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ยป Sloth Thread Part XIII: Looks get you matches, game gets you smashes
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"Not looking for hookups" means am looking for one night stands
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Originally Posted By NLNFunKti0nz
What does cba stand for?
cant be assed
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Originally Posted By RmBoyos
so that 800 matches is kind of irrelevant if you only wanna smash 1% of them!
i'd smash more than 1% of them. im sure more than 1% of them are 7+
Originally Posted By Bangemall
which faroff lands? If I swipe in Thailand/Cambodia/Vietnam I get ****ton of matches too. Doesnt mean much
south america, asia, africa. got a **** ton of matches in africa and so many dtf and direct about it, its another world there
Originally Posted By nyjets88
Its a little of both i think. Game is important....but it also isn't that difficult to have good "game"...especially text game when you have time to think about your responses. But for some reason so many guys are terrible at it, so if you manage to be funny, witty, and direct, you can get dates over better looking guys who just want to make small talk about each other's weekends.
its not that guys want to make smalltalk, if anything most girls on these apps seem to steer it in that direction because lets face it, most of them lack bants. and the problem with being too direct is most women will stop convo, unmatch or even report u. i reckon only be direct if they have established themselves thru their profile or otherwise as accepting of this
Originally Posted By UKbrah93
How do you guys figure if someone is dtf? Majority of girls on there don't seem to be there to meet anyone let alone hook up.
pretty much the only safe bet is if they say it explicitly on their profile, but even then sometimes theyre joking and just feminists doing ****tests. ive come across profiles who put stuff like 'just here to choke on cock' on their profile, and then proceed to post screenshots on instagram/twitter etc complaining about the stuff guys said to her, no joke

i know of another app that is designed for hookups and only hookups and the women there are much more dtf, so using that too, only real problem is low membership atm
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So had a win today. 3rd day on tinder... boys in here got some solid advice. got her kik details and asked her to send me a sexy pic, sent her 1 back and then it was on.

She was an absolute freak, made me film her giving me a bj and zero gag reflex.

Really need to quit porn now cause faaaaawk it was hard to get it up.... should of been rock hard immediately.


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Originally Posted By cmmx
but i know of another app that is designed for hookups and only hookups and the women there are much more dtf, so using that too, only real problem is hardly anyone on the app yet
does it actually work brah? U find it on a porn site? PM me name brah, always repped u homie
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GJ gameover brah
But u look like top 5% of guys just off ur pic so its easy for u

And made u film her giving head? WTF. On ur phone? PM porn. lol
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Originally Posted By ineed$
GJ gameover brah
But u look like top 5% of guys just off ur pic so its easy for u

And made u film her giving head? WTF. On ur phone? PM porn. lol
Ive only had sex like 10 times bro lol go clubbing all the time, never had a date just a few drunk hookups. You do need good skills talking to girls to get the job done im just over being a pussy and never initiating so hopefully being more assertive and sexual will pay off which it seems to.

I dont have it on my phone... i asked to get her to send me a clip without her face in it but shes scared.
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Originally Posted By ineed$
does it actually work brah? U find it on a porn site? PM me name brah, always repped u homie
its called pure, be warned its literally a ghost town most of the time, but the women there who arent camgirls or scammers are 100% looking for hookups
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Originally Posted By Gameover89
Ive only had sex like 10 times bro lol go clubbing all the time, never had a date just a few drunk hookups. You do need good skills talking to girls to get the job done im just over being a pussy and never initiating so hopefully being more assertive and sexual will pay off which it seems to.

I dont have it on my phone... i asked to get her to send me a clip without her face in it but shes scared.
lol yeah u probably missed out on at least a hundred girls by not being aggressive. SRS

Also fukin make movies. I got lots of homemade porntinder freaks in mexico
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Originally Posted By Gameover89
Ive only had sex like 10 times bro lol go clubbing all the time, never had a date just a few drunk hookups.You do need good skills talking to girls to get the job done im just over being a pussy and never initiating so hopefully being more assertive and sexual will pay off which it seems to.

I dont have it on my phone... i asked to get her to send me a clip without her face in it but shes scared.
more miscers need to take note of this
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Originally Posted By RmBoyos
more miscers need to take note of this
It's so easy to do it's not even funny.

