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post 1483324031 02-12-2017, 11:56 PM
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Wtf is up with girl I started seeing?!?!

So we just had our first date. I took her to dinner and then we sat in my car for almost two hours just talking and listening to music. I know, pretty fukin lame on my party but the original plan (to take her to this golf place) didn't work out because it closes early on Sunday's. Anyways, I slid In her dm's three weeks ago. The first couple of times we hung out was at the gym. We lifted together (she lifts and is fit af). The second time we lifted, she came up to me and asked to workout with me. Of course I agreed. Anyways, we've been snapchating each other back and fourth almost everyday. There is one fukin huge issue though... she WILL NOT fukin kiss me. She wouldn't even give me a kiss on the cheek. She said that she doesn't want to get attached to me. Wtf does this mean? I can't read this girl bruhs. First she seems all into me and chit but every time I try to kiss her she denies me. She comes from a Ukrainian family so maybe she's very reserved and actually a "good girl" or is she just not into me and I should move on? I really don't want to waste my time which is why I'm asking y'all. Sorry for the novel lol btw this is a pic I snapped of us tonight so be nice since I'm actually posting a pic. Can't post her ig pics cuz detectives.





Cliffs: op messages girl and works out with girl
Op chatting with girl everyday
Op works out with girl a second time because she came up and asked to lift with me
Op goes on date with girl
Op cannot get a kiss to save his life
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post 1483324171 02-12-2017, 11:58 PM
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Sounds sketchy. Back off and let her come to you. You look good.
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post 1483324251 02-12-2017, 11:59 PM
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Slavic girls either put out immediately or never do. You have been friendzoned so gl.

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post 1483324331 02-13-2017, 12:00 AM
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Originally Posted By Tormoz⏩
Slavic girls either put out immediately or never do. You have been friendzoned so gl.

Experienced slav connoisseur
Why the fuk doesn't she just tell me so I can stop wasting my time? She's 19 I'm 25. I don't think she's ready and I'm not about playing games.
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post 1483324391 02-13-2017, 12:01 AM
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Originally Posted By youngarab⏩
Sounds sketchy. Back off and let her come to you. You look good.
Sounds like legit advice. Thanks
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post 1483324491 02-13-2017, 12:03 AM
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I would move on. She looks chunky and average. Don't waste your time.

Surely you have enough experience to know you should at least get a kiss on a first date. Hell it's possible to makeout with randoms in a club out of nowhere after speaking to them for ten seconds.
post 1483324511 02-13-2017, 12:03 AM
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tats look huge more pics
post 1483324561 02-13-2017, 12:04 AM
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Originally Posted By Balkanwot⏩
Why the fuk doesn't she just tell me so I can stop wasting my time? She's 19 I'm 25. I don't think she's ready and I'm not about playing games.
Its fun? Brah open your eyes lol. If you are attractive you are great arm candy. That or she hates her parents and is dating outside of the slavic realm srs. And a few snapchats and a date doesnt mean anything lol
post 1483324641 02-13-2017, 12:06 AM
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Not even a soft kiss? You friend zoned or is talk flirty?

Was there a tension moment, that pause when you're so close but not quite touching and you can almost feel it before it happens and she backed away or was it clumsy and forced kiss me chit

1 more date and if it happens again then bail
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Not even a soft kiss? You friend zoned or is talk flirty?

Was there a tension moment, that pause when you're so close but not quite touching and you can almost feel it before it happens and she backed away or was it clumsy and forced kiss me chit

1 more date and if it happens again then bail
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post 1483324841 02-13-2017, 12:08 AM
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your shirt is ripped brah.
post 1483324981 02-13-2017, 12:10 AM
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She probably has oral herpes. You dodged a bullet, partner.
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post 1483325021 02-13-2017, 12:11 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Not even a soft kiss? You friend zoned or is talk flirty?

