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Thread: If your girl has male orbiters, you're getting cucked

post 1481527441 01-31-2017, 01:04 PM
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I'm pretty sure its the exact opposite seeing how the boyfriend is ****ing the girl while the orbiters are watching.
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Originally Posted By youngbuck88⏩
If you tell a girl she cant have any male friends,you automatically qualify as beta and weak in her mind.
True. That doesn't mean you allow her to text guys all day or go on cinema/drinks outings though.
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95% of girls will have orbiters.
Lol, lmfao
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Any attractive girl is going to have several options waiting for her
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post 1481528571 01-31-2017, 01:11 PM
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Originally Posted By BleepBlah⏩
True. That doesn't mean you allow her to text guys all day or go on cinema/drinks outings though.
Yeah going out w other guys 1on1 ,fcuk no. Texting is so hard to avoid these days w all the social media.I told the current girl Im talking to when we get serious or move in,we are deleting all social media bc that **** causes so much drama. Why the hell do we need snapchat or instagram?
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post 1481531781 01-31-2017, 01:30 PM
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Originally Posted By BleepBlah⏩
Every girl has orbiters. You can't stop them. They'll be at her place of work, when she's out shopping etc.

What you can control is what you stand for. She's want to spend one on one time with a male 'friend'? Say no. That's not insecurity. That's setting boundaries. If she does it anyway, you dump her.
Right. Its about entertaining advances and attention from other men
Originally Posted By youngbuck88⏩
Yeah going out w other guys 1on1 ,fcuk no. Texting is so hard to avoid these days w all the social media.I told the current girl Im talking to when we get serious or move in,we are deleting all social media bc that **** causes so much drama. Why the hell do we need snapchat or instagram?
That's not going to go over well
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post 1481531901 01-31-2017, 01:31 PM
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Originally Posted By arn710⏩
That's not going to go over well
Why so ?
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post 1481534471 01-31-2017, 01:47 PM
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There is never any valid reason for a female to interact with other males (who aren't cashiers/store employees/taxi drivers or whatever) when she has a boyfriend she plans to spend her life with. Zero. What is the purpose of a girl letting random men follow her on social media? What is the purpose of a girl letting random men see, like, or comment on photos of her on social media? What is the purpose of a girl texting a guy who isn't her partner? What is the purpose of a girl spending time with a guy who isn't her partner? None of this has an answer because it simply can't have a purpose that isn't disrespectful to her partner. Men and women cannot be friends. Friendship has zero sexual attraction frombothends. 99/100 times the men who seek "friendship" from women are desperate losers who would drop everything to sleep with her given the opportunity.
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Originally Posted By youngbuck88⏩
Why so ?
Its extreme. There's no need to isolate yourself like that
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Originally Posted By ZBRACFOGNIK⏩
There is never any valid reason for a female to interact with other males (who aren't cashiers/store employees/taxi drivers or whatever) when she has a boyfriend she plans to spend her life with. Zero. What is the purpose of a girl letting random men follow her on social media? What is the purpose of a girl letting random men see, like, or comment on photos of her on social media? What is the purpose of a girl texting a guy who isn't her partner? What is the purpose of a girl spending time with a guy who isn't her partner? None of this has an answer because it simply can't have a purpose that isn't disrespectful to her partner. Men and women cannot be friends. Friendship has zero sexual attraction frombothends. 99/100 times the men who seek "friendship" from women are desperate losers who would drop everything to sleep with her given the opportunity.
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post 1481539921 01-31-2017, 02:19 PM
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Originally Posted By youngbuck88⏩
Why so ?
It will happen on your end, it won't on hers. She'll devise a way to get her little apps to check on her phone somehow, through trickery or flat out lies.

You may want to drop that whole idea to be honest. You'll just get flustered in 4 months when she showers or takes out the trash one day and you see all the chit on her phone still hidden in wacky "SCHOOL STUFF" folders.
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post 1481540511 01-31-2017, 02:23 PM
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Originally Posted By youngbuck88⏩
Why so ?
because shes a female

social media is everything to them
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post 1481540831 01-31-2017, 02:25 PM
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All right time for some not-FA to speak. if you have a hot chick she will be mired by guys and approached by Chads there is nothing you can do about it. Just believe you're the best she can have and sleep lighthearted. A hot chick knowing of her beauty does not need to prove it to herself cause she knows it. A less attractive girl is more prone to cheating on you cause it will boost your selfesteem.
+ Think of how many times has a girl cheated when on a girls' night out? A girl with mostly female collegues with not so many male friends. A lot. Let that sink into your FA autistic brains.
But of course if you're already a Chad, you know this.
post 1481541391 01-31-2017, 02:29 PM
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Lol at never speaking to the opposite sex if you have a partner.

Lol at living that sort of life.
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post 1481541851 01-31-2017, 02:32 PM
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Originally Posted By arn710⏩
My wife had some when we got serious

I told her they could stop contacting her or I would. I don't compete for attention
Solid.
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post 1481543361 01-31-2017, 02:41 PM
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when we got serious my old lady deleted damn near everyone that wasn't family or close friends from her FB, shuts that chit down on the reg in text or FB message and shows me so we can laugh about the beta fukks that message her.

