standard sex for resources exchange.

She's also progressing the relationship beyond FWB.

19 year old, I wouldn't have a big talk with her, I'd just tune her out of my life TBH but that's me. You can probably still carry on busting nuts if you like and I suspect the key to that would be to be less available and just ignore whatever she's saying.

I don't think it's a bad thing to help out 21 yo. I don't mind paying pretty much anyone an easy favor - I've asked for plenty myself, so that falls under "not being a kunt" IMO. But it seems clear that she's just pushing on you to see if you're willing to fill that bf role. You're going to have to address that some time, and it shouldn't be too hard. You know what you want and aren't willing to play games, so I bet you will have a good idea on where to draw the line

Lots of testing this week, lots of work too. I just checked my fitbit status (yeah I bought one, blow me) and I haven't slept more than 6 hours a night in about 10 days now. This isn't good. I feel energized but I know it's not real energy. I have nothing to do on Sunday so I'm going to try and sleep about 12 hours if I can.

UPDATE:

-21 year old is still all about me
-She met pretty much everyone from my class when we came in after a test
-They all think she's extremely attractive
-Really like being around her but absolutely nothing that says I want to date her in my mind, I feel bad to be honest
-Haven't seen her much because I've been so busy

-19 year old blew up on me then apologized
-Met up with her again, probably my worst performance sexually I've had in years (ayyyy lmao)
-Just didn't feel it mentally but I think it's because I'm working 2 jobs and doing school double full time
-She still texts me saying she's thinking about me and misses me, just live 40 minutes apart and she has all her crap going on too so we don't get to hang out much


So pretty much err'thing is the same for now. Just busy. With gym time, yoga and meal prep, that's pretty much my entire day. A lot of guys in my class have gained about 15-20 pounds and look like crap. Not me lol. I've lost 5-8 pounds and I'm looking pretty lean. I don't get people who let busy lives completely ruin their exercise time.




Oh, also:

-Saw nurse girl that mega-rejected me again
-Made eye contact, she looked away and that was the end of it
-She goes to the same gym (saw her in there too) so maybe I'll bump into her sometime

-Also saw dude who called me out after mega-rejection, he saw me walking down the hall and just started cracking up, such is life

19 y/o still takin that DICK I see..

And guess what......

rawdawgg'd that shiit yo.

Did you bust all kindza nuts DEEEEEEP inside?

best post in this thread along with Ranger's previous one!

roll the fawkin dizeee

Why, what happened? You came only after 5 thrusts or something...?

You giving out advice and then saying this reminds me of Sean Hannity saying on Fox News once "Rich people are getting money every day. Why can't everyone elsejust do it.

Granted Im certain he knows he talks out of his ass, but for some people they just can't really seem to warp their minds around other peoples problems.

Nah, pullout game was on point though. Lol.Just didn't feel like banging her even though she's hot. She's 19 and dumb as a fcking brick.


Me: Hey <girl>, do you want to get some Pho for dinner?
Her: Pho? You just made that word up.
Me: No, it's an Asian dish, tastes really good
Her: I don't believe you.
Me: /facepalm



Me: Hey, are you going to be able to find your way out of the condo complex I'm in?
Her: Yes, you don't believe me?
Me: Just wanted to make sure you know how to get out of here, there's 200+ units
Her: I can find my way out!
*5 minutes later my phone rings*
Her: I'm lost in your complex



**** like this. Her body is amazing, beautiful face but if I'm not 7+ days without some sort of fapping/getting laid then I don't give a **** and I can't manage to put in a bunch of effort to make it good. I've only banged her a few times and I'm already sick of being around her. I just need a solid 8+ hours of sleep and I should be good. Sleep is everything.