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08-21-2018, 06:07 PM
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Originally Posted By RealAesthetic⏩
You dont understand thi???oh yeah brah, i'm sure op is feeling confident and cocky as fuk right now -- with the love of his life cheating on him and wanting a divorce and all
you're right on the money with that one I bet
you're right on the money with that one I bet
Its like when someone ****s you over and you get up with confidence and you want to whoop their ass feeling like you will destroy them... Someone steps on your shoes or cuts you off in traffic you feel that manly energy surging through your body saying i am going to ****ing destory you not knowing if that person in that car is 6'5 heavy weight boxer champion or not?
you never had that feeling ?
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Originally Posted By Weezy32⏩
that's not something you experience when your heart is brokenYou dont understand thi???
Its like when someone ****s you over and you get up with confidence and you want to whoop their ass feeling like you will destroy them... Someone steps on your shoes or cuts you off in traffic you feel that manly energy surging through your body saying i am going to ****ing destory you not knowing if that person in that car is 6'5 heavy weight boxer champion or not?
you never had that feeling ?
Its like when someone ****s you over and you get up with confidence and you want to whoop their ass feeling like you will destroy them... Someone steps on your shoes or cuts you off in traffic you feel that manly energy surging through your body saying i am going to ****ing destory you not knowing if that person in that car is 6'5 heavy weight boxer champion or not?
you never had that feeling ?
do you even empathy ?
he's not feeling confident and cocky, he's trying to reach out for support while also trying to remain optimistic in an unfavourable situation
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08-21-2018, 06:10 PM
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So would you do it all again or are you on the no marriage bus?
08-21-2018, 06:11 PM
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Originally Posted By RealAesthetic⏩
When I got out of a very LTR recently I'm glad I didn't make a thread, judging by some of these responsesthat's not something you experience when your heart is broken
do you even empathy ?
do you even empathy ?
I just had doughnutking and some age:48-multis chatting to me about it in a random thread, they were all very compassionate and respectful. That is why I have all the time in the world for the age 48 multis compared to some of these long term miscers lol
08-21-2018, 06:12 PM
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Originally Posted By tunafishha⏩
Sloots can cheat on anyone doesn't matter if you're tall or handsome eventually they will cheat.How much of an incel do you have to be for your wife to cheat on your with an officecel? Sry though op. Feels like you guys got married way too early. I dont see myself settling until 35.
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08-21-2018, 06:13 PM
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08-21-2018, 06:18 PM
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Fuark why are people such *******s and cheat. Should be a chargable offense srs
08-21-2018, 06:18 PM
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Originally Posted By Weezy32⏩
I got negged by a few morons In here for trying tip aware OP how delusional he is for thinking he coming out of this unscathed.I get the same feeling, as i am reading his responses he seems to be one of those cocky *******s that feels like he knows the best and ignores all the advice anyone gives him. Its ok though he is in war mode and he feels cocky af based on what lawyers and yes man friends around him have told him but when those lawyer fees start adding up and he starts learning more about the way things work he will learn.
I feel for the guy its terrible what happened to him and i want him to win but come the **** on thinks his rich dad and his lawyer will bail him out (LOL). You have billionaires ....read that billionaires getting cucked by family courts and giving women huge sums of money yet he thinks he knows everything. You have athletes with millions in the bank paying 20-30k a month in child support fees you dont think they could afford good lawyers?
I feel for the guy its terrible what happened to him and i want him to win but come the **** on thinks his rich dad and his lawyer will bail him out (LOL). You have billionaires ....read that billionaires getting cucked by family courts and giving women huge sums of money yet he thinks he knows everything. You have athletes with millions in the bank paying 20-30k a month in child support fees you dont think they could afford good lawyers?
Of course the lawyer fed him exactly what he wanted to hear... to get himself on retainer... naive fool.
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08-21-2018, 06:18 PM
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Hang in there. Don't get irrational or (obviously don't get violent) or lose your temper or raise your voice when arguing.Assume EVERY interaction you have with her is being taped to be shown to a court.
Hang in there. Don't get irrational or (obviously don't get violent) or lose your temper or raise your voice when arguing.Assume EVERY interaction you have with her is being taped to be shown to a court.
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08-21-2018, 06:21 PM
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idk having a child seems pretty awesome even if you end up divorced.
not bad op, at least you found someone who would agree to marriage in the first place
not bad op, at least you found someone who would agree to marriage in the first place
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08-21-2018, 06:23 PM
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
i sure do..had issues 6 years into our marriage..still married going on 26 years..but we've had issues..Some how i stuck with it.I guess because im from a dadless household i wanted our kids to always have us together..Things are ok now but it happens probably 7/10 marriages..its unthinkable when you are in the marriage and its going great. do you know from experience?
