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Thread: Constant rejection in online dating and effects on the mind

post 1579626911 05-07-2019, 03:07 PM
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Originally Posted By Unwicht⏩
But you are right that faking it would give me success, but I don't want to
Then don't get laid, it's ok.
I'm back, bitches!
post 1579627101 05-07-2019, 03:09 PM
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Originally Posted By JewSeeJohn⏩
Tell us, old chap, do you also possess a fine coupe automobile, produced by BMW ?
This Elliot Rogers was a child who accomplished nothing in his life. I am a grown man with a solid career, who is getting disappointed that most except sword_, CaliSuperSport and a few others didn't get the point of this thread..
post 1579627291 05-07-2019, 03:13 PM
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It’s Elliot Rodger, not Elliot Rodger’s’ - holy chit it annoys me reading how often people make that mistake
post 1579627661 05-07-2019, 03:17 PM
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I live in the American Gardens Building on W. 81st Street on the 11th floor. My name is Unwicht. I'm 32 years old. I believe in taking care of myself and a balanced diet and rigorous exercise routine. In the morning if my face is a little puffy I'll put on an ice pack while doing stomach crunches. I can do 1000 now. After I remove the ice pack I use a deep pore cleanser lotion. In the shower I use a water activated gel cleanser, then a honey almond body scrub, and on the face an exfoliating gel scrub. Then I apply an herb-mint facial mask which I leave on for 10 minutes while I prepare the rest of my routine. I always use an after shave lotion with little or no alcohol, because alcohol dries your face out and makes you look older. Then moisturizer, then an anti-aging eye balm followed by a final moisturizing protective lotion.
post 1579627881 05-07-2019, 03:19 PM
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You are coming across like this a bit, OP.
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post 1579628221 05-07-2019, 03:25 PM
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Originally Posted By Unwicht⏩
Rejection and failures are alright. Usually you analyze the failures and learn from them.
lol wot? stop analysing, every person is different
post 1579628361 05-07-2019, 03:26 PM
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post 1579628431 05-07-2019, 03:27 PM
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real talk

most women are garbage and not worth your time

most men are garbage as well. It's just a feature of humanity. You take it personally because you wish people were like you. But you have to realize 2% of the population is hardcore sociopaths, and then you have something like 1/4 women is depressed. Probably half of women have some neurotic traits. Some are religious, and so they have some weird sexual identity issues. Then there is the whole issue of negative body image in the media. There's the fact that a lot of women have been sexually assaulted or harassed...Then you have the existence of Tinder, and the cumdumpster thousand cawk stare.

Tour's over for women. Women today are expected to work and be like men while also be women. They are to be strong and independent professionals while also being nurturing and attentive mothers. This is impossible.
post 1579628601 05-07-2019, 03:30 PM
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Originally Posted By Unwicht⏩
This Elliot Rogers was a child who accomplished nothing in his life. I am a grown man with a solid career, who is getting disappointed that most except sword_, CaliSuperSport and a few others didn't get the point of this thread..
i see that youve changed your nazi avatar for a new "cool lifestyle" theme avi
however you still look undeniably german, like a Bond villain with a kraut accent
post 1579628631 05-07-2019, 03:30 PM
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Why don't you try meeting girls in person? Online dating is impossible for all guys. I don't know how anyone meets anyone off it.
post 1579628641 05-07-2019, 03:30 PM
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You can be as successful and as attractive as you want. But it won't make a difference if you don't have the confidence to back it up.

One thing I've learnt is how do you expect girls to take you seriously on these dating sites if they don't take themselves seriously? That's why they're on these sites. Because they're pariahs. The best girls are not on tinder or bumble or pof, etc. Go talk to a girl in person and build that confidence with real people.
post 1579628691 05-07-2019, 03:31 PM
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Originally Posted By Unwicht⏩
This Elliot Rogers was a child who accomplished nothing in his life. I am a grown man with a solid career, who is getting disappointed that most except sword_, CaliSuperSport and a few others didn't get the point of this thread..
its because they don't find you attractive.... it dooesn't matter if you have a solid career....
post 1579628751 05-07-2019, 03:32 PM
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Originally Posted By UberBrah⏩
You can be as successful and as attractive as you want. But it won't make a difference if you don't have the confidence to back it up.

