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Thread: Well its over, found out my GF slept with over 20 guys

post 1504680171 05-13-2017, 06:05 PM
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Originally Posted By DamagedAndDull⏩
"Using nationally representative data from the 1995 National Survey of Family Growth, I estimate the association between intimate premarital relationships (premarital sex and premarital cohabitation) and subsequent marital dissolution. I extend previous research by considering relationship histories pertaining to both premarital sex and premarital cohabitation. I find that premarital sex or premarital cohabitation that is limited to a woman's husband is not associated with an elevated risk of marital disruption. However, women who have more than one intimate premarital relationship have an increased risk of marital dissolution. These results suggest that neither premarital sex nor premarital cohabitation by itself indicate either preexisting characteristics or subsequent relationship environments that weaken marriages. Indeed, the findings are consistent with the notion that premarital sex and cohabitation limited to one's future spouse has become part of the normal courtship process for marriage."
http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/1...omisedMessage=

"Using the National Longitudinal Survey of Youth and its Young Adult Supplement, we find that an additional 5 years with the biological father decreases the probability of smoking, drinking, engaging in sexual activity, marijuana use, and conviction by approximately 5.3, 1.2, 3.4, 2.2 and 0.3 percentage points, respectively."
https://link.springer.com/article/10...148-005-0019-x

You're probably banging total degenerates. Slutty people are also likely to have been abused as children. So you've probably been taking stepdaddy's sloppy seconds.
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What you quoted says divorce not infidelity. Show me one that specifically states infidelity.

Secondly I bet if I research the publisher it will be a fundamental Christian organization or at least have ties to Evangelical / fundamental Christianity. Which would make the study very biased.
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post 1504680331 05-13-2017, 06:07 PM
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Not surprised. Inexperienced people are usually easily seduced by experienced people.
post 1504680981 05-13-2017, 06:14 PM
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Agree that the 20 is the ones she felt an emotional attachment with. The others dont count as they were just drunken partying. srs.
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
What you quoted says divorce not infidelity. Show me one that specifically states infidelity.

Secondly I bet if I research the publisher it will be a fundamental Christian organization or at least have ties to Evangelical / fundamental Christianity. Which would make the study very biased.
Prove it's biased. And what part of "I find that premarital sex or premarital cohabitation that islimited to a woman's husband is not associated with an elevated risk of marital disruption(women who limit themselves to their husbands aren't as likely to have marital problems than those who sleep with others). However, women who have more than one intimate premarital relationship have an increased risk of marital dissolution" (dissolution is just another word for divorce dumbass) do you not understand? And why do they divorce? One of the most common reasons is cheating.
https://www.institutedfa.com/Leading-Causes-Divorce/
Infidelity is #2. But that's KNOWN infidelity. It's probably much higher if we could include all the unknown cases of cheating.
post 1504681301 05-13-2017, 06:17 PM
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post 1504681351 05-13-2017, 06:19 PM
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whats funny is now you'll end up with a girl who will just lie with how many shes been with
A million miles away - I don't.. feel.... anything.
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post 1504682181 05-13-2017, 06:28 PM
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Originally Posted By DamagedAndDull⏩
Prove it's biased. And what part of "I find that premarital sex or premarital cohabitation that islimited to a woman's husband is not associated with an elevated risk of marital disruption(women who limit themselves to their husbands aren't as likely to have marital problems than those who sleep with others). However, women who have more than one intimate premarital relationship have an increased risk of marital dissolution" (dissolution is just another word for divorce dumbass) do you not understand? And why do they divorce? One of the most common reasons is cheating.
https://www.institutedfa.com/Leading-Causes-Divorce/
Infidelity is #2. But that's KNOWN infidelity. It's probably much higher if we could include all the unknown cases of cheating.
Again the infidelity thing you quoted does not directly link premarital partners and that 28% divorce rate show me a study in the journal of Sociology or any other scientific journal that states a direct correlation between promus promiscuity and infidelity in women also have that statement have that study State what constitutes promiscuity don't come at me with a bunch of christian-based subjective boils. I'm driving I'm using talk-to-text I have a date I don't have a tie I don't have time for you right now child but you're obviously too stupid to be on the internet.
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post 1504682611 05-13-2017, 06:31 PM
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Lol that's not too bad, I've slept with close to 20 girls this year alone
post 1504683121 05-13-2017, 06:37 PM
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Originally Posted By iloveus⏩
If he's 28 she has to be between 15-30.
i love how u went as low as 15 but only as high as 30 LMAO
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I've slept with 24... your point?
post 1504683171 05-13-2017, 06:37 PM
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I developed feels for a girl once, and it was only later I found out she slayed like 70 dudes (she lost track).
It can wreck you either which way -- does your head in visualizing 70 dudes line up to smash, or you realize you're just 71, you can't take her serious at that point etc etc.
Is it immature? sure. But I don't know a single guy in my friends circle who can overcome it, short of cognitive dissonance.
Don't ask don't tell is prob only way to have a relationship these days. But most dudes wouldn't want to live like that either.
post 1504683201 05-13-2017, 06:37 PM
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Been there done that. She had no father figure and was BPD. .
Was the best summer of my life tho
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post 1504683301 05-13-2017, 06:38 PM
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thinks about it OP

