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post 1554970041 06-28-2018, 10:50 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Maybe you were the guy she rebounded to.
Hah, I highly doubt she would make it past my crazy detector.
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post 1554970191 06-28-2018, 10:53 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
Hah, I highly doubt she would make it past my crazy detector.
IDK, do you let those types of women attach to you for sex, or just avoid women that come on that strong?
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post 1554970511 06-28-2018, 11:04 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
IDK, do you let those types of women attach to you for sex, or just avoid women that come on that strong?
Avoid. I don't need that drama in my life.

I mean just last week I told you guys about that woman that wanted to hookup and was acting like she was already in love with me and I called it off and she was a legit 8.5+.
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post 1554971581 06-28-2018, 11:23 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
Avoid. I don't need that drama in my life.

I mean just last week I told you guys about that woman that wanted to hookup and was acting like she was already in love with me and I called it off and she was a legit 8.5+.
That crazy/hot matrix. We'll have to meet for a beer.
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post 1554971631 06-28-2018, 11:25 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
That crazy/hot matrix.
Yeah, I kinda wish I was more of a dick and just went with it. She probably would have been the best lay in my life thus far lol. I just started getting glimpses of her stalking me and causing problems with my job and ****, or like getting one of her thug orbiters to come after me, and was like, "not worth it." That's how much of crazy vibes she was giving off.

You should have seen some of the things she said to me after I cancelled. Complete 180, vicious, brutal, but not before trying to gas light me, lol.
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
Yeah, I kinda wish I was more of a dick and just went with it. She probably would have been the best lay in my life thus far lol. I just started getting glimpses of her stalking me and causing problems with my job and ****, and was like, "not worth it." That's how much of crazy vibes she was giving off.
Damn I actually know that feeling, you don't wanna break it off because you're worried that she might show up at your work or apartment, or try to ruin your reputation or something. Fuark, I had those feels before and thought I was just totally paranoid.
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Comments from page 32 or so about short term flings etc is pure gold. Unfortunate most ******* miscers would not read.

I was burned like thrice before I became wiser. Not opening up for any bish even after 6 months. Pondus seeing as I don't have as many options as you lot, I fuk as much as I get so long as the girl is not a whale or legit ugly and in many cases too taller than me (this is an insecurity I have not been able to overcome I am 5'8). I only get cute girls say once in every 4-6 months who are interested beyond sex.

I have also overcome that number game where I get worried that someone is whatever/10. Because I have literally been with all possible spectrums in my book. Hell the girl I am seeing right now builds her body and I don't find that too attractive but the sex is good and the opportunity cost of not banging her is greater than banging her for me.

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Originally Posted By AlexNYC7⏩
Stop treating this like you are in debt to her because she will go out with you.

Stop with the low self esteem (which is a killer for keeping girls; if you think you are beneath her, why should she be with someone inferior? Get up to her level).

Stop doing this on her terms.

Date actively. See if she is a good fit for you. Donโ€™t just be a passenger here.

Donโ€™t cede all the power to her just because she is a pretty face. She could be a bitch, and not worthy of YOUR time.
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
Complete 180, vicious, brutal, but not before trying to gas light me, lol.
Would you admit that some of them are really effective at gas lighting? Maybe with your ex-wife. I have recollections where I was questioning my sanity. Like I was so sure a certain event happened, and she kept denying it or - or I was mis-remembering details of an event where I was sure I did nothing wrong, or she was acting inappropriately, and I felt so incredibly confused.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Would you admit that some of them are really effective at gas lighting? Maybe with your ex-wife. I have recollections where I was questioning my sanity. Like I was so sure a certain event happened, and she kept denying it or - or I was mis-remembering details of an event where I was sure I did nothing wrong, or she was acting inappropriately, and I felt so incredibly confused.
No, it never worked on me. I have a perfect memory. If i am confused on something i will demand clarity until I get it.

But that's not all gas lighting is. They will also try to align other's against you. So since she could never manipulate me, she manipulated others against me. Of which, I awlays called her out on that, too. Literally nothing slipped by me, which only added to the frustration and fire on her part.

