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post 1554037891 06-17-2018, 11:23 AM
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Originally Posted By HockeyBacon18⏩
its kinda fuked up but ive begun to realize that not chasing makes me lose interest fast. theres no thrill and theres no rush
Wait, if you donโ€™t have to chase it makes you lose interest?
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post 1554061001 06-17-2018, 05:51 PM
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Originally Posted By HockeyBacon18⏩
its kinda fuked up but ive begun to realize that not chasing makes me lose interest fast. theres no thrill and theres no rush
I'm not saying it's wrong to pursue someone. Of course if you're interested you should pursue them. But they shouldn't be playing stupid games. You srsly like someone who will string you along and play head games making you chase them?
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Wait, if you donโ€™t have to chase it makes you lose interest?
I've had that. The thrill of the hunt yada yada yada...then once you catch her it's not as fun
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Originally Posted By HangingChad⏩
I've had that. The thrill of the hunt yada yada yada...then once you catch her it's not as fun
Fuk that, see sig.
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post 1554063731 06-17-2018, 06:34 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Fuk that, see sig.
How's that working out for ya?

Generally speaking I agree with you. It was fun back when I enjoyed drama.
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Originally Posted By HangingChad⏩
How's that working out for ya?

Generally speaking I agree with you. It was fun back when I enjoyed drama.
You shouldn't have tochaseany woman. You can show your interest, and they mutually move forward.
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post 1554064241 06-17-2018, 06:42 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
You shouldn't have tochaseany woman. You can show your interest, and they mutually move forward.
Not all women are the same. Some enjoy being chased. Some men enjoy chasing them. There's a whole lot of people out there with a lot of preferences. Whatever is working for you, more power to you.
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Originally Posted By HangingChad⏩
Not all women are the same. Some enjoy being chased. Some men enjoy chasing them. There's a whole lot of people out there with a lot of preferences. Whatever is working for you, more power to you.
I think it's pretty pathetic (for both the woman and the man), but whatever floats your boat.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I think it's pretty pathetic (for both the woman and the man), but whatever floats your boat.
So you never go after women? They just come flocking to you? Must be nice...some of us have to work at least a little for it.
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Originally Posted By HangingChad⏩
So you never go after women? They just come flocking to you? Must be nice...some of us have to work at least a little for it.
There's a difference between 'the chase' and working a little for it. I already said you have to show interest. But you're alluding to a situation where she is playing hard to get or cold, and you are working to get her into bed.
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
3 some with a 21 and 23 yo friends of my daughter

Getting tired of dating, but I can stop. I keep thinking I will miss out if I do. LOL!
ROFL.....youuuuuuu piglet. Did your daughter find out?

FOMO brah, don't stop
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
Good luck on your dates!!
Question: What are you looking for?
I'm just dating and seeing if anything pans out. A LTR would be nice, but I'm not going to force it.
Originally Posted By mhrreturns⏩
Nice to see you're still on the grind mate, I'm sure something will come good soon. It always amazes me how many people you have on the go at the same time, like I struggling to find one person right now who I actually find somewhat interesting so its big motivation to get back on the grind again.

Not much to write home for myself recently tbh. Finished uni and results are looking really positive, started a new job that's going to be a big test going forward but plenty of opportunities for progression. One of my close friends recently had a moment whilst attending a church service and has gone full blown christian from being very strongly atheist in the last few months. He invited me to his baptism and since then I've been going to the sunday service on and off when we decide to meetup. The people there seem really welcoming, and there is a few cute girls attending the service regularly as well which I wouldn't mind getting to know them.

Does anyone have experience with dating church girls? I was hoping they would be less inclined to revolve around drama like most of the other girls I speak to. Also might be worth mentioning that I am interested in learning more about Christianity, not just speaking to them for a quick smash and dash by pretending to be interested with the religious stuff.
How do you know if they are interesting or not if you don't go out with them? I just look for common interests and if we have them I set up a date to see how well we mesh in person.

My dad keeps telling me about all the single women at his church. I'm not religious, so I don't know why he keeps bringing it up. Sure they may be nice, but since I don't share the faith it would never work.
Originally Posted By reinsdorfsucks⏩
Story? Details?
Went to bar with my daughter. She introduced me to two of her friends that happened to be there. I ended up playing pool with them later in the night. One of them started flirting with me. Told her I would walk her home, since she lived down the street. She was with her friend, so she said no. Went back to the bar the following week and they were there. The one made it clear the only reason she came to the bar was to see me. Started flirting some more. I basically old her we should hook up. She said yes and brought up the 3some with her friend. I was making out with both of them in the middle of the bar and apparently one of the bouncers was after the friend and said something jelly as we left. LOL.
Originally Posted By HangingChad⏩
Not all women are the same. Some enjoy being chased. Some men enjoy chasing them. There's a whole lot of people out there with a lot of preferences. Whatever is working for you, more power to you.
I agree with Luc, mutual or nothing. There's nothing fun about constantly wondering if she's into you as much as you are into her or will drop you as soon as someone more interesting comes along.
Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
ROFL.....youuuuuuu piglet. Did your daughter find out?

