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post 1580636071 05-22-2019, 01:41 PM
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Hey all,

Short story. Met up with a girl for sex a little while ago from tinder. It wasn’t exactly pre-arranged but was implied. I went to her place and it happened pretty much instantly. I am a little more experienced than she is with this hook up thing. We ended up continuing to talk and get to know one another. We are completely compatible and care for each other very much.

But I cannot seem to let go of how we met. It’s created some stress for us.

Anyone had a similar experience?
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post 1580636251 05-22-2019, 01:44 PM
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it has to start somewhere. i wouldn't dwell too much on that and focus on continuing to progress the relationship. it is very common for this to be the way things start in today's society, not saying it's ideal but it is what it is. if you like her you will be able to see past this. i think we all worry a bit too much about getting cheated on in this forum--let's cross that bridge when we get to it instead of worrying about it all the time.
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post 1580636751 05-22-2019, 01:51 PM
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post 1580637331 05-22-2019, 01:59 PM
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My buddy met his wife in a bar on Halloween, went home with her that night, fukked raw, she wasn't on BC....cause "She's never done this before"...made him bacon & Eggs the next morning, they've been together ever since.

They've been married for about 6 months now, together for 3 years and they're happy.........we at least one of them is......my buddy seems to focus A LOT more on work now.
post 1580637581 05-22-2019, 02:02 PM
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Claims to be experienced with straight hook ups... catches feels
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post 1580637641 05-22-2019, 02:04 PM
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lol brah, you jumping way too far into it? Marriage??
Serious. How about you date her first before thinking about how the marriage will play out.
But, honestly would it be any different if you met her at a bar and fcked her on the first night?
I don't think Tinder is the problem, but the fact that you think she was to easy to fck.
Originally Posted By Tinge52⏩
Claims to be experienced with straight hook ups... catches feels
He's beyond catching feels, OP is talking about Marriage with a girl he hasn't even started to date yet
post 1580637931 05-22-2019, 02:08 PM
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Originally Posted By BasedAnthony⏩
lol brah, you jumping way too far into it? Marriage??
Serious. How about you date her first before thinking about how the marriage will play out.
But, honestly would it be any different if you met her at a bar and fcked her on the first night?
I don't think Tinder is the problem, but the fact that you think she was to easy to fck.


He's beyond catching feels, OP is talking about Marriage with a girl he hasn't even started to date yet
It’s been about 6 months for us now. It takes me a long time to allow someone into my life so only now am I want to pursue things very seriously with her. And marriage is my end goal, at some point, in the future.
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post 1580638061 05-22-2019, 02:10 PM
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Fukin lmao at marrying a tinder girl. You goofy af bro.
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post 1580638271 05-22-2019, 02:13 PM
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Originally Posted By Jms89⏩
Fukin lmao at marrying a tinder girl. You goofy af bro.
It's common AF nowadays. Almost every wedding I go to now has the "I swiped right" phrase on how they met. The dating game has changed with smartphones and with other dating sites only featuring beached whales or single mothers.

Honestly, most people I know out of college now use it as a dating app and not a hookup app.
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post 1580638661 05-22-2019, 02:19 PM
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Realistically, the majority of women are capable of having a ONS this day and age.

If they've been on Tinder, they know how easy the process is to get sex from the type of guy they want.

So if you are with a girl who has experienced this and felt comfortable with it, you better be sure she isn't going to seek the same fix the first time you hit a rough patch or she misses the attention she used to get.

Only you know if there are red flags that you chose not to disclose in this post. If there isn't, then there shouldn't be any reason not to move forward unless how you met and how quickly you had sex is a dealbreaker for you.
post 1580638691 05-22-2019, 02:19 PM
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Originally Posted By envied09⏩
it has to start somewhere. i wouldn't dwell too much on that and focus on continuing to progress the relationship. it is very common for this to be the way things start in today's society, not saying it's ideal but it is what it is. if you like her you will be able to see past this. i think we all worry a bit too much about getting cheated on in this forum--let's cross that bridge when we get to it instead of worrying about it all the time.
Thanks for the normal response. There is zero worry about her cheating on me. This happened a few months ago and there is some geographical distance between us also. So we were just seeing how it was going. She’s utterly amazing and have been with enough women to know this. But I’ve always got it in the back of my mind how we met.
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post 1580638761 05-22-2019, 02:21 PM
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i would never start something serious or invest in someone that gives it up this easily tbh. think of how many people before you she has been through. classic red flag/sign of sloot. also quality girls do not use tinder
post 1580639061 05-22-2019, 02:25 PM
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doesn't matter how you met, I have a friend who is married (met his wife on tinder) and a buddy who is 3 years in with his gf (met on bumble). sh;t is so normal these days, it isn't weird unless you met on farmers only
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post 1580639351 05-22-2019, 02:30 PM
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How long is "a little while ago" like 2-3hrs ago or a few months ago ?
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post 1580639391 05-22-2019, 02:31 PM
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Originally Posted By johndoethethird⏩
How long is "a little while ago" like 2-3hrs ago or a few months ago ?
7 months ago.
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post 1580639511 05-22-2019, 02:32 PM
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>falling for a sloot
>thinking about marriage already
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post 1580639521 05-22-2019, 02:33 PM
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Originally Posted By redraider86⏩
Alright, so what's the issue? It sounds like you're hung up on the fact that she herself was on Tinder, so I'm confused as to how if marriage was your end goal, why did you get on Tinder in the first place?

