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post 1576640481 03-25-2019, 09:03 PM
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Originally Posted By binnisbuilding⏩
Flat earther
Mouth breather
Virgin


Pick three
My name is a joke relax
post 1576641231 03-25-2019, 09:17 PM
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Woman are humans just like you and me bro. Just talk to them how you would talk to anyone else.
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post 1576641801 03-25-2019, 09:27 PM
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feels bro, don't even know how people get a word in these days any time I try goes like

Me: "hey, wha.."

Her:"no, bye"

literally like the last 5 times.
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post 1576641961 03-25-2019, 09:31 PM
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Does it count if they’re unconscious when I talk to them?
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post 1576642181 03-25-2019, 09:37 PM
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Originally Posted By FlatEarther⏩
Sup guys.

Basically I'm 28 years old and have never talked to a girl before. I'm a virgin needless to say and am wondering if anybody here has any advice or was in a similar situation and managed to overcome it.

I'm getting a bit worried as I am getting close to 30 and this certainly is not normal. I just don't know what to do to break out of my shyness and social anxiety with girls. I fear rejection more than anything else at this point and girls seem to be extremely cruel and unforgiving to guys who don't have the typical extroverted macho alpha male personality.

I'm in decent shape, 6'1, 190 lbs around 12 percent body fat. Hasn't really helped though, I'm still invisible and can't socialize.
I had severe social anxiety when I started undergrad, but it gradually disappeared over the next 4-5 years (especially senior year) as I continually realized that people are empathetic creatures on the whole and aren't actively hoping for you to fail. Also got into my first LTR and fell in love, lost virginity, all that stuff.

What are you worried about OP? Like, even if a girl was to make fun of you for asking her out (unlikely), how are the consequences to that so bad? My anxiety fell away as I realized that you're in full control of how you react to negative outcomes. It doesn't have to ruin your day if you don't let it. And conversely, this mindset allowed me to become far more confident, extroverted, and likable.

Socialize as much as possible. That's what you need to do. Join clubs, sports, get a group-based hobby, do SOMETHING with other people. Build your social skills. And things should fall into place. Know that it may not be quick however, don't expect to fully conquer your anxiety in a week. But you may be surprised at how much more confident you get day by day. The thing is you gotta push yourself out of your comfort zone. Girls aren't your problem, anxiety is.
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post 1576642191 03-25-2019, 09:37 PM
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Brah you're 6'1" like wtf. I will never understand how you tall brahs are FA srs. And if you wanna get laid then go phuk a hooker brah. I don't know where you're located but you can phuk a 9/10 here for as low as $150 in some cases.
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post 1576642781 03-25-2019, 09:50 PM
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Bro go to a strip clin with $100 and get a lap dance with a girl for $20 and she will sit with u for an hour and talk .. think of it as an exercise to get over your fear
post 1576643091 03-25-2019, 09:57 PM
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post 1576643341 03-25-2019, 10:04 PM
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Originally Posted By nm1891⏩
That’s funny op, I too am 28 and never talked to a female. Not a virgin though.
See op? Just go ghey like our friend here
post 1576651481 03-26-2019, 02:38 AM
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Originally Posted By malakas1⏩
never had anything thats related to proximity even my 14 year old niece deletes my ******** friend request
lol
post 1576651531 03-26-2019, 02:42 AM
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Originally Posted By JustJones⏩
feels bro, don't even know how people get a word in these days any time I try goes like

Me: "hey, wha.."

Her:"no, bye"

literally like the last 5 times.
So just finish the sentence "do you have a boyfriend?"

And she already said no so now she legally has to chat to you or she's a bitch
post 1576651551 03-26-2019, 02:45 AM
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post 1576651591 03-26-2019, 02:45 AM
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post 1576651631 03-26-2019, 02:48 AM
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Originally Posted By FlatEarther⏩
I've heard plenty of horror stories about brutal rejections. I take it with a grain of salt but it is always in the back of my mind.
I don't think op is in quite the same predicament as Instagram whores getting thrown overboard by Saudi sheikhs if they say no to a turd face mask
post 1576652051 03-26-2019, 03:06 AM
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Originally Posted By FlatEarther⏩
Sup guys.

