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Thread: Optimal # of girls in rotation? FA’s stay out

post 1552340591 05-25-2018, 03:48 PM
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post 1552340611 05-25-2018, 03:49 PM
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Originally Posted By TheWeeknd4Ever⏩
1. Some guys aren’t looking for a girlfriend and like to meet new women.

2. Wear a condom? If you don’t you’re an idiot
1. It's still a lot of time to sink, and personally I could not be fukked. I have trouble keeping up with 1.
2. Won't protect you from Herpes, HPV strains and plenty of other diseases.
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post 1552340941 05-25-2018, 03:53 PM
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Originally Posted By TheWeeknd4Ever⏩
Why is everyone so fixated on the fact if you’re seeing multiple women you are focusing too much of your life on them and not furthering yourself?

Lmao, biggest load of garbage I’ve ever heard. Literally work 60 hr weeks, study 2 hours a night after work, try and hit the gym 3-4 times a week. Sorry if I use my offtime to either go out with friends or hang with some women.

Just lmao @ that logic. If you’re an unemployed bum who still lives at home, yeah, maybe pursuing women isn’t for you at this time. But when you have a great career, great health, peak fitness levels, your own place, good friends and finances in order? Yeah, I think I can afford to see a few women here and there
It's about balance and also the nature of the relationships. What am saying is to prioritize all those things you list. Obviously you're doing it right and should carry on but the fact is not everyone has the energy or ability to manage their career, fitness, finance, etc correctly AND also a full on harem. In particular long term gfs usually eventually end up consuming more time, if local at least 1 weeknight and 1 weekend night seems to be a starting point. Throw in another night for a side chick (alternate weeks), another night to just hang out and chill. A couple nights working late... not a whole lot of time left.

It certainly can be done and is a good goal to strive for but I do think there's some misconceptions on how much time this sort of life style can consume. Some of us will be energized by it, others not so much. Don't really know what works for you until you try different scenarios and see what feels best.

EDIT: banging an endless string of randos off tinder is a different matter, an endeavor that should consume a minimum of time and $.
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post 1552341131 05-25-2018, 03:55 PM
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2-3

I feel anything more than that just annoying
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post 1552341261 05-25-2018, 03:57 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
1. It's still a lot of time to sink, and personally I could not be fukked. I have trouble keeping up with 1.
2. Won't protect you from Herpes, HPV strains and plenty of other diseases.
To each his own I guess.

True, but you could get any of those from seeing just one girl and getting really unlucky. If you’re practicing safe sex and not being stupid you’re odds will be astronomically better.
post 1552341351 05-25-2018, 03:59 PM
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Originally Posted By YvonDucharme⏩
I don't understand your og post. You say you're juggling multiple women. Are you spending money on these women? Do they think that they're in a relationship with you? Sounds like you're meeting women off tinder which I dont understand why that warrants a thread.
Mix. Some i met irl and some off bumble or tinder
post 1552341731 05-25-2018, 04:03 PM
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actually going on dates? 1
just having sex every once in a while? a few
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post 1552342981 05-25-2018, 04:21 PM
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post 1552343151 05-25-2018, 04:23 PM
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What a retarded thread
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post 1552344341 05-25-2018, 04:41 PM
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Originally Posted By Fuqdatass⏩
What a retarded thread
Even better contribution
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Only two there are. No more, no less
post 1552345341 05-25-2018, 04:54 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Dunno how you get pleasure out of randoms cos it takes a while to build the type of trust that elevates sex from a sport to something special

But ...wild oats should be sown freely
That's why the randos I vibe with get a place on the rotation.
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anything more than 4 for me was too much to handle. i liked to still be looking for new girls to add too and it got kind of hard trying to get new prospects at that point. was way too much to pay attention to and i think i went something like 0 for 15 for even setting up a date with a new chick. if you like the chase trim it down to 2-3 and get at it.
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1 girl that is your main chick (not necessarily gf) but you take her out.