FOMO brah, don't stop
Nah, I doubt it. They are all ******** friends, though. LOL.

Update:

Last date with the woman I've been seeing the past few weeks went well. She seems really into me. She's not the type I usually go for, but we just have so much in common, it's kind of hard to not want to give it a chance. We have plans to go to a winery event on Saturday, but imagine we will see each other before then. She was in a pretty bad car accident yesterday, though. No serious injuries, but I'm sure she will be taking it easy this week.

There is another woman that wants to hook up. I can tell she's a bit emotionally unstable. Constantly texts. Even called me at 2am the other night. Left me a VM asking where I was and that she wanted me and we needed to be adults and make love. WTF? I suppose she could have been drunk. She wants me to come over tomorrow night. I know I should pass, but she is ridiculously hot. Maybe I'll get her to meet me somewhere else instead, to feel her out.
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Alright, this seems like the only reasonable thread on the misc regarding dating, so I guess I'll ask my question here:

I've known this coworker of mine (work in a restaurant, so it's not a real job) for about a year. We are kind-of friends but not super close (we don't text each other to ask about personal info or ask about our days).

I had a small crush on her when I first met her but nothing that motivated to pursue her. However, seeing her personality has intensified and am thinking about making a move.

We've always been somewhat flirty with each other. (i.e. joking around with each other, random sexual jokes) and we've been working with each other more closely.

We did text a little bit and I did flirt with her but she left me on read. It started with her responding immediately to her taking 15 min to respond and eventually no response.

I would have no problem asking her to hangout but I'm not getting any clear signs she's into me and I don't want to risk the awkwardness that comes with rejection.

I'm wondering if its worth asking her out despite not getting clear signals she finds me attractive?
Would a girl that found you attractive not respond to a text or wait for you to make a clear move?
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Originally Posted By NoWheyOut17⏩
We did text a little bit and I did flirt with her but she left me on read. It started with her responding immediately to her taking 15 min to respond and eventually no response.
She would have flirted back, not ignored you. She's not interested.
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Damn I was hoping there was a chance.
Sheโ€™s always flirting in person and laughing at anything I say
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General online dating question. I use an app similar to Tinder in that you match then have ability to chat. I noticed lately that whenever I ask for their number after talking for a bit they get weird:

1) Read my message, but then never respond with their number.

2) They start acting short/odd, essentially kill the conversation. I had one last night reply with, "why does every guy on here ask for my number? Smh" uhhhh what?

3) If they give the number their personality does a 180 and it's like they were never interested.

Seems odd. You're on a dating app, you matched with a guy showing mutual interest, but then after talking for a bit you're hesitant to take it any further? I believe I've done a decent job of building rapport/flirting before asking, but these apps are starting to feel pointless - almost like extensions of social media/another way to get IG followers.
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Originally Posted By GhenghisPWN⏩
General online dating question. I use an app similar to Tinder in that you match then have ability to chat. I noticed lately that whenever I ask for their number after talking for a bit they get weird:

1) Read my message, but then never respond with their number.

2) They start acting short/odd, essentially kill the conversation. I had one last night reply with, "why does every guy on here ask for my number? Smh" uhhhh what?

3) If they give the number their personality does a 180 and it's like they were never interested.

Seems odd. You're on a dating app, you matched with a guy showing mutual interest, but then after talking for a bit you're hesitant to take it any further? I believe I've done a decent job of building rapport/flirting before asking, but these apps are starting to feel pointless - almost like extensions of social media/another way to get IG followers.
I don't ask for their number bro. I establish good rapport, get her giggling and when one of us has to log off the app or things are at a high point I cut it off and say "lets get off this app, text me sometime (insert number)". You MUST be at a high point though. I don't always do this on our first communication and half the time they are asking for date and or offering the number. I take my time because I can stand out among other men and they all praise me for not being pushy and desperate afterwards.

When she does text you, give her the Nedo standard: "Creepy Tinder girl, is that you?" and then keep the banter going.

If we get to messaging, 9/10 times we are going on a date. Jokes and banter for the win, every time.
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Originally Posted By NoWheyOut17⏩
Damn I was hoping there was a chance.
Sheโ€™s always flirting in person and laughing at anything I say
I remember working with a girl like that when I was 19. When I finally asked her out, she was like nah. She was just a cock tease.