I think you're overthinking this. You've spent 6 months getting to know her and from what little info we have, there aren't any red flags. You enjoy her, you're pursuing a relationship with her...What's the problem?
I suppose the issue is how fast it happened. She isn't a tinderella, slutty or anything like that. Her response is she gave in while on vacation. She was married for a long time in her life. No red flags at all... believe me I was trying to find them and I often run at any glimpse of one.
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post 1580639661 05-22-2019, 02:36 PM
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Originally Posted By MotorCityCobra⏩
i would never start something serious or invest in someone that gives it up this easily tbh. think of how many people before you she has been through. classic red flag/sign of sloot. also quality girls do not use tinder
I don’t think that quite accurate my friend. It’s a way to meet people for many reasons. Many of my quality girlfriends use online apps and they are absolutely girlfriend material.
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If she'll let your sewer creature ass bone her after a few texts, what do you think her past is like? How is she going to respond when she eventually gets tired of you and still has dozens of Chads blowing up her inbox? Get a brain, brah. She's either:

1. MAGICALLY transformed by your presence and will only sloot with you and never anyone else
2. Sloots gonna sloot

WHICH DO YOU THINK IS MORE LIKELY?
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
If she'll let your sewer creature ass bone her after a few texts, what do you think her past is like? How is she going to respond when she eventually gets tired of you and still has dozens of Chads blowing up her inbox? Get a brain, brah. She's either:

1. MAGICALLY transformed by your presence and will only sloot with you and never anyone else
2. Sloots gonna sloot

WHICH DO YOU THINK IS MORE LIKELY?
She was married for 16 years, thanks.
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Originally Posted By dolvioblue⏩
I don’t think that quite accurate my friend. It’s a way to meet people for many reasons. Many of my quality girlfriends use online apps and they are absolutely girlfriend material.
your opinion is biased as you clearly have feelings for this girl. if giving it up this easily, on the first date is not a sign of a sloot then what is? be honest with yourself and whatever you do best of luck!
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Originally Posted By dolvioblue⏩
She was married for 16 years, thanks.
Do you think being married and being a sloot are mutually exclusive? Also how old is this broad?
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OP here is a normal non-misc answer for you:

People sometimes do things which are out of character which they never do again, especially when they are young, are subject to environmental influences, and don't know any better. As long as it's not a pattern of behavior and an anomaly, it's a total waste of an otherwise potentially compatible relationship to judge someone on one of their weaker moments.
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Originally Posted By dolvioblue⏩
She was married for 16 years, thanks.
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OP:Is this girl a sloot?
Misc:HOLY CHIT YES SLOOT
OP:No you guys are wrong! She's a sweet angel!


Why even make this thread, Opie? Deep down, you know the answer. You were looking for validation.
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Sex on 1st date or met online will automatically disqualify certain women to people. You aren't going to change the mind of these people convincing them your situation is an exception.
Also, pressing her about her past to convince yourself she's an exception is probably pointless. If you are trying to uncover things to disqualify them, they might sense it and lie accordingly. Either be subtle/act like you don't care or trust your gut and don't bother asking.

In the end it's your decision on what is going to constitute a firm red flag for you.

Meeting on tinder/bumble is normal these days though. Friend is getting married to a girl he met on Tinder. Other friend dated a solid girl from tinder for 8 months last year. I met my current gf on bumble.
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Met my girl on tinder. I kissed her on the first date and we banged on the 3rd or 4th. I have never been happier in a relationship, SRS.
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What part of how you guys met bothers you? The Tinder part or the initial one night stand?
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Originally Posted By 4204Casper⏩
Met my girl on tinder. I kissed her on the first date and we banged on the 3rd or 4th. I have never been happier in a relationship, SRS.
Good for you, brah. Happy that you're happy, but let's go into these things with our eyes open. If she was on active on tinder and let you hit it right away, it's safe to assume that poon has a ton of dink miles on it. If that doesn't bother you, so be it, but it should definitely be factored into any financial decisions like marriage and joint home ownership.
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