Basically I'm 28 years old and have never talked to a girl before. I'm a virgin needless to say and am wondering if anybody here has any advice or was in a similar situation and managed to overcome it.

I'm getting a bit worried as I am getting close to 30 and this certainly is not normal. I just don't know what to do to break out of my shyness and social anxiety with girls. I fear rejection more than anything else at this point and girls seem to be extremely cruel and unforgiving to guys who don't have the typical extroverted macho alpha male personality.

I'm in decent shape, 6'1, 190 lbs around 12 percent body fat. Hasn't really helped though, I'm still invisible and can't socialize.
Nice bro, keep it up. You haven't missed much (actually, you have missed a **** load of hassle).
post 1576652331 03-26-2019, 03:18 AM
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Wonder why the misc attracts these sorts of people. You must be incredibly ugly, with those stats, to not have had any female contact. Just pay for it and get it over with.
post 1576652421 03-26-2019, 03:23 AM
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It's not just women most people are hard to talk to now says. Man or woman.
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post 1576653191 03-26-2019, 03:58 AM
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Michellelnne repped me once so you can say I'm sort of an expert on the female species.

The trick to these nasty little buggers is to make yourself as big and tall as possible while borderline shouting. This will make women acknowledge that you are an alpha male and are not to be trifled with
post 1576653231 03-26-2019, 04:02 AM
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Originally Posted By Nicklol⏩
that was me until 26 and when I discovered dating apps.
better do that before youre 30 and in the same situation
Bro why is your face like 10 shades different from your body
post 1576653461 03-26-2019, 04:12 AM
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If you fear rejection why dont you try and be friends first? Can't fear rejection then, and then youll grow more comfortable talkin to them?
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post 1576653911 03-26-2019, 04:39 AM
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Originally Posted By Chezdon⏩
Wonder why the misc attracts these sorts of people. You must be incredibly ugly, with those stats, to not have had any female contact. Just pay for it and get it over with.
Nah, I know good looking guys that very rarely if ever hook up with a chick. Most of the time its due to lack of social exposure, lack of social network or acting weird/like a creep.


Make friends and expand your social network OP. And make it a priority, social anxiety at age 28 is long overdue
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post 1576654111 03-26-2019, 04:53 AM
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This fear you feel is basically your subconscious telling you that your genes are inferior and reproduction is not something you should be doing. I also have this, as well as a bunch of other miscers.
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post 1576654301 03-26-2019, 05:00 AM
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Originally Posted By Reinhardt881⏩
I don't know much about women either, but they say fear of rejection causes 99% of girl problems (or so i've heard).
no chit...

Spoiler!
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Originally Posted By FlatEarther⏩
That is what I'm afraid of.
I'm a 31 y/o virgin. I can tell you this: you aren't missing much. The majority of females, much like the majority of mankind, are terrible human beings. Most of them aren't worth sticking your dink in, and the few that are are most likely taken. Just do your best to find meaning in life. When you are younger, pussy is literally all you think about. Once you have resolved to die and accepted your death, it will not be as important to you. You will regret not having a legacy, but remember that humanity is unlikely to survive for long anyway. We are failed little combinations, suboptimal solutions to the grand evolutionary problem. Ultimately, it doesn't matter how alpha or beta a human is. Simply being human means we are ridiculously inferior to something like cyanobacteria. We will certainly go extinct soon. We were only here for the blink of an eye, and then, we will be gone. There is no legacy for mankind, so I certainly shouldn't feel so bad about there being no legacy for myself. In the grand scheme of things, we are just combinations of particles. There was nothing special or precious about our existence except the fortune (or misfortune) of being able to consciously experience it. Since we all die anyway, there is also a sense of freedom. You have time to do whatever you feel like and explore things. You can find a way to pass the time and maybe even enjoy yourself until your death. That's what I'm doing.
Originally Posted By montiii⏩
If you fear rejection why dont you try and be friends first? Can't fear rejection then, and then youll grow more comfortable talkin to them?
This is the chittiest advice I have ever seen. This is how men get turned into soyboys and orbiters. This just brings them more suffering later. Negged.



