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Thread: The unthinkable happened... Wife wants divorce AMA

post 1559339381 08-21-2018, 02:23 PM
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
I already have girls lined up to smother me in pity so I am good. Chicks love a broken man



she can't, I have evidence of misconduct



Once I found out she was unfaithful, it did change to that



nothing, I have evidence of infidelity





pm me your info baby



that would be talk show worthy
lol oh sweeet summer child, wait until you get those lawyer bills
A million miles away - I don't.. feel.... anything.
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post 1559339391 08-21-2018, 02:23 PM
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My condolences OP. Here's to the next one and all the strange you're gonna be tearing through until then.
I'm back, bitches!
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This is why I always smh when people get married in their early 20's. Sure it's cool to be in a relationship at that age, but to marry? Na. You haven't even got to live and enjoy your 20s man. I just recently got engaged 2 weeks ago. We've been dating for 2.5 years. She's 30. Hope everything goes smooth in the divorce, but do not do anything stupid as it can come back to bite you in the ass.
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post 1559339501 08-21-2018, 02:24 PM
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Originally Posted By HMFIC_BROWSIN⏩
Unthinkable? Its 2018.... Divorce is just part of being married. Get over it.
This.
post 1559339511 08-21-2018, 02:24 PM
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That sucks, man.

FYI, underground is right^^^. Don't assume that you've got it in the bag because she cheated. Also, depending on the state, cheating may or may not affect alimony. You need a lawyer (a real lawyer; not a misc lawyer).

Edit: Never mind. I see you're already on it with the lawyer. Good luck.
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post 1559339521 08-21-2018, 02:24 PM
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Originally Posted By numberbrah⏩
Op gonna make it for a second time
what was my first time? lol
Originally Posted By underground21⏩
sorry to bring you bad news op but divorce/family/child custody courts do not give a flying fuk if she cheated or not. all they care about is the "welfare" of the child.

she could have been sucking 9 dinks a day and it does not matter so long as she didnt endanger the child in doing so. lawyer up asap and get a game plan.
I have a bigger support system, more income, and a more stable mental health state. I already talked to a lawyer bud. Sorry (not sorry) to say you're wrong on this one.
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Post the law degree you obtained in his state please.
for realz
Originally Posted By TheIronAsylum⏩
lol at men getting married to these ruined poor excuse for women of this generation
It's hard when some of them do a good job of hiding it
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post 1559339791 08-21-2018, 02:26 PM
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Originally Posted By notoriousthug⏩
This. When will cuckbois learn ?
already addressed this. learn to read
Originally Posted By seanb1979⏩
lol oh sweeet summer child, wait until you get those lawyer bills
she is liable if I can proof she had an affair. spoke to a lawyer
Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
My condolences OP. Here's to the next one and all the strange you're gonna be tearing through until then.
already got some pity fuks lined up
Originally Posted By eXistenceLies⏩
This is why I always smh when people get married in their early 20's. Sure it's cool to be in a relationship at that age, but to marry? Na. You haven't even got to live and enjoy your 20s man. I just recently got engaged 2 weeks ago. We've been dating for 2.5 years. She's 30. Hope everything goes smooth in the divorce, but do not do anything stupid as it can come back to bite you in the ass.
I had an enjoyable time while it lasted, I am not too bitter about it
Originally Posted By Redundanteater⏩
This.
already addressed this several times, learn to read
Originally Posted By ChristianMR⏩
That sucks, man.

