LOL at this roll bread.

No one can be that retarded.

No man he was accepted to a top rated college.
Maybe opie is one of those people whose brain is full?
You know they hit the point where when they cram more knowledge in one side of the head and chit like "water is wet" falls out the other ear?

You're an absolute fukking idiot, give your head a shake.

Well, mum, from a woman's perspective, would you think this girl's excuse of, "I don't want to meet you before you leave cause it'll be harder to say goodbye, but I'll be here waiting once you're done." legit? I mean, is it possible for her to actually thinking this and not bsing?

She might feel that way now but wait a month when other guys are hitting her up and you're not there and see what happens. She'll likely move on.
Now if you want to try and pursue a long distance relationship then meet up before you leave and see if she wants to remain in contact. Removing the physical element will be interesting. You'll be forced to connect on an emotional and intellectual level to sustain the relationship. This can be a difficult but rewarding challenge in the end. If it works out she'll likely turn into a clinger though and be hitting you up all throughout the day and night. That could interfere with your studies or even worse you catch feels while she doesn't and that fuks with your studies.

I've been through something similar and would recommend against having any further contact with her.

Cheers!

Yeah, we're meeting up soon just before I leave. Its going to be a late breakfast/lunch and no alcohol so I hope to connect with her and really figure out where this might be heading.

As for the whole dropping out of University thing, yeah I guess I'm not going to be so stupid, but I think that had I met this girl earlier, I would have rejected the offer.

Maybe I've watched too many movies about love trumping everything, but to me, spending my life with a special girl is way more important than advancing my career. Might be just that I'm infatuated, sure, but this feeling is worth ten times more than a big paycheck.

Edit: I understand where ya'll are coming from. But isn't it more beta to be cucked by falling into line and working corporate for 25 years so you can get a gold watch at the end of it as opposed to living with a girl who can make a story book life come true?

Edit: I understand where ya'll are coming from. But isn't it more beta to be cucked by falling into line and working corporate for 25 years so you can get a gold watch at the end of it as opposed to living with a girl who can make a story book life come true?

I spent last night drafting up a letter to the admission's office of a college I got accepted into, requesting a deferral of acceptance for a year. I don't want to boast, but just putting things in perspective - This institution is ranked #1 in the country for its MBA program and is very hard to get into (Avg GMAT 710). People dream of getting in, but I'm seriously considering throwing away my acceptance offer.

I know its beta, but its because of a girl. One I met off of Tinder no less.

I matched with her 3 weeks ago. I wanted some fun before I left. My bio reads 'Kindle and chill?' so this girl probably knew what was up from the start. Right off the bat she's down to meet, tells me that she can lift my mood since I'm having a bad day. Problem is that I'm packing up at my job and moving to another city for my MBA for a year so I was busy and couldn't.

I forget about her for a week and later decided to text her with the classic, "Are you an American High School? Cause I want to shoot some kids inside of you."

Surprisingly she reciprocates, and asks, "Are you going to woo me before you screw me?"

So she's down. I make sure I got protection and head out to meet her. Thing is I fall in love with her on the first date. She is shy as fuk, and halfway through, I wonder if I'd misread her completely. I mean she can't even get herself to say sex, and instead blushes, looks down and calls it, 'you know... doing it." We spend 5 hours together and it feels like the blink of an eye. We walk by a nearby lake, smoke a joint and when its time to leave, I kiss her on the cheek. (no homo)

I wonder if maybe I'd been a pussy for not going in, but she wants to meet again, and a day later, we meet for a Bon Jovi/Bryan adams cover band.

5 hours. 1 hour simple talking. 1 hour dancing to the band.2 hours spent in a private lounge we snuck into, where we can still hear the music, but sit together, and hold hands and blush like a couple of high school teenagers.

She says I'm different, that she thought I was an ******* over text who only wanted sex. She calls me handsome, she notices the veins on my arms through my dress shirt and traces them with her finger (Always buy one size small). Says I'm 'well framed' (All that liftan paying off). Says she's never been past a second date, but surely will with me.

Then the topic of me leaving for a year comes up. She seems disappointed. I tell her a war has been fought and won in 6 days and yet she seems apprehensive.

After 2 hours of sitting there, staring at each other's eyes, I finally walk her home, and for the next half an hour we make out behind her house.

I really thought this was it, who would have known, that I'd find a diamond in the rough of fukin Tinder. But as I'm driving home, probably 5 mins after leaving her I get this text:

'There were definitely fireworks tonight. But I don't want it to build anymore. I'd like to pick up when you come back. If you'd still want to of course.'

Literally 5 mins after she was all over me. WTF?

I ask her to meet the next day, and she says she can't because she's meeting college friends. Then she hits me with,'You know this is only going to make it harder when you leave which is inevitable and soon'

I ask if I'm going to see her before I leave?

She says,'I don't need to meet you again to know that I like you, but you going away, and us texting now and then is definitely going to kill whatever we have now. I'd rather have last night and pick up where we left off when you come back.'

Now I think I know my way around girls and smell bull****. So I ask het point blank if she's cutting me off.

She sends me this,'I think you're incredible darling (kissy emoji). If you're not around I'll come find you. This is not me cutting you off'

And that's it so far.

Ive been sitting by the phone waiting for it to buzz, yet everytime it does its one of my ******* friends. I literally do not understand what is going on. She says she's been 'hurt' in the past and she's afraid of goodbyes. Fine, I get that, but if she's into me, then why the hell won't she meet me as many times as she can before I go? Ten days? Ten dates!

I got nothing but positives vibes on both of our dates, and the second one really, really made me felt that this was it. I've become completely unproductive since and cannot bring myself to even get out of bed. I know its beta, but this was something straight out of a movie and I cannot imagine letting her go like this.

She wants to wait for a year. She even said she will try to come and see me. Okay, fair enough, but what is really bothering me is the fact that she won't meet before I leave.

Could someone explain to me what she might be feeling? Do I still have a chance? I mean, is she being genuine in what she says? And why is she trying to distance herself before I leave, while at the same time promising, to pick it off when I get back?

The MBA program here is very rigorous and I doubt Ill have the time to fly and meet at all. Is it possible that things might work out or am I hoping for too much? I know its stupid but I'd be willing to forgo everything for her.

Would reallllly appreciate a female miscer's perspective on this too.

Cliffs:
- OP gets into top uni for MBA (no brag)
- OP is leaving for uni in ten days and meets tinder girl who he thinks is DTF
- OP discovers that he misread her. OP is a ******* and falls in love with her on first date
- Second date is out of a movie - 5 hours of talking, dancing, holding hands and spending it in silence while looking into each other's eyes
- Ends second date with a half hour makeout session
- 5 mins later, OP gets text from girl, saying she thinks they should wait till he gets back (one year) before taking it further
- OP is confused cause he still has ten days. Why won't she meet?
- Grill assures OP she likes him, and even if he isn't around, that she'll come find him after a year
- She says she's bad at goodbyes, and doesn't want it to build before OP leaves.
- OP considers rejecting offer letter
- OP is a beta *******
- OP wants to know wtf is going on?

Can I keep the faith for one year or am I being dumb and should I book a ticket to North Carolina?

Edit: I understand where ya'll are coming from. But isn't it more beta to be cucked by falling into line and working corporate for 25 years so you can get a gold watch at the end of itas opposed to living with a girl who can make a story book life come true?