He either needs to just sack up and approach or accept his fate. He will get nowhere trying to befriend girls (Unless he keeps them at arm's length and doesn't try to become emotionally close to them...then, he can maybe use them as a way to meet other girls.) I still don't think most men can have real friendships with girls. Unless you want to be the cuck shoulder she cries on after getting railed by Chad, best to keep your distance.
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Originally Posted By nm1891⏩
That’s funny op, I too am 28 and never talked to a female. Not a virgin though.
butt secks with the mailman doesnt count, sorry brah
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just decide now if you want a wife and children. if you dont then think of this as a blessing so you dont become a degenerate
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
I'm a 31 y/o virgin. I can tell you this: you aren't missing much. The majority of females, much like the majority of mankind, are terrible human beings. Most of them aren't worth sticking your dink in, and the few that are are most likely taken. Just do your best to find meaning in life. When you are younger, pussy is literally all you think about. Once you have resolved to die and accepted your death, it will not be as important to you. You will regret not having a legacy, but remember that humanity is unlikely to survive for long anyway. We are failed little combinations, suboptimal solutions to the grand evolutionary problem. Ultimately, it doesn't matter how alpha or beta a human is. Simply being human means we are ridiculously inferior to something like cyanobacteria. We will certainly go extinct soon. We were only here for the blink of an eye, and then, we will be gone. There is no legacy for mankind, so I certainly shouldn't feel so bad about there being no legacy for myself. In the grand scheme of things, we are just combinations of particles. There was nothing special or precious about our existence except the fortune (or misfortune) of being able to consciously experience it. Since we all die anyway, there is also a sense of freedom. You have time to do whatever you feel like and explore things. You can find a way to pass the time and maybe even enjoy yourself until your death. That's what I'm doing.



This is the chittiest advice I have ever seen. This is how men get turned into soyboys and orbiters. This just brings them more suffering later. Negged.

So true. Nothing more beta than male orbiters. Every hot girl has them every place she goes. That's why so many dudes struggle because the orbiters are always around and there egos are inflated because of 24/7 attention
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But how does one sell a car to a woman, without first speaking to her?

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Originally Posted By ComputerHacker⏩
But how does one sell a car to a woman, without first speaking to her?

This isn't carsalesman. Carsalesman has been laid. He just has absurdly high standards.
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
I'm a 31 y/o virgin. I can tell you this: you aren't missing much. The majority of females, much like the majority of mankind, are terrible human beings. Most of them aren't worth sticking your dink in, and the few that are are most likely taken. Just do your best to find meaning in life. When you are younger, pussy is literally all you think about. Once you have resolved to die and accepted your death, it will not be as important to you. You will regret not having a legacy, but remember that humanity is unlikely to survive for long anyway. We are failed little combinations, suboptimal solutions to the grand evolutionary problem. Ultimately, it doesn't matter how alpha or beta a human is. Simply being human means we are ridiculously inferior to something like cyanobacteria. We will certainly go extinct soon. We were only here for the blink of an eye, and then, we will be gone. There is no legacy for mankind, so I certainly shouldn't feel so bad about there being no legacy for myself. In the grand scheme of things, we are just combinations of particles. There was nothing special or precious about our existence except the fortune (or misfortune) of being able to consciously experience it. Since we all die anyway, there is also a sense of freedom. You have time to do whatever you feel like and explore things. You can find a way to pass the time and maybe even enjoy yourself until your death. That's what I'm doing.
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