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post 1559960181 08-29-2018, 03:32 AM
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Women past 25 are too old to be considered to start a family with

You meet them at 25, date for a minimum of three years before propsal, then minimum a year to get married that puts them at 29. I want 3/4 kids which takes at least 5-6 years , leaving her at 35 or right at the end of prime motherhood years

Remember this is using shortest possible time frames , and 35 is pushing it. Ideally you want 20-23 year old candidates
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post 1559960261 08-29-2018, 03:34 AM
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Or you could forget about the idea of marriage, it's nothing but a scam.

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post 1559960271 08-29-2018, 03:35 AM
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So is my tour over in 2 years if i don't find a girl that is wife material?
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post 1559960321 08-29-2018, 03:36 AM
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3-4 kids is way above the average for people with your background, OP. You seriously so committed to raising a family like that?
post 1559960351 08-29-2018, 03:37 AM
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Originally Posted By WABeast
So is my tour over in 2 years if i don't find a girl that is wife material?
yes
post 1559960461 08-29-2018, 03:42 AM
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Op is right. Chances of problems with children and pregnancy go waaaaaaay up after a chick hits 35.

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post 1559960481 08-29-2018, 03:43 AM
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Originally Posted By WABeast
So is my tour over in 2 years if i don't find a girl that is wife material?
25 is the oldest female to consider, you can be any age
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post 1559960791 08-29-2018, 03:50 AM
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change the title to dont even try dating a chick over 25.
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post 1559961071 08-29-2018, 04:02 AM
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Originally Posted By LukeS1
You meet them at 25, date for a minimum of three years before propsal, then minimum a year to get married that puts them at 29. I want 3/4 kids which takes at least 5-6 years , leaving her at 35 or right at the end of prime motherhood years

Remember this is using shortest possible time frames , and 35 is pushing it. Ideally you want 20-23 year old candidates
Marriage and kids in 2018?

You are putting at least half your net worth and future earnings on not much better than a coin toss. Good luck.
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post 1559961091 08-29-2018, 04:03 AM
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post 1559961121 08-29-2018, 04:04 AM
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Originally Posted By Hammersia
Marriage and kids in 2018?

You are putting at least half your net worth and future earnings on not much better than a coin toss. Good luck.
Cutting out marriage doesn’t shorten the 4-5 year minimum period before kids
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post 1559961151 08-29-2018, 04:04 AM
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Originally Posted By LukeS1
... leaving her at 35
See, you had the right word choice, but the wrong intent.

You should literally be leaving them by 35. To trade in for another younger model.
post 1559961201 08-29-2018, 04:06 AM
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Gf and I are both 25 now and been together for 6 years. I'd get married and start having children now if we could afford to but chit's so expensive. I basically agree with you though, got to start before 30.
post 1559961241 08-29-2018, 04:08 AM
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25 now... i guess my luck is ran out
post 1559961351 08-29-2018, 04:13 AM
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Originally Posted By PenorBrahNoHomo
Gf and I are both 25 now and been together for 6 years. I'd get married and start having children now if we could afford to but chit's so expensive. I basically agree with you though, got to start before 30.
A lot of parents get by, don't be the well-grounded couple in Idiocracy. If you're speaking of an expensive wedding, have a frugal one so you can put the money towards raising a child.

If your girlfriend really wants to be your wife and have children with you she'll make sacrifices.
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post 1559961381 08-29-2018, 04:14 AM
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if you get married in 2018 youre a cuck. just giving away your life for nothing
post 1559961411 08-29-2018, 04:14 AM
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An excellent chance you will soon be divorced and handing her half your belongings and income for 15 to 20 years while she messes around with other men. Good luck!
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post 1559961481 08-29-2018, 04:16 AM
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For once I agree.

Met my wife when I was 24, she was 19.

By then I was sick and tired of the single life.

Anything later than that and you're getting a used up old hound with a brood of assorted bastards.
Originally Posted By Hammersia
Marriage and kids in 2018?