Like I said numerous times I stayed invested in her way too long, but I was young and inexperienced and my personality doesn't let me quit. The only reason I got out is because I finally convinced myself(with the help of my psychologist) that she gave up first, and I was holding on to something that didn't exist.
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Last night I went out with a few peeps to get my mind off the break up. I was wearing a sundress and somewhat feeling good. This SEC bubba frat boy approached me. He was pretty good looking, from down south like myself, one of his mutual friends went to the same private school as I did. Conversation was going well, talked about home, and southern culture. While we were talking I looked over and his crew did not look amused that we were talking. (White preppy guy talking to a preppy black girl, not amusing to some folks). He got my number and told me to text him. Texted him last night and he responded back saying how cute I was, etc.

Texted him again today asking what he was up to, he said nothing. Then I asked if he was interested in checking out a new brewery (making the 1st move), he was up for it. This is where chit goes down hill. He asked for my last name to look me up on ********, I told him and I asked for his. We had a few mutual friends in common. He didn't text for about 10 minutes, so I jokingly asked if he knew XYZ? Still haven't heard back from him and it's been a few hours. I know he had a few drinks, but he wasn't obnoxiously drunk. I guess he saw my pictures and wasn't interested. Did I do anything wrong? Is it too soon for me to talk to guys right after a break up?
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
Last night I went out with a few peeps to get my mind off the break up. I was wearing a sundress and somewhat feeling good. This SEC bubba frat boy approached me. He was pretty good looking, from down south like myself, one of his mutual friends went to the same private school as I did. Conversation was going well, talked about home, and southern culture. While we were talking I looked over and his crew did not look amused that we were talking. (White preppy guy talking to a preppy black girl, not amusing to some folks). He got my number and told me to text him. Texted him last night and he responded back saying how cute I was, etc.

Texted him again today asking what he was up to, he said nothing. Then I asked if he was interested in checking out a new brewery (making the 1st move), he was up for it. This is where chit goes down hill. He asked for my last name to look me up on ********, I told him and I asked for his. We had a few mutual friends in common. He didn't text for about 10 minutes, so I jokingly asked if he knew XYZ? Still haven't heard back from him and it's been a few hours. I know he had a few drinks, but he wasn't obnoxiously drunk. I guess he saw my pictures and wasn't interested. Did I do anything wrong? Is it too soon for me to talk to guys right after a break up?
You're going beta on these guys hahaha.

Did you double text him? I wouldn't want a girl to be so invested in me early on srs. It will turn me off. Maybe you should play hard to get a little.
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Originally Posted By aGameWins⏩
You're going beta on these guys hahaha.

Did you double text him? I wouldn't want a girl to be so invested in me early on srs. It will turn me off. Maybe you should play hard to get a little.
I don't want to play any games though. I understand playing hard to get, but he asked for my number and I was showing that I am interested in a date.
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
Last night I went out with a few peeps to get my mind off the break up. I was wearing a sundress and somewhat feeling good. This SEC bubba frat boy approached me. He was pretty good looking, from down south like myself, one of his mutual friends went to the same private school as I did. Conversation was going well, talked about home, and southern culture. While we were talking I looked over and his crew did not look amused that we were talking. (White preppy guy talking to a preppy black girl, not amusing to some folks). He got my number and told me to text him. Texted him last night and he responded back saying how cute I was, etc.

Texted him again today asking what he was up to, he said nothing. Then I asked if he was interested in checking out a new brewery (making the 1st move), he was up for it. This is where chit goes down hill. He asked for my last name to look me up on ********, I told him and I asked for his. We had a few mutual friends in common. He didn't text for about 10 minutes, so I jokingly asked if he knew XYZ? Still haven't heard back from him and it's been a few hours. I know he had a few drinks, but he wasn't obnoxiously drunk. I guess he saw my pictures and wasn't interested. Did I do anything wrong? Is it too soon for me to talk to guys right after a break up?
You broke up? When?
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
Last night I went out with a few peeps to get my mind off the break up. I was wearing a sundress and somewhat feeling good. This SEC bubba frat boy approached me. He was pretty good looking, from down south like myself, one of his mutual friends went to the same private school as I did. Conversation was going well, talked about home, and southern culture. While we were talking I looked over and his crew did not look amused that we were talking. (White preppy guy talking to a preppy black girl, not amusing to some folks). He got my number and told me to text him. Texted him last night and he responded back saying how cute I was, etc.