One thing I've learnt is how do you expect girls to take you seriously on these dating sites if they don't take themselves seriously? That's why they're on these sites. Because they're pariahs. The best girls are not on tinder or bumble or pof, etc. Go talk to a girl in person and build that confidence with real people.
they crave validation right?
post 1579628831 05-07-2019, 03:33 PM
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Originally Posted By Unwicht⏩
lots of muscle and around 8 to 9 % bodyfat.
Not even close bro, but that's not your problem anyway. It's your mindset.
post 1579628891 05-07-2019, 03:34 PM
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Online dating is a big waste of time ..
post 1579629091 05-07-2019, 03:39 PM
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Originally Posted By Tyrannosauruss⏩
they crave validation right?
They crave attention. They've got a screw loose and that's why they're on those apps and sites. They need the attention that isn't given to them in their personal lives because they're nuts.
post 1579629241 05-07-2019, 03:43 PM
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Originally Posted By lift4life2020⏩
Online dating is a big waste of time ..
Most women I've met on dating apps have been off. Even funnier the two or three that were "off" I met in real life I later found out got on dating apps lol.

Current girlfriend I met in real life and it's been great thus far.
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post 1579629321 05-07-2019, 03:45 PM
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Hey man are you wealthy at all? You need to start showing off you have money and can provide an insane lifestyle.
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post 1579629361 05-07-2019, 03:46 PM
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Thanks for your pieces of advice, I also found this out a while ago:

- Online dating is nothing for people like me
- The real world is where it is at

I just wanted to know, if anyone else has the same feelings. Maybe to find a useful advice how to overcome my problem. Because right now I can't view women as I did before investing so much time in online dating. It is not hatred, but general opinion is not neutral or positive anymore...
post 1579629411 05-07-2019, 03:47 PM
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Originally Posted By JewSeeJohn⏩
Tell us, old chap, do you also possess a fine coupe automobile, produced by BMW ?
Hes from Germany. So yes.
post 1579630031 05-07-2019, 03:58 PM
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Originally Posted By batmanman⏩
just put

6'2"
love dogs
8"

and you'll get matches

no gay shiit about hobbies or anything, women can't read that much
This.

My tinder literally says
"Single dude, 6'3""
And have a shirtless pic


I've had some pretty good slays from online dating
post 1579630481 05-07-2019, 04:08 PM
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Now you know why incel tier normies like you went full reich back in the day. First you get the power, then you get the women. Obviously not realistic in this day and age so coping on internet forums is the next best thing to therapy
post 1579631561 05-07-2019, 04:30 PM
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Originally Posted By Unwicht⏩
I just wanted to know, if anyone else has the same feelings. Maybe to find a useful advice how to overcome my problem. Because right now I can't view women as I did before investing so much time in online dating. It is not hatred, but general opinion is not neutral or positive anymore...
try men OP
post 1579631641 05-07-2019, 04:32 PM
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Originally Posted By quadfecta⏩
Now you know why incel tier normies like you went full reich back in the day. First you get the power, then you get the women. Obviously not realistic in this day and age so coping on internet forums is the next best thing to therapy
You seem to think you are somehow superior and on a pedestal. Where does that confidence come from?

Sad times when people can talk so casually and without consequences about the horrors of the Third Reich. Haha...
post 1579632491 05-07-2019, 04:47 PM
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Btw can confirm that there are a lot of crazies on dating apps

Currently talking to one girl that straight up told me she likes to be insulted and hates compliments

Then another one who calls me “baby” and sends me heart emojis after 1 day of talking

Dating apps not even once
post 1579633071 05-07-2019, 04:58 PM
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
Most women I've met on dating apps have been off. Even funnier the two or three that were "off" I met in real life I later found out got on dating apps lol.

Current girlfriend I met in real life and it's been great thus far.
It's almost as if.....the misc was right all along about real life
I'm back, bitches!
post 1579634321 05-07-2019, 05:19 PM
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
It's almost as if.....the misc was right all along about real life
People want fast and easy instant gratification nowadays. Meeting someone takes time and energy. Online dating takes minimum effort.
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post 1579634481 05-07-2019, 05:21 PM
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
People want fast and easy instant gratification nowadays. Meeting someone takes time and energy. Online dating takes minimum effort.
That's how it's supposed to be though. Idk how people can just start talking to someone online and fuk them later that night. The chit is weird. I have never in my life asked out a girl or had a fun date with a girl i didn't have rapport with first. I just don't get it.
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Originally Posted By Unwicht⏩
But I disagree that I should be "a fun person" or make women laugh.
This is one BILLION percent your problem lmao
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Originally Posted By Unwicht⏩
Thanks for your pieces of advice, I also found this out a while ago:

- Online dating is nothing for people like me
- The real world is where it is at

I just wanted to know, if anyone else has the same feelings. Maybe to find a useful advice how to overcome my problem. Because right now I can't view women as I did before investing so much time in online dating. It is not hatred, but general opinion is not neutral or positive anymore...
Online dating is all about personality, not looks, unlike the misc will make you believe, and you being tall and a good looking guy... just proves my point.

You want to get passed hating women? blame yourself for your lack of success, not them.
Forever alone? Attraction and keeping the girl chasing you - http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=131498033

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