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Thread: Just got rejected repeatedly (7x) at the bar/lounge.

post 1546740451 03-18-2018, 09:55 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Why are you being a dik to someone that is trying to give perspective from a females viewpoint? I don't have to go if I don't want to so fuk off.
Lmao female miscers are so easy to rustle.
post 1546740731 03-18-2018, 09:59 AM
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Originally Posted By AquilaConfido⏩
Lmao female miscers are so easy to rustle.
lmao at thinking you rustled me. I just disagree with what you said about SoutheastBeasts approach.
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post 1546740751 03-18-2018, 09:59 AM
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Originally Posted By AquilaConfido⏩
Lmao female miscers are so easy to rustle.
lol dude all you've said ITT is "lmao at..." and gif images.
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post 1546741471 03-18-2018, 10:11 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Why are you being adikto someone that is trying to give perspective from a females viewpoint? I don't have to go if I don't want toso fuk off.
Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
lmao at thinking you rustled me. I just disagree with what you said about SoutheastBeasts approach.
post 1546741651 03-18-2018, 10:14 AM
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Originally Posted By AquilaConfido⏩
You think just because I said dik and fuk off I'm rustled? Lemme throw an LMAO at you out there. lol
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post 1546741751 03-18-2018, 10:16 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
You think just because I said dik and fuk off I'm rustled? Lemme throw an LMAO at you out there. lol
Strong attempt at downplaying your outburst. Plz go old woman.
post 1546741781 03-18-2018, 10:17 AM
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post 1546741981 03-18-2018, 10:20 AM
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Originally Posted By AquilaConfido⏩
Strong attempt at downplaying your outburst. Plz go old woman.
But it wasn't an outburst. lol Again, no. I will not go. So there! lmao
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post 1546742151 03-18-2018, 10:22 AM
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Originally Posted By AquilaConfido⏩
Strong attempt at downplaying your outburst. Plz go old woman.
You called a perfectly good way to approach women autistic. Not sure what you're adding here other than sending unwanted nudes.
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post 1546742191 03-18-2018, 10:23 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
But it wasn't an outburst. lol Again, no. I will not go. So there! lmao
>Calls people a dik, says fuk off
>Not an outburst

Pick one.
post 1546742381 03-18-2018, 10:26 AM
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Originally Posted By AquilaConfido⏩
>Calls people a dik, says fuk off
>Not an outburst

Pick one.
I didn't call you a dik. I asked why you were acting like one towards me. There is a difference. I also use the word fuk quite often in different ways. I don't consider that an outburst. If I said "Fuk you you mother fukking dik head" That's an outburst. lol
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post 1546742571 03-18-2018, 10:28 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
I didn't call you a dik. I asked why you were acting like one towards me. There is a difference. I also use the word fuk quite often in different ways. I don't consider that an outburst. If I said "Fuk you you mother fukking dik head" That's an outburst. lol
Yeah whatever keep backtracking, you're just another insecure female miscer over the age of 40 who gets rustled over just about anything, and then feigns ignorance.
post 1546742771 03-18-2018, 10:31 AM
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Originally Posted By AquilaConfido⏩
Yeah whatever keep backtracking, you're just another insecure female miscer over the age of 40 who gets rustled over just about anything, and then feigns ignorance.
AquilaConfido pls.................

Trust me, I am not back tracking. There are those here who do rustle me, you are not one. LMAO I am just like LMAO at you.
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post 1546742831 03-18-2018, 10:33 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
AquilaConfido pls.................

Trust me, I am not back tracking. There are those here who do rustle me, you are not one. LMAO I am just like LMAO at you.
Refer to post #71.

And keep backtracking.
post 1546742841 03-18-2018, 10:33 AM
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Originally Posted By AquilaConfido⏩
Strong attempt at downplaying your outburst. Plz go old woman.
Stop cock blocking the action for us old guys. lol
Just show up. Move some iron. Put in the time. Eat enough food.
post 1546743641 03-18-2018, 10:44 AM
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Originally Posted By AquilaConfido⏩
Refer to post #71.

