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post 1568780731 12-16-2018, 08:02 AM
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Girlfriend won't give BJs

Relatively new relationship.

Cutting straight to the point, my gf doesn't like going down on me, which sucks, this being my first relationship, it was a new experience and an amazing one at that. She sat down with me one day and told me she didn't like it, saying how she felt sick after a while. I dug deeper into the problem and I found out it was really to do with a previous relationship where she was forced into doing things and it essentially brought back bad memories of that. Plus she says she didn't like the taste of a dink.

Now at the time I made it very clear that it wasn't an issue and it was completely understandable, but now I've realized that I do want it in our relationship. I always give oral to her as I know she enjoys it, it's not exactly eating tasty strawberry shortcake but I still do it for the sake of her pleasure. Which makes me think why doesn't she do the same for me?

I want to talk to her about it, maybe reassure her that it can be done at her pace and how she likes and I wont interfere like her previous bf did. Whats everyone's opinions on this? Worth trying to persuade her or should I just accept that it wont be a part of our relationship?
post 1568780941 12-16-2018, 08:05 AM
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do u wash down there? maybe she would rather have a nice clean wiener in her mouth
post 1568780951 12-16-2018, 08:05 AM
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Surely you mean ex-girlfriend
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post 1568781171 12-16-2018, 08:08 AM
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Okay so where are the fukin pics?
post 1568781191 12-16-2018, 08:09 AM
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lol at trying to fix a sexually repressed chick. It will only get worse, OP. On to the next.
post 1568781351 12-16-2018, 08:12 AM
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post 1568781381 12-16-2018, 08:14 AM
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post 1568781391 12-16-2018, 08:14 AM
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you mean ex-gf
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post 1568781431 12-16-2018, 08:15 AM
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Keep her but find a side twink that will do it
post 1568781541 12-16-2018, 08:17 AM
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post 1568781721 12-16-2018, 08:20 AM
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post 1568781761 12-16-2018, 08:21 AM
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Originally Posted By anonkunbrah⏩
Keep her but find a side twink that will do it
this

having a guy suck your dick is only gay if you don't already have a gf
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post 1568781901 12-16-2018, 08:25 AM
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩
this

having a guy suck your dick is only gay if you don't already have a gf
you can't post this and also be allowed to have a beard. Time to shave.
post 1568782011 12-16-2018, 08:28 AM
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Two options:
1. End it now.
2. If she's worth it, stick it out and focus on working things out with her. She likely associates oral sex with certain series of negative thoughts. This can be potentially fixed.
2b. Stay with her and not get oral sex.
post 1568782281 12-16-2018, 08:36 AM
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Probably a troll thread but here's my piece

Try to get her to understand it's an important part of the relationship, if she still won't play balls then either get a side chick or next her.

Getting daily BJ's from my gf is GOAT, walking in from work to have her get immediately down on her knees and looking into my eyes when she swallows my baby batter makes my life a lot more relaxed lol

Feel bad for you OP, it won't last if she doesn't loosen up her throat
post 1568782611 12-16-2018, 08:42 AM
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Originally Posted By Bo_Flecks⏩
lol at trying to fix a sexually repressed chick. It will only get worse, OP. On to the next.
Not true... I've turned a sexually repressed girl, due to her overbearing parents, into a sex addict before.

Also OP her saying she doesn't like giving head doesn't mean she doesn't want it necessarily, might just mean she wants it done forcefully.

Jk don't get Metood brah, if blowjobs are that important to you then onto the next one.
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post 1568782751 12-16-2018, 08:45 AM
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last girl i dated was the same, she was a starfish as well.... i'd say move on
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post 1568783001 12-16-2018, 08:49 AM
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post 1568783251 12-16-2018, 08:54 AM
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post 1568783301 12-16-2018, 08:55 AM
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lmao, I pity betas who believe the whole "she feels bad about it because she was forced to do it in previous relationships"

she sucked them off like there was no tomorrow because she was attracted to them, you are a beta provider and thats why you dont get your dick sucked, loser
post 1568783711 12-16-2018, 09:02 AM
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Originally Posted By anonkunbrah⏩
Keep her but find a side twink that will do it
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post 1568784841 12-16-2018, 09:18 AM
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Originally Posted By cjmadscientist⏩
lol
post 1568784971 12-16-2018, 09:21 AM
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OP a lot of women have "previous issues" the real question is how long you want to stick around and try to "work on" those old issues.
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Originally Posted By Bo_Flecks⏩
lol at trying to fix a sexually repressed chick. It will only get worse, OP. On to the next.
This. Not worth the stress. Move on.
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She's lying. You smell/taste bad. Try washing your angus with soap op.
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Originally Posted By kopikum⏩
lmao, I pity betas who believe the whole "she feels bad about it because she was forced to do it in previous relationships"

she sucked them off like there was no tomorrow because she was attracted to them, you are a beta provider and thats why you dont get your dick sucked, loser
Its gonna have to be this, she sucked her poor ex's dick so many times a day/week and in the end he still kicked her to the curb..

You're the poor soul who's suffering the results of what her ex probably did to her.

Lot of other great posts also about what you should do.

P.s there's flavoured sex lubricants if she doesn't like the taste.
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post 1568785281 12-16-2018, 09:25 AM
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Originally Posted By LeoThedude⏩
Not true... I've turned a sexually repressed girl, due to her overbearing parents, into a sex addict before.
You fixed her so well you’re still with her. Right?

RIGHT???
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Originally Posted By Bo_Flecks⏩
You fixed her so well you’re still with her. Right?

RIGHT???
Ha ha, FIXED HER!
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dont go down on her
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Originally Posted By kopikum⏩
lmao, I pity betas who believe the whole "she feels bad about it because she was forced to do it in previous relationships"

she sucked them off like there was no tomorrow because she was attracted to them, you are a beta provider and thats why you dont get your dick sucked, loser
This, females often use this bullchit excuse that they were abused in some other relationship.
Fuking non sense.
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i'd rather eat the rotten angus of a road killed skunk and down it with beer than be in a relationship with a girl that doesnt zuk dink
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