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post 1512544211 07-18-2017, 10:45 AM
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you just cum and go and recognize them for serving their purpose - you only develop feels if she's super hot and does a2m
A million miles away - I don't.. feel.... anything.
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post 1512544531 07-18-2017, 10:47 AM
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Originally Posted By ATT82121⏩
This. You just have high estrogen. Do something about it before your weiner falls off and you become a Caitlyn Jenner
Miscer above says embrace who I am, and you're saying don't embrace.

I'm now confused. I don't want to not have feels in life.
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post 1512544761 07-18-2017, 10:49 AM
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Originally Posted By sg1976⏩
Repped.

Plus sex with feels is 100% better.

Not to sure what all the fuss is about catching feels.
It's perversion and sociopathic behavior.

The media, rap music, etc teaches it to fairly normal people, but they don't do it. People who do it are homosexuals/sociopaths.
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post 1512544961 07-18-2017, 10:50 AM
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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩
It's perversion and sociopathic behavior.

The media, rap music, etc teaches it to fairly normal people, but they don't do it. People who do it are homosexuals/sociopaths.
You must be a Harvard scientist.
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You have feelings for me OP? Aww, that's sweet. I promise to use lube instead of spit next time.
haha you're on spread.
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post 1512545381 07-18-2017, 10:53 AM
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post 1512545541 07-18-2017, 10:54 AM
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Originally Posted By MarinoMike⏩
You must be a Harvard scientist.
I've actually done a huge amount of research about this topic and have lots of experience in psychology.

What I've said used to be talked about in psych all the time until things got very PC.

Plus, I have known tons of dues who were players who turned out to be homos and just encountered a female one recently. They all do the same things, which I explained before.
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post 1512545871 07-18-2017, 10:57 AM
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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩
I've actually done a huge amount of research about this topic and have lots of experience in psychology.

What I've said used to be talked about in psych all the time until things got very PC.

Plus, I have known tons of dues who were players who turned out to be homos and just encountered a female one recently. They all do the same things, which I explained before.
Interesting. I feel like there's a lot of variables that go into homosexuality. I have a gay friend who always catches feels too for example.
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post 1512545971 07-18-2017, 10:58 AM
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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩
I've actually done a huge amount of research about this topic and have lots of experience in psychology.

What I've said used to be talked about in psych all the time until things got very PC.

Plus, I have known tons of dues who were players who turned out to be homos and just encountered a female one recently. They all do the same things, which I explained before.
Plus. Taking advice from a bunch of dudes who tell people to abort their daughters isn't too smart.
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post 1512547481 07-18-2017, 11:10 AM
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Sex without feelings is barely a step up from fapping. I'd probably rather fap since it doesn't involve putting any effort into such an empty endeavor.
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post 1512547701 07-18-2017, 11:12 AM
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
Lol, that would be a super cute thing to say
would it?

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post 1512547711 07-18-2017, 11:12 AM
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Originally Posted By Vito-C⏩
Sex without feelings is barely a step up from fapping. I'd probably rather fap since it doesn't involve putting any effort into such an empty endeavor.
her face won't be an empty endeavor when I'm finished.
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post 1512548081 07-18-2017, 11:14 AM
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Originally Posted By MarinoMike⏩
Interesting. I feel like there's a lot of variables that go into homosexuality. I have a gay friend who always catches feels too for example.
I view homosexuality as a type of very complex phobia.

You're going to get all kinds of weird ideas and behaviors from something like that. There isn't a phobic person alive who doesn't try and want to maintain their phobia.
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post 1512548131 07-18-2017, 11:15 AM
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Originally Posted By Mumra⏩
her face won't be an empty endeavor when I'm finished.
careful, *******. War Machine got some time for that
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post 1512548181 07-18-2017, 11:15 AM
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Originally Posted By sg1976⏩
Plus. Taking advice from a bunch of dudes who tell people to abort their daughters isn't too smart.
Are you talking about attitudes on the misc?

If so, I agree.
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post 1512548341 07-18-2017, 11:16 AM
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Originally Posted By Vito-C⏩
Sex without feelings is barely a step up from fapping. I'd probably rather fap since it doesn't involve putting any effort into such an empty endeavor.
For real, unless you enjoy sadistically tricking people, why bother with dealing with a person when you can do it yourself with zero guilt?
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post 1512548701 07-18-2017, 11:19 AM
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Honestly having done the casual sex thing now that I'm in my PRIME it's really empty for me and I'd rather just not waste the emotional energy. It makes me feel worse off honestly.