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Strong fella I know you feelin' good about financials being straight due to infidelities n such, but dam man- it might not hurt to move some money around prior to showing the courts your financials assuming she doesn't have access to all savings/investment accounts. Now might also be a good time to make some risky options investment decisions that can either pay big and you have lots of money that didn't exist prior to divorce proceedings or you lose it, but can claim it against your income taxes in 6 months... I think you see where this is going lmao
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Sorry to hear this OP. Almost everyone where I work over 30 years old is divorced , and they survived it .
I work daily with one coworker that divorced twice by the time he was in his mid forties .
He said he wishes he never married the second phyco sloot , but like I told him, look at the great kid you got out of the deal .
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I work daily with one coworker that divorced twice by the time he was in his mid forties .
He said he wishes he never married the second phyco sloot , but like I told him, look at the great kid you got out of the deal .
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Originally Posted By HayZues
lol thought you were done here broI got negged by a few morons In here for trying tip aware OP how delusional he is for thinking he coming out of this unscathed.
Of course the lawyer fed him exactly what he wanted to hear... to get himself on retainer... naive fool.
Of course the lawyer fed him exactly what he wanted to hear... to get himself on retainer... naive fool.
who's the moron who reposted a law already posted ITT, and can't differentiate between property and income?
stick to RH circle jerks, not legal advice.
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Originally Posted By Weezy32⏩
Age: 31You dont understand thi???
Its like when someone ****s you over and you get up with confidence and you want to whoop their ass feeling like you will destroy them... Someone steps on your shoes or cuts you off in traffic you feel that manly energy surging through your body saying i am going to ****ing destory you not knowing if that person in that car is 6'5 heavy weight boxer champion or not?
you never had that feeling ?
Its like when someone ****s you over and you get up with confidence and you want to whoop their ass feeling like you will destroy them... Someone steps on your shoes or cuts you off in traffic you feel that manly energy surging through your body saying i am going to ****ing destory you not knowing if that person in that car is 6'5 heavy weight boxer champion or not?
you never had that feeling ?
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08-21-2018, 06:40 PM
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Originally Posted By Zackad⏩
I think it's mostly the person. If they're someone that can attach quickly, tend to be impulsive and emotionally volatile, I think they can also detach just as quickly. And women just tend to fit that criteria more (emotional instability) to varying degrees.I wonder...is the 180 so drastic because of the person? or just because you were used to one extreme of the emotion spectrum, and now receiving the other is such a disparity that it's more shocking?
Or is it actually an increased capacity for greater extremes?
Or is it actually an increased capacity for greater extremes?
It's also kinda shocking in the sense that it seems like they love you more than you love them, and are so incredibly invested in you, and then they can just move on and attach to a new guy very quickly. I don't think it means it wasn't 'real'; it was real, it's just more fleeting than for an emotionally stable person whose feelings are gradual and increase over time with trust, respect etc.
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Take care of yourself OP, I know it hurts a lot but as cliche as it sounds it'll get better with time.
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08-21-2018, 06:47 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I'd be inclined to agree with you. Maybe even venture to say that their ability to attach quickly also helps them override previous attachments.I think it's mostly the person. If they're someone that can attach quickly, tend to be impulsive and emotionally volatile, I think they can also detach just as quickly. And women just tend to fit that criteria more (emotional instability) to varying degrees.
It's also kinda shocking in the sense that it seems like they love you more than you love them, and are so incredibly invested in you, and then they can just move on and attach to a new guy very quickly. I don't think it means it wasn't 'real'; it was real, it's just more fleeting than for an emotionally stable person whose feelings are gradual and increase over time with trust, respect etc.
It's also kinda shocking in the sense that it seems like they love you more than you love them, and are so incredibly invested in you, and then they can just move on and attach to a new guy very quickly. I don't think it means it wasn't 'real'; it was real, it's just more fleeting than for an emotionally stable person whose feelings are gradual and increase over time with trust, respect etc.
Well aware on the phenomenon of them seeming more invested than you, it's a very confusing thing when you're unfamiliar with it, but also easy to see through once you've experienced it a couple times.