2 **** buddies. Depending on the week, these positions may interchange.

But aside from that there's obviously one night stands and really short term deals (no more than 3 times)

Any more than 3 is not really doable unless you're prioritising have sex, which you shouldn't.
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post 1552346861 05-25-2018, 05:11 PM
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What kind of stupid question is this? Anyone with an ounce of logic would know that it depends on multiple variables.

How much free time do you have?
How much money do you have?
Everyone has a different tolerance for BS and games as well as different needs for sex.

Retarded question without any context.
post 1552346971 05-25-2018, 05:12 PM
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For every guy with more than 1 girl in a rotation, there are that many less one guys in FA mode (srs).
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post 1552347311 05-25-2018, 05:17 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Not my cup of tea sunshine

You get horses in stables ..not worthwhile women
Depends on your definition of worthwhile. When I was rotating 4 the main girl was an 8/10 blonde. Trophy looking girl and smart as hell too. Would cook for her, Netflix binge etc... But she didn't like anal. So my 2nd was a Brazilian that let me piitb. And boy what a butt she had. But she didn't have long straight black hair I could wrap around my wrist when I was behind her. So the 3rd was a Latina freak with long hair. But these 3 girls were late 20's/early 30's and I longed for something a little tighter and younger. So the 4th girl was a college girl. Mission complete.
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Some miscers getting seriously rustled over a simple question lmao

The answer is SUPPOSED to be based off of your history, experience and perspective and from that you can tell me what has worked for YOU. Accumulating a large sample of individual perspectives on this issue can shed some major insight into the topic.

But if you prefer to be salty, that's cool lmao
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yes and you can catch STD's from a relationship too if they're cheating. First thing I did after my breakup was get tested and I was lucky enough to be all clean but I could've easily gotten an STD in my marriage.

The only way to be completely safe is to be celibate lifelong.
That is really poor logic - you can possibly get STDs from a cheating partner, therefore it's exactly the same as fcuking multiple women who are also fcuking multiple other men.
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Originally Posted By spadelexus⏩
Depends on your definition of worthwhile. When I was rotating 4 the main girl was an 8/10 blonde. Trophy looking girl and smart as hell too.
Except she wasn't a quality woman - she was either a slut, or she was stupid. I believe Rabbitjb is referring to a quality, self-respecting woman.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
That is really poor logic - you can possibly get STDs from a cheating partner, therefore it's exactly the same as fcuking multiple women who are also fcuking multiple other men.
not really.

when youre with a partner, you'd assume that they're faithful and not sleeping around. when it's casual, you must accept the risk from the offset that the girl could have something from the other dudes she ****s.
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Who cares if you get an STD. I got warts the first time i had sex.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
No of course it's not the same. But with sex there is always a risk.
Yes there is, but we're talking about ranges of risk.
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I prefer to keep one on rotation and then mix in new ones that I don't continue seeing. Easy to fuk multiple girls, but hard to juggle your time and emotions between multiple long term girls.
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When I was single it was 3. But it never got old waking up to a lot of girls sending dms on IG, snaps, tinder msgs etc, but 3 was the core, when I think of girls in rotation I think girls your smashing. Because also had anaother girl who was just a friend with who would introduce me to friends, drive me around etc
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Except she wasn't a quality woman - she was either a slut, or she was stupid. I believe Rabbitjb is referring to a quality, self-respecting woman.
No she was a head software engineer at a multinational financial technology company. You know the chips in credit cards? She helped develop and produce that a few years ago in the U.S. for BoA, Chase, Capital One etc... I always told her if she wasn't so smart she could have been a model. And her lay count was less than 10. She got out of a 5 year relationship 6 months before I met her and rebounded with 1 guy before me. She didn't let me bone on date 1 etc...

The only stupid thing about her was that she fell so hard for me. Only girl I ever regret letting go.

The other 3 yea, dumb sloots.
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