Seriously just have sex with the women you are into and see a future with. Body count only goes so far and honestly if you find a woman who you are super serious about those previous women won't matter.
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post 1512548791 07-18-2017, 11:19 AM
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Originally Posted By velvetmudhole⏩
careful, *******. War Machine got some time for that
I was talking about baby batter not my fist lol.... unless she's "into that".
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post 1512548901 07-18-2017, 11:20 AM
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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩
Girls who react that way have something wrong with them, like Borderline Personality Disorder, they don't really like dudes, are low IQ, etc.

It's not normal.
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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩
For real, unless you enjoy sadistically tricking people, why bother with dealing with a person when you can do it yourself with zero guilt?
I'm sorry, but I don't have to trick a girl in order for her to sleep with me. Don't get where you're coming from here man.

On another note, I enjoy the time spent with nearly all the girls I've slept with, and very rarely have I ever developed feelings for any going further than "she's cool, it'd be nice to see her again". Does that make me homo as hell or just someone that values personal freedom over settling with someone (and the fear of losing her or her being non-exclusive derived from those feelings)?

I'm not saying that it's normal to never get feelings, but I don't think it should be what happens every time you have sex if you have options. Those friends that slept with 3 average girls in their life and got hitched to them asap because they wouldn't get laid otherwise, and lied to themselves telling they love them...Are those what's normal?
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I've legit never caught feelings for an fwb. I've either built up a shield over the years or I have sociopathic traits bc I've genuinely never loved a girl. The last fwb I had before my gf said she loved me and really wanted to date me and I didn't feel anything I guess I should have felt bad but all I could think about was that meant I wouldn't be having sex with her anymore. Never "clicked" with a girl like some people say happens to them when they meet the right girl. I enjoy spending time with my gf but I don't think I have srs feels and we've been dating for about 8 months.
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LOL this just ****ing happened to me. I usually put all the girls in the FWB zone, which I prefer by far. Then, I deleted my Tinder acct to take a break of dating (needed to ressource) and met one last broad AFTER that.

Started catching feels on that last one after sleeping with her. FML.

And now that I'm caught up in that piece of **** state of emotion, I have 0 motivation to reinstall Tinder to save my own ass.

Sex was worth it imo.
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lol I'm kind of like this too. Not feelings like love but feelings like "yeah she was cool I wish we could keep in touch and do that again" after ONS.

Obviously the goal of tinder is to get fuk buddies at least. But when a girl cuts you off like you were just a fly on her shoulder that sucks. Like how can someone just not speak to you for the rest of their life when they swallowed your seed.

If it were up to me I would still be talking to all my ONS from tinder and still be friends. Das life tho.
Look, i know i don't really know you and all, and i know you probably hear this like everyday, but your just so perfect to me. The few hours we talked were really great even if the convo was stale, your really pretty and chill, and your country thats just perfect :'D i really dont know how to explain it, but i think i have feelings for you somehow. i never felt like this with someone i just met, but i felt the need to get it off my chest. sorry for being all weird just idk how to explain it D:
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
Honestly having done the casual sex thing now that I'm in my PRIME it's really empty for me and I'd rather just not waste the emotional energy. It makes me feel worse off honestly.

Seriously just have sex with the women you are into and see a future with. Body count only goes so far and honestly if you find a woman who you are super serious about those previous women won't matter.
I started thinking like that from time to time. But I also want to fuk hot bishes

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Stop getting feelings and avoid if you have to. Women like to chase too, period. Come out of the closet oppie or play the game right.
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stop fuking so much then
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Originally Posted By MarinoMike⏩
I'm 25 - and my counter is at 19, but I can honestly say that I developed feelings for at least 14 of those girls. This is why I hate Tinder, not because I'm unsuccessful but because I always develop feelings for the girl and then before I know it she's getting swooped up by chad. Usually lasts about two months.

TF is wrong with me?
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A lot of the *******s who claim to not catch feels actually have megafeels from some previous sloot that burned them, and carry major bitterness/baggage.
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How do you brahs deal with that fukin refractory period of clarity and regret. hits me hard. Like I could be all into sex, eating puss, spanking, all that chit.

But once I nut, I just wanna either bounce or cuddle. Depending on the girl lmao. Most of the time it's "fuk I wanna go home and watch game of thrones fuk this"
Look, i know i don't really know you and all, and i know you probably hear this like everyday, but your just so perfect to me. The few hours we talked were really great even if the convo was stale, your really pretty and chill, and your country thats just perfect :'D i really dont know how to explain it, but i think i have feelings for you somehow. i never felt like this with someone i just met, but i felt the need to get it off my chest. sorry for being all weird just idk how to explain it D:
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