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Originally Posted By QuitYourCrying
You've found the secret recipe, man. Congrats! Totally realistic to be sexually attracted to the same person every single day for 30+ years. Very realistic solution. A multi-decade marriage rests solely on lust and the whims of a woman. Solid foundation, that.

You've also never been cheated on, I'm sure. At least that's what they tell you (and you buy it).

But who was Coolidge effect?
Yes it is possible to maintain list and excitement in a relationship for years and years and years.

I've done it. Lots of other people have done it.

There's plenty of red pill resources out there on how to keep your wife attracted so she's not just emotionally bonded to you.

You have to have both emotional bonding and sexual attraction/lust in a LTR to.make it the distance.

It takes a lot more than just staying in shape. You have to understand the female sexual response which is just something I've naturally have always been blessed with.

My difficulty has always been creating sufficient emotional companionate bonds.
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Originally Posted By ALyon120
You must be on steroids or something lool

or you musta had your heart broken one too many times


Men cheat on women way more than women. That is a conclusion that goes without any discussion.
Mind posting evidence on this claim?
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1
I said if you do the things you're supposed to then you don't have to worry about cheating or divorce.

Cheating or divorce are equally bad outcomes.
No, they're not.

Yes, both parties, not just the man, should be making an effort to make the relationship work but if it's not then cheating is much more of a chitty move than leaving. The person who made the decision has the sole responsibility for being a piece of chit and they were likely always a piece of chit even if they hadn't done that specific chitty thing before.
Originally Posted By leoslayer1
Yes it is possible to maintain list and excitement in a relationship for years and years and years.

I've done it. Lots of other people have done it.

There's plenty of red pill resources out there on how to keep your wife attracted so she's not just emotionally bonded to you.

You have to have both emotional bonding and sexual attraction/lust in a LTR to.make it the distance.

It takes a lot more than just staying in shape. You have to understand the female sexual response which is just something I've naturally have always been blessed with.

My difficulty has always been creating sufficient emotional companionate bonds.
So why are you divorced and your oneitis doesn't want you then, if you know how to keep this up so they will never cheat or leave?
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Originally Posted By ALyon120
How many articles and video's are in constant circulation about how men are designed to be polygamous and cheating is inherent in their DNA.
Yeah, and the implication is always that men are absolute dogs and should be ashamed of their natural urges. They aren't told that cheating on their providing, caring, good parent spouse is somehow "empowering" and the moral thing to do.
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Originally Posted By meenman83
Truth, my ex was painted positively when she banged some other dude. I was painted negatively because I was working overseas and not around even though I was pulling in well over 6 digits to pay off the house and set up kiddos college fund.
Sorry to hear that, man. The stories I hear of promiscuous military wives would make you vomit. I don't know why any of those guys get married.
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Originally Posted By ALyon120
You must be on ***** or something lool

or you musta had your heart broken one too many times


Men cheat on women way more than women. That is a conclusion that goes without any discussion.
but they don't get a pass from society for it.

while I don't know if I was ever physically cheated on I do know I was emotionally cheated on. I've had just about every reasonable senario of relationships over the years and not once have I ever cheated thank you.

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Originally Posted By AndYUKnowThis
Mind posting evidence on this claim?
yeah, I'll wait for that evidence as well. LMAO!
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Lol at this logic. If cheating sabotages the marriage then how is cheating saving the marriage? Also if you have to cheat to "save" the marriage then the marriage is already fuked at that point.
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Originally Posted By HoustonMiscer
Lol at this logic. If cheating sabotages the marriage then how is cheating saving the marriage? Also if you have to cheat to "save" the marriage then the marriage is already fuked at that point.
women

logic

pick one.
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Originally Posted By Mumra
Truth. been saying this for years as well.


sounds like according to the women in the article that their men are doing what they're supposed to and it doesn't matter.
No they aren't doing what their supposed to do.

Lol do you think making a decent salary and coming home and doing the dishes before sitting down to watch TV is doing what your supposed to do?

That is not exciting. When people are newly dating there's a lot of dopamine released.
You have to as a man keep giving your woman those dopamine fixes the rest of your life.

The list of things you have to do is way too long to list but while it's not fair you've never arrived with a woman. You constantly have to keep trying to improve yourself.

You have to stay the exciting fun guy she dated and more for life.
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Originally Posted By Mumra
women

logic

pick one.
Lmao good point. Silly me for putting women and logic in the same sentence
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American news LMAO. It's such a joke. Mind = blown that this isn't some small feminist news station operating out of a medium
sized basement and uploading their broadcasts to youtube
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Originally Posted By ZenBowman
The destruction of marriage IS the goal of most media organizations today.