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post 1481543761 01-31-2017, 02:44 PM
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i like this term. It is very accurate. neat.jpg
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Agreed OP. It's not okay.
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Misc is so crazy trying to be alpha then going this beta way. If you try to tell her that she's not allowed to talk to guys, you will come of as an insecure ******* and then you will forever be under her control.

Being self-confident and not trying to chase her and watch her every move is the better way to go. Why do you guys want to live a paranoid life thinking who she's texting or sh*t? If she fuked up, then let her go. Why guard her 24/7 and then she'll fuk up anyway lol!
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Originally Posted By jinda628⏩
Misc is so crazy trying to be alpha then going this beta way. If you try to tell her that she's not allowed to talk to guys, you will come of as an insecure ******* and then you will forever be under her control.

Being self-confident and not trying to chase her and watch her every move is the better way to go. Why do you guys want to live a paranoid life thinking who she's texting or sh*t? If she fuked up, then let her go. Why guard her 24/7 and then she'll fuk up anyway lol!
Point out to me where I said your woman shouldn't be allowed to talk to other men

Try to stay on topic
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Originally Posted By arn710⏩
Point out to me where I said your woman shouldn't be allowed to talk to other men

Try to stay on topic
Dont think he was talking to you.
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Originally Posted By arn710⏩
Point out to me where I said your woman shouldn't be allowed to talk to other men

Try to stay on topic
Its a general comment. Not quoting you.
And I honestly don't need to see it in writing to conclude that that's what MOST miscers are implying.

Due to the established misc reputation that all women are cheaters, do you think that's not what majority here will think and want?
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Originally Posted By jinda628⏩
Its a general comment. Not quoting you.
And I honestly don't need to see it in writing to conclude that that's what MOST miscers are implying.

Due to the established misc reputation that all women are cheaters, do you think that's not what majority here will think and want?
I hope not. You can't shelter a woman from the opposite sex
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in my case, if there are convos on your phone , with other men , that i can't see , because i would think they are in appropriate


it's a problem

if you can't do it in front of me , or show me, you shouldn't be doing it , you know this, yet, you do it anyway


it's me or that bs



you shouldn't have to sit next to a woman and tell her no or yes like she's a pet , she should know , what she has and act accordingly to not lose it


her answer? "i spend all my spare time with you and i love you"


well, then you need to learn what love is
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most people are morons. they meet a girl and then try to shape her into being who they want her to be, either choosing to ignore or oblivious to the fact that this is extremely unlikely. you can't change people.

find someone whose habits and lifestyle you are comfortable with (while they're single), and you won't need to change anything about them. stop trying to date attention hungry social media donkeys. these girls will die alone.
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Originally Posted By jinda628⏩
Misc is so crazy trying to be alpha then going this beta way. If you try to tell her that she's not allowed to talk to guys, you will come of as an insecure ******* and then you will forever be under her control.

Being self-confident and not trying to chase her and watch her every move is the better way to go. Why do you guys want to live a paranoid life thinking who she's texting or sh*t? If she fuked up, then let her go. Why guard her 24/7 and then she'll fuk up anyway lol!
Nobody is saying to tell her she can't do those things. We're saying don't pursue a girl who does those things. You don't tell her she can't talk to guys, you just don't fukking date her if she talks to guys. It's that simple. Have standards, expectations, and boundaries set before you even date her, and if she does not meet those expectations/standards, or if she crosses your boundaries, you simply don't date her. Don't get into a relationship with a girl who has orbiters. You know what shows real self-confidence? Having set beliefs that you don't change for anybody. You know your worth, you have your expectations, and you don't settle for anything less. If you want a girl who doesn't have orbiters, you don't pursue a girl who has them. If a girl wants to have orbiters, she can have them... WITHOUT you in her life. It's really that simple.

I repeat: Nobody is saying to tell her not to do certain things. Nobody is saying to chase her. Nobody is saying to live a paranoid life. Nobody is saying to guard her 24/7. What we are saying is to simply NOT PURSUE/NOT DATE girls who do those things. Don't bother trying to control them, just dip if they aren't going to respect your perfectly reasonable and justified beliefs and expectations from a partner.
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Originally Posted By Tony_S⏩
most people are morons. they meet a girl and then try to shape her into being who they want her to be, either choosing to ignore or oblivious to the fact that this is extremely unlikely. you can't change people.

find someone whose habits and lifestyle you are comfortable with (while they're single), and you won't need to change anything about them. stop trying to date attention hungry social media donkeys. these girls will die alone.
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Originally Posted By jinda628⏩
Misc is so crazy trying to be alpha then going this beta way. If you try to tell her that she's not allowed to talk to guys, you will come of as an insecure ******* and then you will forever be under her control.

Being self-confident and not trying to chase her and watch her every move is the better way to go. Why do you guys want to live a paranoid life thinking who she's texting or sh*t? If she fuked up, then let her go. Why guard her 24/7 and then she'll fuk up anyway lol!
What OP said is ridiculous and women will be able to sense his insecurity.

At the same time, you have to set boundaries. You don't tell her she's not allowed to talk to other guys but you don't put up with her **** either. It's not about being insecure or alpha. She's **** testing and if you allow her to get away with it she'll lose respect for you If she's texting or meeting other guys one on one then it's your job to say you won't stand for it. She can put up pics on instagram etc all the wants but if she starts having long conversations with her admirers then call her out. If she does it again, you walk away. It's about setting boundaries that are fair and ones that will make for a happy relationship.
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