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post 1542747151 02-03-2018, 07:19 PM
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Originally Posted By eod8989
I absolutely hate socializing though. Nobody likes talking to me and people think i'm off because i'm so quiet.

Some people don't find going out in groups fun
well that's just because no one in the group likes you. Stop crying and fist yourself. Then after fisting yourself try to be more likeable.
post 1542747201 02-03-2018, 07:20 PM
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Originally Posted By W1LLW
Sad as fuk itt, this brew can't be real stew.

Put on some decent clothes. Take care of your body. Go out with a group. Have fun, put out good energy, chat up chicks to get them talking about themselves, toss in your own applicable hobbies, smile and profit.
You say this as someone who is likely act or above
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Originally Posted By MediocreGains
People get perceived as awkward and creepy when they're actually being awkward and creepy. Awkward and creepy also aren't the same thing. Plenty of awkward guys only come across as shy and harmless. Creepy is a whole other thing.
Only ugly guys can be awkward and creepy. No one has ever called a good looking guy awkward or creepy.
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Originally Posted By JoeDelts
There was a famous experiment done in the 60's with mice and the effects of population density on the social structure and behaviors of the mice. Basically once they became overpopulated all kinds of weird things happened in their "society". The females stopped breeding but the males spent their time shining their coats trying to look their best all for nothing. They were dubbed "the beautiful ones". The researchers drew parallels to what could happen to human society given the same conditions. There are videos on youtube about it. Google "the beautiful ones mice" if you're interested.

It was here that his most famous experiment, the mouse universe, was created.[1] In July 1968 four pairs of mice were introduced into the habitat. The habitat was a 9-foot (2.7 m) square metal pen with 4.5-foot-high (1.4 m) sides. Each side had four groups of four vertical, wire mesh "tunnels." The "tunnels" gave access to nesting boxes, food hoppers, and water dispensers. There was no shortage of food or water or nesting material. There were no predators. The only adversity was the limit on space.

Initially, the population grew rapidly, doubling every 55 days. The population reached 620 by day 315, after which the population growth dropped markedly, doubling only every 145 days. The last surviving birth was on day 600, bringing the total population to a mere 2200 mice, even though the experiment setup allowed for as many as 3840 mice in terms of nesting space. This period between day 315 and day 600 saw a breakdown in social structure and in normal social behavior. Among the aberrations in behavior were the following: expulsion of young before weaning was complete, wounding of young, inability of dominant males to maintain the defense of their territory and females, aggressive behavior of females, passivity of non-dominant males with increased attacks on each other which were not defended against.[2]

After day 600, the social breakdown continued and the population declined toward extinction. During this period females ceased to reproduce. Their male counterparts withdrew completely, never engaging in courtship or fighting. They ate, drank, slept, and groomed themselves – all solitary pursuits. Sleek, healthy coats and an absence of scars characterized these males. They were dubbed "the beautiful ones." Breeding never resumed and behavior patterns were permanently changed.

The conclusions drawn from this experiment were that when all available space is taken and all social roles filled, competition and the stresses experienced by the individuals will result in a total breakdown in complex social behaviors, ultimately resulting in the demise of the population.

Calhoun saw the fate of the population of mice as a metaphor for the potential fate of man. He characterized the social breakdown as a "second death," with reference to the "second death" mentioned in the Biblical book of Revelation 2:11.[1] His study has been cited by writers such as Bill Perkins as a warning of the dangers of the living in an "increasingly crowded and impersonal world."[3]
quoted to highlight importance. i've actually heard of this before and it's very interesting. i actually know a few "beautiful ones".
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Originally Posted By Briangumble
Only ugly guys can be awkward and creepy. No one has ever called a good looking guy awkward or creepy.
Only other guys will, to try to throw them off or lower there value in front of lady’s.
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Originally Posted By Briangumble
Only ugly guys can be awkward and creepy.No one has ever called a good looking guy awkward or creepy.
that's not true
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Originally Posted By drvillain
that's not true
99% awkward comments at good looking guys will be from other guys. If a women says, it doesn’t mean they guy doesn’t have a chance, unless he is ext awkward, which is rare.
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Originally Posted By azakdan2682
99% awkward comments at good looking guys will be from other guys. If a women says, it doesn’t mean they guy doesn’t have a chance, unless he is ext awkward, which is rare.
guys don't **** on good looking guys. SRS. This is all a play you wrote in your head
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Originally Posted By drvillain
guys don't **** on good looking guys. SRS. This is all a play you wrote in your head
Yes they do. It’s called cockblocking.
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Originally Posted By Lucianus
threads like these make me so happy i'm gay
wish i was gay dawgie

sloots is fukn bonkers mane
Originally Posted By drvillain
guys don't **** on good looking guys. SRS. This is all a play you wrote in your head
not true my dawgie

