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post 1546351231 03-13-2018, 06:41 PM
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Originally Posted By AWillis
i am not the one using "hot" and "super hot" to describe a female, and from your posts i can tell your mindset is very weak. and you do come across as putting more attractive women on a pedestal.

i treat all women the same, hot, average and not so hot. i have fked all, many times. the way i act doesn't change. i put my bid in, i am direct. i tell them what i want and if they are interested to hit me up and let's make it happen. that is it. job done, time saved. i don't waste time with small talk and i don't have to play these games you speak of because i have more important things to do with my time (like misc).

how many doctors and lawyers have you fked? how many have bought you gifts and taken you out for dinner or sucked your dick in the car outside their home? next you will be telling me you pay for these "hot" chicks.
Please you fukin *******. Its a way to objectively classify attractiveness of women

Do you need me to post 3 pictures and ask you to objectively rate them or are you going to classify them into one hodge podge of a "mixture" you cuck?

Am i supposed to brag like that is something bragworthy you cuck? I thought we werent classifying or dignifying experiences superior to one another

One again, good luck thinking super hot girls will chase you
post 1546351351 03-13-2018, 06:42 PM
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post 1546351541 03-13-2018, 06:45 PM
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Originally Posted By ANumber1
Maybe you should tell us what you think these "games" look like.
Reciprocation. Just hot and cold

The games could be endless.

Maybe you brought up hanging out but it wasnt super direct, so she was previously on you then backs off a bit and wants you to pursue harder.

Emphasis on that she was reciprocating.

Were talking someone genuinely better for dating not ons or a tinder or club sloot
post 1546351591 03-13-2018, 06:46 PM
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Originally Posted By irollurmom
not gonna lie, the first part of this was very well-written. the *awkwardly backs away* *awkwardly comes back* part had me dying lmao
Brother this entire thing was full of cringe.. cold openings are simple. The best advice is to think of it as a LinkedIn add.. "Thanks for the add, good to meet you virtually. What brought you here?"
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post 1546352011 03-13-2018, 06:52 PM
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Originally Posted By propreffered7
Please you fukin *******. Its a way to objectively classify attractiveness of women

Do you need me to post 3 pictures and ask you to objectively rate them or are you going to classify them into one hodge podge of a "mixture" you cuck?

Am i supposed to brag like that is something bragworthy you cuck? I thought we werent classifying or dignifying experiences superior to one another

One again,good luck thinking super hot girls will chase you
it is quite sad if you haven't had this happen to you on multiple occasions. it really isn't very hard. if you can make a woman feel certain emotions and she is sexually attracted to you from what you say (or whisper in her ear) she will follow your lead and chase you if you choose to ignore her/play games (which i don't recommend because that is being a b1tch).

you really do put too much emphasis on how a woman looks. do you feel beneath a hot chick like you have to earn her or something? why don't you see yourself as valuable - the catch and she needs to earn time with you. pussy is not the prize - you are.
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post 1546352211 03-13-2018, 06:55 PM
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Originally Posted By propreffered7
Reciprocation. Just hot and cold

The games could be endless.

Maybe you brought up hanging out but it wasnt super direct, so she was previously on you then backs off a bit and wants you to pursue harder.

Were talking someone genuinely better for dating not ons or a tinder or club sloot
I'm going to be blunt with you here:

"hot or cold" could be a personality disorder, but 80% of the time, she's running cold because she's got something else going on.

At a basic level, when a woman is backing out of hanging out with you, it's because whatever else she has to do is preferable. Maybe it's quality time with her parents, maybe it's rolling the dice on snowballing a random from the club with her sorority sister tonight, maybe she suddenly decided to start Nahuatl lessons, or she's just completely uninterested and decided to binge-watchYoungerfor the third time while texting other dudes she's not going to bone. Doesn't matter, because the takeaway is that there's something she would prefer to do overyou.

She's probably not sending a secret coded message to try harder,she is just not as excited about you as she is about her other options. Very few stable people are going to consideryouso important that they're going to deprivethemselvesof what they really want simply to make a point to you. This is what I mean about the low-key solipsism, the idea that she's actually sitting there trying to figure out how to manipulate you into proving yourself to her instead of worrying about her own needs. You're not going to change an emotionally healthy person's preferences by pushing harder. They're just going to get annoyed.