FYI, underground is right^^^. Don't assume that you've got it in the bag because she cheated. Also, depending on the state, cheating may or may not affect alimony. You need a lawyer (a real lawyer; not a misc lawyer).
talked to a lawyer, I am good.
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post 1559339891 08-21-2018, 02:27 PM
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
what was my first time? lol



I have a bigger support system, more income, and a more stable mental health state. I already talked to a lawyer bud. Sorry (not sorry) to say you're wrong on this one.



for realz



It's hard when some of them do a good job of hiding it
You going for full custody of the kiddo?
post 1559339941 08-21-2018, 02:27 PM
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
I am straight, I have proof of marital misconduct
IDK if that matters in NC, but a buddy of mine is a doc and had proof of his wife fuking anything and everything. She kept the house, gets a fat monthly alimony check plus child support and takes cruises all the time, while he drives a beat up chittty honda. His MD is half hers as he got it while married.
post 1559339951 08-21-2018, 02:27 PM
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On an unrelated note, you look white AF my friend.

Adopted?
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post 1559339981 08-21-2018, 02:28 PM
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Originally Posted By shmobin⏩
Post the law degree you obtained in his state please.
lol, what makes you think that he is wrong?
post 1559340021 08-21-2018, 02:28 PM
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What is your actual proof?

Sounds like you have nothing that will hold up in court.

Seeing her car next to his when she was supposedly at the grocery store ain't saving your paycheck son.
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post 1559340031 08-21-2018, 02:28 PM
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Originally Posted By shmobin⏩
You going for full custody of the kiddo?
50/50, I care too much for my son to keep him away from his mother, as angry as I am at her, she is a great mom to our son despite what she's done to me.

I still don't have to give her money if it is 50/50
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post 1559340081 08-21-2018, 02:29 PM
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
We have a kid. But I have evidence of infidelity so I am good to go.



I swear brah this is real, simply forgot SRS tag
Does anyoneACTUALLY believe infidelity etc. has ANY impact on the financial consequences of divorce? If so... wow... gonna be a rude awakening!

Family law in North America is structured to transfer assets from male to female. Notice the deciding factor here? GENDER. Nothing else. Not misconduct (on either or both sides). Not the welfare of the child. Not even relative wealth. All that matters is gender. If you're a man - you're screwed! Don't believe me, look some some cases in your local jurisdiction.
post 1559340101 08-21-2018, 02:29 PM
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Will you ever consider getting married again?
post 1559340111 08-21-2018, 02:29 PM
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
I have a bigger support system, more income, and a more stable mental health state. I already talked to a lawyer bud. Sorry (not sorry) to say you're wrong on this one.
I hope you're right man, but ive seen some messed up cases where a guy get screwed because a girl gives the dude a blow job then spits the semen out and impregnates her self with out the guys knowledge, all while she is married to some one else.
post 1559340171 08-21-2018, 02:30 PM
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
I have a bigger support system, more income, and a more stable mental health state. I already talked to a lawyer bud. Sorry (not sorry) to say you're wrong on this one.
ok chief

not smart to walk into court arrogant thinking you got it in the bag when your potential ability to raise your kid is at stake + lawyers will try to milk you and keep the process going as long as they can. so you might want to tread softly.
post 1559340201 08-21-2018, 02:30 PM
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Originally Posted By gamehendge⏩
lol, what makes you think that he is wrong?
Because OP has already discredited that notion a half dozen times in this thread. I'm much more inclined to believe the guy posting about his divorce in his thread about his state than I am some random guy trying to apply their own local laws to the situation.
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
I still don't have to give her money if it is 50/50
Ummm good luck with that ... depending on the specifics of your case and jurisdiction there may be small hope but I wouldn't count on it. Best approach is to hope she/her lawyer doesn't take too aggressive an approach. GL!
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Even if a court reaches these findings, adultery on the part of the dependent spouse is a bar to alimony. If the court finds that the dependent spouse has participated in an act of illicit sexual behavior (outlined in North Carolina General Statute § 50.16.1A(3)a.) such as sexual intercourse or other sexual acts with a person other than their spouse during the marriage and prior to or on the date of separation, the court will not award alimony. An adulterous dependent spouse has no rights to alimony under North Carolina Law.
damn, not too bad, opie