they see you as a threat and try to take you out, they're usually reachin pretty hard though, make up some random fukn insult about your shirt or something in front of the sloots, i'm just like yeah okay lil fella no worries
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post 1542748741 02-03-2018, 07:34 PM
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Originally Posted By azakdan2682
Yes they do. It’s called cockblocking.
cock blocking by a dude, only occurs when a dude wants dat ass for himself, and that has nothing to do with looks.
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Originally Posted By Brozart
wish i was gay dawgie

sloots is fukn bonkers mane
i love women (in other ways), but i'm so happy i'm attracted to the less complicated gender lmao
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Originally Posted By drvillain
cock blocking by a dude, only occurs when a dude wants dat ass for himself, and that has nothing to do with looks.
Usually thought because the other guy who is being cock blocked is better looking that the blocker himself so he has to compensate by trying to make fun of the one who has the woman in an effort to seem like he is more alpha. All you can do is laugh at such efforts
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Originally Posted By wincel
I've given up. I've come to accept that it is just nature minimizing some sort of potential energy curve that changes due to changes in the environment. In an abstract sense, we all represent potential solutions to the evolutionary problem of survival and reproduction. Some of us are more efficient at these tasks and will end up surviving to reproduce. The next generation will inherit some of these traits. In doing so, the system will proceed in response to the environment to produce solutions that are better at survival and reproduction. Those of us who were bad solutions will be culled from the pool. That is all life is. That's all we are. A bullet to the head, brains on the floor, raindrops falling to the ground, tide goes in, tide comes out, and at the end of it all, a giant rock just goes around the sun one more fuking time. We are just transients, and life is just a far-from equilibrium phenomenon that will run its course. Eventually, everything will be destroyed, and this will all have been ultimately pointless. We fear our fates, but we do not lament the deaths of the plants or animals that we consume, nor do we feel sorrow for the bacteria that must be destroyed so we may live. Life is a giant competition. Nature is brutal and cruel, and it only rewards the strong and crushes the weak and inferior. We are all just methods of replication, and all of our human accomplishments, like art, science, engineering, etc are just a means to that end. Every feeling and emotion is for the same purpose. We are just soulless biological automatons in the void. When a fly fails to find a mate, and drops dead to the ground, nobody cares. It was a bad solution. So was Timothy. Do not cry for him. There will be many more like him. There is nothing special or sacred about human life. Genetically inferior solutions will be purged from the pool.


For what it's worth, you have a beautiful mind

Although I would add that genetically "superior" solutions are equally as pointless and will be purged eventually too

it's nice knowing that nothing has meaning. It brings me peace, cause who really gives a fuk?
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Originally Posted By Lucianus
i love women (in other ways), but i'm so happy i'm attracted to the less complicated gender lmao
i do too mane, that's the problem


can't live with 'em can't live without 'em ETC ETC

love to hate 'em hate to love them ETC ETC
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Originally Posted By Ayz33
Usually thought because the other guy who is being cock blocked is better looking that the blocker himself so he has to compensate by trying to make fun of the one who has the woman in an effort to seem like he is more alpha. All you can do is laugh at such efforts
This.
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i’m awkward as fuk asking girls out and i’ve never been called creepy
creepy is a word for being a weird touchy ******* and not understanding social q’s
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Originally Posted By FIREnICE
quoted to highlight importance. i've actually heard of this before and it's very interesting. i actually know a few "beautiful ones".
When they're not working, what do they do with themselves?

Also,

MGTOW + mum's basement = bad
MGTOW + self-actualisation = good
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Originally Posted By FIREnICE
quoted to highlight importance. i've actually heard of this before and it's very interesting. i actually know a few "beautiful ones".
It's essentially what this entire thread is about. The male mice completely checked out and had no interest in pursuing the females and instead focused on solitary pursuits. Substitute male mice with human men and shining coats with lifting weights and we are currently living the human version of the experiment.
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
I know busted women in their 40's and 50's who are still getting plowed by 9/10 Chads on the reg. They aren't getting marriage, but their bills are paid and they have Chad sexors on command. I think that is propelling the MGTOW movement more than anything. If a 6/10 dude could get a 4/10 wife, they would happily settle.
yes, even 40 + fat single mothers have super high standards even for just hookups..
theres are no scraps left for an average guy or whatever I am. Even with my physique these fat sloths are like.. meh.. nah
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Originally Posted By RocknRollMuscle
cope.

deciding to not have kids, grow old, then die a miserable lonely broke life is not only sad, but pathetic.

people do'nt respect pathetic guys. Most of them are ugly creepy awkward losers anyways. Why women don't want them.
Please tell me more about what woman what so i can do what you do and adjust my life accordingly to what these whores want. Should I get a necklace or does the female population say thats bad? how about a nice red shirt? is that bad or good? Which female organization can i contact if i am worried about these?

idiot
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Typical late 20s guy that shut off to work on his career and dreams checking in. At first women chased harder and I relished in the ease of it all, but they’ve given up now.