Texted him again today asking what he was up to, he said nothing. Then I asked if he was interested in checking out a new brewery (making the 1st move), he was up for it. This is where chit goes down hill. He asked for my last name to look me up on ********, I told him and I asked for his. We had a few mutual friends in common. He didn't text for about 10 minutes, so I jokingly asked if he knew XYZ? Still haven't heard back from him and it's been a few hours. I know he had a few drinks, but he wasn't obnoxiously drunk. I guess he saw my pictures and wasn't interested. Did I do anything wrong? Is it too soon for me to talk to guys right after a break up?
Maybe he's a Dbag playa and knows your mutual friends will give you the scoop? Never know. Or do those mutual friends have any reason to say anything bad about you? Maybe it's because you just broke up with boyfriend in the past week and he may feel like you're rebounding. If you and your boyfriend were discussing moving in together, then it sounds like it was a pretty serious relationship. To be looking to date so quickly is probably a red flag to others.
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
You broke up? When?
This past week. My feelings are hurting big time. He dumped me btw.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Maybe he's a Dbag playa and knows your mutual friends will give you the scoop? Never know. Or do those mutual friends have any reason to say anything bad about you? Maybe it's because you just broke up with boyfriend in the past week and he may feel like you're rebounding. If you and your boyfriend were discussing moving in together, then it sounds like it was a pretty serious relationship. To be looking to date so quickly is probably a red flag to others.
I haven't spoke to my mutual friends in awhile and they are married now. We worked together a long time ago and nothing bad happened. I did my job he did his.

I guess he did feel like a rebound. I'm trying my best to forget about it, but it hurts.
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
I haven't spoke to my mutual friends in awhile and they are married now. We worked together a long time ago and nothing bad happened. I did my job he did his.

I guess he did feel like a rebound. I'm trying my best to forget about it, but it hurts.
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
This past week. My feelings are hurting big time. He dumped me btw.
That sucks, sorry to hear that.
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so idk how, but ive got a first date scheduled with this chick this weekend. met her last weekend at the bar (yea i know LOL) but she was asking me questions and the convo was good, wasnt one word answers or anything

thing is shes at least a 9, and im a 7.5 on a good day and idk it just feels weird, kinda like a "pity" date. its half the reason i stick to trying to date girls around 7 where i get the vibe i can do whatever i want and theyll still be interested, where i doubt i can do that with her

fuking LOL. miscer gonna miscer
hahahaha actually went pretty well

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Yeah so...girl Iโ€™ve been dating for the past 6 months I met on OkCupid just told me sheโ€™s pregnant...
Tour is over?
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
Avoid. I don't need that drama in my life.

I mean just last week I told you guys about that woman that wanted to hookup and was acting like she was already in love with me and I called it off and she was a legit 8.5+.
I disagree with your points sometimes but am amazed at the revolving door of women you have you seem to constantly meet just going about your daily life, including ones that chase you like this one. This would be a legit foreign experience to me.

Went to a house warming party this past week and there were probably 15-20 decently cute girls there, none even seemed remotely interested in me. no "indicators of interest" out of the corner of my eye. and I was having legit fun - brought a dish everyone loved/was asking about , met some new cool people. I feel like some of you people live in a completely alternative dimension or some chit like that.
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Originally Posted By BetaThanU⏩
Yeah so...girl Iโ€™ve been dating for the past 6 months I met on OkCupid just told me sheโ€™s pregnant...
Tour is over?
Oh boy! Was she on BC/using condoms?
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Originally Posted By BetaThanU⏩
Yeah so...girl Iโ€™ve been dating for the past 6 months I met on OkCupid just told me sheโ€™s pregnant...
Tour is over?
damn boyo.....this is why i don't trust women!
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
Last night I went out with a few peeps to get my mind off the break up. I was wearing a sundress and somewhat feeling good. This SEC bubba frat boy approached me. He was pretty good looking, from down south like myself, one of his mutual friends went to the same private school as I did. Conversation was going well, talked about home, and southern culture. While we were talking I looked over and his crew did not look amused that we were talking. (White preppy guy talking to a preppy black girl, not amusing to some folks). He got my number and told me to text him. Texted him last night and he responded back saying how cute I was, etc.

