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post 1489891591 04-05-2017, 06:44 AM
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Originally Posted By NedStark
Are you still married?

Are you happy?

Why did you marry?

Why do you think marrying was a good move?
Got married at 20, 35+ now

Still Married? No

Happy? Yes

Why get married? It was the next step

Marrying a good move? It wasn't
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post 1489892021 04-05-2017, 06:48 AM
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Originally Posted By JyzzMagnet
exactly

most brahs dont wanna admit it was a choice between wifeing up their GF to try and get a few more years of consistent sex before she became a roommate, or to keep putting on buttondown shirts every fri and sat night and roll with the boyos to try and get lucky
Convenient way for you to explain away anything that goes contrary to your current views.
post 1489892031 04-05-2017, 06:48 AM
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Married - 26, now - 45

Are you still married?
Yes, with 2 kids

Are you happy?
Yes, very

Why did you marry?
We were very natural together and knew we wanted to start a family

Why do you think marrying was a good move?
It was the right move for us, but that doesn't mean I think everyone should. I tell people, if you have any doubts at all, don't do it because those doubts will only grow and fester after you're married, and it's not worth it to "settle" in marriage. Neither of us had any doubts then and we still don't 19 years later.
post 1489892321 04-05-2017, 06:51 AM
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post 1489892431 04-05-2017, 06:53 AM
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Married at 38, wife was 24

44 now, wife hitting the big 3-0 this year.


Are you still married?
- Yes

Are you happy?
- No. Was up last night till 2am fukkin, then we got into some naked icewine and cheese in the kitchen which led to tequila and more clapping in the kitchen. Had to leave for work at 5:45am...never been more miserable.

Why did you marry?
- Love my wife and can confirm she loves me...but add to that mutual respect and understanding of each other plus strong physical attraction. Seems like a winning formula.

Why do you think marrying was a good move?
- Literally best decision of my life. There is always going to be challenges in life...avoiding things that may have serious challenges is a bitch move.
post 1489894671 04-05-2017, 07:19 AM
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Originally Posted By JyzzMagnet
srs question to you and any other old fkers out there

what to do if youre in your mid 20s and meet a chick who is actually not a sloot. good values. loyal. virgin till she met you.

pretty much wife material but every primal instinct of me says rack up more random sloots as i hit my prime
You'll know when you know. When (and if) you meet a woman you want to spend the rest of your life with, you'll know it.

If that happens for you, I'm happy for you. If it's not and you stay happy as a bachelor, happy for you too. Miscers tend to have a pretty distorted view of reality tho - study after study showing people with a conventional home life tend to be happier, live longer, etc.

Just need to find the right person - sure most marriages fail but most people are obese, massive piles of debt etc. Don't be average, and don't settle for a partner like that. Pretty simple.


OP's questions:
Married at 30, just turned 35 Monday.

Still married, happiest I've ever been. My daughter just turned 2.
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post 1489896601 04-05-2017, 07:36 AM
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Got married at 20, age 33 now.
Are you still married?
Still married.
Are you happy?
Yes. There have been some rough years, but overall it's been awesome.
Why did you marry?
Not for a good reason. We were dating and she needed health insurance. I was military, so we got married. Bonus: I got to move out of the barracks.
Why do you think marrying was a good move?
Honestly, we just got lucky. We got married too young and for terrible reasons. But we've been married almost 13 years now.
post 1489897211 04-05-2017, 07:41 AM
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Married at 28, still married at 36 and happy.

Got married because we both wanted to spend the rest of our lives together. It was a good move because we were/are both on the same page.
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post 1489897251 04-05-2017, 07:41 AM
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Got married at 28. Been married for 3 years. Anniversary is today actually. Very happy still.
post 1489897611 04-05-2017, 07:44 AM
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Originally Posted By DatDudeBro
Got married at 28. Been married for 3 years. Anniversary is today actually. Very happy still.
Happy Anniversary brah, and good luck moving forward.
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post 1489897721 04-05-2017, 07:44 AM
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Originally Posted By badbl00d
Happy Anniversary brah, and good luck moving forward.
Thanks!
post 1489897851 04-05-2017, 07:46 AM
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Married at 24, Still 24

Still Married

It's only been 6 months so I'll let you know when I find out the rest
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post 1489898021 04-05-2017, 07:47 AM
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Originally Posted By NedStark
Are you still married? No

Are you happy? Yes

Why did you marry? Love

Why do you think marrying was a good move? It was the biggest mistake of my life. I wasted almost 8 of my young years for her to sleep around on me.
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post 1489898511 04-05-2017, 07:52 AM
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Originally Posted By KENKONG
repped
Smooth Seas don't make Strong Sailors. Keep your head up.

