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Thread: Do women in their 30s play games like this?!

post 1546962481 03-20-2018, 05:46 PM
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
EDIT: JUST ****ING TEXTED ME. I **** you not.

"*waves* I made it back in one piece :-) how was time with the family?"
I don't see anything wrong with her text. The last guy I dated texts me two or three days later and sometimes I do that too when I am busy. From reading other people's posts, it seems that everyone is in a rush (I got to know if he or she likes me .. I got to know if there is still interest.. I am losing time... ) for what? I guess I am more old fashioned than I thought and like to wait. Lol..
post 1546965231 03-20-2018, 06:16 PM
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Originally Posted By SwimLiftRunGrl⏩
I don't see anything wrong with her text. The last guy I dated texts me two or three days later and sometimes I do that too when I am busy. From reading other people's posts, it seems that everyone is in a rush (I got to know if he or she likes me .. I got to know if there is still interest.. I am losing time... ) for what? I guess I am more old fashioned than I thought and like to wait. Lol..
because youre a chick with a steady stream of dudes coming at you. if a guy doesnt talk to a girl for days that means there was a ton of other dudes she could be talking to and move on.
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Originally Posted By SwimLiftRunGrl⏩
I don't see anything wrong with her text. The last guy I dated texts me two or three days later and sometimes I do that too when I am busy. From reading other people's posts, it seems that everyone is in a rush (I got to know if he or she likes me .. I got to know if there is still interest.. I am losing time... ) for what? I guess I am more old fashioned than I thought and like to wait. Lol..
I'm a patient guy, but when I get back out dating I won't be wasting time. That doesn't mean texting incessantly, but when we meet up I'll be determining viability as a good partner and mother as quickly as possible. Losses will be cut quickly.

- What are her core values and philosophies (position on individual responsibility, loyalty, integrity etc.)?
- Does she align to and desire complementary and traditional gender roles?
- Does she want to get married, what type of home, how many kids?
- How do we resolve conflict? Does she use reason and evidence to establish a position, and can we negotiate effectively?
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post 1546970641 03-20-2018, 07:18 PM
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Sorry it turned out that she's a game-playing thot man. It's a bummer when they lead you on like that too. And both sides do it, good girl friend of mine just had this happen with a dude she went on a few dates with.

Lots of people are flaky and conflict avoidant. I just make zero time for this dishonest bs. It's shallow and pathetic.


And while some of the ladies on here give reasonable advice and feedback, some of you remind me of a woman complaining about women being sex objects while holding a well-worn copy of 'Fifty Shades of Grey". The cognitive dissonance is real.
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Wish I would have gotten to this earlier. Seen she was playing games off the first post. If youโ€™re looking for something serious let her go now. Sheโ€™s just going to keep playing with your emotions then ghost you. Just find some who is overly excited by you. And play it cool
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BTW I responded to her last text a few hours later and what I really think is going on is some form of 'benching'. Basically pursuing other options while keeping me on the backburner.

She has mentioned that she has friends and family coming in town, stuff going on, etc. but then she could even communicate more.

When someone's flirting and reciprocity goes down the tube it is an emotional shift. I was thinking I was being boring, she lost attraction, or something. Really we clicked...and we did upon first meet. There were sparks. It was enough to have sex with her multiple times.

So she likes me but for whatever reason I'm not 'ideal'. Maybe too young for her, lifestyle difference, I mentioned I wanted kids and she isn't sure, etc. Probably will keep trying to breadcrumb until I either ignore or we meet and have sex then rinse and repeat lol.
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post 1546981681 03-20-2018, 09:38 PM
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
BTW I responded to her last text a few hours later and what I really think is going on is some form of 'benching'. Basically pursuing other options while keeping me on the backburner.
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I suspect youโ€™ve hit the nail on the head. Easy next.

Good thing sheโ€™s bad at it.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Again, while all of these ignoring games might work, why bother. Just move on imo and fcuk the games.
This is 2018 boyo, survival of the fittest. A little bit of SUBTLE game increases your odds two fold, so why not? You are basically saying no I don't choose to maximize probability of success. The games are only at the start anyway. Your character is too genuine for that though and that's fine, but I can assure you that it ain't helping you unless you meet a woman who is the same (very rare, especially if attractive). If a woman plays games it doesn't necessarily make them a bad person. It just means you have more work to do. Someone like me dissects their weak game, they see it doesn't work and then they usually become putty in my hands because I am different than what they used to. They legit turn beta instead of the other way around.

sword: she doesn't sound like a long term candidate when she says she is not sure about kids. Translation: anything but "I want kids" means she doesn't want kids but doesn't disclose that outright because she may not want you to leave. Nothing wrong with having some fun with dating until you find your ideal match though. You too quick to pull out IMO, even if you are looking to settle down. She is exploring her options, just like you should be too (and are by sounds of it). How did text convo go? Did you banter her?
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
She explicitly said we had good chemistry lol so no.

Just a psycho modern dater lolol. Conflict averse for sure.

I did ghost a girl once because her pussy stank. Legit tried to get her to shower with me the next time and wipe but she didn't. Couldn't have sex with her twice.
What a woman says =/= what she truly feels.