Pay attention to how she acts around the other guys at work... You may get some insight.
Originally Posted By GhenghisPWN⏩
General online dating question. I use an app similar to Tinder in that you match then have ability to chat. I noticed lately that whenever I ask for their number after talking for a bit they get weird:

1) Read my message, but then never respond with their number.

2) They start acting short/odd, essentially kill the conversation. I had one last night reply with, "why does every guy on here ask for my number? Smh" uhhhh what?

3) If they give the number their personality does a 180 and it's like they were never interested.

Seems odd. You're on a dating app, you matched with a guy showing mutual interest, but then after talking for a bit you're hesitant to take it any further? I believe I've done a decent job of building rapport/flirting before asking, but these apps are starting to feel pointless - almost like extensions of social media/another way to get IG followers.
Most of the time I don't even ask for a number, they just give it to me. I sometimes take a lot of time in between conversations, so it's usually along the lines of, "You never seem to be on here, just text me when you are free xxx-xxx-xxxx."

If that doesn't happen, I don't ask for a woman's number until I've already mentioned things we could to together and see how interested she is in doing those things. Then I will ask for their number, so we can finalize the details.

As you have now realized, guys just ask for their numbers. If they are questioning giving it to you, your rapport is not as good as you think it is.

As Nedo said, always end the conversations on a high note, leaving them wanting more. I've had women randomly msg me telling me they are thinking of me, even before we have met.

I get every number I ask for and I go out with every woman that I get her number because we basically already agreed to meet, or she showed extreme interest.
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
I've had women randomly msg me telling me they are thinking of me, even before we have met.
There is never a better time to delay a text than in this situation lol. Patience pays off so be mean brahs muahaha.
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The thing is
Sheโ€™s a virgin whose never done anything with a guy.

Iโ€™m shocked cause sheโ€™s really cute (girl next door type) with a killer personality.
This is why I have a crush on her and not just want to bang her. Personality is huge for me

Sheโ€™s kind of outgoing and talkative with everyone but doesnโ€™t go out of her way to talk to other guys.

I noticed that she only makes the sexual jokes with me.
E.g. in the short text convo that she ignored my text in her first response was literally โ€œpenisโ€
I was like wtf??
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Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
I don't ask for their number bro. I establish good rapport, get her giggling and when one of us has to log off the app or things are at a high point I cut it off and say "lets get off this app, text me sometime (insert number)". You MUST be at a high point though. I don't always do this on our first communication and half the time they are asking for date and or offering the number. I take my time because I can stand out among other men and they all praise me for not being pushy and desperate afterwards.

When she does text you, give her the Nedo standard: "Creepy Tinder girl, is that you?" and then keep the banter going.

If we get to messaging, 9/10 times we are going on a date. Jokes and banter for the win, every time.
I usually say something like, "this app is a huge pain to use, why don't we move this to text. What's your number?"

In the situation from yesterday after she got weird I said, "hit me up if you're feeling adventurous [inserted my #]".

She actually texted me today to say she's feeling adventurous. Later found out a lot of weirdos got her number then started acting creepy/stalkerish so she was hesitant to give it out. I think she was expecting to see that I'd beg/question her/get hostile for not giving me her number.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
I'm not saying it's wrong to pursue someone. Of course if you're interested you should pursue them. But they shouldn't be playing stupid games. You srsly like someone who will string you along and play head games making you chase them?
thats the thing. Girls like to play head games and i love to try and beat them at their own game. its a challenge, and its a thrill when i win

if the girls not playing head games, i think of it as too easy
Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Wait, if you donโ€™t have to chase it makes you lose interest?
see above
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Originally Posted By HockeyBacon18⏩
thats the thing. Girls like to play head games and i love to try and beat them at their own game. its a challenge, and its a thrill when i win
This is why I play games to begin with, because every single one of them is doing it to some extent. Got to learn to have fun with it. When new with someone, I have a ton of fun.
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Just LOL if you're playing games
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
Just LOL if you're playing games
Meh, to each their own. I like to maximize my odds.
post 1554176191 06-19-2018, 08:02 AM
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Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
I don't ask for their number bro. I establish good rapport, get her giggling and when one of us has to log off the app or things are at a high point I cut it off and say "lets get off this app, text me sometime (insert number)". You MUST be at a high point though. I don't always do this on our first communication and half the time they are asking for date and or offering the number. I take my time because I can stand out among other men and they all praise me for not being pushy and desperate afterwards.