on the other hand:
In almost all cases, adultery has absolutely no bearing on a judge’s decision regarding division of marital property. The only exception being if your or your spouse’s affair affected the finances of the marriage. For example, a judge will likely take into consideration if thousands of dollars of marital assets were spent (or significant debt accumulated) on expensive hotel rooms, gifts, or vacations for the spouse’s paramour.
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Originally Posted By RIKTER⏩
IDK if that matters in NC, but a buddy of mine is a doc and had proof of his wife fuking anything and everything. She kept the house, gets a fat monthly alimony check plus child support and takes cruises all the time, while he drives a beat up chittty honda. His MD is half hers as he got it while married.
spoke to a lawyer bud, I trust his advice over yours
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On an unrelated note, you look white AF my friend.

Adopted?
I am 1/8 but really it's an inside joke between me and that crew on the misc
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I am on your side
thanks
Originally Posted By gamehendge⏩
lol, what makes you think that he is wrong?
spoke to a lawyer *******, that's why
Originally Posted By HayZues
What is your actual proof?

Sounds like you have nothing that will hold up in court.

Seeing her car next to his when she was supposedly at the grocery store ain't saving your paycheck son.
voice recordings, text messages, screenshots

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post 1559340281 08-21-2018, 02:31 PM
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
50/50, I care too much for my son to keep him away from his mother, as angry as I am at her, she is a great mom to our son despite what she's done to me.

I still don't have to give her money if it is 50/50
Do you move around a lot because of being in the military? If so, 50/50 probably not going to happen.
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Originally Posted By butwhowasfeel⏩
rofl, thats what u get fgt. misc has been warning brahs for years now and yet u cuckbois still get married to sloots thinking they're different than other sloots l m a o
come on man having kids and a wife is the only true meaning in life. live with an endless void or keep smashing your head against the wall
post 1559340381 08-21-2018, 02:31 PM
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
damn, not too bad, opie

on the other hand:
That is bad ass actually.
post 1559340471 08-21-2018, 02:32 PM
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Originally Posted By HayZues
What is your actual proof?

Sounds like you have nothing that will hold up in court.

Seeing her car next to his when she was supposedly at the grocery store ain't saving your paycheck son.
Doesn't matter anyway. Infidelity has zero relevance or bearing on divorce proceedings (except as a possible mechanism for all attorneys involved to run up their fees).
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
spoke to a lawyer bud, I trust his advice over yours
It wasn't advise, its something that happened in real life. Her cheating didn't mean chit.
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
Yep...

inb4 "did she find your misc account?"
just go smash jacksonville sloots and live life. gang gang.

wait wait... i meant Wilmington. F those jville sloots.
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
We had a (kinda) big fight, which we normally get over pretty easy. This time the next day she said she wanted a divorce and did a complete 180 as far as how she treats me goes.



Fuk you, in the moment it seems unthinkable. I was blindsided and thought everything was going great.



As I have found out more over the past couple of weeks, it turns out you are more accurate than you think...



I did until I found out she was fukkin a coworker



-Not an excuse, but I was in the military and a lot of us end up marrying you (I guess we are afraid to be alone?) so early 20s
-2 years (married for 5 for a total of 7)
-She says she didn't love me anymore and realized its been like that for a while she was just "in denial" of it. Oh and turns out she caught feels for a coworker
Lmao sucks how women always set themselves up before a breakup. I know its in their biology so it doesn't upset me, just funny when I hear them whine about men being dogs.


And yea my only military buddy also got married after 2 years. Went ok I guess for a few years, he's divorced now. I feel like you bros just cant help yourselves and fall into the trap.
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As common as divorce is in general, the rate is disproportionately high among young military guys. Hope you don't get screwed by the divorce.
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Originally Posted By Redundanteater⏩
Doesn't matter anyway. Infidelity has zero relevance or bearing on divorce proceedings (except as a possible mechanism for all attorneys involved to run up their fees).
Bro, stop. The law for Northern Carolina was literally posted ON THIS PAGE and you're wrong.
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