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post 1497296881 05-02-2017, 09:31 AM
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Originally Posted By IH8RICE
I'm not entirely sure how having a child from a ONS translates to criminal behavior. Women naturally are caregivers. As such, they're normally the ones who will be most responsible for a child in cases like this. If both sides have joint custody and similar incomes, child support is mainly nil. I'm not advocating keeping the child support system as it is, but I want men to be more responsible with their dicks because they're just as important as the pedestal most out pussy on.
You are one of those eunuch/cuckolds. You and "men" like you are why feminism exists.
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Originally Posted By Sebstan01
I have some knowledge of family law. The problem with this bloke's circumstances is that, there is zero intention to take responsibility on his part, and every right to push some blame onto the other person in question: specifically, the woman who has borne his child. The fact of the matter is, if you are responsible in part for the birth of a child, you have to be held responsible for subsequent future events *in regards* to that child. He could have taken steps to ensure that the woman in question didn't get pregnant. Unfortunately, due to his own poor thinking/planning, he is in this situation.

In regards to him "never seeing his child again", that is a matter of hearsay. Keep in mind, this is not a court report; merely some article. It may as well be a 'he said, she said' dialogue. The fact of the matter is, he was instrumental in the birth of a child. Hence, logic dictates that he should have culpability regarding the life of that child. Don't be emotional; be objective. There are consequences for every action, and this is but one of such.

In the same way that anyone would criticise a woman for not taking precautions regarding birth control (and later, complaining about raising a child), so should this man be given the same treatment. Be objective, folks.
That's bullchit though

There should be an understood will to conceive. If I knock a girl up and she wants to keep it, fine. But that should be on her. I don't know of any other contract you can enter to if you're blackout drunk. This should be no different
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Child support laws = "How to make a man your slave"
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Originally Posted By Vhagar
That's bullchit though

There should be an understood will to conceive. If I knock a girl up and she wants to keep it, fine. But that should be on her. I don't know of any other contract you can enter to if you're blackout drunk. This should be no different
blackout drunk = no responsibility

Heed the warning in this article. It's an easy situation to avoid.
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When a man cums in a vagina a baby may be created.

Be smart brahs. Loling at half the responses in here not understanding that.
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This is why men should be able to financially abort. This would provide equality since both parents have choice now.
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Originally Posted By Frank
blackout drunk = no responsibility
Tell that to a cop when you get a dui I'm sure it will work lol.
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That isn't worth the lay. I'd be like alright im paying child support but im clapping those cheeks minimum 3x a week.
Belief without evidence is a fools game.

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Sad stuff bro. I also pay child support and understand the frustration of giving way too much money to someone who doesn't appreciate the difficulty it causes in my life and it's way more money than they need for "child duties". The best thing you can do is find positive in it and don't let it defeat you which it doesn't sound like you have with your positive life style. I've used it as fuel to learn about entrepreneurship, make more money, and run a successful online store. Before I became financially f****d because of child support, I wasted so much time gaming (one of the best War3 players in North America, holla) and knew nothing about setting goals or experiencing real achievement. Now I have a list of goals that I work towards everyday. Keep working on yourself and if there's an area that you're insecure about work on it. Let it fuel you and don't give up.

I also understand the strain it causes on second relationships. Sometimes I let it creep into my head and bother me knowing how much more of a fun and free life I could give my girlfriend if it wasn't for the additional strain but I found a beautiful girl that's a complete angel and it blows my mind everyday how understanding and sweet she is.

Also, I love my daughter and maybe if you can, try to connect with the kid. There really is no love like the unconditional love between a parent and their kid. It's something that you know will never go away and after all, it is yours and the child isn't going away. Maybe you will find something more rewarding there than you could ever have imagined. What do you want that relationship to be like 20 years from now?
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Originally Posted By Adnim
He should leave the country.
Doesn't work, you can murder a person and not get extradited but if you owe child support internationally then 99% of governments will rape you for foreign courts.
Originally Posted By Frank
blackout drunk = no responsibility

Heed the warning in this article. It's an easy situation to avoid.
He should press charges for rape, get her convicted and then take the child. Never happen in a western court though.
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I'm confused. You can seize assets by refusing a court order muppet at the door?

Was the DNA test proven that it was his child? I didn't see any thing that said it was, i could have missed it though. I am certainly not rereading it again.
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Originally Posted By ppself
I'm confused. You can seize assets by refusing a court order muppet at the door?

Was the DNA test proven that it was his child? I didn't see any thing that said it was, i could have missed it though. I am certainly not rereading it again.
Not exactly but it can result in that, especially since he already identified himself so it would go down as him being served but refusing the paper work. Which is enough to proceed in the case, and since he wouldnt be showing up to court they would side against him.
Belief without evidence is a fools game.