When she does text you, give her the Nedo standard: "Creepy Tinder girl, is that you?" and then keep the banter going.

If we get to messaging, 9/10 times we are going on a date. Jokes and banter for the win, every time.
Maybe it's because of my age group but most women i've met on the apps were late 30's to early 40's and most of them just gave me their number after some funny banter.
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Anyone been with a submissive woman?
I mean a woman who when you have them naked and touch them they don't do anything unless you tell them to.

where they lay there as you are touching them and building up to entering them and all they do is slightly quiver.
When you are in them their head only moves with each stroke, they moan quietly and tug on the sheets or ball them up but otherwise don't make a sound or move until the orgasm.
then their legs wrap around you in a crushing grip and you have to fight to stay in. LOL.

This woman I was with, it was really weird to me and threw me off a bit in the beginning.
At first I thought she wasn't into it but then she would snap out of it to tell me with a giggle "It's not going in there" when I tried to piitb.

But after the first round, I basically just grabbed her and used her like my rubber sex doll a few more times and I ended up kinda into it.

when I told her to do something she did it and did it enthusiastically but only when I told her to do it.

Just about every woman i've been with got creative in bed and acted like they were in a porno. lol.
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Originally Posted By GhenghisPWN⏩
I usually say something like, "this app is a huge pain to use, why don't we move this to text. What's your number?"

In the situation from yesterday after she got weird I said, "hit me up if you're feeling adventurous [inserted my #]".

She actually texted me today to say she's feeling adventurous. Later found out a lot of weirdos got her number then started acting creepy/stalkerish so she was hesitant to give it out. I think she was expecting to see that I'd beg/question her/get hostile for not giving me her number.
The first one is not a good idea. It sounds like you are just collecting numbers because you are lazy, not because you actually want to meet up with her. The second was much better, which is why she came around.
Originally Posted By NitrogenWidget⏩
Anyone been with a submissive woman?
I mean a woman who when you have them naked and touch them they don't do anything unless you tell them to.

where they lay there as you are touching them and building up to entering them and all they do is slightly quiver.
When you are in them their head only moves with each stroke, they moan quietly and tug on the sheets or ball them up but otherwise don't make a sound or move until the orgasm.
then their legs wrap around you in a crushing grip and you have to fight to stay in. LOL.

This woman I was with, it was really weird to me and threw me off a bit in the beginning.
At first I thought she wasn't into it but then she would snap out of it to tell me with a giggle "It's not going in there" when I tried to piitb.

But after the first round, I basically just grabbed her and used her like my rubber sex doll a few more times and I ended up kinda into it.

when I told her to do something she did it and did it enthusiastically but only when I told her to do it.

Just about every woman i've been with got creative in bed and acted like they were in a porno. lol.
I prefer feedback and know that she's enjoying herself.

Update:

So, I set up a date with the second chick and went for a neutral spot for dinner instead of going to her place and she agreed. I called her and we talked for about 30 seconds before she started having conversations with her kids and who ever else was at her house as I was basically just sitting there silently. On top of that her kids asked if she was talking to dad and she was like, "No, I'm talking to pondus." Boundaries? Please? This put me off, so I suggested she call me back after her kids were asleep.

Then later over text she started asking me about other women, to which I was honest and told her I was actively dating. She seemed to be bothered with this even though she's made it pretty clear she was after a hookup, and claimed it didn't bother her, but at the same time acting like I was "the one," so I told her I was thinking it might be a good to hold off meeting for a bit because I didn't want to hurt her feelings. Well, she flipped her **** on me and told me she was going to find someone else to hook up with. To which I said. "Okay. I'm sorry. I wish you the best." Which, of course, drove her more crazy... Anyhow, glad I called it off.
Forever alone? Attraction and keeping the girl chasing you - http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=131498033

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post 1554186151 06-19-2018, 10:17 AM
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Originally Posted By HockeyBacon18⏩
thats the thing.Girls like to play head games and i love to try and beat them at their own game. its a challenge, and its a thrill when i win

if the girls not playing head games, i think of it as too easy
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
Then later over text she started asking me about other women, to which I was honest and told her I was actively dating. She seemed to be bothered with this even though she's made it pretty clear she was after a hookup, and claimed it didn't bother her, but at the same time acting like I was "the one," so I told her I was thinking it might be a good to hold off meeting for a bit because I didn't want to hurt her feelings. Well, she flipped her **** on me and told me she was going to find someone else to hook up with. To which I said. "Okay. I'm sorry. I wish you the best." Which, of course, drove her more crazy... Anyhow, glad I called it off.
Disaster averted by sounds of it lol

I am surprised you ain't locked down yet. Or not bout dat life yet?
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