And keep backtracking.
Sigh...... I already responded to post #71. I'd also like to point out that I haven't said one derogatory thing about you and yet you've insinuated that I'm ugly, called me old and insecure. But I'm the one who's rustled? I'm done arguing with you. Have a great day boyo.
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post 1546743821 03-18-2018, 10:46 AM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Sigh...... I already responded to post #71. I'd also like to point out thatI haven't said one derogatory thing about youand yet you've insinuated that I'm ugly, called me old and insecure. But I'm the one who's rustled? I'm done arguing with you. Have a great day boyo.
Again, refer to post #71.
post 1546745041 03-18-2018, 11:04 AM
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>AquilaConfido says miscers are autistic for giving compliments
>Goes on 2 page autistic rant
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post 1546745231 03-18-2018, 11:06 AM
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Originally Posted By CaliSuperSport⏩
>AquilaConfido says miscers are autistic for giving compliments
>Goes on 2 page autistic rant
Who are you again?
post 1546747361 03-18-2018, 11:45 AM
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Originally Posted By AquilaConfido⏩
Did you randomly approach or did you watch for some signals.

5'5 is tough bro, I'm 5'9 and when I was doing this in my 20s in Central London nightclubs, I was practically invisible.
Damn. Sorry guys being under six foot sounds like it makes getting laid so much harder..
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Originally Posted By CaliSuperSport⏩
I'd do something like this OP, rather than randomly walking up cold to people. You need super high confidence and energy to do that and even then you'll get blown out a few times.

I talk to randoms all the time when I go out. To keep it simple, when I talk to people it's from an angle of helping everyone have a better time. I get in a social vibe with my friends and then open convo with groups around us. I go to breweries so I ask what they're drinking, and tell them about this kick ass spot in town with awesome beer and food they should check out, introduce them to my friends who do/live/are going somewhere awesome.

Once you start chatting you may end up striking a chord and mention something they have alot of interest in. People who are great at socializing can dig that out of people effectively. If cute girls are in the group try to bring them into the conversation, because sometimes people will just sit there while you talk to the person you started convo with, and then the convo dies because you're basically hijacking their friend.

Also try not to go to traditional "upscale" or "nightclub" type bars. Music is usually too loud and people act like it's a club (super defensive/bitchy). Try breweries or something like a beer garden where people aren't acting like stuck-up, wannabe *******s.
Great advice. Come from the angle that you're there to have fun and to augment everyone else around yourself to have fun as well.

People are attracted to fun. That's why they go out in the first place.
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post 1546747861 03-18-2018, 11:56 AM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
LOL at approaching random women. Reeks of desperation and low social status. I've never cold approached a woman and never will because it's sad. Even more sad approaching them at bars over the age of 25.
WTF? Men who can’t cold approach are usually low self esteem losers who belong to the autism crew. Don’t try and keep others down because your a puss.
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Originally Posted By CaliSuperSport⏩
>AquilaConfido says miscers are autistic for giving compliments
>Goes on 2 page autistic rant
Don't worry, he's making himself look like an ass in here. Let him throw his fit in solitude.
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op - at 5'5, you better be 160lb+ lean, dress well and have acquired decent face genetics.

if you're below 7/10 in attractiveness then clubs aren't for you my friend.

having said that , i've seen 6'2 8/10 dudes get rejected 15+ times before striking lucky. numbers game still apply.
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Ignoring all the **** you can’t change..people go out to have fun.

If you aren’t adding to that experience then you’ll get rejected. Chads and Stacey’s fit right into the story that people are telling themselves of what a fun night needs to be.

There’s other ways to add to it though and it’s typically not by having a standard conversation that people have heard a million times
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Keep it pushin OP. While you may be a manlet, that won't stop you from getting womanlet pussy! Just take a multi and keep lifting HEAVY
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Sounds like normal dating events for the unattractive. I don't even bother with approaching.
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5'5 is rough. Even at 5'8 I can feel a disadvantage. Maybe stick to social circle?
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