'Game' is a meme. Just escalate on girls who find you physically attractive and dont go near girls that don't. Again, most shouldve figured this out by age 18
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Originally Posted By spadelexus
Gotta delete this chitty app. Such a fukin time waste.
damn it if spadeLexus says this app is a time waste then its really gotten bad.

Also "come here now" is a good opener? Will try it
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Originally Posted By mekeke
It's so easy to do it's not even funny.

'Game' is a meme. Just escalate on girls who find you physically attractive and dont go near girls that don't. Again, most shouldve figured this out by age 18
escalation and chat is literally what game is


if youre a pussy who cant talk to girls - you have no game,
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Originally Posted By ineed$
damn it if spadeLexus says this app is a time waste then its really gotten bad.
Just the opposite. If I didnt receive anything in return for my time I wouldn't use it. I'm addicted to the endorphin release of matching cute girls. I'm addicted to the dopamine rush from spitting dtf game that a girl responds positively to.

I seriously scaled down my tinder use over the past several months so I could focus on making more money. Now that I've achieved my initial financial goal, Ive just reallocated the time I was focused on my career back into tinder. Which is foolish.

If I calculate the time Ive spent on tinder + date/sex activities over the past 2-3 years and reallocate that time on making money/my career over the next 2-3 years I'll be able to buy a small yacht by the time Im 45. I'll be able to pay cash for 1st class plane tickets to take my family on an international vacation in the summer. Now I'm just paying for cheap flights using points and financing the rest on my credit card. But hey I got a lineup of bi-girls down for a 3some!

When its all said and done and I look back on my life when I'm old and grey, will I regret spending time chasing unicorns/having 3somes with 7/10's during the prime time of my career, if my kids have to take out a loan to pay for college/buy a car? What if my kids grow to be phucked up since I didn't father them correctly, because instead of teaching them how to be champions in life I was gagging some 22yo's throat with my dink?

This is why tinder is bad for me. It hasn't changed that much for me over the years in terms of success ratio. If anything the time Ive put into it has made me more successful using the tinder app (see unicorn story previous thread). Out of the 70 girls I matched in the past few days on my solo acct, I probably swiped 1000 times and have at least 1 girl dtf with aggressive game. The time spent swiping, convoing, setting up logistics, dating, phucking etc... is why its bad. Being a tinder king is not something I want anyone to remember me by.

Anyways, sorry if I changed the tone of this thread. tl;dr you reap what you sow. Sow good you reap good, sow bad you reap bad. That is true for everything in life from getting women, to bodybuilding, to making money, to growing crops, to becoming a CEO, to building a house. Everybody has the same 24 hours in a day, what seperates the winners from the losers, the guy driving a $150K car from the guy driving a $1500 car, is what they do in those 24 hrs.
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Originally Posted By cmmx
its not that guys want to make smalltalk, if anything most girls on these apps seem to steer it in that direction because lets face it, most of them lack bants. and the problem with being too direct is most women will stop convo, unmatch or even report u. i reckon only be direct if they have established themselves thru their profile or otherwise as accepting of this
Yes but girls want the guy to steer and take control of the conversation. Just because all the girl says is stuff like "hows your night going" doesn't mean that they just want to make small talk, they just want and expect the guy to be the one to bring up meeting, ask for the number, etc.

You don't need to be direct as far as talking about sex. You do want to be direct as far as making them know you want more than just to make small talk with a stranger on an app.
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anyone fancy spoofing to Serbia and posting results??

apparently the average man is worse than the average woman, so would the 80/20 chad rule be less trus there??

just a thought
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Originally Posted By RmBoyos
anyone fancy spoofing to Serbia and posting results??

apparently the average man is worse than the average woman, so would the 80/20 chad rule be less trus there??

just a thought
Spoof to Krakow , went there on my stag 2 years ago. My brother in law and close friend was using their Tinder there, ratio of 4-1 girl/guy. Average Polish bloke is fat and balding.
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Originally Posted By ineed$
does it actually work brah? U find it on a porn site? PM me name brah, always repped u homie
This thread is so everyone can get information and here you are asking for a pm for what should be available knowledge to everyone here. Problem in here is too many mooches. Negging you off spread.