You are putting at least half your net worth and future earnings on not much better than a coin toss. Good luck.
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post 1559962091 08-29-2018, 04:41 AM
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Originally Posted By LukeS1
You meet them at 25, date for a minimum of three years before propsal, then minimum a year to get married that puts them at 29. I want 3/4 kids which takes at least 5-6 years , leaving her at 35 or right at the end of prime motherhood years

Remember this is using shortest possible time frames , and 35 is pushing it. Ideally you want 20-23 year old candidates
Before 2nd wave feminism, the median age for women getting married (1st marriage) was 20. For men, it was 23.

After 50 years of feminist activism (2nd and 3rd waves), those numbers had climbed to 26 and 28 respectively.

A "strong and independent woman" who "doesn't need a man" can get a whole lot of experience with a whole lot of men in those extra 6 years. However, the more partners, the harder it will be for her to pair bond. Also, the longer she waits to have a family, the smaller the family will be and the more risk of complications.

It's not hard to see why young women trying to have a career before marriage, while spending their weekends partying, is leading to a lot of unfulfilled and unhappy thirtysomething year old women. The Sex and the City lifestyle from TV doesn't lead to happiness, but these young women buy into it hook, line, and sinker.

It would be funny if it didn't have such dire societal implications and consequences.
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post 1559962131 08-29-2018, 04:42 AM
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Originally Posted By WABeast
So is my tour over in 2 years if i don't find a girl that is wife material?
Originally Posted By Kylevolution
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I'm too late.

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OP is saying you date women younger than 25.
You can be any age you want
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post 1559962311 08-29-2018, 04:49 AM
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Originally Posted By VAPump
See, you had the right word choice, but the wrong intent.

You should literally be leaving them by 35. To trade in for another younger model.
Amen
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post 1559962331 08-29-2018, 04:51 AM
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It's actually a reasonable plan, OP. Timing kids before her 35th birthday makes sense from a fertility perspective and to limit the risk of chromo****l abnormalities; older is possible but riskier. You also don't want to limit the pool of candidates to women who weren't selected by other men in their 20s (i.e., waiting too long means you only get to choose women who other men didn't choose).
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Originally Posted By BustaCapp
For once I agree.

Met my wife when I was 24, she was 19.

By then I was sick and tired of the single life.

Anything later than that and you're getting a used up old hound with a brood of assorted bastards.



More cope from a 50yr old virgin who'll die alone in a bedsit 3 months before his fox-chewed remains are discovered by burglars.
Have fun on your mail round til you're 68, collect a pittance of a pension and holidays in Cleethorpes.

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post 1559962451 08-29-2018, 04:57 AM
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mine was 26, 27 when we were married. knocked out 2 kids 2 years in a row. one scare every 6 mos or so, but das it.
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Title is awkward.

Anyways, I'd say that's ideal for most men who want to settle down at some point.

I met my girl two years ago when she was 23. While the future is always unknown, there's a good chance that I'll marry her. Never really considered marriage before, but she got me to come around to the idea.
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Originally Posted By Hammersia
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Who made this chitgibbon green again?
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Met my wife when she was 25yo... I was 32... I will agree this is the GOAT age

-She had never been married
-No kids
-Already out of school (which she paid for)
-Already had established career making $100k+/yr (medical field.. come at me)
-Already bought at paid for big DDD fake teds which handle like a fkn Cadillac

I could keep going.... I found a fkn Unicorn
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Originally Posted By LukeS1
You meet them at 25, date for a minimum of three years before propsal, then minimum a year to get married that puts them at 29. I want 3/4 kids which takes at least 5-6 years , leaving her at 35 or right at the end of prime motherhood years

Remember this is using shortest possible time frames , and 35 is pushing it. Ideally you want 20-23 year old candidates
4 kids? After 4 kids her poosy will look like fkng Helmand
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So when you gonna get pregnant OP, clock is ticking.
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