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Thread: Sloth Thread Part XIII: Looks get you matches, game gets you smashes

post 1508366001 06-14-2017, 04:33 AM
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what a bunch of players itt
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Originally Posted By mekeke⏩
what a bunch of players itt
yes
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post 1508368221 06-14-2017, 05:20 AM
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Originally Posted By Briisk⏩
Update

I was going to tell her ice cream tomorrow but she texted me first and practically invited herself over by saying she wants to hang out in the gazebo.

Anyone got a story of straight up inviting a girl to your place first meet?
I invite them to my place for the first meet every single time. If I've gotten to the point where I feel confident in asking them to meet it works like 80% of the time at least. I don't do meet-ups outside unless they're going to a bar/club that I also happen to be going to.

I'll go like 10-15~ messages first, steer the conversation towards some topic or activity and then ask them to come do that at my place.

I'm in Sweden though so tinder might be different here. Not sure what kind of story you're expecting, usually goes like this:

Me: "Come over and drink wine and make out"
Sloot: "ok"
>sloot comes over
>sit down next to sloot, play some Frank Ocean
>drink wine, talk for 20 mins
>fuk
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post 1508369421 06-14-2017, 05:46 AM
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Originally Posted By HangerBaby⏩
Yeah lol, they're married. Some of them send me nudes tho
You what ? Sloots gonna sloot..
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post 1508369911 06-14-2017, 05:55 AM
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Originally Posted By UnclRuckus⏩
I invite them to my place for the first meet every single time. If I've gotten to the point where I feel confident in asking them to meet it works like 80% of the time at least. I don't do meet-ups outside unless they're going to a bar/club that I also happen to be going to.

I'll go like 10-15~ messages first, steer the conversation towards some topic or activity and then ask them to come do that at my place.

I'm in Sweden though so tinder might be different here. Not sure what kind of story you're expecting, usually goes like this:

Me: "Come over and drink wine and make out"
Sloot: "ok"
>sloot comes over
>sit down next to sloot, play some Frank Ocean
>drink wine, talk for 20 mins
>fuk
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Just cant take it seriously these days, too much WK too



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Originally Posted By RmBoyos⏩
frank GOATcean
100% certified panty dropper. No foreplay needed, Frank has my sloots dripping and ready to go the instant they're through the door srs.
Without the internet i feel like a small rock on the mountain.

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post 1508373931 06-14-2017, 06:50 AM
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Originally Posted By UnclRuckus⏩
I invite them to my place for the first meet every single time. If I've gotten to the point where I feel confident in asking them to meet it works like 80% of the time at least. I don't do meet-ups outside unless they're going to a bar/club that I also happen to be going to.

I'll go like 10-15~ messages first, steer the conversation towards some topic or activity and then ask them to come do that at my place.

I'm in Sweden though so tinder might be different here. Not sure what kind of story you're expecting, usually goes like this:

Me: "Come over and drink wine and make out"
Sloot: "ok"
>sloot comes over
>sit down next to sloot, play some Frank Ocean
>drink wine, talk for 20 mins
>fuk
Please provide me with a cool swedish joke/line that will conquer the heart of the swedish girl I matched with. Our firstborns name shall be UnclRuckus.

Also logistics help a lot thats true. I have to move out from home :-/ but paying rent instead of saving up for my own place is kinda wasted money.
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Originally Posted By UnclRuckus⏩
100% certified panty dropper. No foreplay needed, Frank has my sloots dripping and ready to go the instant they're through the door srs.
Gonna play this at work to get a feel for it. Also, spread...
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post 1508375741 06-14-2017, 07:14 AM
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[QUOTE=J3remy post_id=1508370521]Just cant take it seriously these days, too much WK too

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[img]http://i.imgur.com/xWi4YtN.png?1[/ img][/QUOTE]hahahahahaahahah i lol'd
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post 1508376881 06-14-2017, 07:28 AM
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Longtime FA created tinder yesterday. Got 12 matches and 3 girls numbers so far, How do you seal the deal when you live with others? I want them to invite me to their joint...

I have only had 3 ONS before all drunk so i got micro amounts of game. no gf and no dates before so how do i turn this **** sexual for an invite?
post 1508377231 06-14-2017, 07:33 AM
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Originally Posted By Gameover89⏩
Longtime FA created tinder yesterday. Got 12 matches and 3 girls numbers so far, How do you seal the deal when you live with others? I want them to invite me to their joint...

I have only had 3 ONS before all drunk so i got micro amounts of game. no gf and no dates before so how do i turn this **** sexual for an invite?
post screens so we can assess
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post 1508377731 06-14-2017, 07:37 AM
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Well boyos, the gf and I broke up last night so I am back on tinder.
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Originally Posted By RmBoyos⏩
post screens so we can assess
Their pages and pages long... atm just useless small talk. I haven't hit any up to hang yet i can post screens after i try something but not aure what to say? is going to a girls house from tinder even a common enough thing to expect it or should i be trying to line up meetups in public places?
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Originally Posted By Gameover89⏩
Their pages and pages long... atm just useless small talk. I haven't hit any up to hang yet i can post screens after i try something but not aure what to say? is going to a girls house from tinder even a common enough thing to expect it or should i be trying to line up meetups in public places?
small talk is useless on tinder - steer it towards cheeky flirting early on - you need to peak her interest because of competition - but also not be hung up her being the only girl - its a delicate balance

gotta fight for the attention without putting her on a pedestal

if you cant smash at home - i would suggest public activity where you can get close and escalate, UNLESS she invites you to hers - in which case - thats a win
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post 1508385251 06-14-2017, 08:43 AM
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Originally Posted By Gameover89⏩
Longtime FA created tinder yesterday. Got 12 matches and 3 girls numbers so far, How do you seal the deal when you live with others? I want them to invite me to their joint...

