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post 1567634201 12-02-2018, 07:25 AM
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Might have mentioned him before here. I still like him a ton. I still cry over this guy which is weird because I didn't know him all that well. But talking to him felt like talking to an old best friend and he seemed really nice.

I can't help feeling like I messed things up, I turned down going out with him a few times, and I told him I couldn't offer him a decent life as in he couldn't have a proper relationship with me and I told him sex or anything sexual was out of the question. I had thought he deserved better but I still regret doing those things.

But now he isn't interested in me at all, not really sure how to handle it. He does not want to talk to me, not even to reject me. I mean maybe he was only out to get laid and got tired of waiting. I don't want anyone else really. I don't want to sleep with anyone else or date anyone else.

I think about him often. Like everyday. Not really sure what to do at this point.
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post 1567634361 12-02-2018, 07:29 AM
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post 1567634441 12-02-2018, 07:30 AM
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post 1567634461 12-02-2018, 07:31 AM
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post 1567634481 12-02-2018, 07:31 AM
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post 1567634591 12-02-2018, 07:34 AM
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post 1567634621 12-02-2018, 07:34 AM
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Cure your herpes and I'm sure he will take you back.
post 1567634751 12-02-2018, 07:38 AM
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking⏩
Cure your herpes and I'm sure he will take you back.
He was fine with it. But I wasn't ok with it, I figured he deserved better than to settle with someone with my condition.

But now..I just want to be a part of his life you know, I don't have to be in a relationship with him but I don't want him to disappear. I'd be fine with being the godmother of his kids or attending his wedding (if he ever got married). I mean sure it will hurt but at least I'll be there. Doesn't make much sense I suppose.
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post 1567634821 12-02-2018, 07:39 AM
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post 1567635221 12-02-2018, 07:49 AM
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Why would any man of any value at all who has even the smallest amount of self respect settle for a self inflicted diseased sloot?

FUKING LMAO
I don’t want a large farva, I want a goddamn liter of cola

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post 1567635861 12-02-2018, 08:06 AM
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Originally Posted By Fuqdatass⏩
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Why would any man of any value at all who has even the smallest amount of self respect settle for a self inflicted diseased sloot?

FUKING LMAO
I'm not a sloot. Made some mistakes in the past but that doesn't make me a sloot.

For one I've never cheated a day in my life. I'm not even having sex these days anyway, its been a while actually and to be honest quite pleased about that.

Sure I lost my way but that never changed that I have always been good to others and treated people with respect.

By the way glad to see you're doing better.
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post 1567636121 12-02-2018, 08:11 AM
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post 1567636221 12-02-2018, 08:13 AM
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You have deep rooted psychological problems if you're crying over some chad who pumped n dumped you

Just get some cats and accept your fate, tours over for you boyette
post 1567636641 12-02-2018, 08:19 AM
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Lol you turned him down and now you want him back? Good luck. Time to find another man.
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post 1567636711 12-02-2018, 08:20 AM
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Originally Posted By DirtyDon123⏩
You have deep rooted psychological problems if you're crying over some chad who pumped n dumped you

Just get some cats and accept your fate, tours over for you boyette
he didn't have sex with me. i told him and all sexual stuff was off limits. i didn't want things to take a sexual turn.

i don't need to be with him, I just need to be in his life, being a friend is fine. I want to know he's happy and be there for him when he's not.


...fml
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post 1567636721 12-02-2018, 08:20 AM
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post 1567636971 12-02-2018, 08:23 AM
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Originally Posted By Burgerbuger⏩
Lol you turned him down and now you want him back? Good luck. Time to find another man.
No I don't want someone else. I rather stay alone. But he knows why I turned him down...
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post 1567637221 12-02-2018, 08:27 AM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
he didn't have sex with me. i told him and all sexual stuff was off limits. i didn't want things to take a sexual turn.

i don't need to be with him, I just need to be in his life, being a friend is fine. I want to know he's happy and be there for him when he's not.


...fml
That’s creepy as chit. Glad he got out when he did
I don’t want a large farva, I want a goddamn liter of cola

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post 1567637281 12-02-2018, 08:28 AM
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post 1567637371 12-02-2018, 08:30 AM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
he didn't have sex with me. i told him and all sexual stuff was off limits. i didn't want things to take a sexual turn.

i don't need to be with him, I just need to be in his life, being a friend is fine. I want to know he's happy and be there for him when he's not.