shes been face fukked and used as a cum dumpster by over 60 guys (just lol if you believe its only 20)

Jamal, Chad, Chads less attractive cousin, some uber driver, a random bar hook up

Half of these guys didin't even have to put in any effort she just threw herself at them.

Sometimes when you're with her, she thinks about dudes who plowed harder and better than you, dudes that had bigger cawks, dudes that choked her and slapped her and called her a slut because those guys knew her value thats why they didin't stick around

yet here you are, the beta provider who she chose because the guys who she gave herself to for free knew she was low tier and treated her as such

but you don't know the difference between a low tier woman and a high tier woman, so you treated her special and she knew she could milk you for emotional points until another chad shows up and she hops on his dick, only to get treated low tier again and repeat the cycle till she finds a rich enough beta to fool into thinking he got her preggo (when really its chads baby)
post 1504684011 05-13-2017, 06:43 PM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
Again the infidelity thing you quoted does not directly link premarital partners and that 28% divorce rate show me a study in the journal of Sociology or any other scientific journal that states a direct correlation between promus promiscuity and infidelity in women also have that statement have that study State what constitutes promiscuity don't come at me with a bunch of christian-based subjective boils. I'm driving I'm using talk-to-text I have a date I don't have a tie I don't have time for you right now child but you're obviously too stupid to be on the internet.
Lol learn to read retard. That study straight up says so and it's a genuine scientific journal that includes sociology dealing with specific family issues. You're just being biased cause it has the words "marriage" and "family" in it and you're a broken down mansloot. Show me studies to the contrary or STFU and go catch some more STD's from stepdaddy's sloppy seconds. That study isn't some biased Christian dribble and I already posted other ones about sexual abuse in youth leading to more promiscuity and other degeneracy. Did you seriously just ask what constitutes infidelity?

"Infidelity is breaking a promise to remain faithful to a sexual partner. "
https://www.psychologytoday.com/basics/infidelity
I'm providing scientific evidence but you're obviously too stupid to be on the internet.
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post 1504690051 05-13-2017, 07:50 PM
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Originally Posted By DamagedAndDull⏩
Lol learn to read retard. That study straight up says so and it's a genuine scientific journal that includes sociology dealing with specific family issues. You're just being biased cause it has the words "marriage" and "family" in it and you're a broken down mansloot. Show me studies to the contrary or STFU and go catch some more STD's from stepdaddy's sloppy seconds. That study isn't some biased Christian dribble and I already posted other ones about sexual abuse in youth leading to more promiscuity and other degeneracy. Did you seriously just ask what constitutes infidelity?

"Infidelity is breaking a promise to remain faithful to a sexual partner. "
https://www.psychologytoday.com/basics/infidelity
I'm providing scientific evidence but you're obviously too stupid to be on the internet.
I'm on a date so post here where there is a direct correlation between partner count and infidelity.

I saw the one about divorce arbiters saying infidelity was the second leading cause of divorce but that was for men and women and it also didn't directly say this many partners for women lead to this many instances of cheating.

You're using your own bias to assign cheating to women getting divorced.
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
I'm on a date so post here where there is a direct correlation between partner count and infidelity.

I saw the one about divorce arbiters saying infidelity was the second leading cause of divorce but that was for men and women and it also didn't directly say this many partners for women lead to this many instances of cheating.