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He had it coming. He was stupid and irresponsible. I have no sympathy for him. The law is phucked, but he should have known better.
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Originally Posted By ppself
I'm confused. You can seize assets by refusing a court order muppet at the door?

Was the DNA test proven that it was his child? I didn't see any thing that said it was, i could have missed it though. I am certainly not rereading it again.
I don't think it said explicitly but i am assuming that since he was ordered to pay child support the DNA proved it was his child.

Anyways, Tom Woods has a great epsoide on this talking about the systematic sexism men face, specially in family courts. Just terrible.

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Originally Posted By jlick
I don't think it said explicitly but i am assuming that since he was ordered to pay child support the DNA proved it was his child.
See that is the problem. Courts order men to pay child support from her words alone these days. I would have contested that crap and got my own DNA test. Since you showed. Women are favored over men when it comes to words alone.

They guy really should have done all of this when she first contacted him. You just can't hang up and ignore her for ever. You gotta just suck it up and talk to her until you find out it is yours. Work the problem out, not create a bitter woman who has the law on her side.
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$12,000 for 9 months = $1,333 per month.

Hired hit = $25,000
$25,000 = 18.75 months worth of child support.
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The guy is complaining about having his life ruined over bills, all because he got a girl pregnant.

Well tell me, wtf is the girl supposed to do? A child costs money folks, she is the one living with a child and has to take care of it. It isn't like the guy ever has to visit the kid, the only thing he has to do is pay money.


Don't get a girl pregnant, problem solved. Otherwise, someone has to take care of the kid, and it is going to cost $$$. It isn't exactly fair for the woman to pay for all of the consequences of their actions, he shares some sort of responsibility.
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Originally Posted By ppself
I'm confused. You can seize assets by refusing a court order muppet at the door?

Was the DNA test proven that it was his child? I didn't see any thing that said it was, i could have missed it though. I am certainly not rereading it again.
M8 this story is fake. They can do anything they want in their imagination
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Originally Posted By ppself
See that is the problem. Courts order men to pay child support from her words alone these days. I would have contested that crap and got my own DNA test. Since you showed. Women are favored over men when it comes to words alone.

They guy really should have done all of this when she first contacted him. You just can't hang up and ignore her for ever. You gotta just suck it up and talk to her until you find out it is yours. Work the problem out, not create a bitter woman who has the law on her side.
Good point. He made a lot of bad choices, but the system surely isn't set up to help him out.

American Family courts are f*cked though, real talk.
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This happened lmao

Sounds like it was written by a miscer
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Originally Posted By jlick
Good point. He made a lot of bad choices, but the system surely isn't set up to help him out.

American Family courts are f*cked though, real talk.
The system is set up to help the kid and be somewhat stable.

It's not set up to get men off for nutting in sloots.
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Originally Posted By DatPass
Doesn't work, you can murder a person and not get extradited but if you owe child support internationally then 99% of governments will rape you for foreign courts.




He should press charges for rape, get her convicted and then take the child. Never happen in a western court though.
That's a good thing. That idea is one of the most retarded things I have ever read.

If he's actually interested in the child of course he should go for partial custody though, but doesn't sound like he's interested at all.
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Lessons learned - don't be a manslut and be selective. I think this is one thing religion has right about sex.

And by "selective" I don't just mean hot sloot. She's gotta be interested, in to you, and loyal. You need some time to probe these things.

Otherwise, double wrap it.
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Originally Posted By ppself
See that is the problem. Courts order men to pay child support from her words alone these days. I would have contested that crap and got my own DNA test. Since you showed. Women are favored over men when it comes to words alone.

They guy really should have done all of this when she first contacted him. You just can't hang up and ignore her for ever. You gotta just suck it up and talk to her until you find out it is yours. Work the problem out, not create a bitter woman who has the law on her side.
He did get his own dna test.

"I did the DNA test just before Christmas and had to stew on the results until January 20"

It doesn't explicitly say what the result was, but it does state that he got a result and then had to start paying child support so it's safe to say the result was that it is his.
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Originally Posted By eltoro24
The system is set up to help the kid and be somewhat stable.

It's not set up to get men off for nutting in sloots.
I understand that, but in reality, if the woman didn't want the kid she could have gotten an abortion and there is nothing the man could do about it.
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Originally Posted By ecs33
Lessons learned - don't be a manslut and be selective. I think this is one thing religion has right about sex.

And by "selective" I don't just mean hot sloot. She's gotta be interested, in to you, and loyal. You need some time to probe these things.

Otherwise, double wrap it.
Damn right. I see it all the time. These sloots getting knocked up by loser guys, they pissed he's a deadbeat. Then I know guys that knock up crazy sloots and then wonder why their life is hell. Yeah, I know when about to bust, you just want to bust in her, but you are trading the possibility of a lifelong commitment for a few seconds of lust that won't even matter a minute later. It's funny how a momentary decision you make can have more impact than even some of the larger more thought out decisions you have made.
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