Well I already have a big Chad D fwb so I’m good.

But I love sex and I don’t understand why you guys think that I don’t! If I was innocent and didn’t like sex then I wouldn’t want a fwb.

Enjoying sex is normal you know.

Is your point that casual sex is bad?

I agree that relationship sex is much better and greatly preferable, but I can’t find a relationship.

So as an alternative I’m actually pretty happy with a steady fwb. He’s attractive and nice and I enjoy his company.

You haven't tried to find a fukking relationship. You've been messing around getting dikked down by young guys and are content with that, and doing jack chit to change your behavior.

I'll judge you based on your actions, not words.

You haven't tried to find a fukking relationship. You've been messing around getting dikked down by young guys and are content with that, and doing jack chit to change your behavior.

I'll judge you based on your actions, not words.

Why do you care? What impact does it have on your life? She didn't start the thread, she's being honest and this is her way of socializing.

Last I recall, you're not exactly lighting the lamp of life.

No white knight

You haven't tried to find a fukking relationship. You've been messing around getting dikked down by young guys and are content with that, and doing jack chit to change your behavior.

I'll judge you based on your actions, not words.

IDK why y'all give her advice lol.

Why do you care why I care? What's a stupid fukking question to ask in a discussion forum.

She doesn't read my posts anymore. I think she has me on ignore lol

Because she's not going to change, why yell at a cloud? Go back to RH and whine about your life.

Because she's not going to change, why yell at a cloud? Go back to RH and whine about your life.

Yes.

We went to see Aquaman together and things got very upsetting. I was practically having an out of body experience while she was telling me this stuff. She got extremely drunk, cried, vomited, etc.

She was quite sad when I stressed my gf is someone I love, and know much longer than her, and that I thought the age difference was unfair to her since she's 22. She said I was the best guy she ever met because we communicate well and I have never hit on her.

That's because she's 22 and I'm not using a young lady for sexual encounters when I know she will become attached to me. Plus, I can't deal with two women at once. My gf lives away from me now due to me being on a work mission. So, it's tempting by I said to the 22 year old that if my gf was her now she would like her and not be saying these things.

The girl had a very tough time understanding why I wouldn't want a young woman.

Anyway, it was all too much and we won't be doing anything soon and I certainly will never do anything involving alcohol.

This. Having regular sex with a FWB is fukking up her mental state (ruining her ability to pair bond) and she will likely have 0 motivation to go out and find a relationship if she has a supply of dick she regularly takes up.

No I am not ignoring you.



Not true, I can “pair bond” just fine. I feel affection for my fwb, and if he were my age and we could start a real relationship then I could easily love him and bond more with him. Or with someone else for a srs relationship if I meet another guy who is attractive and nice.

15 pages about some dried up old crone.

Never change misc.

the one thing this thread was good for was inspiring me to change from 30 to 50 PPP

Enjoying sex is normal you know.

Why do you care why I care? What's a stupid fukking question to ask in a discussion forum.

But I love sex and I don’t understand why you guys think that I don’t! If I was innocent and didn’t like sex then I wouldn’t want a fwb.

I would make additional exceptions for mary jane enthusiasts or bodybuilder competitors.

How you just described alcohol is the reason why you might be doomed (and the reason why girls that don't drink are a red flag for me...minus the exceptions as stated)

Don't get me wrong, nobody likes a drunk...but relaxing while drinking a nice glass of dry red wine with dinner, or making a rum cocktail in the summer to take to the beach, and drinking together with a girl Im into, either on a 1st date, or hell, even on my back porch with my ex...is a great feeling to share, and I wouldn't sacrifice it. Its a bonding experience... so I'm gonna have to withdraw my qwasi date offer to critique your irl game because that tells me everthing I need to know.

You are a dry and boring girl. I like you, I think you are a good person. And I know we aren't each others types, but even if we were Id pass based on that red flag alone...which says so much about you.

It's literally an entirely different world. And that cuts your potential dating options down drastically. Which btw...the reason guys In their 40's who make decent money and look good aren't accessible to you is because they date younger girls pretty exclusively. I cap my age limit at 32 on these apps.

That said, you need to crack out of your shell, so when you do meet the odd high value guy who is not romancing girls 10 years younger, you'll have a shot at a 2nd date with him. Its almost like you're 18 and haven't seen the world/dont know who you are. So you need a guy that can show you how to realease your fears and conquer the moment. A guy that can show you how to live. Or you can do it yourself. But you're too scared. You need guidance.

So...Id be willing to adjust the initial offer, and instead of critiquing you, youll be watching me. Watch me enter a bar/resturant and have heads turn when they hear my shoes hit the floor. Listen to how I talk and smile to get what I want. Watch how I walk fast but still acknowledge poor people on the street to respond to them, even if it's a "no sorry"..

A 350+lb man in a wheelchair was crossing the street last week. Dunno how he fell off his chair but he did. His buddy, who was wheeling him, must have weighed no more than 150lbs and couldn't lift him off the ground. They looked like were homeless or lived at the Y.

Right as I walked up the light turned green and they were blocking traffic. Horns started honking. But everyone else kept walking not even paying attention to the handicap homeless man that couldn't get up from the street.

I told the 150lb guy to lock the wheels on the chair, and as I lift his buddy from the ground to act as a crutch and guide him to his chair. I put my foot down next the 350lbd guys foot to use as a anchor. With one hand I clasped his arm. And pulled him up with all my might taking my free hand to his back and shoulder to push him up, then guide him a couple steps until he sat back in the wheelchair.

Gave him and his friend bro shakes/hugs and went on my way like nothing happened. That whole ordeal took 2 minutes out of my day.

Long story short you need a guy that's a little wild and doesn't gaf, to wake up your soul that's been sleeping for so long, and push you out of your comfort zone so you can wear your hair down, and live.

So we can start with one meeting, same promise as b4, I won't try to smash you. Even if you want to, my pants stay on. I will flirt with you, give you attention (like you are my girl/date) and test you. But no sex

I'tl will probably take a few meets until you open up. But you'll gain confidence, awareness, and will crack out of your shell. You'll never get an offer like this ever again in your life.

So think about it. Sleep on it. Then lmk how it sounds.