Texted him again today asking what he was up to, he said nothing. Then I asked if he was interested in checking out a new brewery (making the 1st move), he was up for it. This is where chit goes down hill. He asked for my last name to look me up on ********, I told him and I asked for his. We had a few mutual friends in common. He didn't text for about 10 minutes, so I jokingly asked if he knew XYZ? Still haven't heard back from him and it's been a few hours. I know he had a few drinks, but he wasn't obnoxiously drunk. I guess he saw my pictures and wasn't interested. Did I do anything wrong? Is it too soon for me to talk to guys right after a break up?
He definitely saw something on ******** he didn't like.
Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
This past week. My feelings are hurting big time. He dumped me btw.
Base on your last thread, it's probably for the best. It didn't sound like you two were a perfect match. He did you a favor.
Originally Posted By HockeyBacon18⏩
hahahaha actually went pretty well

shocked
Just go with the flow, man.
Originally Posted By BetaThanU⏩
Yeah so...girl Iโ€™ve been dating for the past 6 months I met on OkCupid just told me sheโ€™s pregnant...
Tour is over?
Yeah...your life is pretty much ruined unless you think she's your soul mate and you will live happily ever after, after only 6 months....
Originally Posted By psychosylocibin⏩
I disagree with your points sometimes but am amazed at the revolving door of women you have you seem to constantly meet just going about your daily life, including ones that chase you like this one. This would be a legit foreign experience to me.

Went to a house warming party this past week and there were probably 15-20 decently cute girls there, none even seemed remotely interested in me. no "indicators of interest" out of the corner of my eye. and I was having legit fun - brought a dish everyone loved/was asking about , met some new cool people. I feel like some of you people live in a completely alternative dimension or some chit like that.
That was a rare example. That **** never happens to me. Most of all my dates come from online.

Maybe instead of looking for IOIs, you should change your approach and look for indicators of disinterest. You don't need to have IOI's to have permission to go talk to a woman. Go after who you want. If you get IOD's just move on.
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
He definitely saw something on ******** he didn't like.



Base on your last thread, it's probably for the best. It didn't sound like you two were a perfect match. He did you a favor.

I don't post a lot and I keep it on private. Oh well.
Thinking about downloading Bumble tomorrow, since I have nothing to do after my run. Thoughts? Any success for you fellas?
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
I don't post a lot and I keep it on private. Oh well.
Thinking about downloading Bumble tomorrow, since I have nothing to do after my run. Thoughts? Any success for you fellas?
Ive had decent success with Bumble. Bumble is much better for women IMO since the women decide who they want to message. Its also nice for guys since we know the women that message us are actually interested and wont waste our time seeking attention/validation.

Ive also matched with 4-5 previous acquaintances on Bumble. Idk why, probably just random...
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Originally Posted By antman12⏩
Ive had decent success with Bumble. Bumble is much better for women IMO since the women decide who they want to message. Its also nice for guys since we know the women that message us are actually interested and wont waste our time seeking attention/validation.

Ive also matched with 4-5 previous acquaintances on Bumble. Idk why, probably just random...
Maybe I should try Bumble on the side. OKC is just awful.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Maybe I should try Bumble on the side. OKC is just awful.
Definitely give it a try. For you in particular, you can subtly put some of you "requirements" onto your profile and see how women react. IE: do they message you.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Maybe I should try Bumble on the side. OKC is just awful.
OKC is the bottom of the barrel yo!

I'm thinking of saying something on the lines of: ENTJ, pro 2A, looking for a guy that likes corny jokes, doing a 14er and after drinking some craft beer.
Is that good?
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