You don't need to believe in any mindbending conspiracies. Just look at who is doing the writing - mostly bitter people who are either childless or divorced giving advice on marriage and childrearing.

There should be a new rule:

If you are divorced, don't give marriage advice.
If you are a single parent (except due to the death of your spouse), don't give childrearing advice.
Its just really shocking that they are so delusional that they think it's okay to openly publish this crap. That is mind-bending enough.
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Originally Posted By cookiefiend
No, they're not.

Yes, both parties, not just the man, should be making an effort to make the relationship work but if it's not then cheating is much more of a chitty move than leaving. The person who made the decision has the sole responsibility for being a piece of chit and they were likely always a piece of chit even if they hadn't done that specific chitty thing before.


So why are you divorced and your oneitis doesn't want you then, if you know how to keep this up so they will never cheat or leave?
Because while I kill in the sexual attraction department I often fall short in other areas.

But my ex is an exception she's crazy.

My oneitis? Again she just saw me as a source of incredible orgasms.

The women in this article all seem to use terms that they are emotionally bonded but not sexually attracted.

That's because most men are naturally incline to be good at the emotional side of the equation.
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1
No they aren't doing what their supposed to do.

Lol do you think making a decent salary and coming home and doing the dishes before sitting down to watch TV is doing what your supposed to do?

That is not exciting. When people are newly dating there's a lot of dopamine released.
You have to as a man keep giving your woman those dopamine fixes the rest of your life.

The list of things you have to do is way too long to list but while it's not fair you've never arrived with a woman. You constantly have to keep trying to improve yourself.

You have to stay the exciting fun guy she dated and more for life.
This is what I firmly believe. People say relationships are complicated for a reason. Women are shtty if they cheat instead of divorcing, but men don't realize how boring they are.
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which miscers wives are doing this
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Originally Posted By ALyon120
Men cheat on women way more than women. That is a conclusion that goes without any discussion.
Yeah no. Gonna need something to back that up, otherwise it's bullchit
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Originally Posted By AndYUKnowThis
This is what I firmly believe. People say relationships are complicated for a reason. Women are shtty if they cheat instead of divorcing, but men don't realize how boring they are.
Video games are one of the top attraction killers and guys don't get it.

I'm not talking about say 3 30.minute sessions a week. But guys who will sit down for an hour to three at a time sometimes mutiple times a week.
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Originally Posted By Mercworx
Looks like Kim wants some excuses for her filthy disgusting behavior.



Nice try Kim but if a woman even looks like she thought about cheating on me she's out the door. That little axe wound isn't all you think it is. I'd rather beat off and have extra money than stay with even a mildly irritating woman.


I'm tired of degenerate perverts trying to encourage everyone else to take part in their sick lifestyles to make themselves feel better about their reprehensible choices.


White women in this country have lost their minds. It was better in the 50s when you could give them a good slap to straighten them out. I wonder if deep down that's what they need.
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1
Because while I kill in the sexual attraction department I often fall short in other areas.

But my ex is an exception she's crazy.

My oneitis? Again she just saw me as a source of incredible orgasms.

The women in this article all seem to use terms that they are emotionally bonded but not sexually attracted.

That's because most men are naturally incline to be good at the emotional side of the equation.
I can't necessarily agree with any of what you're saying in this post, but it's irrelevant anyway, as even if you're right it still doesn't excuse cheating.
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Originally Posted By ALyon120
you musta had your heart broken one too many times


Men cheat on women way more than women. That is a conclusion that goes without any discussion.
Not true you dumb bitch, who's conclusion? Lmao you've been reading way too many gossip girl magazines and letting mainstream news brainwash you. It goes back from the beginning of time, just the fact that men are naturally inclined to being loyal and women aren't is enough to determine which gender cheats more.
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Originally Posted By cookiefiend
I can't necessarily agree with any of what you're saying in this post, but it's irrelevant anyway, as even if you're right it still doesn't excuse cheating.
I didnt say it excuses cheating. I said it creates the conditions for cheating to enter her mind. Or divorce to enter her mind.

And you're wrong, the worst outcome for a man is to be married to a woman that is emotionally bonded to him, stays faithful to him for life but has zero attraction for him.

That's hell on earth.
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I'm fine with this

As long as infidelity invalidates the claims a spouse has to the others assets
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you motherfukers who let women have the ability to crush your soul when they cheat need to reevaluate.

never be the more invested one in the relationship. ever. always have the ability to be happy with or without them. Cucks are the one who put their women on pedestals.