What she says is more an indicator of whats on her mind than how she may actually feel about it.

And im certainly not blaming you for any lack of sexual chemistry. In the end. I am not thete, i don't have the benefit if context, or the chance to read body language.


Just my opinion that if you blew her back out, you wouldn't be getting ghosted.


Edit - if you are being benched or breadcrumbed, no reason to be butthurt. Just start treating her like a fuk toy. Only respond when dtf. Look at her as part of your stable, not your bottom bitch.
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
I know how promiscuous women are. Just her words and actions were otherwise.

No hookups want something serious rah rah right? She resisted my advances before she decided she was comfortable and secure enough to have sex with me.

I recall one time going over to her place after having sex with her 24 hours ago just to walk in have sex. I tried and she stopped me to talk, said she wanted that first before doing anything...lol I **** you not dude. Oh and the long text about sex being an emotional connection for her.


Contrast to one night stands I have. One girl I talked to for a few weeks due to scheduling conflicts finally meeting and one night standing her. Her calling me a dick tease for taking so long lol.

I thought the doc was looking for something serious as she said. Oh well.
She reminds me of some women I'm friends with. These are the type of women that are fun to hang out with, but who are soul crushing to date. Women in their 30s, who still look good, have a good job, and who has dated a ton of guys in the past. Not necessarily slept around, but who has met and dated loads of guys. And now they're conflicted between settling down and finding someone who is good enough for them (princess syndrome).

These types of women are damaged goods. They have had too many options in the past, and have jumped from guy to guy, while "focusing on their career".
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
BTW I responded to her last text a few hours later and what I really think is going on is some form of 'benching'. Basically pursuing other options while keeping me on the backburner.
My man

Now you are starting to get it.

Next time sandbag just enough to get a sense of the chickโ€™s true intentions before you deploy more resources.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I suspect youโ€™ve hit the nail on the head. Easy next.

Good thing sheโ€™s bad at it.
Yep. These things are very easy to spot.
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Originally Posted By HayZues
Just my opinion that if you blew her back out, you wouldn't be getting ghosted.


Edit - if you are being benched or breadcrumbed, no reason to be butthurt. Just start treating her like a fuk toy. Only respond when dtf. Look at her as part of your stable, not your bottom bitch.
I donโ€™t think thatโ€™s prudent advice if you are genuinely nice and/or sensitive. I really think the OP is genuine and has good intentions. Actually itโ€™s the fastest way for chicks to lose respect for you and the OP tends to attract chicks like this. What the OP should really do is start to make his way to the exit and be very frank why he thinks she will not be a good match for him (what I use for justifiable reasons are: communication gaps, communication impediments, ambiguity over my role in the relationship). The most important thing is to take ownership of your inability to resolve any gaps in communication (well because you really canโ€™t do that because she is not communicating with you). You are basically stating that you are not a fu*k toy and itโ€™s very effective in getting a prompt response

If she doesnโ€™t respond you know where you stand and can pursue other women guilt free. If she takes her sweet time just tell her you want to become platonic friends and explain that itโ€™s not for you. She might be furious but she will respect you.

Women do these kind of things because they are too sensitive and canโ€™t handle rejection. You need to respect yourself enough not to tolerate this!
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Originally Posted By sanblz33⏩
I donโ€™t think thatโ€™s prudent advice if you are genuinely nice and/or sensitive. I really think the OP is genuine and has good intentions. Actually itโ€™s the fastest way for chicks to lose respect for you and the OP tends to attract chicks like this. What the OP should really do is start to make his way to the exit and be very frank why he thinks she will not be a good match for him (what I use for justifiable reasons are: communication gaps, communication impediments, ambiguity over my role in the relationship). The most important thing is to take ownership of your inability to resolve any gaps in communication (well because you really canโ€™t do that because she is not communicating with you). You are basically stating that you are not a fu*k toy and itโ€™s very effective in getting a prompt response

If she doesnโ€™t respond you know where you stand and can pursue other women guilt free. If she takes her sweet time just tell her you want to become platonic friends and explain that itโ€™s not for you. She might be furious but she will respect you.

Women do these kind of things because they are too sensitive and canโ€™t handle rejection. You need to respect yourself enough not to tolerate this!
Difference in being nice and setting boundaries. That's why I'm disconnecting. Of course it hurts because it's one of those situations that you've already been intimate and they disconnect. I think it's that more than anything.

I could see what you mean by being decisive and terminating things vs dating others, being casual, etc.
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
Difference in being nice and setting boundaries. That's why I'm disconnecting. Of course it hurts because it's one of those situations that you've already been intimate and they disconnect. I think it's that more than anything.

I could see what you mean by being decisive and terminating things vs dating others, being casual, etc.
Dude think this through. She has already been intimate with you (all that she really wanted from you in the end judging by your posts), is being non communicative, and placed you on a roster with a bunch of other guys. If she really valued the intimate time you had together there wouldnโ€™t be any breadcrumbing. If you just want to slay and nothing more then proceed with what you are doing but if you want something extra you are going to be spinning your wheels trying to change her (doesnโ€™t matter how good you bang her when all she is really looking for is variety in life). Obviously you have no problems getting dates so Iโ€™m confused why you will not terminate things amicably.

