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post 1559336661 08-21-2018, 01:58 PM
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The unthinkable happened... Wife wants divorce AMA

Yep...

inb4 "did she find your misc account?"
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post 1559336751 08-21-2018, 01:59 PM
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So let's start with why?
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Unthinkable? Its 2018.... Divorce is just part of being married. Get over it.
post 1559336821 08-21-2018, 01:59 PM
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Sloots gon sloot I'd imagine.

Sounds like you're already in NC. Stay there.
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post 1559336851 08-21-2018, 02:00 PM
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Sorry to hear. I assume you have tried to reconcile? Stay as positive as you can bro.
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lol I know it probably isn't funny if its happening to you, just funny because its a post on the misc.

But:

- What age did you two get married? How long have u been married?
- How long were you together before getting married?
- What was the "Deal breaker" ?
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post 1559336981 08-21-2018, 02:01 PM
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Oh lawd...
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post 1559337231 08-21-2018, 02:04 PM
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
Yep...

inb4 "did she find your misc account?"
Age: 27....really brah? No chance you can reconcile?
post 1559337241 08-21-2018, 02:04 PM
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what's your downside financial exposure?
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post 1559337261 08-21-2018, 02:04 PM
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post 1559337271 08-21-2018, 02:05 PM
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Originally Posted By shmobin⏩
So let's start with why?
We had a (kinda) big fight, which we normally get over pretty easy. This time the next day she said she wanted a divorce and did a complete 180 as far as how she treats me goes.
Originally Posted By HMFIC_BROWSIN⏩
Unthinkable? Its 2018.... Divorce is just part of being married. Get over it.
Fuk you, in the moment it seems unthinkable. I was blindsided and thought everything was going great.
Originally Posted By ryanscut⏩
Sloots gon sloot I'd imagine.

Sounds like you're already in NC. Stay there.
As I have found out more over the past couple of weeks, it turns out you are more accurate than you think...
Originally Posted By MrAWatts⏩
Sorry to hear. I assume you have tried to reconcile? Stay as positive as you can bro.
I did until I found out she was fukkin a coworker
Originally Posted By omnip0tent⏩
lol I know it probably isn't funny if its happening to you, just funny because its a post on the misc.

But:

- What age did you two get married? How long have u been married?
- How long were you together before getting married?
- What was the "Deal breaker" ?
-Not an excuse, but I was in the military and a lot of us end up marrying you (I guess we are afraid to be alone?) so early 20s
-2 years (married for 5 for a total of 7)
-She says she didn't love me anymore and realized its been like that for a while she was just "in denial" of it. Oh and turns out she caught feels for a coworker
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post 1559337341 08-21-2018, 02:06 PM
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I hope you don't have kids and she can't drain you financially. Best of luck man, stay strong.
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post 1559337501 08-21-2018, 02:07 PM
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OP, you 27? Kids? I think these days most marriages end in divorce. Haven't been there myself, but I have friends who have. They always get over it. In your case, you're young and hopefully there aren't kids but if there are, get past this and just focus on them. Try and maintain a respectful relationship with the mother of your children. If there are no kids, then fuk her, move on and don't look back.

read more on OP:
- Military
- Married young
- cold indifferent wife

... okay, I know you are going through a tough time, but fuk this bitch, you might be sad now but in a year or two you won't at all. Be careful from here on out and be very thankful there aren't any kids in this equation.
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post 1559337511 08-21-2018, 02:07 PM
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age:27

married

impending divorce

sounds about right
post 1559337581 08-21-2018, 02:07 PM
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Sorry to hear that OP


From the sounds of the post it looks like you don't agree with the decision. What was the reasoning, and why do you think you didn't see it coming? Was it a communication issue or something else?
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post 1559337611 08-21-2018, 02:07 PM
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Originally Posted By Deezenutz⏩
Oh lawd...
Tell me about it...
Originally Posted By Gayle1⏩
Tours over
Already have girls sympathy messaging me, saying if there is anything they can do to help, to PLEASE let them know
Originally Posted By dabbmw2002⏩
Did you see it coming? If so, I hope you've been making preparations or otherwise, pepper your back hole.
No, I did not. Even still, I was able to collect evidence since she stated she wanted the divorce, so I will be ok.
Originally Posted By BibFortunaBrah⏩
Age: 27....really brah? No chance you can reconcile?
Not when she fukked another guy
Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
what's your downside financial exposure?
Huh?
Originally Posted By Fit1NYC⏩
Unthinkable 50%
Prick. If you are in a seemingly great marriage you don't assume it will happen to you.
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post 1559337641 08-21-2018, 02:07 PM
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When do you think will u be able to move on and start a new serious relationship? I never had a gf and cant imagine how long it hurts
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post 1559337751 08-21-2018, 02:08 PM
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
I did until I found out she was fukkin a coworker
Oh. Then this needs to change to YOU want a divorce, not her. **** her.

I can't even fathom finding time to **** a second person. Were they doing lunch rendezvous at a hotel or something?
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
Huh?
how much is this gonna cost you?
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Fuk man. That sucks.
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Originally Posted By IAMBEE⏩
I hope you don't have kids and she can't drain you financially. Best of luck man, stay strong.
We have a kid. But I have evidence of infidelity so I am good to go.
Originally Posted By badbl00d⏩
No srs tag...

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I swear brah this is real, simply forgot SRS tag
Originally Posted By JUSA⏩
OP, you 27? Kids? I think these days most marriages end in divorce. Haven't been there myself, but I have friends who have. They always get over it. In your case, you're young and hopefully there aren't kids but if there are, get past this and just focus on them. Try and maintain a respectful relationship with the mother of your children. If there are no kids, then fuk her, move on and don't look back.
We have a kid together. I have tried to maintain a respectful relationship but she is being a kunt on purpose because it makes it easier to distance herself from me.
Originally Posted By Workout4ever⏩
age:27

married

impending divorce

sounds about right
sure
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Originally Posted By SofaKingSlow⏩
Sorry to hear that OP


From the sounds of the post it looks like you don't agree with the decision. What was the reasoning, and why do you think you didn't see it coming? Was it a communication issue or something else?
See above posts, yes it was not my decision and I didn't see it coming
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post 1559337891 08-21-2018, 02:10 PM
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If she cheated on you get her to confess and get it on audio.

It well help when you divorce her trashy ass.
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