If she comes back later, it's almost certainly just because she's bored, and probably because whoever she was banging when she rejected you didn't work out. If anything, if she was attracted to you at all, she'smorelikely to come after you if youdon'tchase and set off alarms about why you have nothing else going on in your life to distract you from a woman who obviously wasn't offering any kind of a payoff for your efforts at the time.
Nah, fukk that. I’m not doing that.
post 1546352901 03-13-2018, 07:07 PM
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Originally Posted By Nicklol
dont see the problem here.
a lot of women waste time and it can get annoying at times
Which one of these was you and how many time did she ignore your ******** messages before you snapped?
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post 1546352961 03-13-2018, 07:08 PM
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Originally Posted By Maylie
Which one of these was you and how many time did she ignore your ******** messages before you snapped?
none of these ones
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post 1546353361 03-13-2018, 07:14 PM
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Originally Posted By nogainnogain
yea, he is a miscer, alright
need username for negs
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post 1546353531 03-13-2018, 07:16 PM
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Originally Posted By Nicklol
dont see the problem here.
a lot of women waste time and it can get annoying at times
Strong user title, you mean all women in your case. I can only imagine how many innocent girls you've made cringe through text
post 1546354691 03-13-2018, 07:31 PM
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Shiii must feel good as a sloot having thirsty people giving them attention

Why the fuk isn't it that easy for dudes srs
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post 1546354891 03-13-2018, 07:33 PM
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post 1546355021 03-13-2018, 07:35 PM
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Originally Posted By Deezenutz
Shiii must feel good as a sloot having thirsty people giving them attention

Why the fuk isn't it that easy for dudes srs
Would you really like it if 2/10 girls did this to you all the time?
Might be nice at first for your self esteem and to feel validated, but after awhile it must get old, especially for girls since these things can turn dangerous if the guys are creeps.
post 1546355121 03-13-2018, 07:37 PM
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post 1546355291 03-13-2018, 07:38 PM
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Attack of the betas lol

Cringy as fuk, when will these soyboys learn
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post 1546355301 03-13-2018, 07:39 PM
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Originally Posted By Twerk4it
Would you really like it if 2/10 girls did this to you all the time?
Might be nice at first for your self esteem and to feel validated, but after awhile it must get old, especially for girls since these things can turn dangerous if the guys are creeps.
Actually yeah that's true. And then you have to break it to them that you're not interested and feel like chit
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post 1546356181 03-13-2018, 07:49 PM
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Both sides made me cringe. Men have no chill and women don't know how to properly respond.



























post 1546356711 03-13-2018, 07:54 PM
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Being a 'Nice guy' is just a phase in most guys early teen life, you may deny it but I bet 99% of you guys acted like these angry entitled guys who are so mad/disillusion about getting pu$$y they don't realise how idiotic they act because they're still learning and are immature as were most of us. The sad thing is this phase can go on for years into their late 20's before they gain any self-awareness of their actions, it's pathetic but it can't be helped. What's really worry-some is when you see the younger guys who aren't exactly mentally stable begin to experience these strong feelings of entitlement/desire for women and met with complete rejection, it can drive some of these young guys to do pretty rash actions leading to serious incidents. You've seen on the news, its just sad man.
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post 1546359541 03-13-2018, 08:27 PM
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Originally Posted By eltoro24
If I was a chick and some dude sent me.

*blushes deeply, looks at ground takes a deep breath* hi how are you *fiddles with hand nervously*

My pussy would get dryer then the Sahara desert.
They can't be real. Could they?! Wow. Still funny tho!
post 1546359771 03-13-2018, 08:31 PM
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Fukin lol.

While I'm sure many are fake... having been around miscers for this long, it's probably not too far off from what some of you have pulled.
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Originally Posted By poptarts
Both sides made me cringe. Men have no chill and women don't know how to properly respond.



