Iโ€™m still trying to understand miscers. Lol
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Originally Posted By sanblz33⏩
Dude think this through. She has already been intimate with you (all that she really wanted from you in the end judging by your posts), is being non communicative, and placed you on a roster with a bunch of other guys. If she really valued the intimate time you had together there wouldnโ€™t be any breadcrumbing. If you just want to slay and nothing more then proceed with what you are doing but if you want something extra you are going to be spinning your wheels trying to change her (doesnโ€™t matter how good you bang her when all she is really looking for is variety in life). Obviously you have no problems getting dates so Iโ€™m confused why you will not terminate things amicably.

Iโ€™m still trying to understand miscers. Lol
You realize it's an ego thing partly right?Especially with certain personality types.
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
You realize it's an ego thing partly right?Especially with certain personality types.
LMAO.

This is the misc. I should have known better!
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
You realize it's an ego thing partly right?Especially with certain personality types.
It's always an ego thing. And it's what prevents you from moving on. It clouds your judgment and makes you do stupid things. It's not a matter of getting over her but getting over yourself.
wait wut
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Originally Posted By sanblz33⏩
LMAO.

This is the misc. I should have known better!
Originally Posted By BuildUpNow⏩
It's always an ego thing. And it's what prevents you from moving on. It clouds your judgment and makes you do stupid things. It's not a matter of getting over her but getting over yourself.
Getting disrespected or ignored infuriates me lol. It's not even productive I know but I'm not alone in this.
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
Getting disrespected or ignored infuriates me lol. It's not even productive I know but I'm not alone in this.
Yeah you're not alone LOL. Reminds me of this thread.https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...hp?t=175511661
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Originally Posted By BuildUpNow⏩
Yeah you're not alone LOL. Reminds me of this thread.https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...hp?t=175511661
I understand the anger but sometimes it's unwarranted. Like some people are genuinely busy and sending nasty emails is no good.

I've had a girl tell me to go rot in hell and I only went on a date with her once (had sex) and hung out at her place lmao.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I'm a patient guy, but when I get back out dating I won't be wasting time. That doesn't mean texting incessantly, but when we meet up I'll be determining viability as a good partner and mother as quickly as possible. Losses will be cut quickly.

- What are her core values and philosophies (position on individual responsibility, loyalty, integrity etc.)?
- Does she align to and desire complementary and traditional gender roles?
- Does she want to get married, what type of home, how many kids?
- How do we resolve conflict? Does she use reason and evidence to establish a position, and can we negotiate effectively?
You are different. You are on a fast track to get marry and have kids so I understand why you want answers right away.
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Originally Posted By SwimLiftRunGrl⏩
You are different. You are on a fast track to get marry and have kids so I understand why you want answers right away.
So you think this is acceptable & normal behavior?
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Originally Posted By SwimLiftRunGrl⏩
You are different. You are on a fast track to get marry and have kids so I understand why you want answers right away.
Thereโ€™s no fast track to that life tho
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Originally Posted By fishnbrah⏩
because youre a chick with a steady stream of dudes coming at you. if a guy doesnt talk to a girl for days that means there was a ton of other dudes she could be talking to and move on.
Not every chick have a stream of dudes. I'm old, don't do online dating and don't like talking to random people in public so I have no idea what is happening in the dating world nowadays. lol. I was just trying to understand why the rush if you are not getting marry or having kids right away.
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
So you think this is acceptable & normal behavior?
Honestly, I really don't know if it is acceptable or normal behavior. You guys have more dating experiences than I do. My friends and I grew up with our parents teaching us to talk to one man at a time and see if it works out or not. It is not lady-like to jump around with different men. I was just posting in terms of my own experiences. The last guy I dated I waited for him and we were together for one year before he dragged me into his baby mama drama.
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Originally Posted By SwimLiftRunGrl⏩
Honestly, I really don't know if it is acceptable or normal behavior. You guys have more dating experiences than I do. My friends and I grew up with our parents teaching us to talk to one man at a time and see if it works out or not. It is not lady-like to jump around with different men. I was just posting in terms of my own experiences. The last guy I dated I waited for him and we were together for one year before he dragged me into his baby mama drama.
I'm also a proponent of 1 person dating. If the initial date goes well, then don't multi date.
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post 1547044021 03-21-2018, 03:13 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I'm also a proponent of 1 person dating. If the initial date goes well, then don't multi date.
This is, IMO, crucial to any form of bond or prospect of relationship forming
post 1547044581 03-21-2018, 03:19 PM
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Originally Posted By SwimLiftRunGrl⏩
I don't see anything wrong with her text. The last guy I dated texts me two or three days later and sometimes I do that too when I am busy. From reading other people's posts, it seems that everyone is in a rush (I got to know if he or she likes me .. I got to know if there is still interest.. I am losing time... ) for what? I guess I am more old fashioned than I thought and like to wait. Lol..
Come on get real...how busy can you be where it takes you 3 days to text back? People do everything from their phone, there is no way you can't find a few mins to text someone.
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