I have only had 3 ONS before all drunk so i got micro amounts of game. no gf and no dates before so how do i turn this **** sexual for an invite?
+1 - I also would like to know how to subtly/or not so subtly suggest to smash at their place without at the same time appearing too beta because of living with family/friends etc. - > How do?
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Originally Posted By Bangemall⏩
+1 - I also would like to know how to subtly/or not so subtly suggest to smash at their place without at the same time appearing too beta because of living with family/friends etc. - > How do?
see above

you gotta coax them into inviting you - unless youre feeling super chadish and feel like its a sure thing, then just say like well how about yours instead?
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post 1508385541 06-14-2017, 08:45 AM
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Originally Posted By miscHelix⏩
Well boyos, the gf and I broke up last night so I am back on tinder.
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Originally Posted By Gameover89⏩
Longtime FA created tinder yesterday. Got 12 matches and 3 girls numbers so far, How do you seal the deal when you live with others? I want them to invite me to their joint...

I have only had 3 ONS before all drunk so i got micro amounts of game. no gf and no dates before so how do i turn this **** sexual for an invite?
You got some work to do. Be assertive, cheeky and bold in your statements. Plan for a meet asap.
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Originally Posted By RmBoyos⏩
gotta give your tinder profile 3-4 weeks to get an accurate measure of how good your profile is
I got a few matches overnight, since my new pic shows me in better shape I'm getting girls in better shape too

Wonder if averages are just intimidated/swiping left because of that... since the girls I'm matching seem to be above average
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Originally Posted By HangerBaby⏩
I got a few matches overnight, since my new pic shows me in better shape I'm getting girls in better shape too

Wonder if averages are just intimidated/swiping left because of that... since the girls I'm matching seem to be above average
i doubt it

i think its just tinder being on an ever declining slope

you could be giving out a different vibe - which average girls may not like etc
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post 1508394451 06-14-2017, 09:56 AM
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Originally Posted By RmBoyos⏩
i doubt it

i think its just tinder being on an ever declining slope

you could be giving out a different vibe - which average girls may not like etc
I can see the vibe thing. All the bumble girls I've matched have been direct/confident and smart.

This happened last night



As you can see I deescalated because I wasn't feeling confident that she wasn't a catfish. Normal looking girl, thin build, but I did a cursory fb stalk after she invited me over and her most recent pic is from 2015....
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Originally Posted By HangerBaby⏩
I can see the vibe thing. All the bumble girls I've matched have been direct/confident and smart.

This happened last night



As you can see I deescalated because I wasn't feeling confident that she wasn't a catfish. Normal looking girl, thin build, but I did a cursory fb stalk after she invited me over and her most recent pic is from 2015....
Add them on snapchat and send them snaps back n forth. Typically what I do when I find a girl who I'm not sure is real or isnt fat.
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Originally Posted By G0S9G⏩
Add them on snapchat and send them snaps back n forth. Typically what I do when I find a girl who I'm not sure is real or isnt fat.
Yeah I got her snap. We'll see if she sends anything. I'll let her work for it.
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Originally Posted By Gameover89⏩
Longtime FA created tinder yesterday. Got 12 matches and 3 girls numbers so far, How do you seal the deal when you live with others? I want them to invite me to their joint...

I have only had 3 ONS before all drunk so i got micro amounts of game. no gf and no dates before so how do i turn this **** sexual for an invite?
You: how does splitting a bottle of red while getting seduced sound?
Her: sounds great if its Shiraz
You: ill pick up a bottle of penfolds on my way to your place. Hows Thursday night?

You are either going to scare her off for being too direct, get her to confirm Thurs - then its on, or she'll put up sloot defenses and say:

Her: slow your roll cowboy. I dont just invite random guys over i havent met yet.

To which you reply:

You: true you could be a murderer. Lets meet at a bar near you for a drink to make sure we like each other...and build the tension.

Thats the gist. Very rarely have i gone straight to a girls place or her come straight to mine. 9x's out of 10 I meet them first for a drink. Some girls try to play a 2-3-4 date rule before smashing, then you need to evaluate if they are worth the time/money investment vs. smashing probability. Girl I was dating around Christmas made me wait till date 4 to smash, bj on date 3 but she was a solid 8/10 and only the 1st and 4th date were at a bar. 2nd and 3rd were drinks/dinner at her place so it kinda evened out which made it worth me going to date 4.

Other girls will say they dont have sex on the first date as a sloot defense, but if you kino them right you can have your finger inside them before the end of the 1st date and then theyll throw that rule out the door.
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Originally Posted By liftyousay⏩
did you invite her out for a second time and she denied (or didn't respond) ?

an accurate translation.. or had an ex in the background that she had feelings for still. didn't pan out/were too needy, while you were just chilling in your squad car.

pump and dump her - that's at least what i did, a few months ago, to a chick that pulled that on me and came back a year later.


Yea gonna play some tennis with her Friday. Cheap, I get exercise, check out her body in workout clothes, show off mine as I've dropped 15 lbs and am looking good...and maybe enjoy the evening together.

I've put in such little effort lately, especially with meeting up.

Is there a bb.com app or something where you guys post pics from? Call me lazy but I'd like an alternative to emailing myself screen grabs from my phone.

*To answer...she went out of town to see family then went NC on me. I'm not the type to really rekindle bc I just don't care that much. This reconnect was all her. I forgot about her.
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^^^ Did u smash though?
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Originally Posted By HangerBaby⏩
^^^ Did u smash though?
das not it.

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