You need to start thinking that women are lucky to have YOU. Not the other way around.

fukin *******s who go all depressed once their gf leaves them for another man smh.

jerk off, then it's on to the next one. another cutie will have you easily forget an ex. easily. another honeymoon period to look forward to. another new vagina to play with. See yourself as a reborn free man when your bitch leaves you.
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1
I didnt say it excuses cheating. I said it creates the conditions for cheating to enter her mind. Or divorce to enter her mind.
Why are we even having this discussion then when I agreed ages ago that is true that whatever is happening in the relationship can lead to someone making this decision, but that they won't make that decision unless they are a piece of chit.
And you're wrong, the worst outcome for a man is to be married to a woman that is emotionally bonded to him, stays faithful to him for life but has zero attraction for him.

That's hell on earth.
How can I be wrong on this when I didn't make any kind of statement on this at all?
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Originally Posted By Mumra
but they don't get a pass from society for it.

while I don't know if I was ever physically cheated on I do know I was emotionally cheated on. I've had just about every reasonable senario of relationships over the years and not once have I ever cheated thank you.

p.s. mentioning dat derr cell tech can get you banned fyi. besides what on Earth does that have to do with anything?



yeah, I'll wait for that evidence as well. LMAO!
The support for men cheating does not demonzie them (much of the time), in fact it normalizes cheating. I cannot tell you how many of my lady friends I know who believe a man cheating 'is normal'. This is the product of social engineering, many women of different cultural backgrounds have been socialized to feel that cheating is something normal.

That may be the case for you (not cheating) but I can assure you majority of your 'brahs' have cheated, if not once, multiple times.


Regarding evidence for why men cheat more than women, then that is non-refutable. Firstly, the man's physical urge for sexual desires is inherently stronger than a womans, secondly, a man cheating is again 'normalized' in society, and thirdly, the over-sexualisation of women as sexual objects arouses men who may not cheat TO be more inclined to cheat.

It is not even arguable. Out of 100 women I'd say 50% have cheated before, but out of say a sample of men, the odds are that 80% have cheated on their respective partners. (of course this are hypothetical figures but nonetheless an indication that a man cheating is likely to be far higher than a women cheating, due to social acceptance, and Western civilisation).
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Originally Posted By ALyon120
The support for men cheating does not demonzie them (much of the time), in fact it normalizes cheating. I cannot tell you how many of my lady friends I know who believe a man cheating 'is normal'. This is the product of social engineering, many women of different cultural backgrounds have been socialized to feel that cheating is something normal.

That may be the case for you (not cheating) but I can assure you majority of your 'brahs' have cheated, if not once, multiple times.


Regarding evidence for why men cheat more than women, then that is non-refutable. Firstly, the man's physical urge for sexual desires is inherently stronger than a womans, secondly, a man cheating is again 'normalized' in society, and thirdly, the over-sexualisation of women as sexual objects arouses men who may not cheat TO be more inclined to cheat.

It is not even arguable. Out of 100 women I'd say 50% have cheated before, but out of say a sample of men, the odds are that 80% have cheated on their respective partners. (of course this are hypothetical figures but nonetheless an indication that a mea cheating is likely to be far higher than a women cheating, due to social acceptance, and Western civilisation).
Can you post sources to these claims? Where are you getting these statistics? You have what, 5 female friends saying that cheating is normal? And that sample size is enough to assume all 10 billion women on this planet think cheating is normal?
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Originally Posted By ALyon120
The support for men cheating does not demonzie them (much of the time), in fact it normalizes cheating. I cannot tell you how many of my lady friends I know who believe a man cheating 'is normal'. This is the product of social engineering, many women of different cultural backgrounds have been socialized to feel that cheating is something normal.

That may be the case for you (not cheating) but I can assure you majority of your 'brahs' have cheated, if not once, multiple times.


Regarding evidence for why men cheat more than women, then that is non-refutable. Firstly, the man's physical urge for sexual desires is inherently stronger than a womans, secondly, a man cheating is again 'normalized' in society, and thirdly, the over-sexualisation of women as sexual objects arouses men who may not cheat TO be more inclined to cheat.

It is not even arguable. Out of 100 women I'd say 50% have cheated before, but out of say a sample of men, the odds are that 80% have cheated on their respective partners. (of course this are hypothetical figures but nonetheless an indication that a mea cheating is likely to be far higher than a women cheating, due to social acceptance, and Western civilisation).
-asked for proof when stating something as fact
-says things like "I'd say" and "odds are".

So you're saying you've got nothing?
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1
My oneitis? Again she just saw me as a source of incredible orgasms.
Sort of on the level of a decent vibrator, huh? Yikes.
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Originally Posted By cookiefiend
-asked for proof when stating something as fact
-says things like "I'd say" and "odds are".

So you're saying you've got nothing?
I did say they are just hypothetical figures. Do read the full post.

There probably are stats about this if you look hard enough on Google somewhere...
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