I’ll wake up wondering if it was worth it a few years from now; it probably won’t be, and I’ll never get the time back. I have hope that I won’t regret it, however, because the vast majority of people aren’t happy as evidenced by high divorce rates, anti-depression medication epidemic, and other pharmaceutical addictions. Maybe carving out my own path will help me escape the slow encroaching death that I see on the faces of people around me. Or maybe they were like me and the path that I am on will only lead to where they are, but I am caught up in delusion and cannot see it.
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Originally Posted By wincel
I've given up. I've come to accept that it is just nature minimizing some sort of potential energy curve that changes due to changes in the environment. In an abstract sense, we all represent potential solutions to the evolutionary problem of survival and reproduction. Some of us are more efficient at these tasks and will end up surviving to reproduce. The next generation will inherit some of these traits. In doing so, the system will proceed in response to the environment to produce solutions that are better at survival and reproduction. Those of us who were bad solutions will be culled from the pool. That is all life is. That's all we are. A bullet to the head, brains on the floor, raindrops falling to the ground, tide goes in, tide comes out, and at the end of it all, a giant rock just goes around the sun one more fuking time. We are just transients, and life is just a far-from equilibrium phenomenon that will run its course. Eventually, everything will be destroyed, and this will all have been ultimately pointless. We fear our fates, but we do not lament the deaths of the plants or animals that we consume, nor do we feel sorrow for the bacteria that must be destroyed so we may live. Life is a giant competition. Nature is brutal and cruel, and it only rewards the strong and crushes the weak and inferior. We are all just methods of replication, and all of our human accomplishments, like art, science, engineering, etc are just a means to that end. Every feeling and emotion is for the same purpose. We are just soulless biological automatons in the void. When a fly fails to find a mate, and drops dead to the ground, nobody cares. It was a bad solution. So was Timothy. Do not cry for him. There will be many more like him. There is nothing special or sacred about human life. Genetically inferior solutions will be purged from the pool.
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Originally Posted By wincel
I've given up. I've come to accept that it is just nature minimizing some sort of potential energy curve that changes due to changes in the environment. In an abstract sense, we all represent potential solutions to the evolutionary problem of survival and reproduction. Some of us are more efficient at these tasks and will end up surviving to reproduce. The next generation will inherit some of these traits. In doing so, the system will proceed in response to the environment to produce solutions that are better at survival and reproduction. Those of us who were bad solutions will be culled from the pool. That is all life is. That's all we are. A bullet to the head, brains on the floor, raindrops falling to the ground, tide goes in, tide comes out, and at the end of it all, a giant rock just goes around the sun one more fuking time. We are just transients, and life is just a far-from equilibrium phenomenon that will run its course. Eventually, everything will be destroyed, and this will all have been ultimately pointless. We fear our fates, but we do not lament the deaths of the plants or animals that we consume, nor do we feel sorrow for the bacteria that must be destroyed so we may live. Life is a giant competition. Nature is brutal and cruel, and it only rewards the strong and crushes the weak and inferior. We are all just methods of replication, and all of our human accomplishments, like art, science, engineering, etc are just a means to that end. Every feeling and emotion is for the same purpose. We are just soulless biological automatons in the void. When a fly fails to find a mate, and drops dead to the ground, nobody cares. It was a bad solution. So was Timothy. Do not cry for him. There will be many more like him. There is nothing special or sacred about human life. Genetically inferior solutions will be purged from the pool.
You're like that only virgin in a group of bros, cool af but you just need to get laid man
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post 1542754691 02-03-2018, 08:51 PM
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Originally Posted By Brozart
i do too mane, that's the problem


can't live with 'em can't live without 'em ETC ETC

love to hate 'em hate to love them ETC ETC
have u ever thought about escorts? srs

or do you want a relationship?
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Originally Posted By eod8989
This is how it appears when i look around. Men looking like boys. Cope on their faces. Men settling.

Also noticed that at my job and the gym none of the guys talk to girls. All that test and nobody making moves. I just don't think men operated like this 25-35 years ago.
because they're stuck up. you go talk to them. then analyze her though process, her judgement against you, and then see if she comes up to you next time. do it.
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Fact of the matter is that most girls aren't chit. They have no hobbies, no interests(except social media), no personalities and are boring as fuk to be around. I cant understand how some guys settle for women like that.
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Originally Posted By azakdan2682
99% awkward comments at good looking guys will be from other guys. If a women says, it doesn’t mean they guy doesn’t have a chance, unless he is ext awkward, which is rare.
that's delusional man, it's a myth

i've already stated what my looks have been deemed as from the other sex in this thread, and I've been called a creep for the silliest things like literally just walking past some chick and saying hi

not even slightly interested in her sexually whatsoever, literally just trying to be genuinely nice
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Originally Posted By wincel
Genetically inferior solutions will be purged from the pool.
How different would the world be, if... recessive genes that create intelligence and beauty were dominant genes... instead of recessive genes.

It seems like those with recessive traits are siding against everything that natural selection is.
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Originally Posted By azakdan2682
Yes they do. It’s called cockblocking.
It's mostly fat girlfriends who cockblock.
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