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post 1568922851 12-17-2018, 11:05 PM
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Originally Posted By DPeezy13
Back in my 20's I used to be obsessed with smashing as many chicks as possible.

That ego boost I would get when on a hot streak was like none other

Now it's such an empty feeling...it almost feels like a waste of time. Friday night I smashed this bolivian with a big ass (don't have pics) and the sex was pretty good. Then Saturday I went on a date with this Portuguese chick that I've been talking to for a while, had bottomless brunch and a great time, hooked up afterward, then went out and got drunk watching the games with my boy.

I wake up this morning and it just feels empty, like it didn't even happen. Just completely unfulfilling.

Hold me, misc.
Sound like a low T whiny beta. Try being an incel instead and see which you prefer

This entire life is meaningless in the modern age. ****ing hot sluts is one of the only thing that gives satisfaction next to anything short of a 1950s fantasy with a loyal trad wife and 5 kids

muh hobbies like playing vidya or shooting or some **** is laughable man baby chit. Spreading your seed is the most fulfilling hobbie there can be
post 1568924021 12-17-2018, 11:36 PM
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Originally Posted By DCutch
Ehh I go through phases.

I'm currently on a ****ing-spree phase and loving it.

Just go do whatever makes you happy beebee.
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Also OP you must be smashing dogs or something. Not sure how smashing a new dime isn't always rewarding. That feel when a hot bish is checking you out from across the bar and smiling and you go up to her and talk to her all night then take her home and pound her out then she mounts you in the morning after you wake up few things can compare to.
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post 1568924431 12-17-2018, 11:45 PM
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its good when your dink is hard but otherwise gross.

idk, i cant really enjoy myself thinking of stds and pregnancy and if I have to use a condom.. i may as well fap instead.
its much better when you know the person
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post 1568924671 12-17-2018, 11:52 PM
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I think we all know what you're talking about, we've all been there........and then BOOM you meet that one cute girl, cuter than all other acting shy and coy. And then you take her home...............oh lawd. The more you choke her the more she loves it. You slap her she begs for more you pound her she screams harder.

It's like a perfect match. So you try to wife her, imagine you find a unicorn and now you have to try to catch it and put it in a cage for the rest of its life. Good luck with that buddy, it won't happen. So you go on living your life knowing what's out there never being able to acquire it and then you get older watching the world spin while you sit there miserable looking for the next unicorn that won't give you a second glance.

Fuk dis gay earth.
post 1568925601 12-18-2018, 12:21 AM
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I wish i knew those feels OP....

Post some pics?
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post 1568926771 12-18-2018, 12:59 AM
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Realized this chit at 24-25 been a serial monogamist ever since

It's not much better till you find the right one though
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post 1568927411 12-18-2018, 01:23 AM
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Try having sex with attractive girls. Guarantee you wouldn't have made this thread if both girls were 8's.
post 1568927891 12-18-2018, 01:47 AM
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Originally Posted By spadelexus
Try having sex with attractive girls. Guarantee you wouldn't have made this thread if both girls were 8's.
Not really. I've smashed fitness competitors and it was like meh if the person annoys you, like all she talks about is diet and lean body mass.
post 1568928601 12-18-2018, 02:12 AM
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If you don't creampie - it doesn't count. You are still a virgin basically.
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post 1568928951 12-18-2018, 02:31 AM
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Originally Posted By Better
If you don't creampie - it doesn't count. You are still a virgin basically.
Technically unless you get her pregnant it doesn’t really count.
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post 1568930711 12-18-2018, 03:57 AM
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its true. when I was younger I could smash a girl i wasn't even remotely attracted to and I'd be in good spirits for a week afterward coz it would be a good story for the boys.

these days it's just nothingness unless you have mind blowing sex which is rare.
post 1568931751 12-18-2018, 04:46 AM
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OP is right

I went a few years trying to get my number up just for the ego boost. I'm 26 now and it's just unfulfilling. You realize that you are just a cawk to these sloots and it feels just as good to have a bat srs. 99%of trying to fook randoms is for the ego boost
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post 1568932641 12-18-2018, 05:11 AM
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Agreed OP. There is nothing like being with someone that you have feelings for and a history of getting to know each other. It's so hnnngg when you know what each other likes and exactly what you can say and do that turns them on and gets them off.
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post 1568932971 12-18-2018, 05:20 AM
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New pussy is what I live for but I like to build lasting connections with girls rather than going the whole one night stand route. I couldn't do that if I wanted to because they always come back for more heh.
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post 1568933101 12-18-2018, 05:24 AM
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exactly. yet society still places value on a woman's pussy like it is something special
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post 1568933961 12-18-2018, 05:50 AM
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Was in a long term relationship for 5 years, got out of it at 27 (cause I wanted to bang some new new) and 8 months into being single.....living in a nice place right downtown Kansas City, pretty much going home with a new chick at least once/week, having 4-5 available at the drop of a text.............I felt empty. It wasnt what I thought it would be. Sure the first month was awesome, then it became like a game, then you start to notice a "formula" to it and every girl starts to become the same and you start to feel like you're losing sight of what you really want and you start to question women, because you see them in a different light....thinking that they arent worthy of your real feelings or love because of how easy they are proving to be, making you numb and almost lose hope in finding someone you can trust and that hasn't been through this mess with a ton of other guys.

Took a month off from going out & meeting new girls, decided to spend a majority of time with just 3 of the ones that had been around for a while. Actually took them on dates and attempted to change my skewed perception that I now had, taking time to self reflect and figure out what I wanted in life. Found a new job, moved back close to home (town of 30k) and began the search.
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Originally Posted By bretmarathon
Not really. I've smashed fitness competitors and it was like meh if the person annoys you, like all she talks about is diet and lean body mass.
Most guys that aren't male models, famous actors, pro-athletes etc...will try to keep an 8/10 "random" they smashed, so they don't have to continually pursue new women. What you are talking about comes later down the road when certain characteristics become unbearable that aren't noticed early on.