Edit: lol at the Pure icon.
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Originally Posted By nlconst
Spoof to Krakow , went there on my stag 2 years ago. My brother in law and close friend was using their Tinder there, ratio of 4-1 girl/guy. Average Polish bloke is fat and balding.
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Sometimes it is tempting to actually travel vs spoofing just because I want to smash girls who aren't from my boring ass state
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Originally Posted By HangerBaby
Sometimes it is tempting to actually travel vs spoofing just because I want to smash girls who aren't from my boring ass state
Going to have 10 weekdays off work pto, 14 days total by the end of October. Flight cost doesn't matter to me, as I have great buddy passes, only time and distance wise matters. I'm thinking about hitting up some tinder hotspots for a blonde guy. Strongly considering doing Santo Domingo, or Panama. That's a lot of days I'll have saved up, almost too much to be in one city, realistically I can hit a few. I have some time to think though.
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Originally Posted By Briisk
Going to have 10 weekdays off work pto, 14 days total by the end of October. Flight cost doesn't matter to me, as I have great buddy passes, only time and distance wise matters. I'm thinking about hitting up some tinder hotspots for a blonde guy. Strongly considering doing Santo Domingo, or Panama. That's a lot of days I'll have saved up, almost too much to be in one city, realistically I can hit a few. I have some time to think though.
Go to Panama. You'll love it. Go in the summer time there, it's winter there now and rains all day. Spoof there a few weeks before you go and match cuties then build rapport with them / make tentative plans to go dancing / sight seeing with them as your tour guide.

Lotta hookers there. Most of the Venezuelan/Colombian girls want money and don't speak English. The Panamanian girls speak English but are a little less attractive yet dtf if you buy them a beer for a $1. This is because prostitution is legal and cheap there. You can get a blazing ass Colombian girl for $40 to come straight to your hotel room. So the native girls have to put out for less if they want to go on a date with a guy.
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Originally Posted By Gameover89

lol yeah good game brah

*Gameover89 posts topless pic
*girl says **** me now

those screenshots prove its mostly looks. u made her wet cuz ur buff and basically didnt have to do anything except post a pic. game my ass!

this is a lesson kids: hit the gym, consider facial surgery or other cosmetic fixes if ur facial aesthetics arent up to scratch, and if ur short wear lifts or stilts if ur a midget
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guys do apps like 'Flame for Tinder' still work

aint used tinder in a while, but back in the day the app used to show the girls who had liked you..

Just used the app, added the girls who had liked me, but they are not coming up in the tinder app?

what gives?
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Originally Posted By GuysIncognito
guys do apps like 'Flame for Tinder' still work

aint used tinder in a while, but back in the day the app used to show the girls who had liked you..

Just used the app, added the girls who had liked me, but they are not coming up in the tinder app?

what gives?
I think most 3rd party apps stopped working with tinder a little while back.

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No longer banned. Thank goodness. Well dudes I finally deleted Tinder and haven't used it in over a week.

It was a huge mood killer and I currently have this girl I been consistently talking too. I might stick with this chick for awhile if everything continues to go well, but I'm gonna take a break and see if not using and swiping for a month does anything when I go back on again.
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Originally Posted By 8inchpipes
"Not looking for hookups" means am looking for one night stands
is this for srs? i know even sloots don't know what they want, but I am asking if this is like a deliberate thing
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Guys I need srs advice

How do you all juggle these girls? I'm exhausted from going on dates and going through the same questions and then finally smashing

same chit every time
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Originally Posted By ClaudeGiroux
is this for srs? i know even sloots don't know what they want, but I am asking if this is like a deliberate thing
depends on how good looking you are. In my case they've made me invest before I got to get the sugar walls
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Originally Posted By GuysIncognito
guys do apps like 'Flame for Tinder' still work

aint used tinder in a while, but back in the day the app used to show the girls who had liked you..

Just used the app, added the girls who had liked me, but they are not coming up in the tinder app?

what gives?
I think it still works if you have it but last I checked they removed it form the app store.

But yea i can be buggy sometimes it says girls liked you who didn't actually ilke you.
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