Was there a tension moment, that pause when you're so close but not quite touching and you can almost feel it before it happens and she backed away or was it clumsy and forced kiss me chit

1 more date and if it happens again then bail
She let me kiss her on the cheeks but that's it. I may be moving too fast but like others have mentioned, it's just a kiss. I tried kissing her after our second workout when I walked her to her car and obviously denied me. So I asked her why she wouldn't kiss me and she apologized and said she wasn't "that easy" lol. Tf does that even mean. And now she's saying she doesn't want to get attatjed to me. I don't think I'm friend zoned because she grabbed my hand while we were walking and she played with my hair in the car and was playing with my scruff. Plus she's always laughing at my jokes.
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post 1483325121 02-13-2017, 12:11 AM
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Originally Posted By tightteeshirt⏩
your shirt is ripped brah.
Hahah really????
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post 1483325211 02-13-2017, 12:13 AM
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So she wants you to seduce her ?

She worth the chase or you just looking for a ons / fwb?
post 1483325241 02-13-2017, 12:13 AM
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I guarantee that girl has been kissing other guys on the first date, within the first 20 minutes...

You are being strung along and shiit tested. I would still work on it though bro, sometimes it's ok to just work at it for a week or two.

Something tells me you have just been way too nice to her, and she is withholding the goods from you as punishment.
post 1483325321 02-13-2017, 12:15 AM
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Did she reject your kiss op?

Edit: just reread it, maybe you just didn't build it up right
post 1483325461 02-13-2017, 12:17 AM
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Eastern European girls who live stateside can fuk right off.

All conniving materialistic money hungry kunts, srs.

Date a latina and you'll be much much happier.
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post 1483325511 02-13-2017, 12:18 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
So she wants you to seduce her ?

She worth the chase or you just looking for a ons / fwb?
She is worth the chase from what I can tell. I don't do fwb nor ons.
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post 1483325521 02-13-2017, 12:18 AM
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I'd kiss you, OP.

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post 1483325571 02-13-2017, 12:18 AM
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Play hard to get, don't show too much interest she probably wants a challenge.
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post 1483325651 02-13-2017, 12:19 AM
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Originally Posted By RC2008⏩
I guarantee that girl has been kissing other guys on the first date, within the first 20 minutes...

You are being strung along and shiit tested. I would still work on it though bro, sometimes it's ok to just work at it for a week or two.

Something tells me you have just been way too nice to her, and she is withholding the goods from you as punishment.
Why would she punish me? I've been nothing but nice to her.
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post 1483325661 02-13-2017, 12:19 AM
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Originally Posted By Dave4585⏩
Play hard to get, don't show too much interest she probably wants a challenge.
Too late for that now, as she will know what he is trying to do.
post 1483325701 02-13-2017, 12:19 AM
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Yes, I'm one of those guys that goes on omegle with their dick out and jacks off. I don't do it often but sometimes I like to do it just to see if I can somehow find a real girl on there. Most of the horny girls on there are fake but this one was real. She touched her tits when I told her to and when I came she licked her lips and it was really sexy. Unfortunately I could only last about a minute so I left without saying a word out of embarrassment lol. Has anyone else ever gotten cybersex over omegle? It seems like the chances of finding a real girl on there are so low and I feel really lucky that I actually pulled it off.
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post 1483325721 02-13-2017, 12:19 AM
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Age 25 male getting with age 19 female...

What can possibly go wrong between the maturity levels? srs
post 1483325941 02-13-2017, 12:23 AM
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Originally Posted By Balkanwot⏩
She is worth the chase from what I can tell. I don't do fwb nor ons.
Back off a little until she's not sure she played it right, if you are regular at the gym, change the next time you go so you miss her...when she's a little off kilter ask her out again
post 1483325981 02-13-2017, 12:24 AM
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Unless you're a manlet, you can get way better than her. You're a beautiful brah. Gorgeous and looks like you're not even balding.

Would kiss (not srs)


















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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Back off a little until she's not sure she played it right, if you are regular at the gym, change the next time you go so you miss her...when she's a little off kilter ask her out again
Dang really? Was going to ask to see her for Valentine's Day lol but I guess I'll just ignore that it's Valentine's Day. I hate playing these games. They seem so fake and chit. I told her straight up that I like her and I'm diggin' her. Why can't she just tell me what she's feeling.
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post 1483326061 02-13-2017, 12:26 AM
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Next time your at the gym wear your best gym outfit that makes you look thick, solid, and tight with some baby oil and pretend not to see her.
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post 1483326141 02-13-2017, 12:27 AM
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