How does one properly respond to "silly nugget" preceded by unsolicited roleplay?
The closer we approach the uncertainty of life's ending the more we wish to trade all of the things we have acquired in exchange for all of the things we have lost: wealth for youth, knowledge for fresh curiosity, resignation for hope. We'd trade our wisdom for new experiences, but it is wisdom that will teach us that at the end of the road the only new experience is death.
post 1546360291 03-13-2018, 08:36 PM
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Originally Posted By Twerk4it
Sounds like one of those yellow fever miscers.
post 1546360541 03-13-2018, 08:39 PM
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sounds like a bunch of miscers....
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Originally Posted By MyGhettoFantasy
How does one properly respond to "silly nugget" preceded by unsolicited roleplay?
Seriously. Of course the mature response is "This isn't working, please stop and don't contact me again." But most people are going to have a hasty and visceral reaction that goes something like, "Ack, stop!" Or "No, bye." And that's pretty understandable. When confronted with this level of weirdness, I think "NO" is a perfectly understandable response.
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I chuckled.
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Originally Posted By Clkflynn
Being a 'Nice guy' is just a phase in most guys early teen life, you may deny it but I bet 99% of you guys acted like these angry entitled guys who are so mad/disillusion about getting pu$$y they don't realise how idiotic they act because they're still learning and are immature as were most of us. The sad thing is this phase can go on for years into their late 20's before they gain any self-awareness of their actions, it's pathetic but it can't be helped. What's really worry-some is when you see the younger guys who aren't exactly mentally stable begin to experience these strong feelings of entitlement/desire for women and met with complete rejection, it can drive some of these young guys to do pretty rash actions leading to serious incidents. You've seen on the news, its just sad man.
Can't be helped.
Being the "nice guy" will just get you manipulated in life in the end. I'm talking about in a lot of social relationships and business. I'm not saying to be a dick or anything but you should always be somewhat authoritative and be aware of what you are doing
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post 1546364421 03-13-2018, 09:19 PM
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Let's be real, those are not NICE guys. They are guys with no social skill, they are just using the word "nice" because they can't think of any other merits that will attract female.
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Originally Posted By AWillis
it is quite sad if you haven't had this happen to you on multiple occasions. it really isn't very hard. if you can make a woman feel certain emotions and she is sexually attracted to you from what you say (or whisper in her ear) she will follow your lead and chase you if you choose to ignore her/play games (which i don't recommend because that is being a b1tch).

you really do put too much emphasis on how a woman looks. do you feel beneath a hot chick like you have to earn her or something? why don't you see yourself as valuable - the catch and she needs to earn time with you. pussy is not the prize - you are.
Its simply biology man. Your fukin delusion is annoying

Look around the world. Im literally not using any personal example (except for hot, cold scenario) im talking about the world objectively

Simply put men have nuts and are more horny than women. That means for every 1 woman, there are more men pursuing her than vice versa

Why arent men plastered on walls (i mean i know they are, but lets be real not near the magnitude). Look at porn. Go to a cam site and look at the male rooms vs. Female rooms. Women completely dominate the sexual marketplace and theres no contest.

I mean im willing to admit im not as in demand as a prime sloot what forebearance does that have on my success rate? Which is quite high mind you.

I dont need any advice on women but youre kidding yourself if you think you can drop a tinder line on a 10/10 woman and completely separate yourself
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Originally Posted By ANumber1
I'm going to be blunt with you here:

"hot or cold" could be a personality disorder, but 80% of the time, she's running cold because she's got something else going on.

At a basic level, when a woman is backing out of hanging out with you, it's because whatever else she has to do is preferable. Maybe it's quality time with her parents, maybe it's rolling the dice on snowballing a random from the club with her sorority sister tonight, maybe she suddenly decided to start Nahuatl lessons, or she's just completely uninterested and decided to binge-watchYoungerfor the third time while texting other dudes she's not going to bone. Doesn't matter, because the takeaway is that there's something she would prefer to do overyou.

She's probably not sending a secret coded message to try harder,she is just not as excited about you as she is about her other options. Very few stable people are going to consideryouso important that they're going to deprivethemselvesof what they really want simply to make a point to you. This is what I mean about the low-key solipsism, the idea that she's actually sitting there trying to figure out how to manipulate you into proving yourself to her instead of worrying about her own needs. You're not going to change an emotionally healthy person's preferences by pushing harder. They're just going to get annoyed.

If she comes back later, it's almost certainly just because she's bored, and probably because whoever she was banging when she rejected you didn't work out. If anything, if she was attracted to you at all, she'smorelikely to come after you if youdon'tchase and set off alarms about why you have nothing else going on in your life to distract you from a woman who obviously wasn't offering any kind of a payoff for your efforts at the time.
Strong knowing everything going on errbodys life.

The example i was giving actually had to do with a chick who went out of state when i asked, but keep going with your generalizations. Im sure theyll help someone
post 1546365851 03-13-2018, 09:38 PM
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Originally Posted By propreffered7
Simply put men...are more horny than women

I dont need any advice on women
Choose only one.
Nah, fukk that. I’m not doing that.
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