The unfulfilling part of casual sex for me, and when I get post hookup depression happens when:

1. I lower my standards
2. The girl ghosts after sex but I wanted to continue seeing her.

#2 typically happens with the prettier girls, who have more options. And they will use me for a convenient 1 time transaction, then dissapear the same way I ghost girls that fall in #1 above.

So I agree with Op. It's better to meet a girl you are into and not have sex on the first date. The majority of girls I've seen on a consistent basis I didn't have sex with on date 1. And these relationships are far more fulfilling then the random hookups which heavily outnumber them.
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I am married but if I was single, I am cool with randoms. The problem is that I would have zero energy to put on the artificial charade of hey let's get to know each other crap anymore.

It's a lot easier to put up with the artificial BS for broads you aren't really interested in emotionally in your teens and early 20s.
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Originally Posted By Caeculus
Life is filled with pain and the few good times between the pain is probably not even worth it so just do whatever you feel like until you die because it all doesn't matter anyway.
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Maybe it’s time to find your soal mate 😅

Or maybe the empty feeling is coming from elsewhere, what’s your passion apart from smashing birds and lifting weights?
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Originally Posted By spadelexus
Most guys that aren't male models, famous actors, pro-athletes etc...will try to keep an 8/10 "random" they smashed, so they don't have to continually pursue new women. What you are talking about comes later down the road when certain characteristics become unbearable that aren't noticed early on.

The unfulfilling part of casual sex for me, and when I get post hookup depression happens when:

1. I lower my standards
2. The girl ghosts after sex but I wanted to continue seeing her.

#2 typically happens with the prettier girls, who have more options. And they will use me for a convenient 1 time transaction, then dissapear the same way I ghost girls that fall in #1 above.

So I agree with Op. It's better to meet a girl you are into and not have sex on the first date. The majority of girls I've seen on a consistent basis I didn't have sex with on date 1. And these relationships are far more fulfilling then the random hookups which heavily outnumber them.
Nice pro-Israel quote moron ZOG zombie. This is what neo con republicuks ACTUALLY believe. LMAO

Israel is not part of the West and never has been. Israel and the jews are fundamentally opposed to everything western going back to Roman times, making that quote especially laughable mentioning Rome. Pure fucccing delusion.

Get redpilled on the jews for your own damn sake. Start with researching the Frankfurt School and who started and led communism. Who were the original party leaders of the Soviet Union. Who started degenerate art. Who start usury and high interest banking. Who started porn. Who started feminism. Who destroyed the demographic composition of America with the Hart-Celler Act. Who promotes mass immigration for western countries. Everything can be traced to one particular tribe


Muslims are filth but 100% of the West's issues with the Middle East start with the existence of Israel. We would not be in the mess we are in there if Israel never existed.
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Originally Posted By bsmit107
Was in a long term relationship for 5 years, got out of it at 27 (cause I wanted to bang some new new) and 8 months into being single.....living in a nice place right downtown Kansas City, pretty much going home with a new chick at least once/week, having 4-5 available at the drop of a text.............I felt empty. It wasnt what I thought it would be. Sure the first month was awesome, then it became like a game, then you start to notice a "formula" to it and every girl starts to become the same and you start to feel like you're losing sight of what you really want and you start to question women, because you see them in a different light....thinking that they arent worthy of your real feelings or love because of how easy they are proving to be, making you numb and almost lose hope in finding someone you can trust and that hasn't been through this mess with a ton of other guys.

Took a month off from going out & meeting new girls, decided to spend a majority of time with just 3 of the ones that had been around for a while. Actually took them on dates and attempted to change my skewed perception that I now had, taking time to self reflect and figure out what I wanted in life. Found a new job, moved back close to home (town of 30k) and began the search.
this

once u lock in that formula u see thru women and realize that they have the socially-sublimated gameplan to getting their carnal fix but after it's like blowing $80 with zero long-term gain

then u realize, these women are digging their own graves by making themselves so attached to men in the first place to fill a void instead of playing the patient game and walking into a spontaneous mutual attraction setup not at a bar/alcohol where everyone's intent is obvious
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Originally Posted By Caeculus
Being single and alone sucks.

Fornication with whores sucks and gives me no pleasure and only leaves me feeling dirty, used, and empty.

Having sex with a woman you love is amazing but along with it comes her ability to hurt you with words or by leaving you or hurting you in other ways and women know when they have that power and they will use it to hurt you.

Life is filled with pain and the few good times between the pain is probably not even worth it so just do whatever you feel like until you die because it all doesn't matter anyway.
Been really feeling this way a lot lately
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Originally Posted By HomerJThompson
Op smashes 5/10 chicks and lower , thats why no pics.
dont care, still had sex


jk. still post pics ******* op
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you know what else is even more unfulfilling OP? not getting laid at all.... ever. the only thing worse than being single and not getting laid is being in a relationship and not getting laid.

the glass is half full pal. be happy about it.
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Originally Posted By cezarfitness
Maybe it’s time to find your soal mate

Or maybe the empty feeling is coming from elsewhere, what’s your passion apart from smashing birds and lifting weights?
That’s what I’m still trying to figure outfeel like nothing really interests me any more. Void is getting bigger
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Get into a relationship with a poverty sex drive bish for a year then you'll love it again
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Feeling the same here man at 27. The sex tends to suck and well it just is really about the egoboost, which I don't need.

Thinking serial monogamy is probably the next step.
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2 f*cks and I'm bored of them, maybe 3 if she takes a good facial

If the sex is getting boring with fresh meat you ain't being freaky enough
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