MrWhiskey24 for jolly cooperation (PS)
post 1489899071 04-05-2017, 07:58 AM
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FA's are gonna read this thread and feel even worse LMAO
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post 1489900881 04-05-2017, 08:16 AM
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Never getting married cus i saw how it ruined my parents lives when they got divorced
happy for happily married miscers tho
post 1489901261 04-05-2017, 08:19 AM
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Went full potato and got married at 21 (srs.... full potato)
Originally Posted By NedStark
Are you still married? No (surprise), it did last 7 years though.

Are you happy? Now, yes.

Why did you marry? Grew up religious and kinda thought it was normal, now I see that I was a young kid that wasnt ready at all

Why do you think marrying was a good move? See above
post 1489902331 04-05-2017, 08:31 AM
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Originally Posted By NedStark
Are you still married?

Are you happy?

Why did you marry?

Why do you think marrying was a good move?
Married 11/11/11 still married

Happy? Yes raising 2 cute kids right now

Why? Checked all the boxes personalities matched up, had an education/career

Good move? Yes don't really care about banging randoms
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post 1489902441 04-05-2017, 08:32 AM
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This thread is refreshing to read. PlusPlus.
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post 1489903431 04-05-2017, 08:42 AM
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Got married in 2006, was with her years before that. I think at 21 is when we hooked up. We took it slow on marrying, lived together most of that dating time. Gonna be 36 next month.

I don't know. Ask questions if you have any.
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post 1489903521 04-05-2017, 08:43 AM
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Originally Posted By Aesthetical
Same boat.

Im american, wife is swedish.

Took a while for the vias to go through but so far so good, no regerts*
What is the backstory behind this? I only ask cause I'm in a similar situation and looking for advice (live in the same country though)
I did not have sexual relations with that woman, Miss Lewinsky. I never told anybody to lie, not a single time; never. These allegations are false. And I need to go back to work for the American people. Thank you.
post 1489903601 04-05-2017, 08:44 AM
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Originally Posted By NedStark
Are you still married?

Are you happy?

Why did you marry?

Why do you think marrying was a good move?
30
37
yes
yes
because i wanted to
because it does for us
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post 1489904361 04-05-2017, 08:51 AM
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At what age did you get married and how old are you now?Married at 21, now 39

Are you still married?Yes

Are you happy?Yes

Why did you marry?Because she's awesome

Why do you think marrying was a good move?She's fun to be around, has given me two great kids and a ton of fond memories

We grew up in a small town together and have been friends since we were in high school. I would be more apprehensive about marriage had I not known her for a long time.
post 1489904741 04-05-2017, 08:55 AM
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We got married when I was 30, 37 now. Still married. 2 kids.

I'm happy. We had rough go after the second kid was born but we got most of our stuff figured out and we're a pretty happy couple. My marriage is the least of my worries right now.

I got married because I wanted to start a life with my wife and have a family together.

Marrying was a good move, 30 was a great age, I work with quite a few guys that are my age (37-38) and are either just getting married or just got married and are just thinking of having kids. Fuking lol @ chasing babies around in your 40's and working till 60 because you have to still support your kids.
post 1489905031 04-05-2017, 08:58 AM
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-married @ 27, divorced @ 33
-married again @ 35, still married @ 46...together over 15 years though; didn't "monkey branch", was separated from ex as in he had moved out
-it's complicated; no cheating (AFAIK) or abusive stuff and we both think of the other as a good person, just wear and tear and may call it quits
-pregnancy, aka having a kid
-think it is better for children to have two parents
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post 1489905461 04-05-2017, 09:02 AM
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married at 30

now 38

happy

still DINK crew
post 1489905701 04-05-2017, 09:05 AM
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Marriage makes you a dishonest person, who then suffers from depression as you realise what a ****ty person you have become by being dishonourable as your second nature......
post 1489905961 04-05-2017, 09:06 AM
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i need to stay safe

my girl is wife tier in terms of being loving/caring

but shes horrible with money and other important aspects in life

ive already told her point blank if things continue the way they are we'll just be a couple for life but never married...i aint assuming all her damn debt
my name is nathan but my friends just call me N word
post 1489906901 04-05-2017, 09:14 AM
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Married at 24 now 28

I am extremely happy with my choice. Marriage gets a bad rap but for every guy I hear complaining about their marriage I see a guy that puts no time in with their wife. I married my wife because she is my best friend and I wanted to spend every day with her. Most people get married and find out they do not really enjoy hanging out with that person.

My advice to everyone is do not get married unless you have no problem spending most of your time with them. If you can do that then I believe it is one of the best choices in life you can make. Also, in a good marriage you will have sex, but that is not what marriage is about
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Married at 30, still married. Wife was 24 when we got married. Expecting first child in August.

Don't remember the other questions, but don't underestimate a persons background and how they were raised. Whether they admit it or not, or realize, whoever raised them has and will have a huge influence on how they think about things.

My wife and I love our parents, but are able to recognize their faults and accept that they are ****ty people in some respects.

Also agree on kids and money management up front.
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