Definitely believe there's some truth to the saying "The flame that burns brightest, burns quickest"
inb4 "but road flares"
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08-21-2018, 06:54 PM
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Originally Posted By Zackad⏩
I was unfamiliar with it, but my gut sensed something was off. It made no sense why she'd be so attached to me and adore me so quickly. I actually recall how she looked at me on the 3rd date, I described it as these longing, empty eyes looking up at me in adoration. My gut turned out to be right, because poor behaviors surfaced soon afterwards, due to abandonment fears.I'd be inclined to agree with you. Maybe even venture to say that their ability to attach quickly also helps them override previous attachments.
Well aware on the phenomenon of them seeming more invested than you, it's a very confusing thing when you're unfamiliar with it, but also easy to see through once you've experienced it a couple times.
Definitely believe there's some truth to the saying "The flame that burns brightest, burns quickest"
inb4 "but road flares"
Well aware on the phenomenon of them seeming more invested than you, it's a very confusing thing when you're unfamiliar with it, but also easy to see through once you've experienced it a couple times.
Definitely believe there's some truth to the saying "The flame that burns brightest, burns quickest"
inb4 "but road flares"
It basically didn't make any sense why she would be so invested in me so quickly. I'm not that special, lol. But it sure does feel good to have a cute & pretty girl adore you.
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All I can say is sorry bro. You're doing a pretty good job of acting cool, but let's be honest you must be hurting like a motherfuker inside. Hitting up some pitty pussy is not going to make the fact that she completely betrayed your trust any easier. But time will heal it. Hang in there mane.
Made me sad to read you have a kid. Even if she's a really good mom it'll still suck for your child. Focus on what's best for her and don't let the court stuff ruin your relationship with her beyond repair. She is a cheating kunt, but it would be best for your kid if you stayed on friendly terms.
Sloots gon sloot.
Made me sad to read you have a kid. Even if she's a really good mom it'll still suck for your child. Focus on what's best for her and don't let the court stuff ruin your relationship with her beyond repair. She is a cheating kunt, but it would be best for your kid if you stayed on friendly terms.
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RIP OP, stay strong bruh
Originally Posted By DirtyDon123⏩
Would chat with and be compassionate and respectful/10When I got out of a very LTR recently I'm glad I didn't make a thread, judging by some of these responses
I just had doughnutking and some age:48-multis chatting to me about it in a random thread, they were all very compassionate and respectful. That is why I have all the time in the world for the age 48 multis compared to some of these long term miscers lol
I just had doughnutking and some age:48-multis chatting to me about it in a random thread, they were all very compassionate and respectful. That is why I have all the time in the world for the age 48 multis compared to some of these long term miscers lol
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
lmao all very true. the longing look, the "how did i ever deserve you" or some iteration, the abandonment issues. p much a dating starter packI was unfamiliar with it, but my gut sensed something was off. It made no sense why she'd be so attached to me and adore me so quickly. I actually recall how she looked at me on the 3rd date, I described it as these longing, empty eyes looking up at me in adoration. My gut turned out to be right, because poor behaviors surfaced soon afterwards, due to abandonment fears.
It basically didn't make any sense why she would be so invested in me so quickly. I'm not that special, lol. But it sure does feel good to have a cute & pretty girl adore you.
It basically didn't make any sense why she would be so invested in me so quickly. I'm not that special, lol. But it sure does feel good to have a cute & pretty girl adore you.
It feels great to have them hanging off your every word and whim. Then comes the crushing debilitation when you realize that it was them, not you, and they've already moved on as your first tear starts to roll down your cheek
lmao okay not that sappy but you get the idea
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So was she smashing your coworker before you had the fight or after?
Sorry if already answered but I'm not reading every response.
Sorry if already answered but I'm not reading every response.
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Unthinkable?
I'm guessing you're completely unaware that marriage/divorce statistics exist?
Between those statistics, and stats regarding infidelity rates within marriages, getting married is almost like trying to make money gambling at the casino.
I'm guessing you're completely unaware that marriage/divorce statistics exist?
Between those statistics, and stats regarding infidelity rates within marriages, getting married is almost like trying to make money gambling at the casino.
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mirin your level head and confidence. stay strong OP.
i hope everything ends well in your favor and your son's.
sloots goin to sloot
i hope everything ends well in your favor and your son's.
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Focus on your child, women will come and go. You'll eventually find the right one, and this divorce will be nothing but a distant memory.
When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.
08-21-2018, 07:28 PM
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Get tested. Sign the papers. Don't even consider taking her back. If you do take her back just know that I will forever laugh at you. It's a blessing in disguise. Cry a few times if you must. But start burning and throwing away her ****.
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Wow, typical woman in 2018. No surprise there.
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