...fml
Sounds like you've got abandonment issues and are pretending like you care about him just because you don't want to feel alone, he prob sensed this from you and ran away
post 1567638301 12-02-2018, 08:47 AM
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Originally Posted By DirtyDon123⏩
Sounds like you've got abandonment issues and are pretending like you care about him just because you don't want to feel alone, he prob sensed this from you and ran away
If I didn't care about him I wouldn't tell him it would be a bad idea to date me. I would have just had sex with him, I really, really wanted to. I knew he meant something to me before he went away but I was scared and I felt guilty.
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post 1567638361 12-02-2018, 08:48 AM
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Something wrong with ur mouth?
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post 1567638631 12-02-2018, 08:55 AM
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Originally Posted By redraider86⏩
The thing with no response is that it actually is a response. Silence in the face of repeated contact and feelings may be an unsatisfying message, but it is still a message. It means "I do not want to interact with you." Stop shredding your dignity and your feelings against his silence.


Move on with your life and stop this nonsense. The good news here is also the bad news: All the power to end this madness lies with you. You can stop this any time you want to.


No you don't. Listen to yourself. He doesn't want you in his life. This is creepy and unhinged, and this is pretty much my worst nightmare. Leave this man alone.
Good advice. Sounds like she's desperate for texts from him and when he doesn't reply, then she keeps texting in a panic to get him back. It's like a viscous cycle that pushes the guy away even more.
post 1567638681 12-02-2018, 08:56 AM
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Originally Posted By redraider86⏩
The thing with no response is that it actually is a response. Silence in the face of repeated contact and feelings may be an unsatisfying message, but it is still a message. It means "I do not want to interact with you." Stop shredding your dignity and your feelings against his silence.


Move on with your life and stop this nonsense. The good news here is also the bad news: All the power to end this madness lies with you. You can stop this any time you want to.


No you don't. Listen to yourself. He doesn't want you in his life. This is creepy and unhinged, and this is pretty much my worst nightmare. Leave this man alone.
You're right, it's just the drastic change in his behaviour is a bit difficult to accept...I just figured since he had said he didn't care about my condition and that he didn't just want casual sex that he wanted something more..I took it to mean he'd stick around.

I didn't realise it was creepy. It's just..how I feel. It feels like I did something wrong.
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post 1567638701 12-02-2018, 08:56 AM
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post 1567639251 12-02-2018, 09:05 AM
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Originally Posted By RICHSTRONG⏩
Something wrong with ur mouth?
I don't do unprotected oral. The last time he and I met I told him that, I also told him I couldn't do a handjob either. He was really horny that day but kept his composure. he just kissed me and said its fine and we talked about other stuff.

I'm guessing he must have been extremely pissed off deep down. Last day I saw him, we did text back and forth that night and he and I had made plans to meet up the next day. He didnt seem upset or anything.
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So let me get this straight.

You told this guy that you couldn't give him a proper relationship and there would never be anything sexual, yet you still thought he'd stick around? What sane person would do that? Was that some kind of childish game are you trying to play here or are you just that mentally unstable? Get some help, and I hope this neg helps you.
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don't give a sh*t if this neg helps you or not

you're what is wrong with women. the idiocy, fickleness, indecisiveness, narcissism, anxiety, inability to express how you feel, I could go on.

i mean just imagine. let's break it down. you want to have sex with someone, but you tell them no. if you truly felt bad for him, tell him what your reservations are and let him decide

but no. you want to push him away, and then pine over him

too many girls are like this. it would be funny if it wasn't so frustrating. fukking negged
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post 1567640691 12-02-2018, 09:27 AM
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Originally Posted By NillaWafer⏩
So let me get this straight.

You told this guy that you couldn't give him a proper relationship and there would never be anything sexual, yet you still thought he'd stick around? What sane person would do that? Was that some kind of childish game are you trying to play here or are you just that mentally unstable? Get some help, and I hope this neg helps you.
About the sexual part I had changed my mind the last time he and I spoke. The next day he and I were supposed to meet up. I did apologise for turning him down and I explained why. At the time I met him I was tired of being used by guys so I wanted to take things slow which he had agreed with. He doesn't like easy women.

I think the situation was that he wanted to get laid and got tired of waiting.
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post 1567640931 12-02-2018, 09:31 AM
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩
don't give a sh*t if this neg helps you or not

you're what is wrong with women. the idiocy, fickleness, indecisiveness, narcissism, anxiety, inability to express how you feel, I could go on.

i mean just imagine. let's break it down. you want to have sex with someone, but you tell them no. if you truly felt bad for him, tell him what your reservations are and let him decide

but no. you want to push him away, and then pine over him

too many girls are like this. it would be funny if it wasn't so frustrating. fukking negged
I thought pushing him away was the right thing to do. I didn't things to turn into a sexual relationship which tends to happen every time I sleep with someone. I had explained everything to him.

But he knew I wanted him badly, he still knows that.
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