You're using your own bias to assign cheating to women getting divorced.
Holy phuk cope harder you old *******. This has been proven time and time again for phuking years on the misc but at this point you're just in denial. Brahs don't like dating sloots with high kill counts. You may call it insecure, but most call it self respect and a sense of decency. Not to mention refusal to become a cuck. Let me make it clear for you:

You are a self-admitted voluntary cuck. The mother of your kids is a whore and if your ******* son is anything like you then he will also grow up to be a cuck. You are clearly triggered. You went from the whole nice, laid back older brah trying to help out the younger brahs to "prove it or I'll neg". Do you realize how pathetic you sound? Go back to sucking Jamal's jizz out of whatever washed up old STD infested skank's wizard's sleeve pussy you're wking now you phuking failure.

This old ******* has been cucked so hard by his exes that he is legitimately made himself believe otherwise. I guess after years of paying alimony to a whore these old *******s just get so broken down and embrace a sort of "if you can't beat em, might as well join them" attitude. Seriously, this is your hero misc? Bring on the neg now, while you're at it go cry to iceman too lmao I hear cucks travel in packs.
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
I'm on a date so post here where there is a direct correlation between partner count and infidelity.

I saw the one about divorce arbiters saying infidelity was the second leading cause of divorce but that was for men and women and it also didn't directly say this many partners for women lead to this many instances of cheating.

You're using your own bias to assign cheating to women getting divorced.
You're not on a date if you're posting on here. Quit trying to make yourself look alpha. It's not my bias, it's just fact that many divorces occur cause of cheating. You're the one who refuses to accept you banging stepdaddy's sloppy seconds, insists that it's some Christian bias at work when you yourself hypocritically present no evidence, and will never settle down cause you're a boytoy. Partner count doesn't matter, the shear act of sleeping with multiple people makes one less likely to maintain relationships so quit strawmanning like a redditor. You yourself are living proof of this, men are supposed to be able to settle down after getting married, most divorces that happen cause of infidelity is done by the woman who also initiates the divorces far more often than the man which is common knowledge.
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GL finding a girl in this day and age who is attractive and had less partners.. My current gf is 28 at around 30-60.. TBH i dont really care cause im around 200.. and I could always walk out at any time of the relationship and pick up girls left and right no problem
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You sound insecure. If it's that important to you, you should have talked to her about it up front when you started the relationship.
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OP, had you had the chance in high school and college, would you have banged as many chicks as she banged guys?
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Originally Posted By iloveus⏩
He doesn't value girls who slept with a bunch of dudes. Why does he have to settile with a girl who doesn't match his values.
When are you young silly dudes going to learn that you're NEVER really going to know for certain how many dudes a female has slept with?
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Originally Posted By DamagedAndDull⏩
There have been studies on this issue showing the more promiscuous history one has the less likely they'll ever be able to hold a monogamous relationship/not cheat. OP's probably already been cheated on by this girls or else he likely would have in the near future if she's been in 20 other guys before.
This. My brah married a sloot that banged 50 dudes by 28 years of age. They dated for 4 years. Got married... divorced 10 months after. Tried to warn him. Even sent him the studies that were quoted above. "I love her brooo, people changeeeee. blabla" he he said.. never marry a sloot, 90% failure rate boyos
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Before you?

Why would you give a fuk as long as she's clean?

You wouldn't bang 20 sloots if they walked into your bedroom while you were single?
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Originally Posted By f00d⏩
You sound insecure. If it's that important to you, you should have talked to her about it up front when you started the relationship.
Someone sounds defensive, must be another 20+
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sad thing is she couldve just lied about it

sadder thing is she said it infront of your mates, Goddamn

I dated a foreign girl for 3 months, she always hinted shes had alot of guys in the past. I didnt really care was just happy to have a gf lol so i didnt push it. Could be more than 20 for all i know but all i can say is was the only girl things didnt end badly with and hooking up was good.

Im sortve starting to believe it doesnt matter if a girl was slooty, i met plenty of virgins or supposed virgins that were ****in horrible evil people.

But she said it infront of your mates, thats a big diference
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Lol that's not too bad, I've slept with close to 20 girls this year alone
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Originally Posted By koreagonnakorea⏩
This. My brah married a sloot that banged 50 dudes by 28 years of age. They dated for 4 years. Got married... divorced 10 months after. Tried to warn him. Even sent him the studies that were quoted above. "I love her brooo, people changeeeee. blabla" he he said.. never marry a sloot, 90% failure rate boyos
Lol these guys will never listen
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Originally Posted By mcdojo⏩
Someone sounds defensive, must be another 20+
That's it, when you can't refute the post attack the person, *******.
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